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April 23, 2024
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Haily Escamilla
October 11, 2020
May you rest in peace, Red
March 22, 2019
Red Buttons fondly remembered for his very funny stand up comedy on the Dean Martin roasts.
Frankie Martinez
February 25, 2017
May you be resting in peace mr. Red button God bless you and your family I know how it is to lose a family member I lost my mom going on 7 years and it seems like it's just like yesterday I miss her so much but I know we have Angels looking over us may God heal your heart I know it's hard cuz my heart is still hurting all you can do is ask the good Lord to give you strength and go on your loved ones would want you to be happy
Lisa Weiner
September 17, 2016
To Red Buttons,
You were a very tslented actor and comedian. You made me laugh. I will always remember you Mr. Buttons. Lisa Weiner
Harry Simpson
July 13, 2015
Thank you for sharing a part of your life with us.
Rest Red, until you hear at dawn,
the low, clear reveille of God.
Thank you for your service to this nation.
Linda Button
June 23, 2015
RIP Red
reeb blatt
July 14, 2014
His coolest role was as the paratrooper in the LONGEST DAY. Great movie!
vic bullock
July 13, 2014
He actually never had a dinner !
Carol
June 14, 2013
Such a funny guy. Prayers continue to go out to the family. 1 Thessalonians 5:11
Joan Tonini
February 23, 2013
What a very funny man, we will all miss him, rest in peace
Lisa Weiner
February 17, 2013
To Red Buttons,
You were a very talented actor. You made me laugh. Thanks for the memories of laughter Mr. Buttons. Lisa Weiner
jenny
February 4, 2013
he was so good in movies he was one fine actor
April 3, 2010
For Red..., the carrot-topped burlesque comedian who became a top star in early television then went dramatic to win the 1957 Oscar as supporting actor in "Sayonara,
I miss you my friend.
WEEP NOT FOR ME
Do not weep for me when I no longer dwell among the wonders of the earth; for my larger self is free, and my soul rejoices on the other side of pain...on the other side of darkness.
Do not weep for me, for I am a ray of sunshine that touches your skin, a tropical breeze upon your face, the hush of joy within your heart and the innocence of babes in mothers arms.
I am the hope in a darkened night. And, in your hour of need, I will be there to comfort you. I will share your tears, your joys, your fears, your disappointments and your triumphs.
Do not weep for me, for I am cradled
in the arms of God. I walk with the angels, and hear the music beyond the stars.
Do not weep for me, for I am within you;
I am peace, love, I am a soft wind that caresses the flowers. I am the calm that follows a raging storm. I am an autumns leaf that floats among the garden of God, and I am pure white snow that softly falls upon your hand.
Do not weep for me, for I shall never die, as long as you remember me...
with a smile and a sigh.
© Joe Fazio
~
[email protected] /Joe Fazio,
Beverly Hills, California
Carol
March 10, 2010
Dear Family,
Even though its been a few years since that wonderful comedian Red passed away, the memories are always there. Please accept my heartfelt condolences. May this scripture help....2 Cor. 1:4. With love,
March 9, 2010
For Red...
Read a note from you today
and had to drop by.
WEEP NOT FOR ME
Do not weep for me when I no longer dwell among the wonders of the earth; for my larger self is free, and my soul rejoices on the other side of pain...on the other side of darkness.
Do not weep for me, for I am a ray of sunshine that touches your skin, a tropical breeze upon your face, the hush of joy within your heart and the innocence of babes in mothers arms.
I am the hope in a darkened night. And, in your hour of need, I will be there to comfort you. I will share your tears, your joys, your fears, your disappointments and your triumphs.
Do not weep for me, for I am cradled
in the arms of God. I walk with the angels, and hear the music beyond the stars.
Do not weep for me, for I am within you;
I am peace, love, I am a soft wind that caresses the flowers. I am the calm that follows a raging storm. I am an autumns leaf that floats among the garden of God, and I am pure white snow that softly falls upon your hand.
