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Ruby B. Murphy, 86, died Sept. 17, 2010 at her home in Willow.

A memorial service to celebrate her life will be at 2 p.m. Saturday at the First Baptist Church in Willow. A service in Texas is planned at the Chinquapin Missionary Baptist Church in San Augustine at a later date. Her cremated remains will be inurned beside those of her husband at the Transport Cemetery in Dodson, La.

Ruby Blanche Birdwell was born Oct. 23, 1923 in San Augustine, Texas, the daughter of Enlow and Florence (Hardy) Birdwell. She received her education in San Augustine and began living in Skagway in 1952. In 1964, she and her husband, Bill, began living in Alaska on a full-time basis.

The family lovingly wrote: "Ruby, Mamma, Mema, Habba, Miss Ruby or Mrs. Murphy: no matter what name people had for her, anyone who ever met Ruby Murphy never forgot her."

Her adventurous, industrious character was evident in her experience homesteading on the Kashwitna River in the mid to late 1960s. While her husband, Bill, worked in Anchorage during the week, Ruby lived on the homestead, shooing away the moose from her garden and chasing away the bears from her fish. After moving into their larger log home in 1973, Ruby and Bill welcomed literally hundreds of visitors; from family and friends to fellow Al-Can Highway travelers they met during their many trips "Outside", to scores of church missionaries working on church building projects in Alaska.

Ruby never forgot her life tussling with her eight brothers and sisters on the farm in San Augustine, Texas, during the Great Depression and although she was homesteading on a wild river in Alaska, she always referred to San Augustine as "down home".

A pioneering fixture in the Willow community during her 46 years in the area, her engaging personality, love for people and incredible energy endured to the very end. Ruby always showed determination and an independent spirit. The feisty redhead went to be with the Lord on Friday, Sept. 17, 2010.

Survivors include her son, Dan Murphy of Willow; daughter, Cathy McBride of Bronson, Texas; grandsons, Jerry McBride of Tampa, Fla., Todd McBride of Niceville, Fla., Sean Murphy of Wasilla, Stephen McBride of Colmesneil, Texas, and Tad Murphy of Arlington, Texas; great-grandchildren, Derek McBride, Trevor McBride, Catherine McBride, Courtney McBride, Gregory McBride, Peyton Murphy and Nolan Murphy. She is also survived by two great-great-grandchildren, Cason McBride and Cutter McBride; two brothers, Winfred Birdwell and Carlo Birdwell, both of San Augustine; and two sisters, Bertha Mae McMurray of San Augustine and MargeNell Hilderbrandt of Orange, Texas.

Her husband, William L. Murphy; her parents; sisters, Audrey Drawhorn, MattLou Breaux; and brothers, Norman and Kennon Birdwell have preceded her in death.

Friends may make memorial contributions to the First Baptist Church of Willow Building Fund, P.O. Box 148, Willow, AK 99688.

Arrangements were with Valley Funeral Home and Crematory in Wasilla.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Anchorage Daily News from Sep. 22 to Sep. 23, 2010.

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Brenda Comeaux

October 15, 2010

As daddy would say "Ruby Red", he loved Ruby. She came to see mother this summer. Being raised in East Texas was hard for the one that lived there. When she came home, San Augustine was always home. She would can peas to take back to Alaska. Worked in the garden just like daddy. She was one for the books. A true Pistol! I can hear her saying to daddy,
Jessie, what is going on up here now!
Love to all and the family and may God be with all of you.

Marcell Kornegay

September 25, 2010

Having known the Birdwell family all my life, my heart is heavy for their loss. I know God wil comfort them all, but I would just like to say God Bless and Keep strong for each other. Marcell Doyen Kornegay

Pat & Eugene Freeman

September 24, 2010

Aunt Ruby, we will miss you. You were so much fun and all us kids loved it when we got together. Danny, I know you will all miss her and that the last year has been hard on you all. She is with her Lord now and Uncle Louis, She probably went running around with him hunting Lillian. They are all together now with Daddy and all the rest of the family. Be strong and we love you. See you at Dodson.

September 23, 2010

habba was my mothers best friend she was one of the happyist people i have ever meet...i'll never forget the stories of my mother and her they laughed everytime they got around each other...and now there together in heaven she will be truly missed~geri sebwenna wasilla alaska

Judi Hammonds

September 23, 2010

My family and I were blessed to know Ruby and her husband Bill, affectingly known to us as Murphy, I came to know Ruby when my husband went to work in Willow under Murphy. We spent a lot of time with her and her husband, and my boys loved them as family. Many wonderful memories are with us now and forever.

September 22, 2010

She was a special friend, and I spent many hours in her company, along with Murphy and Danny, while I lived in Anchorage - listening to her stories about her friends, her cherished family and sage advice.

Margie Snow (California)

September 22, 2010

I met Ruby when I lived in Anchorage and spent many hours listening to her wonderful stories about her life and her cherished family. She was always there when you needed a friend or a solution to a problem with her wise advice.

Chuck Willis

September 22, 2010

My wife and I met Bill and Ruby when I pastored a church in Anchorage. She knew me and my family as we were from Silsbee Texas . We stayed with them many times and often preached in their church at Willow. She was a wonderful person that leaves many good memories. Chuck & Coleta Willis

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