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Don Irving Porter, 85
Don Irving Porter, 85, passed from this life on Saturday, Sept. 18, 2010, at his home in Piñon. Mr. Porter was born Feb. 7, 1925, to Dan H. and Pearl Porter in Central, now known as Santa Clara. He was preceded in death by his parents; a brother, Earl Porter, of Arizona; and two sisters, Evelyn Hardison and Ethel Case, of Oklahoma.
After the death of his father in 1934, Irving came to Otero County just south of Piñon and made his home with and was raised by his aunt and uncle Martha and Owen Prather. From that time he was a sheep rancher until his poor health and predators forced him out of the sheep business. He continued to run cattle at his ranch with the help of good neighbors until the time of his passing.
Upon graduation from Weed High School, Irving joined the Army, where he served in Germany during and after World War II. Being a veteran of World War II afforded him a lifetime of memories and stories.
Mr. Porter was lovingly known as "Irv" to his surviving family, including his wife of 62 years, Lessie Porter, of the family home; and two daughters, Cindy Goslin and her husband, Drew, of Piñon, and Toni and her husband, Carroll Vann, of High Rolls. He is also survived by three grandchildren, Tara Skinner and her husband, Cody, of Artesia; Cody Goslin, of Granbury, Texas; and Jeremy Rowe, of Los Angeles, along with the lights of his life, his great-grandchildren Presley and Zane Skinner, of Artesia. Survivors also include a brother, Edwin, and his wife, Mary, of Mangum, Okla.; and sisters Eleanor and her husband, Carol, of Sentinel, Okla., and Edith Avery, of Sebastopol, Calif., as well as numerous nieces, nephews and cousins.
A graveside service will be conducted at 11 a.m. Wednesday, Sept. 22, 2010, at Piñon Cemetery with Eddy Coleman officiating. A reception will follow at the Piñon Community Building.
Pallbearers include Jake Van Winkle, Alton Munson, Arden Lewis, Alvie Smith, Odie Prather, Victor Gaba and Mike Gaba. Honorary pallbearers will be all of Irv's caring friends and neighbors.
The family would like to extend their appreciation to Alamogordo Home Care Hospice.
Funeral arrangements have been entrusted to Hamilton-O'Dell Funeral Home. To sign the online register book, please visit www.hamiltonodell.com.

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Published by Alamogordo Daily News from Sep. 21 to Oct. 21, 2010.

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Arleen/Mike/Victor Gaba

September 15, 2020

We will miss Irving everyday until we meet him again. Our hearts still ache to hear his stories and just feel safe knowing he was near by. This man was absolutely the salt of the earth.
We love you dear friend.

Donna Crotteau Brandl

October 1, 2010

Dear Lessie and family,

I am so sorry for your loss. I know my father is saddened by the loss of a very dear and old friend. I remember well a picnic at White Sands with the Bailey's and how amazed I was when Irving cleaned his cowboy hat with the gypsum sand. I last saw Irving at my mother's Memorial service and was very grateful for his presence.

Bill and I offer our sincere condolences,

Charlotte Zimmerman

September 30, 2010

I was in the presence of a true gentleman cowboy when I visited with Mr. Porter. My heart is with you, Mrs. Porter and your daughters, and my prayers with Mr. Porter. May he rest in peace...

Arleen (Gaba) Cartoscelli

September 28, 2010

Dearest Lessie, Toni, Cindy and family...on this 28th day of September 2010, my heart still feels the loss of my "Hawaiian" dancing partner, Irv. My sons, Mike and Victor and I will never fill the void left in our hearts with Irving gone. I admire the strength and courage that you all had during Irving's illness and especially upon his death. Even then, you were there for us as you have always been. Irv was special in every way to me and my family and just knowing you all were there, gave me the strength to carry on in many situations over the years. I remember the goods times we all had, far too many to mention here, and it brings me some comfort. I will miss him forever. God Bless you all.

Marion Cauhape

September 26, 2010

I was saddened to read about Irving`s passing. I looked forward to his annual buck buying trip when he would, tell how he and my Uncle Hugh Kincaid "whipped the Germans in WW2", brag on our bucks, and fill us in on the latest Pinon news. He was a special character and his was a special generation. We are all diminished with his passing.

September 24, 2010

Dear Lessie.Toni and my old friend Cindy:

I must tell you all what a privilege it was to be with you all up in Pinon. The gentle rain that came down . Irv would have loved it. The cattle we could see grazing from the cemetary. The wonderful beautiful music that brought tears to my eyes.
The memories I had as a child that came flooding back to me. The absolute freedom I felt up in those mountains when I was child. Cindy and I driving all over the mesa in the jeep at 8 years of age. Drinking from Dagger tank just like Irv did. Swimming in one of the water tanks and feeling the moss on our feet. Brushing our teeth outside on the porch ,spiiting out the water as we watched the Dominecker chickens roam. You all and Irv meant the utimate freedom for me. The true West. I am proud to know you all and I love you all. I will miss the vivid stories ,the wit of Irv.
Iam proud to say I knew this one of a kind New Mexican. A real cowboy ,an American icon. The likes we will never see again.
My father has much sorrow over the loss of his good friend.
I thank you all from the bottom of my heart.
With Love,
Nancy Crotteau

Ian Lowery

September 23, 2010

The World has lost another great man, they simply don't make 'em like Irv anymore. He was tough as nails and as genuine as a handshake. His impact on his family, friends, and southern New Mexico culture will be greatly missed. My family and I wish Big Mom and family our best.

Sheri Wimsatt

September 23, 2010

Cindy and Family- I am sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Mike Casey

September 23, 2010

Mr. Porter,
Sir, I would just like to say thank you for your service and sacrifice for our Country when you served with the U.S. Army in Europe fighting the Germans during WW II and for being a member of the Greatest Generation. And to your family and loved ones, I wish to extend my deepest sympathy.

Beth Mahill

September 22, 2010

Irving will be missed by "old timers" of the Sacramento Mountians. His family are great people. My prayers are for each of you.

Leatrice Geckler

September 22, 2010

Lessie and Family,

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Marvin & Joyce Powell

September 22, 2010

Porter Family,
We are terribly sorry for your loss. Irving was a great man. You all are in our thoughts and prayers.

Ginger Esparza

September 22, 2010

Toni, We are very sorry to hear about the loss of your father. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers at this sad and difficult time and hope that memories of your father will give you peace and comfort.

God bless you all from your friends at Lockheed Martin. Jerry, Bob, Bonnie, Gloria, Ginger

September 21, 2010

To the Porter Family,
We are so sorry to hear about your loss. You all are in our thoughts and prayers.

Love,
Nina Bryant
Ernie & Connie Richardson

Johnny & Elaine Watson

September 21, 2010

So sorry to hear about you loss. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
Love you guys
Johnny and Elaine

Shane Bell

September 21, 2010

I am sorry to hear about Irving. He was a great man. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

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