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Wendy Wayne

1948 - 2012

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Wendy Wayne Obituary

Wendy Wayne February 4, 1948 - June 17, 2012 Wendy grew up in Culver City, California. Her father was a pharmacist and her mom was a self-made business woman, who managed medical and vocational training schools. She has two sisters and three brothers. She attended Hamilton High School in Los Angeles and graduated from UCLA before joining the Peace Corps and serving in east Africa. She met Gene Tackett at a Peace Corps Christmas party in Studio City in 1973. She had just returned from teaching in Kenya, was doing volunteer work in Mexico on the weekends and was training women to become health care specialist at Harbor General Hospital in Long Beach. Gene was working at the Peace Corps recruiting office in Westwood. They became friends and two years later they fulfilled a mutual dream of world travel. They quit their jobs in Los Angeles and for eight months, with backpacks, they traveled by car, bus, train, boat and plane around the world. In 1976 Wendy moved to Oildale to work on Gene's first political campaign for Kern County Supervisor. After he was elected, they married and settled in Oildale. Wendy worked at Clinica Sierra Vista, obtained a nursing degree at CSUB and started a family. Larkin was born in 1978 and Benji in 1980. She worked as a nurse at Kern medical Center and continued her volunteer activities promoting child safety seats and expanded childcare opportunities for working mothers. Both sons were born in the KMC Birthing Center organized by Wendy. Larkin was the first birth at the Center. In 1986 the family moved to downtown Bakersfield and she started her career with the Kern County Superintendent of School's office as an advocate for expanded preschool education. Working with community leaders she helped create the Community Connection for Childcare and became its first director. Later she became the executive director of Kern County's First Five organization - promoting child education during their first five years of age. She continued to fulfill her wanderlust for travel and doing good works with a three month health project with her sister Cindy in Kenya, Bakersfield Sister City trips, Rotary polio ratification trips to India and Nigeria, working with her niece Ann Reiner in the Sudan and Uganda and family vacations including a revisit to her Kenyan village where she taught biology. She spent a month as a volunteer in New Orleans in the aftermath of the Hurricane Katrina. Wendy held a goal of swimming in all five seas and making love on all the seven continents. In 2008 she reached her goal when Gene surprised her on her 60th birthday with a trip to Antarctica and a swim in the hot sand warmed water of the South Sea. After her return home from Antarctica in 2008 she entered what she called her 8th continent when she was diagnosed with non-Hodgkin's lymphoma. After treatments at Cedars-Sinai Hospital in Los Angeles and the City of Hope in Duarte, California, over the last four years, Wendy lost her battle with cancer on Sunday. During her cancer treatments she was working with San Joaquin Hospital as a consultant to develop a state of the art cancer center here in Bakersfield. Her goal in life was to make the world a better place for families and children. Those who knew her well know how successful she was in improving others' lives and her countless random acts of kindness. Wendy Wayne leaves behind many friends who will continue to do random acts of kindness in her name. The loves of her life were husband Gene Tackett, sons Larkin and Benji, daughter-in-laws Katie and Amy, and the fabulous grandchildren Maya, Lola, Ben with two new ones to be born this year. A celebration of Wendy's life will be scheduled in Bakersfield later this year . www.bakersfield.com/obits

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Published by Bakersfield Californian on Jun. 19, 2012.

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Dave Banker

August 5, 2024

Wendy's son, Benji, was a Boy Scout (Eagle), and one spring, Wendy and Ann Hansen came up to camp for a work weekend. Mud and snow everywhere, and Wendy and Ann had these oversize mud boots. When Wendy got out of the boat, she tripped on those boots, and went face first into the lake. Most of the rest of the week end was downhill for there. But they both had a great attitude and were very helpful.

Junie and Lee Webb

June 13, 2020

We miss you! 8 years is a long time ago. Our best to Gene and the family. Lee and Junie Webb

Junie Webb

June 13, 2020

We miss you and all of your energy! We still have a picture of you, Junie, Holly Lazzerini, and three other friends on display in our home. We think of you often. Junie and Lee Webb

Yes, how lucky Anderson Cooper was to meet Wendy in New Orleans!

Michi Vojta

July 9, 2012

Gene, Benji, Larkin, and family,
Gosh, I feel like I know you, though we've never met. Wendy, my "Buddy", and I met when we were headed down to N'Awlins in 2005 (for post-Katrina volunteer work with the Peace Corps's Crisis Corps). I also was in the Peace Corps in Kenya, though a totally different era (93-96), but we immediately clicked in Orlando and New Orleans. I am stunned to think that is has been almost 7 years since we were together there, since I last saw her. I am saddened that I did not manage to see her when she came to DC to visit the grandbaby, and then again when I was in California in 2010. But we spoke via phone and email, and I know—and I know she knew—that I thought of her often, and will of course continue to do so.

