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Barbara Collett DeZonia
November 25, 2018
9-21-18 I only just heard of Bob's passing. I grew up with Bob and his family in Kansas City and continued a friendship with him over the years, in California and Alaska, that was filled with the jokes and appreciation one has only when you have seen each other grow up over a long period of time. I am genuinely deeply saddened. I want to send my thoughts and memories to his brother, Tom and Star, his wife, and of course, to Bob's own family, children and wife. I feel a light has gone out. Barbara (Collett) DeZonia/ Oakland, California
Stephen Crosby
March 5, 2018
I met Bob in the Fall of 1969, when he was a cast member/actor in the AMU (later Ak. Pac. University) production of THE NIGHT THOREAU SPENT IN JAIL. I fondly remember our connection and interactions, on and off stage. I have thought of him often and was so saddened to hear of his leaving us, all those whose lives he touched and made better. RIP, Bob, you will be missed. Steve Crosby (Thoreau)
Philip Wyckoff
December 20, 2017
Sorry to hear of Bobs passing. I knew him at Dartmouth and Sigma Nu. An acerbic wit and a quirky off kilter playfulness. At times one did not know when he was joking, so seriously could he play with peoples sense of decorum. The last I heard he was trying to legalize marijuana in Alaska. I hope he succeeded.
December 20, 2017
Cynthia, Gene and I only found out today from George at Side Street that Robert had taken ill and died this past October.
We are so saddened to hear this. Both of you have been in our thoughts often. Know you are held in our thoughts now whils we also give thanks for the life Robert lived, the many people he helped in pro bono legal work, ours included.
In a court case that shaped our lives yet eventually led us to leave Alaska, Robert was there for us when no one else would represent us before the court. Without him, we faced an untried 'justice denied'. With Robert as counsel, we won a trial case that did its small bit to propel the movement that has become same-sex marriage round the world. It's a result that has changed lives in so many ways, so positively, so deeply.
For an ally, we can think of no greater trbiute than to thank him for standing with us in our time of need back in the early 90s.
You made a good choice in partner and Robert in you (and happy to see you did marry, after all). Please write us. We would love to see you again, at any time.
With all our love, joining you in this small way in your loss,
your friends, Jay and Gene, London
Kim Rich
December 19, 2017
I was lucky to meet Bob when I was just 16. Orphaned less than a year earlier with the death of my father (and my mother had died two years before) - a wise state social worker knew Bob was just the lawyer I needed.
As an only child, with no immediate family, the State of Alaska took custody of me. My social worker figured I needed a lawyer to sift through what, if any, assets my father had.
Bob made a big impression on me. He had long hair he wore in a ponytail and worked out of an older house near downtown.
Soon, Bob accompanied me to Family Court as my pro bono lawyer. But because I was under 18, the judge wouldn't allow Bob to represent me. At the time - minors were not allowed counsel in such legal matters. Bob then took my case and another and eventually appealed the judge's order to the Alaska Supreme Court. He won.
I am the K.R.' In the ground-breaking case that established minor children the right to legal counsel.
What I remember best about Bob then and forever after- is he remained an important mentor and friend who made sure I always knew he was there if I ever needed him.
He followed my career as a journalist with the Anchorage Daily News. I'll always remember the kind letter he wrote applauding a story about my impromptu tour of a Soviet fishing vessel.
It was in the mid-1980's, and the work ship was in port for emergency repairs. I was at the port working on another story when I and a few others were offered a tour of the Russian vessel.
It meant a lot to me then and always to hear from Bob.
I will miss seeing him - hearing about his life and telling him about my own.
Even as he became well known - he always gave me the sense that he was looking out for me. That always meant a great deal to me and always will.
Stephen Macht
December 15, 2017
Bob and I were Sigma Nu Fraternity Brothers from 1960 to 1963 at Dartmouth College. His twinkly, zany, compassionate sense of humor and skeptical, understated satire for hypocrites, yet his warm, understated appreciation for all who suffer will always be a blessing in my memory.
JP Godfrey
November 20, 2017
Bob was like a brother to me for many years in Alaska. We flew and fished everywhere in western Alaska for thousands of hours, sharing humor and stories we would tell no one else. He was one of the brightest and most challenging friends in my life. No one will ever replace him in my memories.
November 17, 2017
I will always remember bob. Gentleman, friend,neighbor,so many years ago. Rest well in peace.
Margo Waring
November 15, 2017
Bob and I both moved to Anchorage in 1969. Shortly after I arrived, we met when I became an ACLU board member. His passion for civil rights, his dedication to clients and his spot on advice to the board were brilliant. But most of all, I appreciated how much fun Bob had doing this work. I was lucky to reconnect briefly with him a couple of years ago when he came to Anchorage when both my husband and Bob received ACLU awards. He will be missed.
