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JOHN RAFTER Obituary

John James Rafter John James Rafter, 80, retired captain CPD, was the beloved husband of Fern (nee LeGere) for 59 years; loving father of Martin (Roberta Werneske), Peggy (Richard) Thompson, James (Loretta), William (Diane), and Sheila (Matthew) Sledz; grandfather of Jennifer and the late Michael Rafter, Ryan, Scott, Sean and Megan Thompson, Daniel and Lauren Rafter, Bridget and Eileen Sledz; brother of Bridget (James) McNamara; brother-in-law of Frank LeGere; and uncle of many nieces and nephews. John was the son of the late James and Mary (nee Sheridan) Rafter from counties Mayo and Sligo, Ireland. John and Fern raised their children in Edison Park, Chicago, where they lived for 32 years. During his years as a police officer, he attained the rank of captain and position of Asst. Deputy Superintendent in charge of Internal Affairs. After he retired, they moved to Spring Hill, Fla., where he enjoyed playing golf and traveling. Visitation is 4 to 9 p.m. Friday, at Lauterburg & Oehler Funeral Home, 2000 E. Northwest Highway, Arlington Heights. Prayers will be said at 10:30 a.m. Saturday at the funeral home chapel, going to Our Lady of the Wayside Church, 432 W Park St., Arlington Heights for a Mass at 11 a.m. Interment will be in All Saints Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Autism Research Institute, 4182 Adams Ave., San Diego, CA 92116, www.autism.com. For information 847-253-5423 or www.lauterburgoehler.com.

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Published by Daily Herald from Nov. 18 to Nov. 19, 2010.

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Jan Paulsen-Kirby

December 9, 2010

Jim,
So sorry to hear about your dad. Hope you and your family are well.

Ron Moran,Ret. Capt. C.P.D.

November 20, 2010

My sincerest sympathy to the family of John Rafter, for whom I worked when he was the Commanding Officer of Internal Affairs.

November 20, 2010

As I was growing up, I remember my mom's family big Irish weddings. Those grand memories I will always cherish. I also recall the faith, strength and love shared in gathering for her family's Irish funerals. For me, all are distant relatives, but the memories of 'the Rafter's' will always warm my heart. God Bless, K. Guldan

Ted Raab

November 19, 2010

During my 30 year career on the CPD, John was one of the BEST bosses I worked for and a just a GREAT person all around.

Donna O'Neill

November 19, 2010

Dear Rafter Family,

My deepest condolences for your family. I didn't know John at all, but If he was anything like his son Jim and daughter-in-law Loretta, he was an amazing person. My prayers are with your family.

Jeffrey Miller

November 19, 2010

Dear Rafter Family

I am so sorry to hear about yout loss. During this difficult time please know you are in my thoughts and in my prayers. I am here if you need anything.

Jeffrey Miller

Don Nauer (ret'd)

November 19, 2010

Dear Rafter Family:
John was a GREAT person to work for and one of the best persons I met during my career. Always took your feelings into consideration. May the Lord take you into his care as you did so many.

Richard Riccio

November 18, 2010

Dear Fern and Family,
John was the best boss I ever worked for on the Chicago Police Department. Mary and I are going to miss our yearly Birthday dinners together. Our dear friend John is going to be missed greatly.
With deepest sympathy,
Rich and Mary Riccio

Chuck Bennett

November 18, 2010

a great man and person to work for. He will be missed dearly.

Chuck Bennett, CPD RET.1999

November 18, 2010

Dear Rafter Family,
We are so sorry about your loss. Please accept our deepest sympathy. During this difficult time, we will keep the memory of John in our hearts and think about him often with thoughts of love and compassion.
Sincerely,
Lou Alenskas and Grace Stauskas

November 18, 2010

Sheila, Our hearts go out to you and your family. It's hard to say goodbye to a parent, but he will speak to your heart when you need him. Please know that you are in our prayers.
Cece, Kevin, and kids

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