I cannot tell you how sorry I am to hear about Wendy's passing. She is so amazing! There is so much I never knew about her, since she never really talked about herself or how much she meant to so many people. I am so moved to finally know, to hear how much she accomplished—though I guess I knew that about her at some level, being the wonderful person that she was. She managed to do so much in her time! We enjoyed the TackettWayne updates and it kills me to know that her two newest grandchildren will never have known her directly, though I know Wendy will live on in so many ways: through the work she did, the people she touched, the family she loved. I'm glad she was able to spend as much time as she did with the other three grands, and her sons and their wives. And of course, with Gene. I just wish my daughter had gotten a chance to meet such a great lady.

All my love and strength to you all in this very difficult time.

Love you, Wendy!
your Buddy,
Njeri

Jona Williams

July 8, 2012

Wendy Wayne touched my life in a moving speech at a ACS event several years ago. She was an inspiration in her words and life story. From that moment I knew she was different and a special person. She was a person who gave to others before thinking of herself. She was grounded and a wonderful role model. I will forever be grateful to have known her and experience her kind words and smile. Thank you Wendy for sharing your life with me.

JOYCE HOOD

July 5, 2012

LOVE AND PRAYER TO YOU AND FAMILY. MAY GOD COMFORT YOU AT THIS TIME.JOYCE HOOD AND FAMILY

Teresa McFarland

July 4, 2012

When I learned of Wendy's death my heart sank and I cried lonely tears.
The world has lost a Champion Warrior and the Universe has lost a shining star.
How precious to me the brief time I spent with Wendy volunteering together, and how wonderful that I was privileged to share with her the important difference she made in my own life and the lives of my 5 sons!

I will miss the celebration this weekend as I will be 'on US Navy duty' - such is the nature of Service to Country, although somehow I think she would be OK with that. She modeled "Service" to others so very well her whole life.

My sincere condolence to her family and to all of Bakersfield for our profound loss.
Teresa McFarland, FNP-C

Janet Dye

July 2, 2012

I met Wendy through my parents Ron and Kitty Woods when I was younger and I also got to know what a sweet and caring person she was. My thoughts and prayers are with you Gene and Boys and family. Sincerely Janet(Woods)Dye

rehana bhaiji

June 26, 2012

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Leslie Dragoo

June 26, 2012

Gene and boys:
Wendy was a light in my life. I think she recognized in me a true passion for children and families, which she shared. Over the years we started committees, programs and agencies in Kern County. Not only was she in the public world, but also in my private world. When I was hospitalized for a surgery 35 years ago, she was there. When I lost my son to a terrible car accident, she was there. When my husband was lost on a mountain for six days, she was there. And, when my husband went through the process of a heart transplant, she was there. She was full of compassion and empathy for people, especially children. She had a spirit for love, and a commitment to help in many ways. I will miss all the little things she was, as well. We have laughed and cried together, and I know she is sharing thoughts with my son in Heaven. We love you, Wendy.....Leslie and Jerry Dragoo

June 26, 2012

I'm Sherrie Shumavon's sister, the one who was having a baby when Sher and Doug were being married by you, Gene. I was greatly touched to read everything I could re. Wendy. I am now committed to naming a daily goal as a result of her commencement speech! Already I have finished a painting. She will be with the many, many she touched for generations to come.

June 25, 2012

Dear Gene and Family,

Junie and I were out of town and returned to hear that Wendy had passed. WHAT A REMARKABLE WOMAN!! There are few individuals in this world who are like Wendy. She had a spark that few had. It is a particular loss for you and your family, but it is a loss to Bakersfield and the world. Our thoughts are with you and your family during this trying time. The Webb Family

Pamela Mann

June 25, 2012

I met Wendy 2 years ago when I arrived from Delaware to accept a position with the Girl Scouts. We honored her in 2009 as a woman who inspired girls and from that point on,she became a member of the committee who always went above and beyond. We knew we had a jewel in our midst. We will miss you, Wendy! Thank you God, for lending her to us for a season! Gene, our prayers are with you and your family that you may be strenghtened as the days go by.

Hilary Lax-Matthew

June 25, 2012

I am a childhood friend of Wendy's and took a road trip with her in the late 1950's from CA to WA in a crowded station wagon. Wendy was always funny, bright and sweet. I will cherish the memories forever. Reading all of her worthwhile accomplishments, she exemplifies a life well spent as a humanitarian. Take comfort in knowing that you now have a special guardian angel to watch over you. My sympathy is with you at this difficult time.

Janet Underwood

June 24, 2012

Dear Gene and Boys: So sorry to hear of your loss. The world has lost a great lady. Wendy was an inspiration to all she came in contact with.
Sincerly,

Paul Miller

June 24, 2012

I thought I had no heroes. Wendy you were my hero. You were brimming with kindness! I will miss you

Paul Miller

June 23, 2012

Dear Gene: Our thoughts and prayers our with you and your family!
Socorro Munoz and family

Betty Phillips

June 23, 2012

Dear Gene and family,
May you find comfort in the wonderful memories of Wendy. She and I had conversations about life and the quality of life, she is at peace. I sat on the board of directors at Community Health Centers of Kern that is where I met Wendy. Our paths continued to cross as she worked to make the world a better place. Wendy was there when I needed a friend. Thank you for sharing Wendy.

Bonnie Benveniste

June 22, 2012

Dear Wendy,
The last time we talked was one year ago, July 2011. I am so glad we had that chance to reconnect. I am proud to have been your friend. Rest in peace.

