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1959
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2017
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for Bernard BESAL
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October 16, 2017
As some people journey through life, they leave footprints wherever they go -- footprints of kindness and love, courage and compassion, humor and inspiration, joy and faith. Even when they're gone, we can still look back and clearly see the trail they left behind -- a trail bright with hope that invites us to follow.
Katy Stafford
October 12, 2017
Kerry Penny told me of your passing, Barney. What a loss for our old PiHI community. I loved going to the Besal Bash and catching up with old friends. Your party crushed any "formal" reunion Pius ever had-attendance at those surely suffered due to the Bash. So glad to hear you got to Italy to ride those Ducatis my friend. Love to the Basal clan.
Terry and Thomas Turk
October 10, 2017
We were so very sorry to hear from Todd of Barney's passing after his fight with cancer. Barney was an amazing friend to Todd and it was a pleasure to share some visits with him and the family over the years. Y'all were always so welcoming and entertaining each time we were able to spend time with y'all. I loved knowing Todd had such a close friend to share his passion of motorcycles and riding with. We are sorry we were unable to attend his service, but we really enjoyed recently spending time with family and friends listening to all the wonderful stories and memories of just what a smart, hard working, loving, kind hearted, generous person Barney was throughout his life. Our thoughts and prayers go out to all who knew him; he was very much loved and cherished and will be greatly missed.
Bill Besal
October 4, 2017
Barney... My "Big Brother" and my best friend... Thank you for all of your wisdom and guidance. Your work here is done and what an exceptional job you have done. You are loved and will be missed by many. You rest easy my Brother... You rest easy my friend.
Always in my heart,
Brother Bill
Dennis Poulin
September 29, 2017
One of Barney's IKECA presentations was on writing kitchen exhaust system descriptions which have incorporated into my RFP bids and have been told by recipients that it tipped the scales in our direction as demonstration of our knowledge and professionalism. I will always be grateful for the positive influence Barney's had on my business and professional development.
Lloyd Horton
September 28, 2017
Dee,
Thanks for those kind words. The Besal family is truly a remarkable group of people. I can only hope my clan will handle my departure with the style and grace you fine people exhibited during Barney's send off.
Peace to you and all of your lovely family.
September 25, 2017
Heartfelt thanks from the Besal family to every one of you for enriching our brother's life. He was proud to call each of you his friend. As much as he meant to you so did you matter in his life.
True legends rarely come along and how lucky all of us were to know a real one. He is a true example of a life will lived.
Carry on his legacy by caring for others, inspiring those you meet and bestowing kindness on all.
XOXO Dee Besal ( aka nurse Ratchett)
PS. I really wasn't mean... He just got a bit cranky at times.....Peace
Grant Mogford
September 22, 2017
Barney your short number of years is surpassed by the kindness and generosity that you showed to all that knew you. Your everlasting devotion to the industry that you loved has created better lives for all of us that still practice what you have taught us. Godspeed to you, and may Nancy and your family have some solace in knowing that you will be forever missed by so many that will always share their grief.
Skip Lewis
September 22, 2017
I knew Barney only from the IKECA meetings I attended, but those few contacts were enough to convince me that he was a great man who cared a great deal about his chosen industry, about implementing ideas that saved lives and property and about helping others in the business to do the same. He was knowledgeable and passionate about it. And when the daytime business at the IKECA shows turned into evening socializing, Barney could tell a story or a joke with the best. You will surely be missed friend.
Lee Ann Armistead LaPlante
September 22, 2017
We will miss you, Barney, thank you for being a most gracious friend to so many of us through the years. Hosting the Barney Bash and welcoming so many into yours and Nancy's home, has given us a memory to hold of your giving heart...especially old OLA classmates.
Nancy, (and all the family) during this most difficult time, we will pray that Jesus and our Mother Mary give much comfort and strength to each of you.
