James Gandolfini

James Gandolfini

James Gandolfini Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jun. 19, 2013.
LOS ANGELES (AP) — James Gandolfini, whose portrayal of a brutal, emotionally delicate mob boss in HBO's "The Sopranos" was the brilliant core of one of TV's greatest drama series and turned the mobster stereotype on its head, died Wednesday in Italy. He was 51.

Gandolfini died while on holiday in Rome, the cable channel and Gandolfini's managers Mark Armstrong and Nancy Sanders said in a joint statement. No cause of death was given.

"He was a genius," said "Sopranos" creator David Chase. "Anyone who saw him even in the smallest of his performances knows that. He is one of the greatest actors of this or any time. A great deal of that genius resided in those sad eyes."

Gandolfini, who won three Emmy Awards for his role as Tony Soprano, worked steadily in film and on stage after the series ended. He earned a 2009 Tony Award nomination for his role in the celebrated production of "God of Carnage."

"Our hearts are shattered and we will miss him deeply. He and his family were part of our family for many years and we are all grieving," said Armstrong and Sanders.

HBO called the actor a "special man, a great talent, but more importantly a gentle and loving person who treated everyone, no matter their title or position, with equal respect." The channel expressed sympathy for his wife and children.

Joe Gannascoli, who played Vito Spatafore on the HBO drama, said he was shocked and heartbroken.

"Fifty-one and leaves a kid — he was newly married. His son is fatherless now. ... It's way too young," Gannascoli said.

Gandolfini and his wife, Deborah, who were married in 2008, have a daughter, Liliana, born last year, HBO said. The actor and his former wife, Marcy, have a teenage son, Michael.

Gandolfini's performance in "The Sopranos" was indelible and career-making, but he refused to be stereotyped as the bulky mobster who was a therapy patient, family man and apparently effortless killer.

In a December 2012 interview with The Associated Press, a rare sit-down for the star who avoided the spotlight, he was upbeat about a slew of smaller roles following the breathtaking blackout ending in 2007 of "The Sopranos."

"I'm much more comfortable doing smaller things," Gandolfini said in the interview. "I like them. I like the way they're shot; they're shot quickly. It's all about the scripts — that's what it is — and I'm getting some interesting little scripts."

He played Secretary of Defense Leon Panetta in Kathryn Bigelow's Osama bin Laden hunt docudrama "Zero Dark Thirty." He worked with Chase for the '60s period drama "Not Fade Away," in which he played the old-school father of a wannabe rocker. And in Andrew Dominick's crime flick "Killing Them Softly," he played an aged, washed-up hit man.

There were comedies such as the political satire "In the Loop," and the heartwarming drama "Welcome to the Rileys," which co-starred Kristen Stewart. He voiced the Wild Thing Carol in "Where the Wild Things Are" and made a rare return to the TV screen with the HBO film "Cinemate Verite."

Deploying his unsought clout as a star, Gandolfini produced (though only sparingly appeared in) a pair documentaries for HBO focused on a cause he held dear: veterans affairs.

"Alive Day Memories: Home from Iraq" (2007) profiled 10 soldiers and Marines who had cheated death but continued to wage personal battles long after their military service had ended. Four years later, "Wartorn: 1861-2010" charted victims of post-traumatic stress disorder from the U.S. invasion of Iraq all the way back to the Civil War.

"Do I think a documentary is going to change the world?" Gandolfini said with characteristic modesty during an interview about the latter film. "No, but I think there will be individuals who will learn things from it, so that's enough."

Gandolfini grew up in Park Ridge, N.J., the son of a building maintenance chief at a Catholic school and a high school lunch lady.

While Tony Soprano was a larger-than-life figure, Gandolfini was exceptionally modest and obsessive — he described himself as "a 260-pound Woody Allen."

In past interviews, his cast mates had far more glowing descriptions to offer.

"I had the greatest sparring partner in the world, I had Muhammad Ali," said Lorraine Bracco, who, as Tony's psychiatrist Dr. Melfi, went one-on-one with Gandolfini in their penetrating therapy scenes. "He cares what he does, and does it extremely well."

