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Francis O'Brien Obituary

AUBURN | Dr. Francis R. O'Brien, 82, passed away Monday, Sept. 3, 2012. He was born in Philadelphia, Pa., on April 29, 1930. After graduating from CBA High School in Syracuse, he attended Manhattan College and went on to earn his medical degree from SUNY Downstate Medical Center in Brooklyn. In 1952 he married Sonja Kardorff. They just celebrated their 60th wedding anniversary in June of this year. He served in the Army for two years and was stationed, along with his family, at Fort Eustis, Va. Upon completing his residency in Obstetrics & Gynecology he started his OB/GYN practice in Auburn, in 1960 and continued practicing in Auburn until his retirement in 1990. Dr. O'Brien delivered over 6,000 babies during his career. He was loved by his patients and maternity nurses for his calm, casual manner and his sense of humor that always put everyone at ease. Learning was a passion of his. He constantly read books on a wide variety of subjects and, with his children in tow, visited museums across various U.S. cities. He found it exciting to explore the Mayan ruins in Mexico each year and once ventured in his motor home into Guatemala and surrounding countries. Dr. O'Brien also played recreational softball for many years in Auburn. He pitched for his team, the Medics, and once pitched a perfect game. Above all, he felt most at home on his farm in Weedsport. He loved his vegetable gardens and even built a greenhouse with wood-burning stove to keep his plants warm on cold fall nights. Family and friends loved the pies he'd bake using apples, pumpkins and elderberries that he grew himself. A consummate “do-it-yourself� man, he would cut down trees on his farm to make lumber using his own sawmill. He would use the lumber to build buildings around the farm. He is survived by his wife of 60 years, Sonja O'Brien; three sons, Timothy (Paula) O'Brien, of Auburn, Richard (Ruth) O'Brien, of Bothell, Wash., and Thomas O'Brien, of Weedsport; three daughters, Patricia (Donald) Hotaling-Clark, of Hannibal, Barbara (J. Stephen) Bonilla, of Auburn, and Susan Herrling, of Elbridge; 20 grandchildren and nine great-grandchildren. Dr. O'Brien was predeceased by an infant son, Michael, in 1961. There were no calling hours. A Mass of Christian burial was held at Holy Family Church in Auburn on Sept. 6 for immediate family members. Donations in his memory may be made to Hospice of the Finger Lakes, 1130 Corporate Drive, Auburn, NY 13021. Dr. O'Brien will be greatly missed by his family, friends and former patients.

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Published by The Citizen from Oct. 7 to Oct. 8, 2012.

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October 21, 2012

Mrs.O'Brien, Tom & Siblings,
I was saddened to hear of Dr. O'Brien's passing. You couldn't ask for a Better Doctor..He was a Good, Kind, Humble Man with a Great sense of Humor. It is NEVER easy to lose someone, especially a Spouse, Parent or Brother (as in my case). You cry openly for a year and then silently thereafter, eventually,the memories bring you comfort. When you can laugh about a memory without tearing-up, you realize there is a light at the end of the sadness. Thinking of you. God Bless you Dear Dad..
Grace Ellegate

Katharine Ukolowicz

October 12, 2012

Dr. delivered my eldest son. He was a wonderful person & he helped a scared & pregnant 18yr. old girl have the confidence to carry on. He will be missed.

Roger/Doreen Henry

October 10, 2012

Barb and Family: Dad is home, he is at peace. Hold tight to your memories as they will last forever. Our love and prayers are with you and yours at this very difficult time. God Bless You All. Love Roger and Doreen

Ann Payne

October 9, 2012

My three daughters were safely guided into this world by Dr. O'Brien. He made me laugh during labor. I enjoyed his stories about his trips to the Mayan ruins. He was a great doctor and a true gentleman. My prayers for his family.

Lisa Sharp

October 9, 2012

To the Family of Dr. O'Brien
What a wonderful doctor! He had such a great sense of humor. Dr.O'Brien delivered me and my oldest son. I wish he was still in practice when I had my second son-a different experience! Thank you Doctor O'brien-RIP and prayers for Mrs. O'Brien.

Irene Anstee-Fowler

October 9, 2012

Barb abd family:
I was a patient briefly and worked with Barb many years ago and would like her to know my thoughts and Prayers are with her and the family during this time.

Marlene Bassett

October 9, 2012

He was my very first Obgyn Wonderful man, my deepest sympathy.