Paul Jablon

June 22, 2012

Few have done so much.....

Mary Parsaca

June 22, 2012

Twenty-five years have past since last we last saw Wendy at our Peace Corps reunion in New Mexico. She arrived with her beautiful family and the same delightful spirit we remembered from our Kenya years. Even those of us who rarely had the privilege to spend time with her will miss her dearly.
Our thoughts are with you, Gene.
Mary Parsaca & Jim Beverwyk

Josephine Fraire

June 21, 2012

Dear Gene and Family

Know for certain that death does not end your relationships with all those we love. We will go on loving each other beyond time and we ask God, to be our quiet strength and consolation.

You and your family will be in our thought's and prayers.

Chris Spicher

June 21, 2012

Here was an amazing woman, a soul whose purpose was giving. She did exactly what she wanted and never wasted a moment. Let us all be inspired by a short life well lived, Bless her family

Sherrie & Doug Shumavon

June 21, 2012

Wendy, the light you created in this world will shine forever. We'll draw comfort and inspiration from it. Love to your wonderful family,

Lara Eriksson

June 21, 2012

I will miss Wendy. She was a wonderful woman and a dear friend to our family.

Janice Hagen Armstrong

June 20, 2012

Thanks to Wendy for all she did for our community!

Terry Orth

June 20, 2012

What a wonderful person and wonderful life she had. Terry

Bill Glasser

June 20, 2012

Never knew this marvelous lady but wish I had. What a life of giving.

Eva Peterson

June 20, 2012

My Sister from another mother loved her dearly. Love you Gene, Larkin and Benji.

Pat Ryan

June 19, 2012

Wendy was absolutely an inspiration to all and a true giver and liver of LIFE. The recent meeting at San Joaquin Hospitals Cancer Patient and Family Advocacy Council was blessed by your attendance and contributions. You will never be forgotten. Our prayers are with you and your family. Pat Ryan

Astrid Ortega

June 19, 2012

I met Wendy in 1972 while teaching for the UCLA/Harbor Hospital Womens Health Care Specialist Program. She was an inspiration then and she will always be for me one of the best Nurses I have ever known.Vaya con Dios Wendy. Tu amiga, Astrid

June 19, 2012

Dear Wayne & Tackett Families,

My profound sympathy for your loss. Wendy was one of a kind in so many wonderful ways. She was often compared to Mother Teresa, though she would scoff at the very idea. Her loving touch and loving nature were her hallmark, but she was also admired for her natural curiosity and her amazing intellect. The world is a better place for her having been in it. It will never be quite the same without her.

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Kathy

Rosemary Lopes Yap

June 19, 2012

I feel fortunate to have known Wendy. Our lives have intersected in many ways for over 30 years. I have been a cancer survivor since 2003. Wendy remains an inspiration to those of us who have had cancer, who are still battling cancer, and for those that may face it again in the future. She touched the hearts of so many and she will be missed.

Carol Goff

June 19, 2012

Wendy will be remembered as a great nurse, educator, friend, co-worker and supervisor. I will always think of her with kindness.
Carol G, Vancouver, WA

Lois Willingham

June 19, 2012

My dear Gene and family,
No words can express my deep sorrow at the loss of dear sweet Wendy. Just always know I love you each and everyone and you can call on me if ever I can help in any way. My prayers are forever with you. God Bless
Lois

Stephen Hanson

June 19, 2012

I have known Wendy over my 31 years in Bakersfield. My deepest condolences to Gene and the Wayne / Tackett family. Wendy was truly an angel on Earth and a shining example of the goodness in life. Bakersfield and the world will miss her.

Marilyn Hallman

June 19, 2012

Please accept my condolences and know that I too am richly blessed for having know Wendy. What a priviledge to have worked collaboratively alongside her through the Network for Children.

What I'll remember most is her genuine caring for all members of our community. I am so glad that she touched my life and that I learned from her.

Alicia A

June 19, 2012

My deepest sympathy to Wendy's family.
She was a Blessing to her CCCC family and to the working poor families we serve.
The spirit of your love…
encircles us so warmly.
Although you are not here –
We sense your presence near us.

Lauren Smoot

June 19, 2012

Wendy is and always will be someone I aspire to live my life like. I will always remember the moments spend in her house admiring the books, photos, and art wondering how or where they obtained the pieces. Sitting at the dinner table with Gene and Wendy talking and learning about life's offerings.
She lived life to the fullest and whenever I contemplate life I think of how her and Gene would do it. She has truly been a mentor and hero to me, and I am so blessed to have had her in my life growing up, and to have her in my heart for the future. Thank you Wendy and her family for everything you have shown me about life!

M Smith

June 19, 2012

Please accept my condolences for your loss may past memeries sustain you. Wendy devoted her self to the service of others she will be missed.

Vicki Hicks

June 19, 2012

I worked with Wendy at the Community Health Center, Inc. on California Avenue in the 1970's. She was a humanitarian, focusing on health care education for women. Earth has no sorrow that Heaven cannot heal. The Tackett family have my deepest sympathy.

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