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Betty Mandery Obituary

Betty Lou Mandery
Betty Lou Mandery age 83 passed away at her home in East Marysville on April 22nd, 2015. Born April 20th 1932, she was preceded in death by her father Leon C. Saylors, mother Grace Saylors, her sister Virginia Lauff and her late husband Gavin Mandery. She is survived by her daughter Debbe Darrough-Nelson from Rio Oso, son David W. Darrough from San Jose, grandchildren Eelan Colten Nelson, Taylore Nicole Darrough, Brooke Lee Darrough and her faithful companion a Shih-Tzu dog named Mikki.

She has been member of the United Methodist Church in Marysville where she was married to Jim Darrough in 1952. Betty also belonged to the Yuba City Racquet club, Yuba Historical Society, Mary Aaron Museum and Pink Ladies of Rideout Hospital.

Betty lived her entire life in the Yuba City / Marysville area and attended Marysville High School and Yuba College.

She learned to ride horses at the age of 3. At 12 years old she started performing as a professional trick rider in county fairs and rodeos. Betty taught herself how to trick ride with help from her father Leon Saylors who was a professional calf roper. Father and daughter as a team would travel throughout the western and mid-western states performing with stars and future movie stars such as Slim Pickens, Ben Johnson, Casey Tibbs, Roy Rogers, Buff Brady and Gene Autry. Betty had two horses "Dilly" and her back up horse she bought from Gene Autry called "Micky". Betty continued to professionally trick ride until she was 4 months pregnant at the age of 22.

Later in life Betty was married to Gavin Mandery who died in 1984. Betty and Gavin enjoyed a great life in Marysville. Gavin was co-owner of Daoust Chevrolet. Gavin was a well-known pubic figure and Mayor of Marysville. Betty and Gavin were very active at Beale Air Force Base with various community activities which supported stationed Air Force members and their families resulting in many relationships lasting many years. Together they hosted annual cocktail parties for the Chinese community festival "Bok Kai" welcoming in the new Hostess and Grand Marshal. During the peak of Marysville's prosperity period, Betty was one of the leading ladies. She was an ambassador that promoted Yuba Counties' qualities and influenced many business operators. When she decided to help someone, she did with her whole heart. Betty was straight forward, self-reliant woman that had a service heart. She was a woman without boundaries, a true inspiration. When Marysville residents look back fondly on the great days, Betty was part of that genesis. Not since that time has someone had an impact on this community like she did.

Betty and her family enjoyed house boating and water skiing at Englebright Dam (The Narrows), Bullard's Bar, Oroville Lake, and her favorite, Lake Tahoe. Betty was well known for teaching many family members and friends how to water ski. At age 40 she and Gavin (then 53) decided to learn together how to play tennis. Betty became avid and accomplished tennis player and enjoyed participating in tennis matches at the Yuba City Racket Club. She belonged to a group of wonderful women tennis players young and old attending tennis matches and monthly luncheons. Then at the age of 52 she took up snow skiing in the Lake Tahoe area.

Betty was a Beautiful woman, a loving and giving wife, Mother, and Grandmother. She was a good friend to many and everything she did, she did in moderation.

In the giving style with which she lived her life, she always wanted to help someone. Her desire was to have her remains sent to SCIENCE CARE a whole body donor program for medical research and education at teaching universities in the USA.

The family would like to recognize with heart filled gratitude, Sandy Bremmer, who was Betty's main caregiver and very good friend. Sandy cared for Betty at her home, at assisted living and hospital visits.

Our family wishes to pass along sincere Thank you to Sharon Rosebrough and Bailey Gasaway for their kind and loving care they shared with Betty throughout her last month.

A grave side memorial service will be held at 10:00 AM, Saturday, June 20th, at Sierra View Cemetery Marysville California. Following the cemetery service, a "Celebration of Life" gathering will be held at Betty's East Marysville home for family members and friends.

In a lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to the charity of your choice or the 'Eason Cody Nelson Scholarship Fund' at 4615 Bear River Drive, Rio Oso, CA. 95674 (deceased grandson 2008)

She had a great ride, left her mark on many, she was a tuff and wonderful person, succeeded as a parent, brought joy to her children, grandchildren and many others. She was a loving and gracious lady.

As Betty would say….."Life Is Good"

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Published by Appeal Democrat from May 20 to Jun. 15, 2015.

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Debbe Darrough Nelson

May 14, 2025

Another year has come and gone
DOB 4/20/32-DOD 4/22/15

Debbe Darrough Nelson

May 14, 2024

You know I love you and miss you my mother!

Kathy Freeman

May 14, 2022

This brings back a flood of memories. I miss the good ol days. Betty, you are in a better place.

