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Stacy & Scott
April 26, 2025
We are at a service symposium in PA which I am sure you would have loved. Scott and I were just talking about all the things you have missed and how different life would be if you were still here. You had a huge impact on why I stayed and get to be blessed with this life I have. I know Scott feels the same way. Sometimes, life seems really unfair, you are one of those reasons. But we move on and keep you with us in our heart and continue on to tell stories because that is how unforgettable you are. I wish we had you longer but grateful we had you when we did.
Luigi
April 26, 2025
Hey T, was trying to explain our friendship to a friend lately and aldo describing the man you were...what a privilege to have been your friend. I cherish our memories. Was back in California but unable to go to Bakersfield..sorry
Just wish we could hug again
Tracie
April 25, 2025
Russ,
Miss you so much. Think of you every day. 19 years. Seems like such a long time without you.
Love, Tra
Wendy
April 25, 2025
19 years, wow. Seems like forever. We´re happily back in California. Still think about you so much especially when we´re out somewhere we know you´d enjoy. We´re all getting old, lol. Gary had a baby girl, Margot, she´s beautiful. You´d be so proud of him. He´s a family man now. We miss you and wish you were here. You brought so much joy to our lives. All my love.
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Ana M Gopoian
April 25, 2025
xoxo
John Fontaine Sr
April 23, 2025
Russell, I could use your wisdom right about now, life the last couple of years has been challenging, I miss you so much & wish I could give you a big hug!!! I hope you are enjoying swinging the clubs pain free!!! Until we meet again!!! Your little brother, John
Wendy
May 4, 2024
Missed your anniversary but was thinking about you on that day like so many others. Can´t believe it´s been 18 years since you left us. I think of you often and wonder what life would have been like had you still been in it. Great I imagine, and fun and full of adventure! Miss you, love you.
Tracie Thorpe
April 25, 2024
Russ,
Thinking of you every day. I think of all the fun things we did growing up. Now when we go to a fun event, we think that you would have had so much fun.
Gary, Jane and Emmet are doing great.
Miss you, love, Tra
Luigi Colagiacomo
April 25, 2024
Hey T..another year gone by!
Life still goes on..and got to say that life is good.. but still missing a great ingredient...have i told you am grandad to 3 beautiful little girls..loll. Working on a golf course as a Marshall gor the past 6 summers..i hear you laughing. Don't spend enough time with our friends as much as we did when you were around..but we still love and care for each other.
Anyhow..I miss you.
Love you always!
Ana Gopoian
April 22, 2024
Forever in our hearts, gone not forgotten.
John Fontaine Sr
April 22, 2024
Russell always thinking of you Love & miss you so much... Till we meet again...
Bob Baran
April 22, 2024
I was just thinking of you, and then I got the legacy e-mail.
Tracie Thorpe
April 25, 2023
Russ,
I miss you so much. You always made us laugh. I think about you every day.
17 years. It seems like yesterday but also forever at the same time. Lots of love, Tra
Luigi Colagiacomo
April 25, 2023
Russ, my dearest friend. My heart is still heavy at times. It's been 17 years since we last had a chat or exchanged a laugh or played a round of golf. Don't think have recieved a post card since 2006..but kept the ones you sent.I miss you. So much i would say to you...
Wendy Thorpe (sister)
April 25, 2023
I can't believe its been 17 years we've been without you. I still miss you a lot, your humor, your love for adventure and travel and fun. I think of you often, what it would be like if you were here, what fun we would have.
John A Fontaine Sr
April 24, 2023
I still miss & will not ever forget what you meant to me! Until we meet again my friend... Love ya
Ana Gopoian
April 23, 2023
Shared more of your pin collection a couple weeks ago at the 44th Northern California Regional Convention. In love and fond memories, xoxo
GARY JANE EMMET
April 23, 2023
GARY JANE EMMET
April 23, 2023
GARY JANE EMMET
April 23, 2023
John E SULLIVAN
April 22, 2023
I still miss you! A BEST FRIEND TO MANY
Scott & Stacy Franklin
April 25, 2022
Another year has passed and we continue to tell stories about you whenever we can to keep your legacy alive. Some people are never forgotten and you are at the top of that list. We love and miss you and wish you were here. Life would be better with you here.