Terri Tackett
September 21, 2017
To the entire Besal Clan: Although I did not have the honor of meeting Barney, I feel I knew him in a way--all of you for that matter--based upon the many stories Richard shared. I heard that Barney was a great man, loved by all. I am sure Barney's passing is a huge loss for your wonderful family, and I can barely imagine the depth of your grief. Please accept my deepest condolences for the loss of your dear brother, Barney. Sending prayers skyward for Barney, and for you all. Terri, Henderson, NV
Barney Besal and Henry Gibbons at his Besal Bash 2015. Barney always made me feel so welcome. Ty, Barney and the Besal family.
Henry Gibbons
September 21, 2017
Kevin Pearson
September 20, 2017
Barney, while words fail so many of us, I'm confident that you and your family know that you were loved by an uncountable number of friends and peers. You set an example that we should strive to meet. I came to love you as I would an older brother who took me under his wing and showed me and my family warmth and great kindness.
Your friends Kevin and Penney Pearson, Black Eagle, MT
Robert Doug Schuler
September 20, 2017
Barney you were Ikeca. You will have to find a replacement for JIM to carry on the Barney and Jim show in heaven. God bless and thank you for all have done for me and the association.
Rusty Gager
September 20, 2017
Barney you have been a great friend and person to be around at hunting club. My boys and I will always remember the good times at hunting club.
Rusty, Remington and Logan.
September 20, 2017
I met Barney 11 years ago during my first IKECA meeting and since then I have enjoyed his jokes, laughter and friendship, all of which will be greatly missed.
There will never be another industry leader like Barney, his wisdom, passion, guidance and vision were a force to be reckoned with.
Many prayers and hugs to Nancy and the entire family. Love Kathy & Tom Slomer
September 20, 2017
Goodbye Barney. Your brother Richard
September 20, 2017
Reckon Goodbye Bernard Paul. Richard Besal
September 20, 2017
Be there in Spirit. Richard Besal. That's True.
Richard Besal
September 20, 2017
Be there in Spirit. Richard. That's True.
September 19, 2017
Dear Nancy
Therese and I were heartbroken when we heard of Barn's condition. We remember the two of you with great fondness. I will always credit his encouragement and cooperation, above others, with the creation of IKECA. It wouldn't have happened without him. Beyond that, our partnership with Flame Gard was a great time. Collaborating with his insight and attention to detail is a memory I'll always treasure. Our love goes out to you and Tiff. Phil and Therese Ackland
Andy & Bob Jacobs
September 19, 2017
To one of the best joke-tellers I have ever known, Barney you will be dearly missed! Thank you for the years of Laughter.
September 19, 2017
Thinking of all of you. Losing your parents is tough, but a sibling is tougher. Sending thoughts and prayers to all.
Mugsie Moorman Hackett
September 19, 2017
I want to wish his parents and wife great comfort and peace that only comes from god. Psalms 9:9
Jerry Craig
September 19, 2017
Barney will be missed dearly at the hunting club. He gave so much and expected so little.
Parks Kennerly
September 19, 2017
"The Bernard Besal", a true renaissance man, humble in his brilliance. The consummate host. I will miss his biscuits in the morning before the hunt, his Bloody Marys in the afternoon, and our Bourbon samplings by the boiler on those cold nights. Work days at the club will never be the same without Barney, his tractor, and some "cool and refreshing" Gin and Tonics afterward. We shot at alot of deer over the years, and actually hit a few!
His love, friendship, and guidance have been priceless to me over the years. He treated me like a brother and my kids as his own, I couldn't even get the truck unloaded before they were running down to Barney's camper for the joke of the week every Friday. He would make "special" biscuits for my girls, with no cheese, wrap them up, and write their names on them so no one else would eat them.
My family and I mourn his passing, but are so thankful for the time we were able to spend in the presence of this great man. Knowing Barney has made me a better person.
My sincerest condolences to Nancy and the rest of the Besal family. You all have given my family such a wonderful gift by allowing us to spend so much time with Barney over the last 7 months.