Debbe

May 14, 2022

Oh geezzz look what showed up today!
I hope your in a happy place with many family & friends. I know you are in a place where there is NO pain. That I am happy for you.
Just know I love you mother,
See you soon.....Debbe

Debbe Nelson

May 14, 2020

I brought you some of my Cala lilies on your birthday
I went to call David to tell him I was at the cemetery and my phone died .
Nothing was wrong with my phone it just died
So I know you saw me and heard me thats your sign
Love you very much
Im glad youre not here to see this coronavirus thats taking over our world you would be totally freaked out.
Watching us from above and keep us safe .
Love you❤ Debbe

Kris Addington

June 5, 2015

My deepest sympathy to you Debbie and David & your family's

June 5, 2015

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

June 1, 2015

My sincerest condolences to the family. May God grant you the strength to endure. Phi.4:13

May 31, 2015

Loosing a loved one in death is one of the hardest things anyone has to go through . I hope the words at 1 Corinthians 15:26 help you and your family during this difficult time.

Jeanne Anderson

May 28, 2015

Dear Betty,
You will always be so special in good times and trying times. You leave so many memories. Heaven must be a special place with you in it. Love and prayers to Debbe and David and families.
Love,
Jeanne Will Hageman Anderson
Class of 1950 MUHS

Michele Lim-Velez

May 26, 2015

My deepest sympathy and condolences to the Mandery Family, my grandparents John and Katie Lim were very good friends with Gavin and Betty Mandery who I remember them both to be dear friends and warm hearted people. May the lord give you strength during this time of loss. RIP Mr and Mrs Mandery~

May 24, 2015

But Betty, you can't leave yet. Who will plan our class reunions.See you later(providing a passel of my sins are forgiven). Love, Jim Covert

Eric Nelson

May 23, 2015

Betty
my favorite mother in law. Thanks for the love and support. You never meddled, rather you gave understanding. My admiration of you runs deep; your dinner parties, your water skiing lessons, your thoughtful gifts of advice, your giving of your time to those less fortunate, your concern for our local history and willingness to step up to the plate and make a difference, your tenacity on the tennis court, the shine in your beautiful eyes when you looked at your grandsons, your love for Gavin, but most of all your love and endless support for Debbe and David. Betty, your time here has left many much richer, happier and healthier. Well, I'm sure a few wished they had not challenged you on the tennis court, but even those who lost, learned to respect you. I saw your light fading and the reality of life set in. I hope you are sharing your time with Gavin and Cody too. In the event the chance arises, Thank Gavin for all he did here in Marysville and pass my endless love to my Cody Boy
Your favorite Son in law
Eric

May 21, 2015

Dear Debbi, your mom was an awesome next door neighbor and friend. I have happy memories of swimming, with my boys and yours, in her pool and her and my mom shooting the breeze in the yard. We also took Colton and my son Jordan to tennis lessons together. One time she showed me the pictures of when she was a trick rider and I was impressed at what an interesting life she had led. Did you know she put me in charge of her little dog Mandy so she could go on a little vacation but she came home early because of 9/11? I'm so sorry for your loss Debbi, you are a strong lady and I admire you. Very sincerely, Kathy

Carlos Sequera

May 20, 2015

Betty
You were in my life only 3 days, but you and your daughter Debbe loved me in a difficult time of my life to last me a lifetime. I am glad you are in Heaven caring for your Grandson. I love you and save me a dance.

Julee Starkey

May 20, 2015

Thinking of your mother makes me smile. I am remembering all the wonderful things she did for me after my mother, her girlhood friend, died. I am hoping that those two, Shirley Baller and Betty Lou Saylors Darrough Mandery, are back together somewhere. I have always admired and respected Betty as a beautiful, gracious, kind, and awesome woman. Sorry to see her go - but so grateful to have known her. Blessings and best wishes to her family and all who knew her and will be missing her now.

May 20, 2015

Dear Debbie and Family, Im so sorry to hear about your mother. You will always have the fond memories in your heart.My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Sincerly Karen Perry Bernatchez

Linda Rogers

May 20, 2015

Awe woman what can I say but I loved you and you will be missed specially our email God bless your soul

Jim DuClair

May 20, 2015

My condolences to the entire Family.

Debbe Nelson

May 20, 2015

I will miss you.
I will Love you.
Death leaves a heartache no one can heal...
Love leaves a memory no one can steal.
Mother's
are but only once in a person's life... The memories must last a life time.
I will miss you.
I will love you.
Your only Daugher.

John Nicoletti

May 20, 2015

We owe so much to Betty. When Marysville defined the standard of high quality, it was because of people like Betty. She was an active citizen with a heart of golden service. She was such a striking and good looking gale, and folks would just gawk at her beauty. She would use that gift of looks and confront the onlooker with a challenge to be a better person themselves. And people did!She was incredible every single day she was here. Our whole family loves you Betty and we are praying for the family's comfort.

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