Chuck Dougherty
April 25, 2022
Once again, It's Spring in newengland and once again was on the golf course and Russell entered into my thoughts. I was playing with some people I did not know and when we were on the green, one guy marked his golf ball. He then put the golf ball into his mouth to clean it. I had never seen anybody else do that but by buddy Russ. :-)
Seeing photos of Gary Jane & Emmet are fantastic. I'm so happy for Gary and I know Russ would be so proud of his little boy.
Luigi Colagiacomo
April 25, 2022
Always in my heart my dear friend.
Till we meet again..Love you always.
Tracie Thorpe
April 25, 2022
Russ,
16 years without you. I think of you every day, many times. I think of the fun we had together. I think of you at the pool in Bakersfield, 106° out and you loved it. I remember the big bbq we had and we had so many laughs.
You always were the best story teller I ever met.
I remember you being late to catch a plane to Logan (I don´t think you were ever on time for a plane). You had to do laundry but the clothes were not dry in time. So, what did you do? You packed wet clothes! Typical Russell! Love you.
I´m glad I have so many amazing memories of you.
Love, Tra
Gary Jane Emmet
April 24, 2022
Thinking of you
Ana M Gopoian
April 23, 2022
A heart for every year you´ve been gone.
Wendy E Thorpe
April 23, 2022
16 years have past since you left us. We think of you so much and always remember how fun and how much joy you brought to our lives. We miss you so much and all the fun times we had, so many trips, such crazy times and such love. We will celebrate your memory.
Love, Wendy & Tra
John Fontaine Sr
April 22, 2022
Russell 16 yrs have passed & I still miss you so much!!! Pigs is coming up in a few weeks, & I still can't find it to go!!! Keep swing the clubs & keep rocking the heavens!!! Until we meet again Love ya John
John Fontaine Sr
April 26, 2021
What's up Big brother!!! Man the years are flying by, & the pain of not seeing my big brother is painful!!! I do get a little relief that you at least don't have to suffer with your health anymore, I am sure your swing is pain free. Keep rocking the Heavens my big bro!!! Until we meet again!!!
Love ya & miss you!!!
Your little bro John
Ana Gopoian
April 26, 2021
What a weekend, you’ve been on my mind Russell. After all these years you tie many people together with fond memories and great love, thank you ❤
Luigi Colagiacomo
April 25, 2021
Time..where does it go? Even if it is 15 years , my friend, you are still in my heart and many times part of our family discussions.
Catherine and I miss you so much. We look at Gary and see what a good man he has become , that is you T, for being there for him and being with him and what about that kid huh? Emmet, just hope he will not be a Patriots fan . Anyway, i miss our times together at home, convention, golf course or even driving around all-night in your van doing your deliveries..lol
Love you
Bob B from Chicopee, MA
April 25, 2021
At a virtual NA meeting in Falmouth. Can't believe it has been 15 years. Also thinking of my sister's birthday this Tuesday. RIP
Maurice
April 25, 2021
14 years already and still often think and talk about you. You touched our life in a special way. Love.
The Thorpe family 4/24/21
Tracie Thorpe
April 25, 2021
❤❤
Tracie Thorpe
April 25, 2021
Hi Russ.
15 years. The memories I have of you will never fade. I’m so proud of your son Gary. Jane is an amazing mom to your grandson, Emmet Russell Thorpe. I know you are thrilled with the new baby!
He went to his very first Red Sox game yesterday!
I miss you so very much.
Love - Tra ❤❤❤
Wendy Thorpe
April 24, 2021
15 years now, seems time is measured by how long you've been gone. Missing you always and thinking of you now because Gary is married and had a beautiful baby boy Emmet, you would be so proud. You would love Jane, she is amazing. Emmet is the image of Gary, brings back so many memories of you and Gary. Sad you're missing all that love. You were such a great guy and a great brother. Till we meet again. xxooxxoo
Dan McDonald
April 26, 2020
Such a good guy, boy could he hit! Good friend!
