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Joseph Ingellis Obituary

Ingellis, Joseph F.
Joseph Frank Ingellis passed away February 12, 2015 at the age of 88 at Middlesex Health Care Center in Middletown, CT with family by his side.
Joe was born in New York, NY on August 22, 1926 to Mary (Lipoma) and August Ingellis and was the youngest of 6 children. Joe joined the service (Navy) at the age of 17 and served in World War II from 1943-1946 and following that served in the Korean War from 1950-1952. Joe always had the love of art and it followed him in his career as an interior designer throughout his life until he retired. Joe lived in New York his entire life. Once he retired, he lived in Puerto Rico, followed by Chile until 2010 when his wife Paula passed. Following that, Joe came back to the United States to be near his daughter Francesca and lived in Connecticut until his death.
Joe was predeceased by his former wife Adele in 2009 and his wife Paula in 2010 who he had been married to for 26 years; his parents; one sister, Theresa Quintiliani; and brothers Vincent, Daniel, Leonard and most recently Fred.
He is survived by his daughter, Francesca and her husband, Gene in Stratford; grandchildren, Alison and Matthew Gray and step grandson, Daniel Esposito; daughter, Corinna Meyer in Germany and her husband Ulf and grandsons Lars and Fynn; stepchildren Connie Berger and children and Martin Berger and children; along with many nieces, nephews and friends who were always dear to his heart.
The family would like to thank the staff at Middlesex Health Care Center for the wonderful care they provided.
Friends are invited to attend a Memorial Mass on Saturday, April 11, 2015 at 11 am at Our Lady of Grace Church. Private interment will take place at St. Michael Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to a charity of one's choice or honor Joe by performing a random act of kindness.

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Published by Connecticut Post on Feb. 15, 2015.

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Maria Ingellis Everett

February 12, 2023

You are still remembered and sorely missed, Uncle Joe!
Love, Toots!

Maria Ingellis Everett

December 23, 2020

I love and miss you dearly, Uncle Joe. I will always be your Toots!

Mel and Aida

Mel Powers

March 8, 2015

To my friend Joe, from one Navy Man to another thank you for your dedication and SERVICE because of the Greatest Generation you gave us a better World for me and others to raise our females and it is a great privilege to have you and Pula as our friends in Chile, not only do we remember both of you but many times in a conversation you are remembered. Your felt hat that you forgot and we had to go back and get it At Miriam and David's .

Joe you will always be in our Harts and Minds.

All our Love from Chile to you and yours Fran, Gene.

May God always be with you!

Mel Aida

steve wilson

February 27, 2015

My deepest condolences to the family.I didn't know him personally but I did now his niece Maria.She loved him very much and to be loved by so many speaks volumes.R.I.P.

Angeleah Christian

February 26, 2015

God's speed,

Vincent Ingellis

February 25, 2015

Great Uncle Joe, you always brought life and joy to the "party". I have great memories that date back to when I had the chances to visit you in Puerto Rico. You always made me feel like a grandson. Your genuine and kind words about my Father (August Ingellis) and my Grand Father (Vincent Ingellis) made me proud to be an Ingellis. You will be missed,
Lee

February 22, 2015

"Uncle Joe was to me, on a scale of 1 to 10, an 11." Your nephew Augie told me this and they are my sentiments exactly! Your gifts were unique and God given and you lived your life to the fullest! Many love you and will miss you. Thank you for great conversations, your insights about life, your funny stories and jokes, your accounts of your youth growing up in New York and as a young man in the Navy, your travels and years in Chile. Thank you for whistling tunes (FANTASTIC whistler), singing carols with me at Christmas, lunches and mall walking....! All in all thank you for your company these past years! I loved every minute. I will miss you terribly! Your niece, Linda Ingellis Bigden

August Ingellis

February 21, 2015

Uncle Joe,
Thanks for the companionship, help, understanding, laughs, and love.
Augie

Maria Ingellis Everett

February 20, 2015

I will always love you and will always be your "Toots"! We're still two peas in a pod! Godspeed, Uncle Joe. You are finally in the arms of your Lord and your loving family!
Your adoring niece,
~Teri

Alison Gray

February 19, 2015

Love you grandpa ! Miss you but I know your watching over us <3

February 16, 2015

The country is in mourning for a veteran passed away today.

Russell & Virginia Payton

February 15, 2015

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Tony Ingellis

February 15, 2015

God bless you Uncle Joe. Tell everyone I love them.

Dawn Applegate

February 15, 2015

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