After earning a degree in communications from Rutgers University, Gandolfini moved to New York, where he worked as a bartender, bouncer and nightclub manager. When he was 25, he joined a friend of a friend in an acting class, which he continued for several years.

Gandolfini's first big break was a Broadway production of "A Streetcar Named Desire" where he played Steve, one of Stanley Kowalski's poker buddies. His film debut was in Sidney Lumet's "A Stranger Among Us" (1992).

Director Tony Scott, who killed himself in August 2012, had praised Gandolfini's talent for fusing violence with charisma — which he would perfect in Tony Soprano.

Gandolfini played a tough guy in Tony Scott's 1993 film "True Romance" who beat Patricia Arquette's character to a pulp while offering such jarring, flirtatious banter as, "You got a lot of heart kid."

Scott called Gandolfini "a unique combination of charming and dangerous."

Gandolfini continued with supporting roles in "Crimson Tide" (1995), "Get Shorty" (1995), "The Juror" (1996), Lumet's "Night Falls on Manhattan" (1997), "She's So Lovely" (1997), "Fallen" (1998) and "A Civil Action" (1998). But it was "True Romance" that piqued the interest of Chase.

He shared a Broadway stage with Jeff Daniels, Hope Davis and Marcia Gay Harden in "God of Carnage" when he received the best-actor Tony nod. He was in "On the Waterfront" with David Morse and was an understudy in a revival of "A Streetcar Named Desire" in 1992 starring Alec Baldwin and Jessica Lange.

In his 2012 AP interview, Gandolfini said he gravitated to acting as a release, a way to get rid of anger. "I don't know what exactly I was angry about," he said.

"I try to avoid certain things and certain kinds of violence at this point," he said last year. "I'm getting older, too. I don't want to be beating people up as much. I don't want to be beating women up and those kinds of things that much anymore."

Contributing to this report were Associated Press writers David Bauder, John Carucci, Jake Coyle and Frazier Moore in New York; and Shaya Tayefe Mohajer in Los Angeles.

Copyright © 2013 The Associated Press. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten, or redistributed.

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Park Ridge

November 23, 2023

10 years gone already, can't believe it. Park Ridge's favorite son. Never forgot where he came from. Rest In Peace our old friend. Love, your childhood friends and neighbors.

Gail in Northern Ireland.

June 19, 2023

Loved and remembered everyday. Taken away from us far too soon. Xxxx

Stefanie

June 19, 2023

Happy Birthday Jimmy. You are missed by many.

Gail in Belfast. NI

June 18, 2023

Loved and missed everyday.

Joe Canonico

June 17, 2023

As we approach the 10th Anniversary of the passing of James , I just want to say that James is in our thoughts and prayers every day. He was a tremendous actor and an even better person . Continue to rest easy and peacefully James . Your spirit will live on forever .

Stefanie

November 20, 2022

My dear friend,

I miss our laughs & talks. You were taken too soon.

Stefanie
BFF

Valerie Gail Cromie

September 17, 2021

Happy Heavenly Birthday James.
Love you xxxxx

Valerie Gail Cromie

June 19, 2021

Loved and Missed everyday.
Xxxxxx

Gail in Belfast. N.I.

December 23, 2020

Thinking about you James.
Miss you.

Gail

September 18, 2020

Happy Heavenly Birthday James

Gail in Belfast. N.I.

June 30, 2020

Miss you.

June 18, 2020

James, you touched my life in a big way.
Xxxx

A fan.

June 18, 2020

Very special man. Xxxx

Gail in Belfast. N.I.

June 18, 2020

In loving memory.
James Gandolfini.
19/06/20

Gail Cromie

June 16, 2020

Loved and thought of everyday. Miss you James Gandolfini

Gail Cromie

June 2, 2020

Miss you James Gandolfini xxxxx

Gail Cromie

June 1, 2020

To the best actor ever. Missed and Loved everyday. Xxx

Gail Cromie

May 23, 2020

Taken away from this world too soon.
To the best actor ever. Salute. Xx

Gail Cromie

May 19, 2020

Loved and missed everyday.

