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Mary Valastro
1948 - 2017
Mary Valastro
1948 - 2017
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BORN
1948
DIED
2017
Mary Valastro Obituary
Buddy Valastro announced his mother's death, posting a photograph of him kissing his mother on his Instagram account. She had Lou Gehrig's disease.
"It’s with an extremely heavy heart that I must share the news of my mother’s passing," he wrote in the caption. "She left for heaven this morning, surrounded by the family.
"This is a difficult time for all of us,” he continued, “and I do ask for your patience and respect while we let this sink in. Her battle with ALS has ended, she is no longer suffering and I hope she’s dancing to 'I Will Survive' with my dad right now.”
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Mary Valastro, also known as Momma on the show, was born April 17, 1948, in Altamura, Italy. After immigrating to the United States, she and her late husband, Buddy Valastro Sr., bought Carlo's Bakery in Hoboken, New Jersey, in 1964. When Buddy Sr. died in 1994, Mary Valastro decided against selling the business, opting instead to keep it in the family.
"Cake Boss," the reality TV series that airs on the cable TV network TLC, centers on the family-run business now owned and operated by Buddy Valastro, the boss of the shop - hence the show's name - and his brothers and sisters. The show focuses on how the family members make artisanal cakes and the ways that they interact from day to day.
Although Buddy was his mother's No. 1 fan on the show, she also was his biggest critic, which was part of the show's popularity. "Cake Boss," which first aired in April 2009, has continued through eight seasons.
Mary Valastro was diagnosed with Lou Gehrig's disease in 2013. Also called amyotrophic lateral sclerosis, or ALS, it is a progressive disease that attacks nerve cells that control muscles throughout the body. It became known as Lou Gehrig's disease after the star baseball player was diagnosed in 1939.
After her diagnosis, Valasco stepped back from the family business, in part to spend time with her 14 grandchildren.
771 Entries
Silvia
March 13, 2025
Beautiful to see how much her family loved her in life and after
Jace
March 11, 2025
She looked so happy and nice to everyone
Misty
September 20, 2024
Thank u for the safe clean show.its helping spend safe time getting sober.i luv the creativity and I pray not to pity over the contrast in people with or wolithout a family template such as this family.i luv the inclusion of all the developing teammembers..
Artra Miller
September 3, 2024
I really enjoyed watching her on Cake boss. She was a powerful force of the Valastro Family.
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Debbi Jones
August 11, 2024
I know your family misses u deeply everyday, am joyful that you are not suffering any longer, God Bless love you and your family!
Kinley Williams
May 7, 2024
I pray for your family.
Chris G
April 23, 2024
Missing you
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
From Chris Gordon
Vallejo Californian
Michael Monahan Middletown NY
April 14, 2024
Dear Buddy, Lisa, Mary, Madeline & Grace & Family.
I´m so Sorry about the Loss of your Mom Mary. I enjoy the Show Cake Boss. She looks Good on TV for Cake Boss. RIP Mary Sunrise 4/17/48 sunset 6/22/17
Crystal Munoz
October 15, 2023
May God bless you and your family.
MaryAnn Stypa
August 11, 2023
Pray for us Mary. You were such a loving person. We miss you. Your fellow `Jersey girl´. God bless your family. I know you are loved and missed.
Gail Trumbetti
August 10, 2023
Buddy and family,
I was looking at our family ancestry, and found everything that my mother, Carmela Catania Link, who you met in Ridgewood. New Jersey was true. Her mother was Maria Valastro lived in Hoboken and had children, FRANK, Pat, Jimmy, Joe, and and little Carmela(Carrie my mom). My uncle MARTY a teenager, died when he was hit by a taxi jumping off a trolley car in Hoboken. My grandmother Maria Valastro Catania and your grandfather were brother and sister. Your dad and my mother were first cousins. Our cousins the Francones owned another bakery in Hoboken. When my grandmother, Maria, Valastro Catania and my grandfather, Pasquale Catania died young my uncle Frank at the time was 18 and he became the guardian of all his siblings, because of that responsibility he could not go back to Italy and reclaim all the families property because of the war, and they wouldn´t let him return to America if he had gone. So your dad knew my uncle Frank & uncle Pat very well even after my uncle Frank moved to Miami with my uncle Joey and my uncle Jimmy. The Valastro family is very large, and it´s a shame we all don´t know each other. I grew up in upper saddle River when my parents who were from Hoboken and Jersey City moved to northern Bergen County. I wish you all a good, healthy, happy life, Gail Link Trumbetti of Allendale New Jersey.