Hans & Tonya Hardgrove
September 19, 2017
My husband and I met Barney through our trade organization, IKECA. Barney was quick to befriend us and was a mentor. His passion and love for our Industry was evident in his many teachings. He will be missed by many as he gave so much of himself to others. Heaven is gaining a beautiful soul! We love you, Barney!
Dan Lynn
September 19, 2017
Thank you for all that you did over the years with the Besal Bash. I saw people I had not seen for years because of you. Godspeed. You are missed by so many.
September 19, 2017
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Barney and Nancy
September 19, 2017
Don & Kate Jones
September 19, 2017
Our thoughts and prayers are with the family. So sorry for this loss. Gone too soon.
Bob Kern
September 19, 2017
My thoughts and prayers are with the Besal family! Though I have not seen Barney very much in the past 40 years I remember him as a friend in grade school and high school that I looked up to and respected! I remember the good times we had at Our Lady of the Assumption football! We had many good laughs and good times when we were kids and teenagers and I will always remember this great man! I am still in shock but I am sure he is in Haven with God and I look forward to the day when I see him again! Take care my friend!
September 19, 2017
My deepest sympathy to the Besal family for your loss. May you find strength in the God of all comfort at this difficult time.
Wendi, Taner and Jeremiah
September 19, 2017
Barney Besal, Your impact will continue for generations, a true legacy, a kind heart, a generous spirit, a passion for life, and a love of people. What more could a life represent..walk the streets of Gold, you deserve the best.. We Love you Uncle Barney..
September 19, 2017
May the God of all comfort be with you during this difficult time
September 18, 2017
Our paths crossed momentarily in high school some 40 years ago. Barney was a year younger than me but somehow we shared experiences both on the football field and around school activities. I remember that Barney was a fun-loving and friendly guy. I was so impressed to read about his business successes and innovative career. There are not enough words to convey such an untimely passing. It seems he was richly blessed in the matters of the heart with family, friends and had a full rich life! Godspeed Barney!
Rod & Jane Getz
September 18, 2017
Barney, you were a leader in the kitchen exhaust cleaning industry and a great mentor and I'm proud to have known you and you will be missed. I'm positive that all the grease ducts in Heaven will now be cleaned properly and in perfect condition. May God Bless your family.
September 18, 2017
There really are no words to express the loss of someone who was so vibrant. We can only look up at the sky and continue to feel Barney's greatness.
Love to the family, Vicki and Richard
Jeanne Purdy
September 18, 2017
My love and condolences to Nancy and all of the Beasal family. Barney was one of the nicest, sweetest people I have ever known and I thought of him as family. He is at peace and free from suffering. He left us much too soon and will be truly missed.
V.
September 18, 2017
Our deepest sympathy go out to you
Wilson
September 18, 2017
May the God of all comfort strengthen the family during this time of deep sorrow. Those who pass on, God keeps in his memory because they are precious in his eyes. My sincerest condolences. (Psalms 116:15)
Cindy Miller
September 18, 2017
I remember Barney well. So sorry for his loss. May the Lord's grace and comfort surround family and friends, now and in the days to come.
Karen Sides
September 18, 2017
I have had the pleasure of knowing this man 25 years and 20 of those I worked with him, in the office right beside him. He was brilliant, funny and a one of kind character. We both came from big families, but I never had a older brother , Barney took that place in my heart and I will miss him greatly... The little mean woman that works here Rest in piece brother
Shaun Ray
September 18, 2017
So saddened to learn of Barney's passing. I only knew him thorough our professional interests with NFPA and IKECA, but he was such a wonderful man, full of passion. Occasionally, he would send me an email of his bike collection and you could see the pride in ownership. He always helped me with sound advice that only comes from experience and first-hand knowledge. Barney's passing caught me by surprise and I feel for his family's loss. Rest in peace, Barney and God bless all of his family as they mourn the loss of a great human.
