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Jonette Harness Adams

1965 - 2013

Jonette Harness Adams obituary, 1965-2013

Jonette Adams Obituary

Jonette Harness Adams "KAKE" 1965-2013 A Memorial Service will be held Friday, August 30 at 1 p.m. at Canyon Hills Assembly of God Church, 7001 Auburn Street for Jonette Adams, 48, who died unexpectedly August 18 in Bakersfield. A spitfire whose infectious smile and bubbly personality drew friends and strangers to her like a magnet, she was passionate about politics, poker and college football. The Oregon Ducks was her favorite team. Jonette was born March 15, 1965 in Dinuba to Jon and Wanda Harness. She attended elementary school in Bakersfield and junior high in Klamath Falls, Oregon, before moving to Fresno where she graduated from Hoover High School. After graduation she went to Lyles Beauty College. She worked at Spectrum Hair Salon in Fresno, and for many years at Glitz Salon in Bakersfield. A stylist for more than 25 years, Jonette was exceedingly proud of her profession and adored her clients. Eight years ago Jonette married the love of her life, Jeff Adams, whom she jokingly said she'd agreed to be his 'rent-a-friend'. He was smitten with her from the moment he laid eyes on her, sweeping her off her feet on the dance floor. They were a winning pair. Jonette had an affinity for chocolate cake, earning the nickname 'Kake' from her brother-in-law and fellow Texas hold 'em poker players. Her diminutive stature belied a fiercely competitive and good poker player. Always a friend's best bet, Jonette's wit helped put others at ease when the chips were down. Life dealt Jonette a tough hand with the diagnosis of SCA 2 Ataxia. She fought its progression with grace while working tirelessly as an advocate to raise funds and awareness to the rare genetic disorder. Jonette was preceded in death by her parents. She is survived by her husband, her sister Rebecca Harness Ezell and brother-in-law Vance, her nephew Justin Hale; her father-in-law and mother-in-law Richard and Bobbie Adams; brother-in-law and sister-in-law Steve and Desiree Adams and their children Jaden and Cruise. She will be especially missed by her canine 'babies' Ginger and Halen. In lieu of flowers, Jonette's memory may be honored with a donation to the National Ataxia Foundation (NAF), 2600 Fernbrook Lane, Suite 119, Minneapolis, MN, 55447. Those who knew and loved 'Kake' felt as if we had won the jackpot the day she came into our lives! "All In." Alifesstory.com www.bakersfield.com/obits

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Published by Bakersfield Californian on Aug. 25, 2013.

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Jeff Adams

September 15, 2013

I want to first thank everyone for your kind words and your love. Jonette is the love of my life and always will be. I miss her every minute of the day. Although Jonette was battling this horrible decesae (Ataxia)I would always encourage her that we would battle it together. Now I know it was easy for me to say, but I wasn't walking in her shoes. I always told Jonette I needed her as much as she needed me, and that couldn't be more true. It's hurts my heart that she was in so much pain. I felt helpless at times and I know I shouldn't say this but I wish it was me dealing w/ this decease because I know she would have been there for me. I love you Jonette and that will NEVER change. Thank you all for your love and support!!!

September 10, 2013

I miss your sweet face! You were always such a positive, outgoing and bubbly little thing. Rest in peace my dear friend. You are no longer in pain. xoxo Marci Nabors

Julie Hosler

August 28, 2013

I remember Jonette when we were kids at Eissler.. She was smart, funny and so cute with such a great personality. Even way back then she always had such a style about her. With her beautiful hair cut like Toni Tennilles she looked like she was ready for the stage. Jonette was someone you would never forget.

Terry Harness

August 28, 2013

Jon Jon, my dear lil cousin. You touched so many peoples lifes: your bright beautiful smile, your awesome laughter, and I could go on and on. YOU are one of the very few people who stuck with me through the good and the bad. I miss you so much already. I am so blessed to have had you as my lil cousin. R.I.P., wait, let me rephrase that: dance like no one is watching :)

August 28, 2013

I'm going to miss cheering the Ducks on with my pal Jonette. You will be greatly missed. Jeff, I'm praying for you daily as you deal with the horrible loss. Love, Janette

Dr. Jeri Williams

August 27, 2013

I had the pleasure of meeting Jonette only once while at my clinic. She was one of the most inspirational and pleasant patients I have ever seen in my medical practice. I tried to instill hope for the future during my sole visit with her. We laughed and cried together. Just that one clinic visit made an impression upon me. I extend my sincerest condolences to Jeff and the rest of Ms. Adams' family. She was a really great woman.

Melody Vielbig

August 27, 2013

It is with a sad heart I write this note.. I am so very sorry to hear about Jonette's passing. She was a beautiful lady with a devilishly funny sense of humor. May her laugh ring loud in heaven. I am very sorry for your loss Jeff. Sincerely Melody Vielbig

paula posey

August 27, 2013

my prayer are with u and the family sounds like she was an awesome person.

Julie Tanner Petrone

August 27, 2013

Jeff, My heart breaks for you. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Hold on to all of your love and memories, they are a gift to be treasured.