Bill Tollett
November 15, 2017
I knew Bob and Cynthia during their time here in Oxford, England. We met through aviation and became good friends. Bob was a man of many achievements but for me the most stunning was his work on civil rights applied to today's problems. The University of Oxford awarded Bob the degree of Doctor of Philosophy on the basis of his research and analysis on the subject: a remarkable achievement.
Bob would want me to note the huge support he received from Cynthia in all parts of his life and particularly in his academic work.
Rest in peace, Bob Wagstaff. The world is better for you having graced it.
Mary Ann Eininger
November 14, 2017
Bob was a hero to me and to many other young Alaskans in the 70's. I was President of the Alaska ACLU Board for a short time while Bob was our general counsel. His brilliance, his humor, his passion and his skills were beyond compare. He made Alaske an even greater place to be.
Helen Aderman
November 13, 2017
Condolences to the Robert H. Wagstaff, Esquire family. I used to babysit Bob's son's part of the time in Anchorage when Robert was at airshows. May God comfort his sons during this time of sorrow. Helen and Andy Aderman
November 12, 2017
It was my privilege to be in the same law office with Bob from 1976 to 1992. He was a towering presence on many levels. As a trial and appellate lawyer his credo was never concede a point, never quit. As an outdoorsman, he introduced me to southwest Alaska, for which I will always be grateful. As a motor enthusiast, I loved riding with him in his Maserati and his Hudson Hornet. My condolences to Cynthia and Bob's family. Farewell, sweet prince, you will be sorely missed.
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November 11, 2017
My sincere condolences. Bob was a great employer, teacher, mentor and a friend. I have such fond memories of working for him as a legal secretary /paralegal in the late 70s early 80s. His generosity and kindness will never be forgotten. I have always been proud to say that I worked for Wagstaff & Middleton. I wish there were more Bob Wagstaffs in the world. I feel very fortunate that my life was graced with his presence and knowledge. I remember the boys when they were very little before they moved to Hawaii, and I've always thought of them and would ask Bob about them when our paths crossed. My prayers are with you Cynthia, all the kids and grandkids, and everyone who cherished Robert Hall Wagstaff, Esq. #gonebutneverforgotten
Bob Glorioso
November 11, 2017
It was an honor to have known such a powerful yet really gentle sole as Robert.I pray for Cynthia and the whole Wagstaff Family to feel Gods presence and comfort at this time.May Robert be with us in sprit forever.Thank you for wonderful friendship .RIP
Sharon Hall
November 11, 2017
We are so sorry for your loss. You have our most heart-felt sympathy. Sharon and Michael Hall
November 11, 2017
I am very sorry for your loss. May you find strength and reassurance from the loving promise found in John 6:40. Knowing we will see our loved ones again can be so comforting. Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Joette Storm
November 10, 2017
Bob was a true Renaissance man. Our condolences to the family.
Leroy Barker
November 10, 2017
Cynthia,
I was saddened to learn of Bob's passing. I litigated several cases with Bob. He was an excellent attorney and a true gentleman. His passing is a great loss to the Alaska Bar Association. My condolences to you and his family.
Leroy Barker
November 8, 2017
Please accept our condolences on the loss of your loved one. May you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. Psalms 94:18-19*
Jacques Smith
November 8, 2017
As an enthusiast, historian, and collector of classic motorcars my friend Bob was without peer in his breadth of knowledge and experience. I would ramble endlessly hoping to illicit an anecdote or story from his many first hand experiences with Fangio, Moss, and others. The heroes of motor sports I had only read of and occasionally met at Pebble Beach or Laguna Seca had real connections to Mr. Wagstaff. My friend quickly became much more. A hero, a mentor and a man who when he spoke, I hung on every word. He was a corporate lawyer for my mother, and a personal lawyer for my father and many other old Alaskan characters and legends who he helped without charging at times. I knew him as a child, and again as a man. My children have met many interesting people, but none have impressed as much as Sir Robert and Miss Cynthia. He not only knew more of automotive and racing history than all who profess to, he was also a stud behind the wheel of any machine. His notes, anecdotes and comments to me on cars belong in print for all to see. The cars I have owned as classics he purchased and enjoyed when new. The stories and legends I knew of, he knew the real story. A man of impeccable taste with an eye for beauty in form and function. I have lost three of the most interesting and intriguing people I knew this year. All quite famous and accomplished, all loved and revered by me as well as many others. The world is not the same with them. I am proud to say that of the many cars we both owned, I learned that we had the same favorite. I took it as a huge compliment that we did. As an enthusiast and student, my knowledge pales. I am proud to have walked under the same sun as this great man. To Ian, who I knew only when he was quite small, while he was staying with my parents who adored him, and to Miss Cynthia who my children adore, especially my daughter Olivia, I wish you and your family condolonces.
From Jacques Smith on behalf of the William V. and H. Sally Smith family of Dillingham
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