Do not weep for me, for I shall never die, as long as you remember me...
with a smile and a sigh.
© Joe Fazio
~
[email protected] /Joe Fazio,
Beverly Hills, California
LORI FARRAR
January 31, 2010
YOU WERE THE FUNNIEST FUNNY MAN I HAVE EVER SEEN ON SHOWS, YOU WERE WILD AND CRAZY. AND YOU WERE WONDERFUL IN SAYONARA, I CRIED. BUT IT WAS A WONDERFUL MOVIE. YOU WILL BE SORELY MISSED BY ME. GOD BLESS AND KEEP YOU. GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY IN THIS TIME OF PAIN AND MEMORIES.
cheri weiner
December 4, 2009
Sorry to learn that we have lost Red Buttons.
He was wild, he was crazy, he was adored and loved.
Most likely the angels were thrilled to welcome him into Heaven.
Rest in peace.
[email protected] /Joe Fazio
October 6, 2009
For Red...
Never forget the night we
drank some of the bubbles
backstage at the Latin
Quarter. Walter Winchel
was there that night
and was in rare humor.
You are missed, my friend.
WEEP NOT FOR ME
Do not weep for me when I no longer dwell among the wonders of the earth; for my larger self is free, and my soul rejoices on the other side of pain...on the other side of darkness.
Do not weep for me, for I am a ray of sunshine that touches your skin, a tropical breeze upon your face, the hush of joy within your heart and the innocence of babes in mothers arms.
I am the hope in a darkened night. And, in your hour of need, I will be there to comfort you. I will share your tears, your joys, your fears, your disappointments and your triumphs.
Do not weep for me, for I am cradled
in the arms of God. I walk with the angels, and hear the music beyond the stars.
Do not weep for me, for I am within you;
I am peace, love, I am a soft wind that caresses the flowers. I am the calm that follows a raging storm. I am an autumns leaf that floats among the garden of God, and I am pure white snow that softly falls upon your hand.
Do not weep for me, for I shall never die, as long as you remember me...
with a smile and a sigh.
© Joe Fazio
A Longtime Fan
February 21, 2009
Sayonara! My mother was Japanese, my father an American GI, married in Japan, he brought her stateside in 1952. My first and long-loved movie, in which you performed, is forever a part of my life...Sayonara. You were a blessing to me.
LLOYD ROWLEY
August 9, 2008
I ALWAYS LOVED WATHING MR BUTTONS.I KNOW HE IS IN HEAVEN BRINGING JOY TO THE ANGELS .AND THE LORD WITH HIS NEVER GOT A DINNER.MAY THE LORD BLESS YOUR FAMILY.
Wanisha
July 24, 2008
A paradise the earth will be
just have faith
and you will see
No more death, no sickness or pain
God promises everlasting life
yes those lost can come back
to life again
"This means everlasting life, their taking in knowledge of you, the only true God, and of the one whom you sent forth, Jesus Christ."-John 17:3
Blaine Howard
April 10, 2008
Red Buttons--who spend his whole life making people laugh--never got a dinner.
Carlos Guillen
May 18, 2007
You were a great actor and a superb comedian and now you're making the angels laugh.Love that never got a dinner routine.
God bless you and your family.
joe cummings
February 27, 2007
i did a batmitsfa(? spelling) with Mr. B in Tahoe years ago.
i was the band leader
he introduced me as a former bartender at the Betty Ford Clinic.
We were able to hang out for a while. we even reminiced about the "HO HO SONG" which was aone of my favorites as a kid in bleak rochester ny.
i had to learn sayonara to bring him on and off
his was a uniquley unique career in showw biz
he was the funniest
ERIN SMUGGIE
February 8, 2007
im doing a report on Red Buttons.he is a very interesting man and from what iv leared very nice.iv watched movies with him as the the star. and they were awsome.if old red was still alive i would have loved to meet him
P.S
SEEMS LIKE HE HAS A WAY WITH WOMEN.
