Frank Knapp Dobesh Jr.

1952 - 2010

Frank Knapp Dobesh, Jr. April 6, 1952 - November 24, 2010 Precious in the sight of the LORD is the death of his saints. Psalm 116:15 Memorial services will be held at 10:30 a.m. on Saturday, December 4, 2010 at Doughty- Calhoun-O'Meara Chapel for Frank Dobesh, Jr. who died November 24, 2010. Frank was a native of Bakersfield and graduated with honors from C.S.U.B where he earned a Bachelor of Science degree and certification as a C.P.A.. He worked for Deloitte Haskins and Sells until his health failed. For the last several years Frank had resided in Tehachapi where he was able to enjoy his favorite outdoor sports including skiing, bicycling and motorcycling. Frank is survived by his mother, Virginia Dobesh Grother; sister, Jeanette Wallace; niece, Cara Wallace; paternal uncles and aunts and a multitude of friends including long-time friend, Barbara Ferrante. He was preceded in death by his father Frank Dobesh, Sr. and beloved nephew Chuck Wallace. Family members and several friends have contributed their thoughts about Frank: Frank, also known as "Dober", started his life as a smiling, shy boy who grew up to be a kind, loving man who always showed compassion for others. Part of his childhood was his love of animals. (Dogs, cats, the king snake behind the piano, and the alligator and salamander that ate hamburger). Frank made me proud of him every day of his life. He lived his life with love for his family and friends and will live on forever in our hearts. Mom As his "sis" I always got to tag along on all his latest adventures. He loved all that life had to offer, tree house getaways, fast cars, music, antiques, old movies, hikes, biking straight up a hill for miles; but one of my fondest memories is when he parked his Harley Davidson in our living room. He valued life and loved people. He would give you the shirt off his back or go buy you one. That was my brother who is now enjoying the smile of Jesus and the laughter of his nephew Chuck. Jeanette I adored my uncle; he was my friend and I was his "Pal" or his favorite niece as he would lovingly call me. I confided in him like he was a father and planned grand adventures with him like best friends. We shared the same insight that "life is an adventure" and he wanted in on it and being in his presence always had the elements of fun and a good time. I will remember and miss his big bear hugs and his deep voice that reflected his kindness and loving spirit. Cara Frank's many friends could always count on his good nature, loyalty and enthusiasm for life. Above all, he was respected for his unwavering spiritual and moral compass. John Hall Frank had a huge appetite for everything; food, adventure, motorcycles, knowledge, bicycles, knives, anything collectible, food (did I already mention that?). All of those things were dwarfed by his infinite desire to love. He didn't have to tell me he loved me, although he often did, it was always present in his eyes. He was the most unique and loving person I ever met. He wasn't very good at hiding either of those beautiful qualities. Farewell my friend, Mike Driscoll. In life Frank taught understanding, hope and love. It is now time for me to continue his lessons. Mike Grasso Most of the time we forget the most important things in life and the things that God has taught us. Be kind and helpful to those in need. Be thankful for the things we have. Be compassionate and understanding. Be loving to all those around us particularly the ones that need it most. Be a good friend. There are people we keep as close friends because they inspire us to keep those important things in mind. What a great success Frank was at doing just that. I am somewhat envious because now he can explore the things that we spent much time discussing that we believed to be true. I am at peace to know that he is with God. Wade Hall In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to Alpha Canine Sanctuary, P. O. Box 5517, Bakersfield, CA, 93388 or the S.P.C.A., 3000 Gibson St., Bakersfield, CA 93308. Doughty-Calhoun-O'Meara www.bakersfield.com/obits