Elaine Pucciano
September 18, 2017
Hope you create a heavenly Besal Bash! Rest in Peace and gone too soon. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Julie Quillian
September 18, 2017
Hadn't seen you in years but you were always in my heart, as all the Besal family has always been. I'll never forget those crazy PiHi times! Rest in peace my friend and know you are loved completely!!
September 18, 2017
May God sustain you at this time of such great loss.
September 18, 2017
My condolences for the loss of your love one may are heavenly father comfort your family 1 Peter 5:9,10
(Psalm 34:18) PB
September 18, 2017
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
September 18, 2017
So sorry to learn of Bernard death. He will be miss by family and friends. May comfort be to the family and friends at this most difficult time. Matthew 5:4
JF
Atlanta
September 18, 2017
May the God of all comfort be with you during this difficult time
Maureen Kovitch Jackson
September 17, 2017
Barney I never knew you to be anything but kind! We lost touch after High School, but I will always remember that young boy I met all those years ago ,as a child! God Bless you Barney until we meet again! Prayers for your new journey and your family as well! RIP
Joe Dahlem
September 17, 2017
There is no way to describe the goodness known as Barney. He set an honest high standard in a dirty difficult dangerous industry. His kindness to me will never be forgotten.
Barney was easy to underestimate for about an hour. Then his patience and encouragement easily showed the wisdom of this great human. I am so moved and honored to call Barney my friend.
Marty Burns
September 17, 2017
My deepest sympathy to the Besal family.
Rest In Peace Barney. I'm a better person for having known you.
Marty Burns
Henry Gibbons
September 17, 2017
My condolences to the Besal family in your time of loss. Barney was always so kind to me. My mother and Barneys mother worked together in the 1960's. They are such a special family. Thank you Barney for being my friend. Henry Gibbons
September 17, 2017
My heart is filled with sadness from the passing of my dear friend Barney... I have many great memories of him and Nancy from our times at the race track and the Besal Bashes every year !!! I know you have a Ducati in heaven to ride !! Find my beloved angel Cris and take her for a ride !!! Will miss ya old friend , so glad I got to spend time with you last month !!! RIP Barney...
Doug Dupuis
September 17, 2017
I didn't know Barney real well. He was a grade ahead of me at Saint Pius. We played football together for the Golden Lions and I always looked at him as a big scary guy on the field, but off the field he was a nice guy. About five years ago I found out he would hold a big party at his house called the Besal Bash and it was pretty much a multi - year mini Saint Pius reunion. I'm so glad I went that year. Ran into old friends I thought I would never see again, and drooled over his motorcycle collection. One of the best parties I ever went to. It must have cost him a fortune because it was open bar and the place was packed. A very generous man to open up his home like that. Thanked him profusely for putting on such an event and reconnecting with old friends. RIP Barney.
Kevin Kern
September 17, 2017
Prayers for the whole Besal family. Barney was always larger than life when we were kids. So sorry for your loss. Heaven gained an angel. The Kern family.
Steve Kuhl
September 17, 2017
My sincerest condolences to the family and friends of Bernard. Over the years my association with Bernard grew due to his commitment to the job. He was truly dedicated to customer service. I will greatly miss him. Rest easy now Bernard. Cherish the many great memories.
Sheri Zimmerman
September 17, 2017
An empty place in my heart. Barney was my friend, brother in law and boss. A major part of our family. So glad he is not suffering anymore. I miss him . Rest in peace sweet man. We will see you again and what a meeting it will be.
Nelson Dilg
September 16, 2017
Not long ago, someone told me that a gentleman is a man that puts the comfort of others ahead of his own comfort. If that is the measure then, Barney is the greatest gentleman that I have ever known. His tendency to extend kindness, gentleness and, generosity equally abundantly to all people make him the most exceptional model that most of us will ever know. i will always miss him. I am grateful to our Heavenly Father for ending Barney's discomfort and, for granting him eternal peace.
Lloyd Horton
September 16, 2017
My deepest condolences to Barney's family and friends. I loved him like a brother and will miss him for the rest of my days.
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