Marci Marshall
November 10, 2006
Thank you for making me laugh....I loved you in The Posideon Adventure... RIP
FLORENCE JONES
October 26, 2006
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Mark Geuy
October 4, 2006
Mark Geuy of Murrieta - Red you were on the the best actors around. I really did enjoy you in the movies.
Rest in Peace
Mark Geuy
September 30, 2006
Red,
You will be missed. You were a great actor.
God Bless You.
dolores cutlip
August 11, 2006
Your warm heart and humor brought so much joy to my life. Precious memories
Mark Cooper
August 7, 2006
We will miss you
Pat
July 29, 2006
You were such a sweetheart!
Nancy Lee Lunn
July 29, 2006
Through film and video we can continue to see you and laugh with you so you will never be truely gone from our hearts.
Marlene Sklar
July 27, 2006
Thank you for being you.The world is a better place because you were in it!You will always live on!
Dodson Grantham
July 27, 2006
Im so sorry for your loss. I was just watching "The Posiden Adventure" the other day. My favorite had to be his role as "Pockets" in "Hatari!" Thanks for the laughs Red!
MARLENE DAVIS
July 26, 2006
MAY YOU BE IN GODS HANDS AND THANK YOU FOR THE YEARS YOU GAVE YOURSELF TO OTHERS.
carol peluso
July 24, 2006
Thank you Mr. Buttons for all the years of laughter and tears. You will be missed. A true fan.
carol peluso
July 24, 2006
Thank you for all the years of laughter and tears. You will be missed. A true fan.
fancy macdonald
July 23, 2006
i miss him already.when i felt down & blue he could cheer me up always make me laugh thank you red buttons
Nancy W.
July 22, 2006
Dear family of Mr.Red Buttons, My father was raised in the same era his summers where in Logtavern NY. i will always miss red buttons because of his hummerous jokes and beautiful smile. May he rest in peace. Sincerely Nancy W. Tucson ariz.
Dana Smith
July 22, 2006
May you rest in peace Red. I'll never forget the laughs we had when I met you at the Jack Webb Awards in Beverly Hills. Every time I look at that picture, it brings happy memories. I wish you and your family all the blessings that God may bring you and comfort you.
Georgia Walker
July 21, 2006
I am so sorry to hear about Red Buttons, passing. This man gave me so much delight I just loved his Movies and watched Tv just to see him. I even watched ER when he was on it. Mr. Buttons Thank you from the bottom of my heart for such enjoyment .You will be missed, And no one will ever be able to full your shoes.
ronald clark
July 21, 2006
im so sorry about red buttons dieing. he was a great actor and he will be missed
Debbie Elser
July 21, 2006
The one thing about getting older is that the people you watched and admired when you were a kid get older also. As much as you wish they were still around to entertain your children, sadly, such is not the case. We have lost many fabulous entertainers that will in no way be replaced. The time of good, clean family entertainment is long gone. I have seen many great names written throughout this tribute to Mr. Buttons, and remember each and every one of them from when I was a kid. We may never of known you personally, but as an entertainer, you were regarded as a great actor and comedian. The roles you portrayed were meaningful. Even on the "Roasts" there was nothing out of line. I had the unfortunate experience of watching a "Roast" recently on a cable channel and turned it off, it was very offensive.
Unfortunately, that is what this new wave of comedians thinks is funny.
You knew when the Dean Martin Roasts were on that you could sit with your family and watch and not be offended. Thank you to the comedians and entertainers of that era for bringing great family entertainment to television. These shows were so popular, they are now selling episodes on DVD and VHS. I would like to thank the creates of the VCR and DVD players for letting us keep these entertainers, like Mr. Buttons, alive by being able to watch the "old" movies and television programs.
You are a great entertainer Mr. Buttons and I know you are entertaining them in Heaven.
Hi-dee-hi-dee-hi-dee-ho, Pockets. You will get your dinner.
Rest in Peace.