Josef Agnich
June 3, 2023
Mary Agnich-Comaites, Gus and I were thinking of Mary today. Dearly missed.
JADE (NOLA)
April 27, 2023
To the Valastro Family.. I'm extremely sorry for this big Loss.. I found this sad news out by going back watching old cake boss episodes.. I ended up googling Mrs. Mary and found that she passed away.. This made my heart really heavy.. She was the Gorilla Glue that help your family together.. I loved every minute of her toughness.. Especially in today's human climate.. We need the elders that's tough as nails to keep us whole.. Sending My Love God's Comfort & Blessings To The Amazing Valastro Family & Beyond
Julie Anne Williams Swansea wales
October 25, 2022
Dear buddy and family, have watched cake boss's from the start, and got to know you and your lovely family, your mom was like mine, small but feisty, she was a lovely lady that lit up every room, my heart broke when I saw she had als, but she is now with your dad and not suffering anymore, keep her love and memories in your hearts, may God be with you and comfort you at this sad time,god bless
James & Susie Rossi
October 24, 2021
You Mary, and Family were always such an Inspiration to us. You all are the Wealthiest people on this earth and it starts with Family Mi Famiglia, and your Love for God. God Bless all of you. Jim and Susie Rossi
Vivian Vollo
November 24, 2020
I am so sorry for yor mother passing my sympathy for and his
Sisters
Vivian VOLLO
November 24, 2020
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Patricia Rose Labazzetta-Mastromonico
November 23, 2020
To Buddy & the Famiglia, I am deeply sorry about the passing of "Momma Mary". Buddy, I am a huge fan of your show from the first time it came on TV. "Momma Mary" reminded me of My Italian Aunts, Carmella & Annunziata!! I loved watching how this amazing little Italian Momma kept your sisters & you in their places!! I watched a show last night about "Buddy vs. Christmas". I remember Momma always saying she was the true boss of the bakery!! May Momma Mary rests in peace & I am happy that you, Buddy respected your Momma so much!! Te amo, Buddy!! Just know that she is in Heaven with your precious Dad, Buddy & Salvatore ( the baker who worked with your Dad)!! Te amo!!
Love a real Calabrese Italian Woman,
Patricia Rose Labazzetta-Mastromonico
P.S.- I tried to get My Daughter to bring me to your bakery when it was in Ridgewood, NJ. But sadly it closed before she would take me there!! Te amo, Bartolo!!
Mary Anastasia
September 22, 2020
Dear Valastro Family... you are in my prayers, I think of your beautiful mother every time I hear the song "We Will Survive" and my own sainted mother when I hear "We Are Family" Hope you all are well and safe.
Te amo
Mary Anastasia
June 29, 2020
Dear Valastro family, I loved watching your show, all the talent you all have and the love of family you all treasure, I too was diagnosed with ALS this past January, 2020. Just getting weaker every day. I would love to hear about your mothers story and what she did to help her. my email is [email protected]. If anyone can take the time to write. love Vickie
Michelle Dolfinger
May 18, 2020
Mary Valastro we all will miss you so much more about IM Friends of Valastro family
Tamara Briggs
May 14, 2020
I miss seeing your beautiful face on the tv show. You were and will always be the epitome of excellence and family life. I love you Momma Valastro.
Flying high
Beryl Stubbs
April 30, 2020
Sorry for your loss Buddy only just read your lovely mum passed away i live in England used to watch your programme all the time when I you coming back to us
Teresa Karam
April 26, 2020
Mama Mary reminded me of my grandmother and one of the many reasons I enjoy watching Cake Boss. Youve a beautiful, loving, close family.....a mothers job well done.
One day Ill make my way to the bakery
May her memory be forever eternal as she rests in peace with our Lord.
Much love
Linda Pegnato
April 26, 2020
May you rest in peace Mary. You have a wonderful family. God bless.
Bill
April 11, 2020
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Cyndi Gonzalez
March 11, 2020
Rest in peace beautiful angel
Laurie Barcelona
March 7, 2020
Che Dio vi benedica
November 12, 2019
from one italian to another, i pray she's being looked after in heaven, god bless
Curry Family
July 27, 2019
She's celebrating in heaven and so very proud of her large Italian family. Love and peace to all
Margaret Steinhauser
July 13, 2019
May you continue to Rest in Peace Mary.
