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Angela Marie Gonzales
June 21, 2025
Dearest Cynthia,
Oh my goodness, another year passes without your JB and Melanie. I am so sorry for your losses. I will lift you in prayer today. JB and I shared our love for our Lord with one another. Would love to talk or exchange an email with you.
My love to you,
Angela Marie Gonzales
June 20, 2023
Dearest Cynthia,
I often think about your Melanie and JB. I am lifting you up in prayer today. I remember the day I met you. I thought of you as such a beautiful and classy lady...I was around 19 or 20 years old and was thoroughly impressed with you. Continue to lean and trust on our Lord for strength with the consolation that one day we will see your beautiful children again.
All my love and admiration to you,
Angela Marie Gonzales
Albuquerque, NM
Angela Marie Gonzales
June 21, 2022
Dearest Cynthia,
I hope you are well. It still breaks my heart that we no longer have JB. I met him as a little boy and was blessed that our paths crossed when he was an adult. When we discovered we knew one another we talked on the phone for 4 hours! I am blessed to have known him. God bless you Cynthia, you have had so much to deal with and my heart breaks for you.
All of my love,
Angela Marie Gonzales
Joel B
November 3, 2021
I'm sad to find this - I was actually trying to find Blair to remember a couple of funny stories from our childhood together. I always enjoyed time with Blair and I have fantastic memories of him as a fun-loving neighborhood pal. His family was always so welcoming and loving. Bless you, all.
Angela M. Gonzales
June 21, 2021
Dearest Cynthia,
I think of your sweet son often. I comfort myself by reminding me that JB knew our Lord and Savior. I lift you up in prayer today knowing how much you have suffered losing Melanie and JB. May you feel our Lord's presence with you always.
All of my love to you,
Angela Marie Gonzales
Emerald Ouellette
June 1, 2019
Cynthia, my heart goes out to you. I am crying as I read this. Blair was so loved by all that knew him. I had only met him twice at parties but I was so impressed. He had personality galore, so nice looking - a wonderful sense of humor.
I am always here for you whenever you need to talk. Love you, Emerald
May 31, 2019
So very sad to have come across Blair's obituary, I had lost track of him years ago, but I new him back in Lawrence Kansas in the 90's where Blair studied music. I was trying to look him to send him a message when I saw this.
We were roommates at one time back in Kansas and played in various bands together back then. He was a great guy, very kind, very generous. Gregarious, friendly, funny, and dedicated to the drums.
He helped me immensely in a way I'll never forget, to recover a musical instrument that was more or less an heirloom-- had belonged to my mother-- from a pawn shop. I was on the verge of losing it forever, and he lent me the funds to rescue it-- I didn't ask him, he saw the situation and offered. I will be eternally grateful.
I have that instrument still, more than a quarter century later, and will hand it down some day. Thanks to Blair.
I am saddened to know he is gone. I have sought him out, too late.
Cindy Newsome
August 27, 2018
My darling, beloved son...I cry for you and your sister every day. I long for the day when my spirit can join yours...Mom
Thomas Loftus
April 5, 2018
I was sadden to hear that you passed. You were a generous person and always tried to be positive. Plus you lied to watch movies and that was fun. Youll be missed.
Sandra-Dee Fleming
December 29, 2017
JB, I learned of your passing today as I rode with two friends from our EMBA Class. Our last interaction was on Facebook, and even then you were funny and gracious.
Thank you and RIP. Yours was a kind soul.
Regards;
SDF
Jeff Newton
September 12, 2017
I met Blair in the summer of 1988 at orientation at the University of North Texas. We were room mates during that time and he and I quickly became friends. We remained close our entire freshman year. After that, he changed schools and we lost touch. After 28 years, he just happened to cross my mind so I did a search for him. Needless to say, I was devastated to see/hear this news. He was one of the most genuine, honest, and friendly people I have ever met. I wish all of his family and friends the very best and I know he is incredibly missed. Rest in peace, my friend.
Sonjia Pedroza
April 6, 2017
Since the day we met, I knew you were the one .. your smile, your intelligence , your spiritual being drew me and many others to you. I will forever miss you and not a day goes by that I don't think of you. I love you JB! May you Rest In Peace and I'll see you one day, love you... Sonjia
September 28, 2016
I just learned about JB's passing and I am greatly saddened. I just cannot believe this. JB had such great ideas and looked for the positive in everything. It was an honor to have known him. He was blessed to have such a wonderful aunt who loved and supported him dearly (Concie). My love to Cynthia, Constance and loved ones.
Angela Marie Gonzales
Jeff Lunt
September 26, 2016
I just happened to think about a student of mine from many years ago...I didn't think I had the correct person as I didn't realize I taught Blair so long ago. It seemed like maybe 10 years ago. He was one of the nicest and most fun kids I ever taught. Great sense of humor. I was his first drum teacher, I believe...though not sure. He later studied with Andy Poling before heading to North Texas. While looking him up I saw this picture and thought it might be the Blair I knew...but was surprised to see his name on the obits page. I wish I'd known he was in town and wish I hadn't waited so long to look him up. I remember an all around great guy and good human being. Peace to my brother in music.
Jeff Lunt
Helen Jackson
July 21, 2016
Rest in Peace JB I always enjoyed working with you and hearing all of your great ideas, suggestions and marketing tips. Such a positive and energetic person. You are missed!
Anita Baca
July 21, 2016
Rest in Peace JB. God Bless you. RIP. You will be missed.
July 20, 2016
JB and I had been business associates for many years and I was shocked to hear that he has passed. He had great plans. You will be missed my friend. God Bless your family. You will be missed. Etta Love
Cindy Chave
July 20, 2016
You are missed.. Rest in peace my friend.
July 10, 2016
Miss you and would have given anything to have said goodbye. You were the BEST in your industry.
Thank you for being such a positive part of our lives.
James Loftus
June 27, 2016
It was always a blast to work with you or when you just came by to visit. We always had a good laugh. I missed you after you moved and now I will miss you even more bro.
Bruce Thompson
June 27, 2016
It's been thirty two years since we played music together, and I still have very fond memories of playing Rush covers, at full volume, in the upstairs room at Blair's house. I have never played with a more talented drummer, and I have never seen anyone so deeply focused on perfecting his skill and talent. Blair also used to make me laugh like crazy. Those are very sweet memories for me. For Blair's family, I wish you gentle mourning, and I hope your treasured memories of him never fade.
Kim Farmer Washburn
June 26, 2016
This is the face I will always rememberall light and kindness. So generous with his smile, he was an unfailing source of laughter, the only good thing about chemistry class, my great date at Senorita Ball. Not long ago I reminded him of singular jokes he told me 30 years earlier because they still made me laugh. Now it's all sweet memories and stunned tears.
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