Ed Dipietro
April 26, 2020
Words cant express what Russ meant to me. We grew up in the same neighborhood, played baseball, football, and golf together. We worked together at Hartz mountain, Withams and a few golf courses. We traveled and partied together.we took a road trip to Atlantic city once and had just enough money (counting pennies)for tolls and a large bucket of KFC to get home. My last memory of Russ when he meet myself Don G.Don l and Ted B in Vegas.those guys went home me and Russ went to San Diego to see .y parents and then we went to Tijuana...cant believe we made it out alive.............
I can go on and on and on
Love ya big man ..miss ya
Final thoughts. He would be so proud of the great man Gary has become
Luigi Colagiamomo
April 25, 2020
Hi T. What else can i tell you that has not neen said already. I have rarely witnessed su h profound love and respect for a human being and tbat says it all about you Russ.14 years have passed and you still hold a special place in my life as well as in my family.My daughter Amelie still talks about you, she has 3 daughters of her own now T. You would have enjoyed them.. Its been said that time heals everything and it does but it does not lessen the void your passing has left us with. LOVE YOU RUSS.
Gary and Jane on a cake! Russ would have loved this. So cool.
Tracie Thorpe
April 23, 2020
Maurice Richard
April 23, 2020
Just thank you for all the good you did. You are part of so many lives, that after all this time we still talk kindly of you in meetings, at the table, and in our Messenger conversations. You live in our hearts but we still miss your physical presence. All my love
Chuck D
April 23, 2020
It seems like there's always something somewhere that brings up memories of the times Russ I had shared together. My teenage son feels like he knows Russ because of how much I talk about him. It's nice to know that Russel is still with me after all these years.
Tracie, Gary, Jane, Wendy Thorpe
Tracie Thorpe
April 23, 2020
Jane and Gary Thorpe
Tracie Thorpe
April 23, 2020
Wendy Thorpe
April 22, 2020
I cant believe its been 14 years since you left us. I think of you and miss you every day. It would be so much more fun to shelter in place with you. Thank you for being the best brother and always being their for me. Till we meet again. Xoxo
Ana Gopoian
April 22, 2020
Always in my heart. A bunch of us were talking about you the other day. Because of you this world is a better place. Russell, your love and friendship was shared with so many people. You are gone, but not forgotten.❤
John Fontaine Sr
April 22, 2020
Still missing you so much!!! The world is a crazy place right now, but will continue to give back what was freely giving to me and to help in any way I can!!! You taught me the true meaning of giving back & trying to help!!! Thank you for taking me under your wing!!! I will not ever forget you!!! I love ya, Keep rockin the Heavens!!! Until we meet again!!! John
Luigi Colagiacomo
April 25, 2019
13 years since i recieved that dreadful call telling me you been gone and even though i have a wonderful life..2 healthy grandkids and a 3rd on the way( cant imagine the collection of teddybears they would have had with you around loll)..Michael all grown up ( loves golf by the way and much better swing than mine)... Retired from my job but working partime in the summer as a Marshall on a golf course( my swing did not get all that much better.. and stop laughing ).. Catherine still Working lolll.
All that to say that its a wonderful life but not the same without you in it. I miss you terribly Russell. Was told it would get easier but never said when.. I love you .. my family loves you and misses you.
Luigi..Catherine,Michael,Amelie
April 24, 2019
♥
Tracie Thorpe
April 24, 2019
Russ, dear brother.
I miss you so much it pains me and I want to cry now with joy reading how much you helped other people in NA. You really made a huge impact on so many people.
Wendy is right, you'd love the new house, with a pool. Oh, what fun we would have!
I still feel your presence and I know you are at peace up there in heaven. Golfing, visiting with friends, making people laugh. Harry the chihuahua is with you now. He will keep you busy! Hugs to you and give mum a hug for me.