July 21, 2006
May you all recieve strength and courage from Jehovah. You all are
in my prayers.
Frances Dixon
July 21, 2006
Heartfelt sympathy to Mr. Red Button family. I watch him many times. May God continue to richly bless and comfort his family during this time.
Eldon Martin
July 21, 2006
Very sorry for your loss, Red was an excellent comedian/actor. I remember as a young child, how I loved watching such a funny funny guy and could not wait to catch his act. When I was sad you made me smile, I know I'm not alone when I say MAKE LAUGH RED like you did for us.
July 20, 2006
red you were the best and i miss u alot you were extremely talented i cried like crazy when i heard you went take care of yourself in heaven now i'll never forget u!
S. WILLINGHAM
July 20, 2006
ANOTHER HOLLYWOOD GREAT GONE.....
THANKS FOR THE MEMORIES!!.......
EUGENE DIDONATO
July 18, 2006
Thanks for the memories you have given me through the years.Your talent has not ended but you will play the grandest stage before the KING OF ALL KINGS.GOD BLESS AND WATCH OVER YOU.
Dianne
July 18, 2006
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Angela Bumpas
July 18, 2006
WOW is heaven going to be a much happier place with old RED... Of course I remember his wonderful wit but when every I watch something that he is in and he gives that little smile it just makes me lite up. He was a member of the time when people could just be funny without bad words just a great sense of humor...
Sandi Zwier
July 17, 2006
Though I loved you in Sayonnara and Posideon Adventure, my very favorite movie as a child was watching Hatari only for the performance of Red Buttons.;my uncle use to play "The Elephant Walk" on his organ for me. Everytime I hear that song I am reminded of the movie. Red, I will never forget the smile that you brought to a lonely little girl's face
Love and condolences to your family and family of fans.
[email protected]
S Helton
July 17, 2006
the first movie I saw Red in was Hatari with John Wayne and a bunch of other good actors/actresses. The scene with the net and the monkeys will remain with me forever.
God Bless you Red Buttons....
James williams
July 17, 2006
LOVE ME SOME RED BUTTONS WELCOME
HOME HE DID HIS JOB FOR THE LORD BY
MAKEING POEPLE SMILE.
DEBORAH
July 17, 2006
My sympathy to the your family and Thanks for entertaining us with your talent. May GOD bless you.
Bob Coates
July 17, 2006
My sympathy to the your family and Thanks for entertaining us with your talent. May GOD bless you.
P Kline
July 17, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. You were the best.
Denis Gould
July 17, 2006
Red Buttons - so much more than an actor and comedian - a most wonderful person of immense charm and wit, whose talents will be sorely missed. Red will forever be remembered as deserving a full course dinner. Sayonara, great one!
BETTY RIVAS & FAMILY
July 17, 2006
MR.BUTTONS MAY YOUR SMILE LIVE ON.
TO THE BUTTONS FAMILY & FRIENDS MAY GOD BE WITH YOU.
Ron Papp
July 17, 2006
We will never forget your role in Posiden Adventure. May your spirit shine as bright as your star!!
Donna Day
July 17, 2006
Thanks for the laughter :)
DOROTHY WRIGHT
July 17, 2006
I AM VERY FORTUNATE TO HAVE ONE OF YOUR BLACK TIES WITH THE THREE RED BUTTONS THAT YOU WORE ON YOUR SHOW...I PURCHASED IT AT A CELEBRITY AUCTION THAT I WAS HOSTING...YOU WERE THE BEST...MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND KEEP YOU...
Julie Hall
July 17, 2006
You have brought much joy to my life with your movies. You will be greatly missed.
Ethel Trebing
July 17, 2006
Red I thought you were a very funny man. My brother Jim and I always loved to watch you growing up. You had some good stuff.
Brian Lewke
July 17, 2006
Red.
You will Be missed, my best to the family
William Murphy
July 17, 2006
One of the Best
Laura
July 17, 2006
I hope he "gets a dinner"...
