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for Melissa Qualkenbush
Michael Schrum
May 28, 2009
God How I miss Melissa. I can Never describe How much I love her. If I could give my life to bring her back I would, Without Regret. Tim and Sharon thank you so much for bringing Melissa into this world, among other things I have to thank you for. I am truly sorry for the grief I have caused you. The things you have done for me and the Kindness you have shown me, that I don't feel I deserve, Will Live In My heart FOREVER. Melissa I love You! I will ALWAYS love you. You truly are my heart and soul, and you always will be. My life is empty without you by my side. You were always there for me for guidance and love. I miss you so much. Its so hard to think one day we are talking about where we are going to live and the next you are gone. I don't know where I will go from here, but I know where I will end up. I will see you again in heaven, and we can be together. I can feel you soft face against mine again. Until then I know you are with me everyday. And I know you Love me as much as I love you. I never questioned that before and I won't start now. With all my love to Melissa, Tim, Sharon, Dan, Jon, and The rest of the family. I am TRULY SORRY.
Frank Amaro
November 9, 2008
To Melissa Kay Qualkenbush Family. Im so sorry for your lost. Im really hurt to. God took Melissa from pain and gave her wings to fly to heaven. Its real hard for me to write this. Melissa would want us to love her in our memories. God took my heart when he took an Angel Named Melissa Kay Qualkenbush. God Send an Angel to this earth with no light, so Melissa Kay Qualkenbush shine her beauty all over this world. She saved my life. I talked to Melissa almost everynight foe 2 years when she got surgery on her back, WE talked til we fell asleep, Melissa showed me how to love and care. Melissa LOVED COLIN with all her heart. We talked when she went to Florida. Everynight at 9pm. She would go in her room to talk about her day, until we fell asleep. Melissa spread her love to everyone. God needed his Angel back in heaven. Melissa Kay Qualkenbush is watching over us. Sharon & Tim, I am sending you the pictures she gave to me when she was a baby, they belong to you both. I ment alot to her, she ment alot to me. If anyone wants to contact me, my phone number is 1-260-705-5750. She with God now.
Matthew Valdez
November 8, 2008
Frank Amaro loved your daughter with all his heart. They were engage 2 years ago. I knew Melissa when she was engage to Frank. She was the most caring person in the WORLD. She once told frank something I never forget. Frank Uncle passed away at the age of 29. Hes gone with god and his pain is gone now, his wings are open, his chains are broken from this hurtful world, Hes HAPPY. Melissa called Frank Amaro (BURRITO) Frank called Melissa (CREAMPUFF) Melissa has spread her wings and free from pain and Frank and her Family will see her at the gates of Heaven.
Frank Amaro
November 8, 2008
I LOVE YOU Melissa. YOUR THE REASON THAT I LIVED. i NEVER FIND SOMEONE LIKE YOU EVER.
Mary Loveless
October 7, 2008
Sharon, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. My condolences to you and your family in this difficult time.
October 6, 2008
I did not know Melissa but I am a friend of Liz. I just wanted to say I am so sorry for your loss. I know how hard it is to lose someone so close to you without a warning. I just want to say it will get easier. You just need to be there for each other and stay strong. My thoughts and prayers are with your family in this time of grieving.
Cathy
October 5, 2008
I didn't know Melissa long but I wanted her family to know how sorry I was to learn of her passing. Melissa worked at Town & Country for a short time and though I rarely worked with her I did see a smile on her face when she was there. May God have her in his arms now and forever.
Calandra Hackler
October 5, 2008
Melissa was a good friend of mine. She will be greatly missed. To Melissa's family: I will keep you in my prayers and know that I'll always remember her as well. May God bless you in this time of tragedy.
Jon Groth
October 5, 2008
To Sharon, Brother Dan, and Family,
Melissa was a wonderful young woman who will be sorely missed by all. The staff and faculty of the Porter County Career Center knew her well for being a kind, considerate, and compassionate person. We wish strength to her family and friends. This kind of thing should not happen to good people. I am sorry for your loss.
Jeanene
October 4, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this time of need.
Sue & Michael Naji
October 4, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
mary schrum
October 4, 2008
sharon and family, our thoughts are with you all, i am so very sorry for your lose, and i hope that god will help you in your time of sorrow...i will pray for this...mary s.
Julie Alexander
October 4, 2008
I can’t believe this is happening. Q will be missed and the world is a worst place without her. You all are in my thoughts and prays.
Brittany Bilen
October 4, 2008
I just can't believe this, I don't even know what to say.
I've been friends with Mel for as long as I can remember. I was always shy in first grade, and so was Mel. We'd always wander away by ourselves at recess, and everyone wondered where we'd go. We remained friends even through she moved to Valpo, and we always will. There won't be a day that passes that I won't think of her, and miss her terribly & wish I had her back to make me laugh. We had a road trip planned for christmas break, but I just can't go without her.
Dad, Mom, Dan, & Jon... I pray that you will find the strength to overcome this. I will pray that god will give you the strength. I know god will help us all get through this. It's the hardest thing for me to lose a friend, but I can't imagine losing a daughter or sister.
This all just still seems like a bad dream to me, and I wish that it was.
I'd do anything if it was just a dream...
You're all in my prayers, just stay strong. She wouldn't want anyone to be upset. She'd want me to write a poem, and be strong about it. I try to remember that when I start to cry.
BARBARA ALLISON
October 4, 2008
DEAR SHARON AND FAMILY,IN THIS TIME OF SORROW YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS ARE HERE FOR YOU.I'M VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. OUR PRAYERS TOO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. TAKE CARE, BARBARA ALLISON
Kris
October 4, 2008
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, ""I welcome you.""
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......""My day was not in vain.""
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
Garnet Johnson
October 3, 2008
Sharon and family, you have my very deepest sympathy. My thoughts are with you and your family.
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