Jm h

September 19, 2019

Happy Birthday Jim G.
You are missed but you live on through your brilliant legacy of work you left with us. You were the best there was and nobody has or will ever come close. Rest in Paradise

February 23, 2019

You are so so very missed each and every day by so many people. You're calmness, you're solutions to every day problems, your smile and of course your laugh. I admire you and your generosity to so many people who were struggling and in need and you never looked for the credit or stood in lime light you stayed anonymous. That my friend is a giving soul and a precious human being. I'm sure you are extremely proud of your son and his success walking in your footsteps. You're daughter is absolutely beautiful and growing up fast which you know by continuously watching over them both. We all miss and love you feel free to pop in here and there .... ♡♡

Shelbey Ayers

February 22, 2019

I miss you so much, you were certainly one of a kind! Very special Man!

Tim Chestnut

February 21, 2019

Very few have the ablilty to become your friend without ever having met in person...it was as if you knew him your entire life...from the neighborhood...that's a gift
Larger than life !!! What a pleasure left us...to enjoy a legacy of film and interviews both as an actor and as a person
Hemingwayesque in life ....leaving a legacy for future generations to come
God Bless all

Joe Canonico

August 4, 2018

This past June was 5 years that James had passed. He truly was an incredible actor who was so talented. I continue to watch The Sopranos because it just doesn't get old and keeps Jim's spirit alive. Continue to rest easy and peacefully Tone. GOD Bless.

Kathy Ballam

July 19, 2017

They say "the good die young". It's very true in this instance. I will never forget meeting you in New York in 2005 on Broadway after your theatre performance. You will always be the best. RIP

June 25, 2017

You have made you're presence known on several occasions to many at different times. You have to be amazingly proud of your son. He has had so many accomplishments and continues to share love & kindness to all who come into his life. God Bless all

Tony Cortez Jr.

June 24, 2017

One of my favorite actors of all time, was an inspiration to me. I enjoyed and loved watching the Sopranos. That was my favorite show. Although I am very late, I want to express my heartfelt condolences and prayers to you Mr. Gandolfini and to all your family. Miss you very much and am very saddened by your sudden passing. I still am. Gone,but never forgotten. R.I.P. James, aka Tone. God Bless

Vickie Bartley

March 1, 2017

What a great actor. Gone too soon. My condolences to his family. RIP.

Valenda Newell

June 28, 2016

A great actor who I became familiar with when I started watching the Sopranos. The best show on TV at the time, I sure miss him. GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN....RIP

Terrence Slattery

April 13, 2016

God bless you James. You touched my life in a big way.You were the only cast member to give autographs months before you died.

Allison Dupont

March 7, 2016

Never forgotten, Rest in Peace sir.

Emily Pinaud

December 28, 2015

Watching my box collection of the Sopranos again.You were a wonderful actor in everything you did.God Bless You

Harry Wilkinson

December 11, 2015

To the family of one of the most incredible actors ever. My dearest and heart felt condolences to you.
He was taken way too soon, as with my dad. He was and always will be the strongest and would do whatever he had to do to protect Mom my three sisters my brother and me.
My prayers are with you and your family also with James.

Byce

May 25, 2015

God bless you. Your were my favorite actor.

A beautiful soul who was everything stated and way much more

D. LaRae VINCIGUERRA

March 30, 2015

a rather late entry but my own life was crazy with too much at once. James, you gave us laughter, seriousness and a "pretty accurate" of a Mafia Family. However I had seen a different side of you in a movie where you're a totally compassionate man. May your children know that you were deeply loved by millions, but they were your true and forever in your heart. "Infinity times infinity" one day when we all gather home together and enjoy the beauty of heaven created by the one and only, may you rest in peace and know family, friends and the millions of many who saw you as a great human being. God Bless.

March 27, 2015

We all miss you and we all know that your still around! The little things you do let us know and feel your presence :-)

Patrick McDonough

March 26, 2015

One of my all time favorite actors!!! Soprano is my favorite show on TV!!! You were the best!!!

Dan Lubers

February 5, 2015

James, my wife has joined you up there. We were/are such admirers of you and what you focused on. Please say hi to her and give her a hug. Thank you.

Darrell Ramsey

January 18, 2015

Thank u Tony!