Much love, Tra
Tracie Thorpe
April 24, 2019
Russ, dear brother.
I miss you so much it pains me and I want to cry now with joy reading how much you helped other people in NA. You really made a huge impact on so many people.
Wendy is right, you'd love the new house, with a pool. Oh, what fun we would have!
I still feel your presence and I know you are at peace up there in heaven. Golfing, visiting with friends, making people laugh. Harry the chihuahua is with you now. He will keep you busy! Hugs to you and give mum a hug for me.
Much love, Tra
Sonia Caraballo
April 23, 2019
You are so missed
I will always remember your love for me.
And you helping God to save me. U are a child of God
John Fontaine Sr
April 23, 2019
Still missing you so much!!! I was the merchandise chair for this years Regional convention and had a picture of you & me in Canada!!! It was nice to have you there with me, but was also difficult to have you there in the picture & in spirit!!! Thank you for always being there for me & teaching me the true meaning of giving back what was so freely given to me!!! Keep rockin the heavens, & I love ya!!! Until we meet again!!! John
Wendy Thorpe
April 22, 2019
Russ, always thinking of you. We just moved into a new house and how you would have loved it. Youre be laying in the sun by the pool everyday, just as you always did before. Been 13 years and I cant believe it, it seems so recent that we lost you. I miss you and think of you almost everyday, you were so much fun, you would go on all out shopping trips for the new house, and hang out and just have a blast. Love you forever. Your sister, Wen xoxo xoxo
Momo Richard
April 22, 2019
Thank you brother for all the love and joy you brought us. So many people are clean because of the impression you made on them. You will never be forget.
Charles Dougherty
April 22, 2019
Russ, I was thinking of you all day Saturday because I was playing golf in torrential rains like you & I had done many times. Life seems to be going by so fast and I know it won't be long until you and I will be teeing off on that great golf course in the sky. Rest in peace my friend!
Paula Sherman
April 22, 2019
Russell, you are missed so much, I think about you often and every time I go through pictures you are in so many of them sitting with you pins, so you... Well if you are looking down on us just know that we miss you and Love you lots !!!
Wendy Thorpe
April 25, 2018
Russ, miss you so much lately, RIP.
Tracie Thorpe
April 25, 2018
Russ,
It's been 12 years since you left us. I miss you so much every day. You certainly knew how to entertain people with a great story. I know you are watching over us. There are so many times we wish you were here. Your friends and family still write posts and remember you often. That touches me to know you helped so many people in NA. I love you. Dew
John Fontaine Sr
July 20, 2016
Happy Birthday my friend!!! love & miss you so much!!!
Ana Gopoian
July 20, 2016
Celebrating you yesterday on you 25yr anniversary!!!
You are in the hearts, minds and actions of many =)
In love, Ana
Nancy
July 19, 2016
Thinking about you, my dear friend Russell. Wishing you were here so we could celebrate!!
John Fontaine Sr
April 26, 2016
Hey my friend!!! Another year has come I can't believe its been Ten years of your passing!!! To this today your name has been brought up in meetings on how you always gave a helping hand and always was the first one to welcome an addict who relapsed feel welcomed!!! Russ I will never ever forget the times I was able to share with you, (It was always an adventure traveling with you lol) I miss you my friend!!! Until we meet again!!! I love ya John
Nancy Sullivan
April 25, 2016
It's been 10 long years and I'll never forget the day that I was told about your death Love and Miss You.
Nancy Sullivan
November 20, 2015
Happy Birthday Russell
I'll never forget.
TRACY L.
May 14, 2015
Russ,
I was just watching the picture clip Stacey did of your life. It brought back a lot of memories of you and people I havent seen in years. I lost touch with you after Dave passed. He loved you dearly as I did too. Now your together with all you great loved ones, friends and family. You were a wonderful person who always opened your heart to everyone.R.I.P <3
Nancy
December 25, 2014
Thinking of you this Christmas Morning. Merry Christmas Russell
Tracie Thorpe
November 22, 2014
Russ, happy birthday. I miss you so much. Funny how you made the picture of you on the wall move off center yesterday! You are remembered fondly by so many. I'm proud to be your sister. Hugs to mum for me, love, Dew.