Jean Gudger
July 17, 2006
May God Bless and Keep your family during this time of sorrow.Mr.Buttons was gifted from God to make people smile.Laughter is medicine and to many healing was brought.I was a little African American girl who was raised on these icons whom I loved to cherish. Now as an adult I can gleam on the good old days of these like Mr. Buttons. He is now in heaven with Milton, Red, Jack, and George. They are having a comedy party with the angels.
Frances Floyd
July 17, 2006
Frances C Floyd
Donna Miller
July 17, 2006
I grew up with Mr. Buttons, his programs were just about the only ones my parents would allow us to watch. His entertainment was good clean comedy.
Becky Sink
July 17, 2006
God bless Red Buttons for all the
joy he bought to a lot of folks
over the years.
Donna Lovaglio
July 17, 2006
I always loved watching Red Buttons on the Dean Martin Roasts...I loved his "never got a dinner" skits. He was a wonderful actor and comedian. He will be missed. God Bless Him.
Jon Badi Sr
July 17, 2006
One of the best comedians ever. May God Bless.
Paul Vaillancourt
July 17, 2006
I loved Red's performances as Jake, Bev's boyfriend on "Roseanne." He will be missed!
Janie C.
July 17, 2006
Farewell my funny little friend, always a favorite of mine, just watched a rerun show of you on [email protected]
Debbie
July 17, 2006
I can remember watching him as a clown and now i know that i well think of him always when i see a clown
Michelle
July 16, 2006
I enjoyed you very much when you took part in the roast's. I loved the part you played in the movie Hatari as Pockets. My niece watched the vidoe tape of Hatari with me and has a copy for herself, she knows the movie line for line.
May you rest in peace and may those who loved you remember the goodtimes they had with you.
billy bryant
July 16, 2006
gosh!he has always been around.
we'll all miss him...Billy
margaret siler
July 16, 2006
loved him
Paula Avery
July 16, 2006
Red,
Thanks for all the laughter through the years. You will be missed.
JODI HEWITT
July 16, 2006
I have enjoyed Red's brillance in the movies he has played in especially Hatari with John Wayne wich I have and watch all the time.
Red will be saddly missed. God be with you and your family at this time of sorrow. May God bless you and keep you in his hands.
Wayne Meredith
July 16, 2006
I am deeply saddened by the loss of such a talented man, whom I grew up watching on T.V. as well as in the movies.. God Bless You, Mr. Buttons.. And Thanks so very much for all the wonderful memories.
Lois Williams
July 16, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
JOY REZABEK
July 16, 2006
TO:AMY AND ADAM, MY CONDOLENSES, AND TO ALL OF HIS FANS (INCLUDING ME!) WHO LOVED HIM, AND ENJOYED HIS GREAT TALENT. I FOUND OUT WHAT A CLASS ACT HE WAS MANY YEARS AGO. IT WAS MY FIRST TIME GOING TO SEE A LIVE ACTOR ON STAGE, BY MY SELF. THE FEW TIMES I HAD GONE, I WAS WITH OTHER PEOPLE. THE PLAY WAS GREAT, OF COURSE, BUT AFTER WARDS RED CAME OUT AND TALKED TO THE AUDIENCE. IT WAS WONDERFUL. I SO MUCH WANTED TO ASK HIM TO PUT HIS HAND TO HIS EAR AND SAY,"HO HO-HE HE"! BUT I LACKED THE COURAGE TO DO SO IN THOSE DAYS. WHEN I WENT HOME, I WROTE A LETTER TO HIM AND MAILED IN TO THE THEATER, TELLING HIM ABOUT IT. A FEW DAYS LATER, I RECIEVED A LETTER FROM HIM! WITH A LITTLE STICK MAN DRAWING OF HIMSELF WITH HIS HAND TO HIS EAR, AND THE WORDS, "HO HO - HE HE" WRITTEN NEXT TO IT! I EMBRACED THE LETTER AS THO I WAS EMBRACING HIM. YOUR DAD WAS THE SWEETEST AND FUNNIEST MAN. SOME ONE ELSE MENTIONED ANOTHER "RED" - I SEE