Darrell Ramsey

January 18, 2015

Thank you for being an inspiration to me. I'm hooked on The Sopranos. I love the show very much. RIP Mr Gandolfini aka TONY

Terri Hughes

October 17, 2014

you were one of a kind, God now has such a beautiful spirit in his presents....you shall be missed by most and loved by all.Thanks for your works and talents,you were such a terrific man in every way.

Shelbey A

September 20, 2014

Happy 53rd birthday!!! I love your new movie.

Beth

September 17, 2014

Happy Birthday Jim! May God bless your family.

June 26, 2014

A talented actor, who was an amazing individual, was taken from this world too soon. Very sorry to hear about this very talented individual's passing.

Pamela

June 21, 2014

Hey,Tone!! Loved it when Pauli would call you that at the BadaBing club in The Sopranos. Seriously, tho, you were sorely missed this year and may you rest in peace in the heavenly places, Mr.Gandolfini.

Pamela

June 21, 2014

Rest in peace and may God watch over your family.

Beth

June 19, 2014

Missing you Jim, and prayers for your family and friends. RIP.

Shelbey A

June 19, 2014

It was a year ago today that we lost you- My mother just passed away from the same thing that you did crazy rt.Sudden death is awful-I now know how your family fealt,losing you this way. 06/19/2014??

Richard Schulte

June 19, 2014

I mean James Gandolfini was an actor. His job was to show up, say some words, take his money and then go home. But, God, could he say those words and punctuate them with an acting talent which was second to none. I too lost my parents at their young ages so I was especially saddened for his son to hear of James' demise. Although I was older, and a big guy in size, like James, when I lost my parents, the loss to me was immense. As a result I feel especially sorry for his son who lost his dad at such a tender age for both of them. R.I.P. T.

June 19, 2014

Although you have been physically gone for a year your spirit lives on and is felt in many ways. We all love & miss you.

Barbara Jean

June 18, 2014

Rest in peace, James. You were a one of a kind actor.

Beth

May 6, 2014

Still missing you, and think of you everyday. You and your contributions to this world will never be forgotten.

Elanor Lochore

April 14, 2014

I Have always been a huge fan and still cant believe your gone.you passed away on my sons 5th birthday so it will be a day I will never forget.you are and always will be one of the greats.god bless & rest in peace Jimmy x

Joey

March 27, 2014

Miss you so much , my brother.

Raven Dutko

March 22, 2014

Shock and utter dismay. Your role in the Sopranos was genius. You taught us all how to love a mobster. There was so much more for you but you gave to us joy and great pleasure watching your gift in motion. In honor~

February 12, 2014

I still miss you and I didn't even know you!! I wish I could see that wink - that smile again.

Shelley A.

January 27, 2014

When u winked at the end of Grammy's show obit notices. I cried n watched it ??over n over.u left us way to soon??

January 27, 2014

Your always with us . I dont think there is day that goes by without us thinking of you talking about you.

Sandy Morrissette

January 26, 2014

Thinking of you always and missing you so much.

Joey P.

January 1, 2014

Jimmy, I want to wish you a blessed New Year . I know your in heaven with The Lord . Thanks for everything you did for us. What a caring man you are. God look upon Jimmy & keep him close to you. He is as special as they come. I will continue to remember you all the days of my life. Your dear friend, Joey

Steph A.

December 28, 2013

I really loved the Tribute that your friends etc. Had on HBO, last night. I miss you so much!!!!

December 27, 2013

You are and were missed so so much at Christmas ....

-Shelbey A.

December 25, 2013

Merry Christmas ??????????????????

December 25, 2013

Jimmy, you are so missed by every one who loved you. Christmas wasn't the same & I don't think it will ever be until we are all together again.

Lou

December 24, 2013

Mr. Gandolfini's work on stage is nothing compared to what his life accomplishments were off stage. You are missed deeply throughout the world, especially NJ.

December 20, 2013

I want your family to know that at this time of the holiday season we are thinking of them and the emptiness they are going thru. For that I ask God to watch over your family & you. In the years ahead it will get a tiny bit easier, but I know you won't ever forget him. Much Love to all.

corinne watson

December 18, 2013

I am a huge fan of James Gandolfini. I will truly miss his contributions to our world. What talent...what heart....what a man...there willnever be another like him.- Corinne G. W.