August 26, 2013

Jonette,
How lucky I was to have known you ....May you rest in peace.
Linda West

Sue Obbink-Munro

August 26, 2013

Jonette, my dear sweet little trickster friend. There are so many stories I could share. I won't be at your service for painfully obvious reasons but I have great comfort in knowing that you and Jon are either arguing about politics or planning a trick and it will be ok with you. I talk to you everyday. We had so much fun together over the years. My favorite is when you made your "stop it" spray with a travel mister of Evian that you kept in your purse so you could spray people that were bugging you! You made one for me too and its still in my keepsake box. And when you and I tried to motivate eachother to exercise after work but we just walked to the Tower got a beer and walked back to our apartments in the same building three nights a week! And when you used soy chorizo instead of regular to trick a bunch of our friends at breakfast in Pacific Grove. You could hardly cook it because you were laughing so hard. I know you are free now and I will see you again someday. Jeff and Becky, my heart goes out to you both and your families. She will be missed by so many but has also given us so wonderful fun memories that we will never forget.

Jerri Townsend

August 26, 2013

I was blessed to have Jonette as my friend - we had a lot in common so there was always plenty to talk about. I will miss her dearly but she will always be in my thoughts and in my heart.

JR & MARK ARIAS

August 26, 2013

RIP HONEY C U SOON XOXO

Spectrum Christmas parties

Cindy Pierce

August 26, 2013

On a lighter note, Halloween at TheSpectrum was always a day to remember.

Cindy Pierce

August 26, 2013

We all have special memories of Jonette. I had the pleasure of working with her at The Spectrum and we continued our friendship on Facebook. She was a very special person to many of us. Thoughts and prayers to all her family and her many friends today and always.

JONETTE ADAMS

August 26, 2013

JONETTE, IT WAS A HONOR TO BE YOUR AUNT, I FELT LIKE YOU WERE MY DAUGHTER. I WII MISS YOU ALWAYS. AUNT SANDY

Michelle DeCiantis

August 26, 2013

Jonette our talks and your smile brightened my life. I have been blessed for life having known you, sharing our personal lives. I am positive God has given you eternal peace, grace and mercy. Your kind spirit will forever be present in my walk on this journey here. I send my love to your family and friends and donation to the NAF in your name as requested.

August 25, 2013

Oh Jonette, you are a blessing to my life, and will be missed so very much... Love you so much

Scott Schmeck

August 25, 2013

Jonette was one of a kind and will be greatly missed. I was fortunate to know her and got to meet her wonderful husband as well. God now has one of whitest Angels. Miss you xo

Melissa Lundy

August 25, 2013

Jonette,you were my pal,my friend and my confidant.You always put a smile on my face.You and I shared more than this hateful disease and you are more missed than imaginable.God Bless your family and rest well my friend.

Joanie Lemich

August 25, 2013

May God bless Jonette's family in this time of sorrow. I meant Jonette in junior high and was lucky to reconnect with her many years later. She was truly a wonderful person and will be missed dearly...

Kimberly Walton

August 25, 2013

I will always have a smile on my face when thinking of Jonnette. I love her dearly!

Judi Clifton

August 25, 2013

My heart goes out to all of Jonette's family & friends - I wish I could have known her. With deepest sympathy & love...

Sheri Pepple

August 25, 2013

Words cannot express how saddened I am for everyone in the Harness/Adams families.

Hold tight to memories for comfort, lean on your friends for strength, and always remember how much you are cared about.

Becky, know that my arms are wrapped around you in this time of such great loss.

Patricia Harness/Overley

August 25, 2013

My deepest condolences to all who comprise the Adams/Harness family, but especially Jeff and Becky. Jonette's passing has brought many of us to our knees with sorrow but the two of you have the most severe emotional pain one can endure. Keep this in mind each day; Jonette is a thousand winds that blow, she is the sunlight upon the beauty of each flower you see, Jonette is the soft stars that shine at night, she is the soft breez that kisses your cheek, Jonette's beauty and sweetness out shine her death...she lives on through your love for her. May God bless and keep you, Lovingly, Aunt Pat

Pamala Nold

August 25, 2013

My love, thoughts and prayers are going out to the Harness/Adams family. Jonette is now your amazing angel and I know she will be with you in your hearts and in spirit always...

Rebecca Harness Ezell

August 25, 2013

My Beautiful, sassy sister. You have left me here on earth, but the ties that bind us, we will and are ALWAYS together! I love you little Sis!

Becky (Schaaf) Troncoso

August 25, 2013

Jonette did my hair (Fresno) for so many years until moving to Bakersfield and I thought of her often, actually every time I went in to have my hair done with my current hairdresser. I was so happy for her when she told me stories about Jeff and always stories about her nephew - loved him so much. I know she will be truly missed.

August 25, 2013

I love all of you very much. What a powerful and beautiful obit., well said, all around, "all in"

Carrie Laird

August 25, 2013

Jonette was an inspiration to me and so many others. I am grateful for the blessing of her friendship over the last few years. I miss her smile, laughter, quick wit and genuine kindness. Thankful for the difference she made in my life.

Shannon Hand

August 24, 2013

Many prayers for Jeff, Rebecca, Vance and all of Jonettes family and Friends. You are all in my heart and in my prayers. May God give each of you a lighter heart and many smiles when you think of the Beautiful Lady that he shared with us all. With much love.

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