THEM BOTH NOW-TELLING EACH OTHER FUNNY STUFF - AND NOT A DIRTY WORD BETWEEN THEM! SOME TIME LATER, I REMEMBER READING SOME WHERE THAT HE USED TO WRITE LITTLE NOTES TO YOU, AMY. BECAUSE WHEN HE CAME HOME FROM WORK, OF COURSE YOU WERE ALREADY IN BED. AND SO HE WOULD LEAVE IT FOR YOU TO READ WHEN YOU WOKE UP. I THINK THEY WERE LITTLE POEMS, BUT I'M NOT SURE. (THAT WAS A LONG TIME AGO) HOW LOVED YOU MUST OF FELT I KNOW HE DOESN'T NEED PRAYERS, BECAUSE THERE IS NO DOUBT THAT HE IS HAPPY IN HEAVEN -JUST WHERE HE BELONGS NOW THAT HIS LIFE HERE HAS RUN IT'S COURSE. BUT I DO SEND PRAYERS TO YOU BOTH AND TO THE REST OF THE FAMILY. I KNOW YOU WILL MISS HIM DEARLY - BUT WHAT WONDERFUL MEMORIES YOU HAVE TO KEEP YOU THRU THOSE TIMES! IN GOD'S LOVE, JOY
Kathleen Leung (nee Mc Eniry)
July 16, 2006
My fondest memory of Red Buttons was his early TV show. Seeing him hop around on one foot with his hand cupped over his ear.."STRANGE THINGS ARE HAPPENING" HO, HO, It was such a pleasure to watch his show. He lived a wonderful full life. May his death bring his family closer together and the strength to cope until they are reunited with him in Heaven.Love and God Bless.
Robert Watkins
July 16, 2006
God Bless the family at this time. Another great one has left us. He really was a funny man.
Debbie Goldman
July 16, 2006
I have enjoyed many years of watching Red's brillance on screen and TV. It seemed like he would go on forever, but God needed another talented angel. I will miss his great talent. Prayers and much sympathy to his family. GOD BLESS YOU RED!
Ellen Denton
July 16, 2006
The red hair, that mischevious grin,
the twinkle in his eyes, but he couldn't get him a dinner. His boyish charm could be felt and his love for what he gave to others will always remain in my heart. My condolences to his family and friends. He may be gone from this earth but he left us with so much joy while he was here that he will never be forgotten.
Robin Petric
July 16, 2006
Hi, I am a big fan of Red Buttons when I was little I loved watching his show, I very sorry for the lost, I know what your going through, because I lost my father 22yrs ago, snd I just lost my niece just 2weeks ago, too. So I know what a lost it is , but he would want you all to go on with your life and he will be with you all. take care
robin petric willoughby ohio
Barrie Milton
July 16, 2006
A world without Red is a sad place. Thanks for all the laughs and tears your work gave us. That will endure but it will be sadder with you gone.
Peter Ranoia
July 16, 2006
What can I say that God only knows how many people have said. But I must say it. You were one of the best, truly gave your best and also what a man. I was there when Pat Henry was laid out and you euologized him. I went up to you after and we talked and then became dear friends. I am so sad I missed your viewing or going to church I hadn't read the papers for a few days and missed it. It wasn't meant to be. Well my dear friend we shall all miss you and your wit and humor say hello to all our friends.
Peter Bear
DONNA BOSTWICK
July 16, 2006
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Dolores
July 16, 2006
Thanks RED, you come along way baby! The years flew by, and you will always be remembered.
THANKS AGAIN, for a job well done!
Deborah K LaGana
July 16, 2006
Dear Red , you will be greatly missed as one of the greatest actors of your time, I grew-up watching the movies you where in and still watch them today. Gods blessing on you and those you left behind.
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