Dale Kelly
July 12, 2019
Dear Buddy and your family sending our love and condolences across the sea on the loss of your beautiful mother. May she always watch over you from the Kelly family.
Melbourne Victoria Australia.
Margaret Steinhauser
June 23, 2019
Mary Valastro Piccinch may you continue to Rest in Peace.
Nancy Sick
June 22, 2019
To the Valastro and Piccinch families:
Two years later and the pain of losing your beloved Mary doesn't get any easier. She will always be a part of your life. Hold on to the memories and continue her traditions, especially with your own children. She may have left your life, but she will never leave your heart.
Jim and Lori Downing
June 2, 2019
RIP Mary. You were an inspiration to all of us. My brother died of random ALS too at the age of 52 in 2014. I miss him. Well miss you too. The show wont be the same without you. God bless you and all your familia.
Vivian Vollo
March 26, 2019
Those we love don't go away they walk beside us every day
Us seen unheard but always near so loved so missed so dear
Philip and Belinda Cable
March 25, 2019
Your mother was beloved by so many of us, your TV family. We continue lifting you in our prayers and hope that you feel our love and compassion for ALL of you.
P.S. We've both had to say goodbye to our own mother's, so we know the warmth of someone acknowledging their lives as well as our continued mourning for the most important woman in our lives. So, may our Heavenly Father greatly bless you all today, and all of your tomorrow's with your precious memories of your loving mama.
Vivian Vollo
January 31, 2019
I am so sorry my condoolenes to your family
Ana Cecilia
January 30, 2019
I'm so sorry for your loss and prayers for you and your family, I been fan of you show for many years.
May 6, 2018
Your family loved like no other! God bless!!
Jackie Friswell
April 26, 2018
Our deepest sympathy to you all Your mum was a character and was well loved in Australia. ,Our deepest sympathy to you all
John Andrews
April 20, 2018
A great lady RIP
DINA MILONAS
March 16, 2018
VALASTRO FAMILIA AND EXTENDED FRIENDS.I CANNOT
REMEMBER A BEAUTIFUL MOM TO LOOK AT AND LOVE. BUDDY, YOU AND YOUR FAMILIES MEAN SO MUCH TOO MME THAT WORDS CANNOT EXPRESS. MY PRAYERS AND DEEPEST SIMPOTHY ARE ALWAYS GOING TO BE WOTJ YOU AND ALL OF YOU. I HAVE WATCHED ALL OF THE PROGRAMS FROM DAY ONE. MISS SEEING YIAYIA (GRANDMA)THIS IS A GREEK WORD AND (PAPOU)GRANDPAPA HIN GREEK WE SAY. ZOI SE MAS. LIFE GO YOU AND LIFE TO US. MAY THEIR MEMORIES LIVE ON IN ENTENITY AGAPI LOVE TO ALL. DINA MILONAS
Vivian Vollo
March 15, 2018
I am so sorry my condolences to you and your family
Myrna Ibarra
March 14, 2018
I'm so sorry for your loss we still praying for the family we miss her so much ...
Robert Nesbitt
December 17, 2017
So sorry to hear the news of mamma mary passing, thoughts are with your family...
Lisa Jones
December 15, 2017
So So sad and sorry at your loss. I've watched every episode from 2009 to present day. Loved every one she will be greatly missed by millions but still live on in your family and hearts.
alejandro guillen
December 4, 2017
"Dear Buddy Valastro and family. I am deeply sorry about you mom. I loved watching her on Cake Boss. I know what it feels like to lose somebody close to you i had
Alejandro Guillen (venezuela )
December 4, 2017
"Dear Buddy Valastro and family. I am deeply sorry about you mom. I loved watching her on Cake Boss. I know what it feels like to lose somebody close to you i had
Alejandro Guillen (venezuela )
Kristina Pack
November 26, 2017
Buddy and Family,
I also lost my grandma who raised me and was my mom my best friend and grandma no one was as close to her as I was It was and stil is very difficult specially being the first holidays ive spent in 26 years withut my angel. We aare also italian so i know what family means also like you all my grandma taught me how to bake. so I can understand the devistaion you are feeling It has been the hardest darkest most depressing time of my life and baking and making cakes is y outlet everytime i see old episodes and see your wonderful momma I cant help but feel so close to you all I cant help but to break down she reminded me so much of my grandma ! I hope you are all healing with the grace of god and mommas light and spirit with you always she was a wonderful woman . I hope wit time you all find peace !
love,
Kristina Danielle Pack
Stockton California
Shelley Magrino
November 19, 2017
Dear Buddy and the entire Valastro Family - My family and I want to send our deepest condolences on the loss of your amazing mother. It was clear from watching your show that she could light up a room with her presence, smile, energy and love of life.
