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Ruby Ballard Rude

Ruby Rude Obituary

Ruby Ballard Rude Of Yuba City, passed away on December 6, 2010 at The Gardens in Yuba City. She was born in August, 1913 in Fayetteville, AR. Ruby was the fifth of eleven children born to Ina and John Ballard. After high school graduation, she attended beauty college in Ft. Smith, AR and opened a shop there. When she married Howard, they moved with his job many times in the next twenty years. Ruby was a resident of Sutter County for over fifty years. She retired from Sunsweet in 1973 and was an active member of the Church of Christ for her entire life. She is survived by two daughters, Jane Smith (Thom) and Janet Berry, two grandchildren, Joseph Berry (Beth) and Kristin Davis (Matt) as well as three great grandsons, Ragan, Sam, and Warren. Ruby was truly a great mother, grandmother and great grandmother. She is also survived by two sisters in Arkansas, Melba Rogers (Raymon) and Pauline Buchanan, plus many neices and nephews. Waiting for her in heaven is her husband Howard Rude and four brothers and four sisters, her mother and father as well as many other family members and friends. Her last years were spent at the Gardens, where she was patiently cared for and loved by the staff who became our extended family also. She had a love for life and people, she treasured her big family, and clung steadfast to her faith. A memory of her is sure to be accompanied by a smile. Services will be conducted Thursday, December 9, 2010 at 1:00 PM at Ullrey Memorial Chapel with Ron Downey of the Church of Christ officiating. Burial will follow at Sutter Cemetery. Arrangement Ullrey Memorial Chapel. Send Condolences to www.appealdemocrat.com

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Published by Appeal Democrat from Dec. 8 to Dec. 9, 2010.

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Linda Draper

January 14, 2011

I just learned recently that Ruby passed away. I was so sad to see her empty room at The Gardens when I visited my mother. I always loved to see her sweet face and her smile. She always asked me when Janet was coming...I always assured her that Janet would be there right after work. And she always was. I will miss seeing Ruby, but I am glad to know that she is home now.

Tracy Epperson-Young

December 29, 2010

Ruby was such a great lady. I am so sorry to hear that she has passed but glad to know she is at peace. I hadn't seen Ruby in 13 years since we lived next door to her. She loved my kids as we loved her. I was out at the cemetery visiting my mom and had seen that Ruby had recently passed because I had noticed the flowers. I will visit her every time I am out there and in town. My prayers go out to you Jan and the family. Not sure if you remember us but my daughter was Kourtnee the little red head.

December 8, 2010

Please accept our heartfelt sympathy for your recent loss.

~ The Appeal-Democrat Family

Carolyn Johnson

December 8, 2010

To Jan and Jane,

I will think of your mom often. I'll never forget her sitting down beside me..saying "I'm lost. Maybe I should call my house and see if I answer." She said it with a smile and little giggle. I also remember trying to engage her in a paper-cutting activity to occupy her as I had done many times, and her response was "No, I don't believe I'll do that today," and it was said with such finesse that I was taken aback - she really shut me down! Such a precious little lady. Although I know you will miss her, I'm happy that she is finally at rest as she was very tired for a long time.

Please accept my condolences.

Sincerely,

Carolyn Johnson
Former Admin. Secretary; The Gardens

Butch Comer

December 8, 2010

Jan,
So sorry to read this.Your Mom was a such a sweat lady.
Butch Comer

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