S. Ayers

December 1, 2013

Happy Holidays!!!!

December 1, 2013

You are deeply missed in so many ways by many people. You are always in our hearts and souls. Thank you for continuing to watch over all those that you have touched or have touched you in some way or another. We miss you...

Sue

December 1, 2013

gone way too soon.

The one the ONLY Tony Soprano.

scarlett ayres

November 30, 2013

over 5 months you have been
gone dont seem real it's like loosing family.you were such a hunk and a brilliant actor miss you so much.R.I.P JG.XXXXXXXX

November 30, 2013

Thinking of you Today

Linda E.

November 13, 2013

Thinking of you ??

Johnny

November 11, 2013

I wanted you to know that thousands or a few million people still miss you Jimmy. But you already knew that because your up there watching all of us. Chow for now.

Shelbey A

October 23, 2013

You're so missed by so many...I pray your family Is doing ok.

October 22, 2013

I love you

Ybarra

October 15, 2013

James,I will miss you.-jb

Shine on Jimmy!

Stacy Schlieper

October 12, 2013

James Gandolfini an amazing man and one of the most brilliant actors ever. His smile made me light up each time. He has touched so many and we will miss him terribly.

Shelbey A

October 7, 2013

Soooo glad to be able to watch you on Sopranos nightly. You're the greatest actor.

Michael Olavastro

October 6, 2013

I still think about what a shame it is that your not here with us . I don't think I will ever not think about you, ever.

September 20, 2013

I miss you!!!!

Anita Corbo

September 20, 2013

Happy Birthday! Wow, I never knew you might be one of my angels! Thanks for the happy dreams & the guidance you give me after passing over into the light! You are still so kind like you always were! It feels like you are still around helping your friends. Thanks for watching over all of us!

Linda E

September 18, 2013

Happy B-day!!!!

September 18, 2013

Happy Birthday to you! We miss you tons...

Shelbey A

September 18, 2013

Happy Birthday!!!!!

September 18, 2013

Happy Birthday to you! We miss you tons...

catherine roberts

September 18, 2013

happy 52nd birthday jim, jimmy, james missed beyond words, too soon too young xx

September 17, 2013

Happy Birthday Jimmy!

September 5, 2013

Thinking of you today - I love you.

September 5, 2013

I love you - you were brilliant and I don't think you knew it. I hope you do now.

Shelbey A

September 1, 2013

Happy Early Birthday!!!!!! 09/18-2013. U Would of only been 52 yrs. young.

September 1, 2013

I love you

August 31, 2013

I love you so much

Beth Pearson

August 26, 2013

It's been over two months and I still can't believe your gone. You were the best actor, and by all accounts, a generous and kind person. I hope you are having the best time up in heaven, because I know that's where you are. May God comfort your family and friends during this terrible time.

Steph H.

August 25, 2013

You are so loved, by so many. R.I.P.

Steph H.

August 25, 2013

You are so loved, by so many. R.I.P.

catherine roberts

August 24, 2013

goodnight and godbless james a truly wonderful actor father husband brother and a friend to many r.i.p

leanne olson

August 23, 2013

You were such an amazing person, and was taken from us way to soon, but then again the good lord only takes the best from us unexspectedly and teaches us how to move on, without our loved ones! Rest in peace James! Your a superstar!

leanne olson

August 23, 2013

May you rest in peace! I love watching you as an actor and can only imagine how much of an awesome person you were! If I ever wanted to meet a celebrity, it was you! I was so so so sadden to hear of your passing! As I watch The Sopranos being rerunned on HBO I'm still in disbelief that your no longer with us! May you look down on all your loved ones and fans and see how wonderful of a person you are, you'll rest in peace! I hope to someday visit where you are layed to rest and bring you flowers and much missed loved!

John Charcho

August 17, 2013

You were a great actor. We all love your work as fans. Makes me sad for the loss of a father and husband. Your in a great place with God looking down on your family and friends. Rip James Gandolfini. So heart breaking that you are gone from this world. You are so missed.

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