I began watching your show some years ago, at first, just because of the name Buddy. My son, then about 6 (now 12), goes by the nickname Buddy. We fell in love with the similarities of owning a family business, having a big Italian family and all the craziness and fun that comes with that. We have visited the bakery a few times and were sweetly greeted by your sisters Mary and Grace. Mary quickly noticed us call our son Buddy and took a cute picture with him.
When it was reported that your mom was diagnosed with ALS, our hearts broke for all of you. See, my husbands brother had just been diagnosed with ALS not many months prior. As we supported him through the battle he was facing, we tried to find updates on how your mom was doing. We were pulling for her the way we were pulling for him. It's terrible when anyone is going through any type of health crisis, but to watch the effects of ALS on anyone, especially someone you love, is just horrible.
When I read in June that your mom passed away, my heart broke for each and every one of you. I didn't have the heart to share the news with my husband. His brother is his best friend. Sadly, my sweet brother-in-law lost his battle this September.
As we are both facing the first holiday season without those we love so much, we wanted to send our love and prayers to you and your family. You will be in our thoughts. As much as we wish they could be physically with us, we know they are with us in spirit, with amazing family memories and now as angels to watch over us. We are thankful that their suffering no longer. God Bless you all! ❤
Linda Cunningham
November 18, 2017
Dear Buddy,
I was sorry to hear of the passing of your mom. She was a sweet lady. I know that she will be missed. I am going to keep you and the family in our thoughts by day, and in our prayers at night. I have not yet experienced the passing of my mom. June 25 2017, she was blessed to see 100 years . When that time come when she leaves us., we also pray for strength. God bless you and your family. She is not dead, she's just away.
Ps. Love your show
Sandra Waycaster
November 18, 2017
So sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers for family and friends.
Breanna Charbonnet
November 12, 2017
Dear Buddy Valastro and family. I am deeply sorry about you mom. I loved watching her on Cake Boss. I know what it feels like to lose somebody close to you. I had 4 funerals in summer in 2017. The last one I went to was my Great Aunt's in July. My heart goes out to you, to your family, and to everyone at Carlo's Bakery. With love from one huge fan to your entire family.
Lynn Bailey
November 11, 2017
Our condolences, Buddy and family of the loss of your mom,grand mom. As long as she is in your heart she will always be with you.
Lynn Bailey {Clarksville ,TN}
Joy Gresham
November 9, 2017
I know buddy mom will be missed dearly and my prayers are with the family and friends
Penny Brock
November 6, 2017
My Mother is the same age as Mrs. Mary.Shes my best friend.. I can't imagine the pain your family is going through. I LOVE your show and will miss seeing her. My love and prayers go out to your family. I'm sure Mamma is dancing in heaven!!!❤❤❤
Anna Foy
November 5, 2017
Dear bubby my prayers
To all of yous Anna Nancy Jane Foy .
Anna Foy
November 5, 2017
Dear bubbly
I just to say is I am
So sorry of the lost
Of your mom
As I watch your show
All time in my heart and
In my soul because
I lost my only mom
Not to long go
And I know how
All fell about
Anna Nancy Jane Foy .
Mary Ann Seiber
November 4, 2017
I'm so sorry for your family's loss of your sweet but spunky momma. You are ALL in my thoughts and prayers. She will be GREATLY missed. I just learned of her passing tonight and I am so saddened by the news. God Bless...
Vivian Vollo
November 4, 2017
To everyone at Carlos bakery my thoughts and prayer to the Valastro
Amanda Rutherford
November 3, 2017
Mary was a true inspiration to watch on t.v.. She held her head high through her darkest days. The family stood strong beside her and prayers flow to you as times are hard to not have her beside you. Even though she is dancing in heaven with Buddy Sr. She will continue to live in each and everyone of your heart. She prospers through the memories you share of her love. God bless each one of you. Our prayers and sympathy to you all as you make the best of the time ahead of you.
Geri Iverson
October 30, 2017
I am so sorry buddy my condolences to you and your family I love your shows cake boss and kitchen boss your mom was a beautiful woman god bless you and
your family continue to s.i.p. momma Mary you are missed
Terri Price-Vance
October 28, 2017
Oh, Buddy. I just read about your sweet Mom's passing. I am SO very sad for you and your family. I'm a huge fan of your show and feel like I know you all. I've prayed for your Mom for a while now but hadn't heard abut her lately.