Nancy
November 20, 2014
Happy Birthday to you Russell!!!!
Hi from Harry, he misses you too.
Wendy Thorpe
November 24, 2013
Hi Russ,
Its been a while now and I still miss you. I thought of you this week not only because of your birthday but because I saw some of those yummy apples covered in chocolate and nuts you like so much!!! I know you are with mum, sammy, max and chuy; and you're taking care of them all. I love you, I miss you and you are always in my mind and prayers.
Love, Wendy
Joe Valdez
November 24, 2013
I miss your humor, your thoughts and insites.
I do hope you meet my sister in heaven. The Three minus one witches of the EAST. EUREKA!
Tracie Thorpe
November 21, 2013
Happy birthday Russ. I miss you. Love, Tra.
Nancy Sullivan
November 21, 2013
Always a day late and a dollar short!!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY RUSSELL!!!
Ana Gopoian
November 20, 2013
Happy Birthday to you Russell! Thank you for the great memories, your love lives on in all of us.
July 22, 2013
It's nice to have memories and smiles of the people that touched our lives. Russ's number is still in my phone and his passing 22yr anniversary is still on my calendar. Thanks Russ, you're still doing it.
Nancy Sullivan
July 20, 2013
Laying here at Hampton Beach thinking of my dear friend Russell who recently celebrated an NA birthday. There is a lady on the beach with a gigantic coffee mug just like the one he had. I miss him so much.
June 1, 2013
Thanks Ana, that means a lot. I can't believe how long it's been and I still miss him every day and wonder why he just doesn't walk in my house with stories from his latest adventure.
Wendy
Ana G
May 27, 2013
Hello Wendy,
Two weeks ago I went to my 1st Pigs-n-Space pig roast since Russ past. I still have his number in my cell phone and I want you to know he will never be forgotten.
Wendy
May 26, 2013
Miss you Russ
Carissa Dennis
December 15, 2011
Russell- Even though I have never met you personally, I have had the pleasure of getting to know you through all the "Russell stories" your son Gary has been sharing with me over the past couple years. Seems you two have ALOT in common! He has a kind heart just like you did. So until we are able to meet one day in a better place I will continue to enjoy the stories that Gary shares with me. xoxo ~Carissa
Phil Cassidy
November 24, 2011
Dear Wendy and Tracie,
I wanted to send you my condolences in regards to your Mom and Russ. I was searching the web to see if I could find out some info about Russ and what he was up to, and I came apon this web site. I am so sad to hear that he has passed. He was one of the few best friends I've ever had. My head has been full of the many different things we did together from playing monopoly in the cellar of your house the whole summer of the fifth grade to us renting an apartment together in NH. I also remember one Xmas season that he told me that he had to give you guys I-owe-you's for xmas presents because he was out of money. Lot's of good memories for sure. If you feel up to it, and I understand if you don't, I would enjoy hearing about what Russ had been up to since he left Hartz Mountain. Thank you; sincerely Phil Cassidy. [email protected]
November 22, 2011
Russell
I miss you my ol friend but the memories of us together are forever. Happy Birthday.
Love you
Luigi
November 21, 2011
Russ,
Happy Birthday. We miss you, everyday.
Love,
Tracie
Nancy Sullivan
November 20, 2011
Happy Birthday Russell! I love and miss you. I think of you often.
Kerry Steinfeld
August 24, 2011
Hi Russ my brother joined you 9 weeks ago could you keep him company he is with my mom and you know. I miss you soo so much and all the postcards you used to send me and my dogs!!! Always in my heart!!
joann fotiathis
August 17, 2011
dear russ
i was tellin a funny convention story the other day an ur name came up. thinkin about u always puts a smile on my face. all the places we traveled..u had a gps in ur head cause u always knew where we were...east coast or west coast...love ya baby and i'll always miss ya
your friend
joann camyre (fotiathis)
Sonia Dejesus
August 16, 2011
Hello Russell. Every time I think of you it hurts my heart because of our late night talks and how you help me so much. No matter what. And how I hold on to those words every day. You are so missed and I know someday we will meet again. Thank you
Gary Thorpe
August 15, 2011
Dad, its never easy to find the words...I miss you everyday and wish you were here...i think of all the fun times we had driving to who knows where at all hours and flying all over the place.... Alway on the go... I love you!! And miss you!!
