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Tupper, Gerald DeEsten
Gerald DeEsten Tupper, 80, of Peoria, passed away peacefully on June 30, 2011 after a lengthy battle with leukemia. He was the second oldest of five children born to the late Eleanor and Alphonso Tupper in Hamilton, Ohio. He was a successful attorney, husband and father, and above all, a humanitarian. Throughout his long life, he was always an optimist, hard working, and driven. He put himself through college at Michigan State University, served as an officer and a paratrooper in the Army, and then graduated from law school at the University of Michigan. He moved with a trailer, his wife and three young children across the country in 1958 and started his law practice in Phoenix, Arizona. Through the years, Jerry immersed himself in various community organizations such as Kiwanis and the Maryvale Chamber of Commerce, and in his church playing guitar at the folk mass at OLPH in Glendale and at various care facilities. The ordination of his brother, Dr. Luke Tupper, as a Franciscan missionary, was an unforeseen event that changed Jerry's life dramatically. In order to support his brother's work in the jungles along the Amazon River in Brazil, Jerry, his family, dear friends and associates formed the non-profit, non-denominational organization Esperanca, Inc. (Hope, in Portuguese) on the bottom level of his law office. Through generous donations of time, money, services, and medical supplies Esperanca has grown into a multi-million dollar charity still serving the poor in Brazil, Bolivia, Peru, Mozambique, Guinea-Bissau, and Mexico some 40 years later. Jerry, along with his wife Barbara, lived a full life of family, friends, charity, and travel and he will be dearly missed by those who knew and loved him. Gerald is survived by his wife of 57 years Barbara and his five children Suzanne Johnson (Bob), David Tupper, Kathleen Braley, Sherry Baker (Steve), Debbie Stratton (Kurt), 11 grandchildren and 7 great grandchildren. He is also survived by his sister Caroline Florescu of Michigan and his brother David Tupper of Florida. He was preceded in death by his two brothers Fr. John Tupper and Fr. Luke Tupper and his grandson Ryan Braley. A memorial mass will be held on Thursday, July 7, 2011 at 10 am at St. Thomas More Catholic Church, 6180 W. Utopia, Glendale, AZ. Internment will occur the following day at the National Memorial Cemetery of Arizona, 23029 N. Cave Creek Road, Phoenix, Arizona at 11:00 AM. Donations may be made in lieu of flowers to his beloved charity, Esperanca, 1911 W. Earll Drive, Phoenix, Arizona 85015 or on-line at www.esperanca.org. Condolences may be sent to the family by visiting www.heritagefuneralchapels.com.
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Published by The Arizona Republic from Jul. 3 to Jul. 6, 2011.

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Rebecca Spaw

July 7, 2011

My greatest childhood memories are spending time with Gerry and the Tupper Family in Rocky Point. I can remember him playing his guitar and singing his funny songs, like it was yesterday. What an incredible man he was and an honor to know. My thoughts and prayers are with all friends and family of Gerry.
For the record Gerry, I NEVER EVER understood the egg joke. But since you asked, I like my eggs scrambled and well done.

Lori PreFontaine Perry

July 6, 2011

To the Tupper family. My condolences & prayers during this difficult time of loss. Gerald was a great man.Often he would visit our house unannounced in the days of growing up in good ol' gld & he always made us laugh. A TRUE humanitarian..as the Founder of Esperanca!
~Thank you Gerald for your invaluable service to the World. ~ A contribution to Esperanca will be made in your memory!!! Lori

Lisa McNurlin

July 6, 2011

My heartfelt condolences to the Tupper Family.
Mr. Tupper was a strong influence in my life, from the age of 8 or 9 thru high school when we moved. He got me to start playing the guitar. I was taking piano lessons and he told me that if I played the guitar I could get a boyfriend to carry it to parties, but I would need 8 or 10 boyfriends to do the same with a piano.
Truthfully, he was recruiting for folk mass at OLPH, and pretty soon I was playing the guitar and singing at mass. We also played at many senior homes and of course events for Esperanca. We even got to go to the christening of the Esperanca boat in San Diego.
I have many happy memories of Mr. Tupper and often think of him fondly when I smell a cigar. Lisa (Acker) McNurlin

July 5, 2011

To the dear family of Gerald Tupper. May "...the God of all comfort," ease your heartaches. 2Cor.1:3,4. Remembering that he says in Ps.145:14 "I will support you...All who are bowed down." Ps.83:18. May you find peace of heart. J. Wilson

Raul Espericueta

July 5, 2011

I had the pleasure of leading Esperanca from 1998 through 2010. I will forever be greatful for the vision that Gerry had to begin the charity in support of Fr. Tupper's work in the Amazon. I told the story of the 'attorney brother from Phoenix' to thousands of people all over the country. This inspired many to support Esperanca. From this man's effort, thousands of lives will never be the same - for the good. To the end Gerry was supportive of my leadership and pleased with the direction Esperanca had taken. He communicated regularly to let me know what he thought about our newsletters,annual reports and developments brewing in the organization. He gave generously too! My life has been impacted for the good because of Esperanca. Thank you Gerry for being there in the beginning and for all the good you did for me. May you be welcomed by a choir a angels when you meet our Lord!

Armando de Leon

July 3, 2011

Sylvia and I on behalf of the de Leon family extend our condolences to Barbara and the entire family. Our prayers are with you all. Gerry will be remembered for his work on behalf of Esperanca.

I recall upon my interview with him before joining the firm in 1965, he asked me how many children Sylvia and I had. I said we had four. He then said: “Oh I see you are a victim of the Vatican Roulette.” I didn’t know if this meant he was anti Catholics. So I then met with Norm Skeens, and asked if this meant I was not approved to join the firm. Norm laughed and said: “Gerry is a Catholic.” I was a member of the firm (nee twice) and enjoyed working with Gerry over a period of five years. We will send a donation as suggested. We regret not being able to attend his memorial mass.

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