Please accept my deepest sympathy and prayers for God's peace for you all.
Arlene Richardson
October 27, 2017
Momma Mary, Loving watching you on t.v Prayers that you are now at peace You are always in my heart
Brooke Davis
October 27, 2017
Sorry for your loss I will miss your mom's fire personality. Your dad and her are dancing and having some cake
October 26, 2017
Rest In Peace Sweet Momma - always in our hearts and prayers
Alice Cruz
October 19, 2017
My deepest condolences..may the Lord comfort you all always!
Jayme Brown
October 19, 2017
Mary you made me laugh more then once! May you rest in peace, always remember its ok to have your cake and it it too espically if your the mother of the cake boss!!
Rhonda Mitchell-Scales
October 17, 2017
My sincere prayers are with the entire family for the loss of you dear mother I pray that God will continue to give you all comfort and strength.
Jeanine Williams
October 15, 2017
I'm so sorry about Momma Mary. She was a joy to watch on Cake Boss. If there's comfort; I find it in little Carlos. He has her expressions and actions. I watched reruns today and noticed Carlos. Your children are so sweet I enjoy watching the entire family. Thanks for showing cooking at home' I watch at 3-5am. God bless you and the entire family.
October 15, 2017
So sorry for your loss. At least she is in Heaven with your father now
Elisabeth Houle
October 14, 2017
Deepest Condolences to the family, I love the show and love seeing Momma pop in and her sweet smile may she rest in peace and no more suffering
Elisabeth Houle
October 14, 2017
May Mary Rest In Peace I am happy she did not suffer as our friend did
Isobella Moorcroft
October 11, 2017
Deeply sorry for your lost. Love the Cake Boss family.
Elizabeth Boyd
October 11, 2017
To the Valastro Family.
It's with a heavy heart I am sending my Deepest Condolences in the passing of your Precious Momna.
I pray you all will find Comfort and Peace in the coming days ahead knowing she is Singing with her Beautiful voice, and Dancing with the Angels and your Precious Dad in Heaven.
Mrs. Harrison
October 9, 2017
To the Valastro Family,
I have been a fan of your show from the first time I saw it and Momma Mary was my favorite personality on the show.
She is in a better place now and may God Almighty give your family the peace and understanding that he has her in his hands.
Marcia Kittridge
October 8, 2017
To All of Momma's Family,
I was SO SORRY to hear of your mother's passing. I just watched the tribute show and it made me cry. I think everyone who watched your show felt as though they knew your Mom. She was a spitfire for sure. What an incredible lady! We'll all miss her on your show.
I lost my Mom this past April so, I can certainly relate to your devastating loss. My Mom was 93 and she lived a long and fulfilling life but still very difficult to lose your Mom.
May your family find peace and comfort in the months ahead. She had an incredible family. My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Valasto family.
In peace and love,
Marcia Kittridge
SAQUADA McCall
October 8, 2017
I am sorry for the loss of your mother buddy may your mother always be in our hearts for years to come and she is in our heavenly army she will be forever young
Anita Damian & family
October 7, 2017
Our condolences to the families. We just found out about Momma Mary passing away. She will always be remembered and will live forever in your hearts. We will pray for her and the family.
A good day. My grandkids help me fight.
Rhonda Susco
October 7, 2017
Buddy, just watched your show. I went from discussing a possible vow renewal with my husband of 32 years, to holding his hand silently as we watched your family go through the passing of your mom. I have a permanent brain disease called moyamoya. And besides strokes and a coma, we can only hope God will allow me to live years of retirement with my husband. Family is everything. Loss is so hard to take. But it looks like you had alot parties in life. I pray to have one more before my God takes me home. Your memories are all you have. I'm giving as many as I can to my grandchildren, my husband. There are no promises in life. But we can love our family, and love God so that we will see them again one day when we do pass on. Wether it's tomorrow, or five years from now. Take care of your beautiful family!!!
Theresa Covey
October 7, 2017
My deepest condolences Velastro family. Momma Mary was a firebrand in the kitchen and a bright light of guidance for her dedicated family. She fought the good fight and awaits reunion with her loving familia.