John Fontaine Sr
July 20, 2011
Russ happy anniversary.I miss you so much.I miss the times we would travel together,or just hang out.Sandiego next month,and I can't wait.I know you will be there in sprit.Till we meet again love ya
Luigi Colagiacomo
July 19, 2011
Hello T
Time goes too fast. I still miss the times we had together and still today a smile comes over me when i remember you. Tears are still there at times because of the sadness i have in my heart knowing i cannot talk nor see you again but GOD takes care of that. Love you and will for as long as i will be alive. Happy anniversary. PS I have most of your personal pin collection(just recieved some as a gift) and will keep with me. Love you
Scott & Stacy Franklin
July 19, 2011
This post should have come out yesterday I don't know what happened to it. I opened up my calendar and it reminded me that today would have been 20 years clean. It made me so sad to think that you are not here anymore and we can't celebrate with you. You are still very missed by both Scott and myself. Not a lot of people make and impact on our lives like you did. You are a huge reason why both of us are still here today and why we stayed in the beginning. You had the biggest heart of anyone I knew. I know we used to disagree on some of those passionate subjects. :-) Thank you for always caring and always being there. I wish I could say this to your face but I hope when you left that you knew. You will be happy to know that your memory lives on in Western MA. We are bringing back the convention in 2012 and I know you would have love to seen that and been there. We love you and miss you. Happy Anniversary Russ.
Ana Gopoian
July 18, 2011
Hey Russ, Just checking in on what would be your 20th anniversary, you are loved and missed. I want to let you know I shared your love in another way just recently, I broke down and shared your pin boards I had and it was so awesome to see and feel your love with people. I loved telling people where they came from and what a great guy you were, how many people you effected...you live on Russ in the hearts of many.
Adam Hechler
July 18, 2011
Hey Russ... Missing you a lot, today especially. Happy Anniversary buddy! You are forever in my heart. Love you.
Stacy Franklin
July 18, 2011
Today I opened up my calendar and your name is still there. I wish you were here so I could wish you a Happy Anniversary. You have been gone over 5 years but we still have not removed your phone number from our phones or taken your birthday or anniversary off our calendar. It has never felt like the right time. I know we am not the only ones. Just seeing your name made me very sad that you are not here anymore. That you won't see that the convention is coming back in 2012. I know how much you loved being a part of Western MA in Narcotics Anonymous. You will always be missed as you made such a huge impact on my life. You are one of the reasons that both of us are still here. You are one of a kind. Forever in our hearts.
Stacy & Scott
Wendy Thorpe
May 3, 2011
My Dearest Russ,
Now five years has passed but this year is different, you have mum with you now. The pain of both of you gone is unbearable only speckled with small moments of joy that you are together. She loved and missed you so, she came quickly but left us too fast as you did. Now I pray for myself and Tra that we can get through this deafening loneliness of not having both of you. Take care of her, she was the best friend I ever had and I now miss you both. Love and miss you every day.
joann fotiathis
May 2, 2011
hello russ
went to ocean city..you will be pleased to learn we finally got the suite
lol
only took 6 years on the waiting list u put us on
love you
Kerry Steinfeld
April 30, 2011
Russ, I miss my postcards from around the coutry i think of u often I love and miss u!!!!
Maurice Richard
April 26, 2011
Love you always my friend. I know that you know, I often think about you and your wonderful smile. I will forever be your friend.
John Fontaine
April 26, 2011
Hi Russ,Another year has come and gone. There is still not a day that goes by that I don't think of you.Sandiego in a few months. Miss you greatly. Love John
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