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Patrick Bertoldo Obituary

Patrick Paul Bertoldo

AGE: 62 • Old Bridge

Patrick Paul Bertoldo, 62, of Old Bridge, formerly of Colts Neck, passed away on Wednesday, April 25, 2012. Born in Staten Island, he lived in Matawan, and then lived in Colts Neck for 30 years prior to moving to Old Bridge just a few years ago. He was a veteran of the U.S. Navy serving during the Vietnam War. He was a member of many organizations, including the Fathers Club at Christian Brothers Academy, the New York Athletic Club, the Colts Neck Golf Club, and was a Board member of Colliers Family and Childrens Services.

He and his loving wife of 40 years, Lillian (nee DiGiovanni) loved Hawaii, and travelled there every year. Patrick was a loving and devoted husband, father, and grandfather, and he truly loved his family and the time he spent with them.

He is survived by his wife, Lillian; his sons, Anthony and his wife Marisa, and Christopher and his wife Elizabeth; by his grandchildren, Jack, Katelyn, Charlie, Grace, and Ben; by a brother, Thomas Bertoldo; and by his sisters, Kathy Elisabay, and Dawn and Beth Bertoldo.

Visitation will be from 2 to 4 p.m. and 7 to 9 p.m. Friday, April 27 at the Holmdel Funeral Home, 26 South Holmdel Road, Holmdel. A Funeral Mass will be offered at 10 a.m. Saturday, April 28 at St. Gabriel R.C. Church, 100 North Main St. (Route 79), Marlboro, NJ 07746. Interment will be in St. Gabriel's Cemetery, Route 520, Marlboro. For directions or to send an online condolence to the family, please visit www.holmdelfuneralhome.com.

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Published by Asbury Park Press on Apr. 27, 2012.

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Bruce Levine

May 4, 2012

Dear Lillian , so sorry to hear about Pat. Sheri And I now live in florida and I got a call today may 4th. Our prayers are with you and your family.
Sincerely,
Bruce Levine

George W. Murphy, Jr.

April 30, 2012

Dear Chris, Betsey & Family,

I'm sorry we have not been in touch, lately but I wanted you to know that my prayers and deep concern are with you all during this difficult time. Also, had I learned of this before today, I would have attended the services for Mr. Bertoldo in your behalf.

Please let me know if I can ever help in any way.

Blessings,

Seashore Transportation ~

Sr. Debbie Drago

April 27, 2012

Dear Lillian,

I am so sad to hear about Pat's sudden death. Please know that you, Anthony Christopher, their wives and children are in my prayers and in the prayers of all of the Sisters of the Good Shepherd at Collier. Pat was a good friend, a generous supporter, and a wonderful person. I can see his big bright smile.
My deepest sympathy.
Sr. Debbie

Priscilla & George Hrabovsky

April 27, 2012

Dear Lillian,
We are so saddened to hear of you loss. We remember the many fun times our children had on Lake Wallenpaupack. Pat's passing reminds me of how short life is, and the wonderful job you and Pat did raising your sons Tony and Chris. Our heart goes out to you and your family.
With love and prayers,

April 27, 2012

Dear Mrs. Bertoldo, Tony and Chris,
I am so sorry for your loss. Mr. Bertoldo was a great guy and will be missed terribly. I'll always remember him as the life of the party. God bless you all.
Love,
Leanne (Dahm) Schmidt

sandra livelli-jacangelo

April 27, 2012

Lillian,
Remembering fun times at Greenbriar in Waretown and lazy beach days in spring lake

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