Stephanie Bourdeau
October 7, 2017
My sincerest condolences to Momma Mary's family. I've been a huge fan of the show and she had this spirit and energy that I admired so much and it was such a joy to see her every week. May she rest in peace and I believe her angel wings are beautiful, just like her. My thoughts and prayers to all her family.
Shirley Werth
October 7, 2017
Just found out, and so sorry to hear of your beautiful mama's passing! Our thoughts & prayers go out to the entire family!
Scott Morgan
October 7, 2017
What a beautiful lady that lived a beautiful life!
Karen Sumpson
October 6, 2017
My deepest condolences on the loss of your Mama Mary. Feel comfort in knowing she is no longer suffering but dancing with you dad in heaven. Your episode of tribute to her was so touching it brought tears to my eyes. You captured her bubbly personality and showed what a remarkable matriarch she was. Gone but not forgotten.
Diane Thomas
October 6, 2017
Dear Buddy and family, I was so sorry to find out your mother had passed, I just recently found out and my heart goes out to you and your lovely family.I enjoyed seeing all of you together and your mom dancing to Sugar Sugar when your show aired. Please remember that I will pray for her soul that she rest in peace and that you and your entire family eventually heal from your tremendous loss. Your avid fan forever, God speed...... Diane Thomas, Imperial Mo
Katherine Miller
October 6, 2017
As I watch Cake Boss, I can only miss Mary, she was so devoted to her family, and God who served her. My deepest condolences to her entire family, and to everyone who loved her. Mary had a tremendous faith, and she like her husband Buddy Sr. died way to young. Mary was a star, a bright countenance on the earth, to all of her fans we think of her with tears in our eyes and we will always remember her the queen as Carlo's Bakery.
Theresa Covey
October 5, 2017
My deepest condolences Velastro family. Momma Mary was a firebrand in the kitchen and a bright light of guidance for her dedicated family. She fought the good fight and awaits reunion with her loving familia.
Linda Kelly
October 5, 2017
Dear Buddy and Family I was so very sorry about Mamma Mary She was a fighter who never gave up on life. May God comfort you during this difficult time.
Jackie Weaver
October 5, 2017
To Mary's family, I know the words people say sound hollow but please know that there are so many of us who will never forget the strength she displayed constantly. She was always a classy lady and how blessed I was to have her on tv as I lost mine in 2014. Thanks Mary for reminding me of my mom.
Kelly Jo Fields
October 4, 2017
Deepest sympathy and prayers of healing and comfort be with your family.❤❤❤❤❤❤
Terry Neckermann
October 3, 2017
Dear Buddy, sisters, Sergio, children, and entire Valastro Family,
I just watched your show of Mary's Legacy, and now know about your dear mother's passing. I truly dreaded this time for your family. My heart, prayers, and empathy go out to all of you in your loss of this Beautiful, Full-of-Life woman whom everyone loved. Gone too soon, but never forgotten. Her love for your famailia stays with each of you eternally. She was a 'fire-cracker', I loved her too. Thank you for the memories of her life you shared with all of us who only know a tiny part of her. Jesus has His arms of Love surrounding her now; His peace and comfort are forever. My prayers and love to all of you! Terry Neckermann, viewer
Gloria D.
October 3, 2017
To Buddy and all his famiglia...Momma Mary will be deeply missed. My brother was 52 when he graced the Heavens from the same disease. He was diagnosed in May of 2014 and died on December 8, 2014. He didn't even have a full year. It attacked his breathing. He is in a better place and so is your Momma. May God keep her and my brother in His grace always. God bless you Buddy and all of your family. It's been a rough road, I know. That disease takes everything. I'm always praying for a miracle cure. So far, unfortunately, not much. Rest in peace, Mary Valastro.
Cynthia Groves
October 2, 2017
To Buddy,all the girls and the Entire Valastro Family, I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved mamma. She was the love of everyone. Now, like Bella said, she will be the spotlight in the sky, in heaven looking down on each and everyone of you. God Bless you. Your mother will be missed. She was a special lady. Sincerely, Cynthia LaMantia Groves from Daleville,Al.
Stephanie Campbell
October 2, 2017
Prayers to the Valastro family! Ms Mary was very special and will be missed by many!
Miranda Pace
October 2, 2017
Just watched the show this morning. My heart goes out to everyone of you. There's nothing like a mother's love.
Hannah Wall
October 2, 2017
My condolences to you and your family I watch your show every day
Lisa
October 1, 2017
Just watched the episode and learned of her passing. Always watch the show and loved seeing her on the show. May she rest in peace, and know she is watching over all of you!
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