October 9, 2012

He was the best brought the best out in medicine and more for patients and staff alike

October 9, 2012

Dr. O'Brien was an AMAZING man!!!! He delivered all my children. He was not just a doctor. He was a loving and compassionate man who helped me through a difficult time. My prayers are with all the family. He is surely making God and people laugh in heaven.

Grateful Citizen

October 9, 2012

Thank you, sir, for your service to our country

Marie Eubanks

October 8, 2012

Even though I don't remember Dr. O'Brien I am very thankful for him helping my mother bring me into this world. I'm positive he was a wonderful man and my thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Tommie Marie (Lasagna) Stickel

October 8, 2012

Barb,Patty,Tim,Rich and Mrs. O'Brian....I'm so sorry to read about your dad's passing He was a wonderful man...he will be missed Your all are in my thoughts and prayers...

Elaine Gaklik

October 8, 2012

To the O'Brien Family,

Dr. O,Brien was a great doctor and a wonderful person. He will be missed.
God Bless you.

Gloria Wristen

October 8, 2012

To Thomas and family. He truly was a wonderful doctor. My condolences to all the family on your loss.

Harry & Carolyn Slayton Bacon

October 8, 2012

RIP Dr O'Brien ........ you delivered many miracles - our first in 1968. You will always be remembered as the best!

KAREN ESPOSITO

October 8, 2012

TO ALL OF THE O'BRIEN FAMILY: MY PRAYERS GO OUT TO ALL OF YOU, MAY DR. O'BRIAN REST IN PEACE. KNOWING HOW SPECIAL HE WAS, SHOULD BRING COMFORT TO YOU ALL AT THIS TIME. I REMEMBER HIM VERY WELL FROM WHEN HE DELIVERED MY DAUGHTER. SUCH A CARING PERSON ! MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL !!

Carolyn Coogan

October 8, 2012

My sympathy to the family of Dr. O'brien. He delivered all 4 of my children from 1963 to 1972. I had hard times with them and could never have done it without him. He pulled me thru the births. Loved his humor and the man behind it. R.I.P.

Valerie (Liberatore) Person

October 7, 2012

To Sue and Tom - I have fond memories of your dad, and his "farm in Weedsport". He did have a great sense of humor. To the O'Brien Family - I am so sorry for your loss. May you find comfort in your memories of this remarkable man.

Kerrie Marquart

October 7, 2012

Hi Family! Your Dad meant a lot to my husband and me and he was a very special person. Condolences to all of you children and grandchildren and wife Sonny. Sending love and blessings, Kerrie

Cindy Nagle

October 7, 2012

Dear Sue and all your family: I'm so sorry to read of the loss of your dad. I remember how he graciously hosted our class on the field trip to your farm, giving us a tour of everything and letting us play in the hay! He was clearly well-loved by the community. May that love and support, and happy memories, help ease your grief.

Bonnie Bagan

October 7, 2012

Dr. O'Brien delivered both of my boys back in 1967 and 1970. He made me laugh all the time and I think we all fell in love with him just a little bit. He was a great doctor. I am very sorry for your loss. I know he will be greatly missed.

Elaine Sbelgio

October 7, 2012

Dr. O'Brien delivered all three of my children. He was the best. Always made me laugh. RIP

Elaine Sbelgio

October 7, 2012

Dr. O'Brien delivered all 3 of my children. He was the best. Always made me laugh.

Jon BeVard

October 7, 2012

My condolences to the O'Brien family. Even though I never met Dr. O'Brien, I am touched by the memories related to me by Sue. We cherish his cat, "Melon," as a welcome addition to our family.

Marion Wejko-Towner

October 7, 2012

Dr O'Brien delivered my youngest Daughter 33 years ago. A True Person and Physician in all ways. It was an honor to have him as my Doctor. He will be greatly missed.

fjohn reinke (mc1968)

October 7, 2012

The Manhattan College alumni community shares the grief, and is now praying for our fellow alumni and the family at this time. The Alumni Office has been informed. As well as the Jasper Jottings community that I personally can reach. We are all a little poorer now. "No man is an island, entire of itself ... any man's death diminishes me". We are sorry for your loss.

October 7, 2012

Dr O'Brien was the best he delivered 4 of my children most of the time driving staight from the farm at least I was quick for him RIP
Vicky Quimby

Barbara Hunt

October 7, 2012

Nicest doctor I ever knew. Very sorry for your loss.

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