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Erica Barditch Lilly

Erica Barditch Lilly obituary

Erica Lilly Obituary

LILLY , Erica Barditch Erica Barditch Lilly, born May 18, 1962 in Baltimore, MD passed away suddenly on May 22, 2012, after a valiant fight with cancer, which she handled with strength and grace over the past 10 years. She was a courageous and selfless woman who earned everyone's admiration. She attended the University of Maryland where she earned her Master's Degree in Library Science. Erica was on faculty at Kent State University for the past 17 years, where she was serving as Associate Professor and the Head of the Chemistry and Physics Library. Erica provided personalized service to students, faculty and staff. She was the consummate professional whose dedication and passion were greatly appreciated by all. Erica's beautiful soul, gentle spirit, kind heart, witty personality and thoughtfulness resulted in a legacy that only few could hope to follow. When she walked into a room, her warm and enchanting smile would make you feel welcome and cared for. Erica is survived by her husband, North "Face"; daughter, Rowan "Beloved daughter"; sister, Patricia Barditch Crovo, MD "Sisternik"; and sister in law, Carol Hogan. Erica was preceded in death by her parents, Irving and Shirley Barditch (nee Barsuk); brother in law, Terry Crovo. Erica would often say "It is hard to know about things." Erica please know that you have touched so many hearts and lives. Rest in peace "beautiful lady".
A prayer service will be held on Sunday, May 27, 2012 at 4 PM at the Billow Falls Chapel located at 1907 23rd Street, Cuyahoga Falls, OH. Friends may call Sunday, May 27, 2012 from 2- 4 PM at the funeral home. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to a charitable organization of your choice. (Billow FALLS Chapel,
330-867-4141)

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Published by Baltimore Sun on May 26, 2012.

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Jack Montgomery

July 2, 2012

I went to Library school with Erica and know that she was a really bright, funny, caring and all-round special person. My heart goes out to North and Rowan. May she find rest and relief from suffering.

Janet Smith

June 9, 2012

Even though I never had the chance to know Erica, my heart goes out to her family, and my dear friend, Patricia, who has endured so much. May she be given the unyielding strength to go on and live with what she has, and know that Eica would want no less for her, and know that her place here is so appreciated to all that know her. May you all go on knowing full well you are loved.

Tim Livengood

June 1, 2012

I'm so saddened to know that Erica has gone on, but glad that we had these ten years to keep her with us in the world. We live on in the memories that we make and the lives we affect. Erica lives vibrantly within her friends' hearts.

Wendy Woodburn-Ing

May 31, 2012

Thinking of you, North and Rowan.

Stacey Kimmel

May 31, 2012

I had not seen Erica in years but she still influences me -- from how I interact with and care for my cats to phrases I use and the way I think about things. The phrase "it is hard to know about things," yes! I remember this too. She was a good friend to me and I cherish the time I had with her and my memories of our days at Miami.

barb hipsman

May 30, 2012

When Erica spoke in Faculty Senate...we all listened to her kind soul as she always had a measured comment. Lovely and she will be missed by us all. Barb Hipsman, Kent, Ohio

May 30, 2012

Erica was indeed a lovely person. She was someone you could laugh or cry with and know that either emotion was ok with her. It's never that our loved ones have gone before us, it's that they have left us behind. I am sure that Erica is dancing on clouds with angels as she watches over her family. Janie- KSU Chem/Biochem

Lew Fried

May 29, 2012

Although we only met Erica once, we are so sad to learn about her passing.She was a gentle, and warm, and strikingly bright woman. Lew and Lily Fried

Michele Gramens

May 29, 2012

I know you have many good memories. She was such a sweet and good person. RIP Erica.

Roy Rosenthal

May 29, 2012

May her memories and impact on so many continue to be a blessing to her family.

Valerie Samuel

May 29, 2012

I'm glad I met Erica.

Rebecca Andrews

May 29, 2012

I am so sorry to hear of Erica's passing. I did not know her, but know Dr. Barditch from work and know of her love and dedication to her sister. My thoughts and prayers go out to her and her family.

May 29, 2012

May God's Peace and Mercy be with you at this time of loss. May the love that you shared stay and keep you during this time. God Bless

Leah Pressley, JHH, Moore

Donna McGraw

May 28, 2012

Pat may god watch over you during your time of sorrow

Mary Du Mont Brower

May 28, 2012

I had not seen you since I left Kent in 2000, but remember well your grace and humor, and the kindness you showed me when I was a brand new mom. With deep sadness and condolences.

Karen Dyson

May 28, 2012

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Barbara Wilson

May 28, 2012

Dear Family, I did not know Erica but I know her sister, Pat, from dancing on Friday night. My prayers and thoughts are with all of you at this very stressful and emotional time. God is with you and will help you. I'm so sorry you have to go through this pain right now. Many Blessings to you.

Eyvette Bailey

May 27, 2012

Blessing & Prayers of Peace and Hugs for the heart.

Terrie Tarver

May 27, 2012

Dearest Pat, my thoughts and prayers are with you. I only met Erica once but enjoyed the small amount of time I spent with her. My heart goes out to you Dear Friend.

Cheryl Tennant

May 27, 2012

So sorry for your loss, North and Rowan. But know that she watches over you still and will forever!

Leslie Haas

May 27, 2012

I am sorry for your loss. I treasure the time we spent working and playing when I lived in Kent.

Daria Lall

May 27, 2012

I am so sorry for your loss. I did an internship with Erica while at Kent and I found her to be such a knowledgeable librarian but just a great person as well.

May 27, 2012

So saddened by your loss. Erica was such a wonderful person with a beautiful spirit. she will be missed by many. Prayers for comfort and peace to find your family during this difficult time.

Kem Cook

May 27, 2012

North & Rowan
How sad we are that Erica is not here with all of us. I know she is the brightest star in the the sky for ever more. "Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, Love leaves a memory no one can steal." You will both be forever in my thoughts and I hope to see you both on my next visit to Ohio. I knew her for such a short time but loved her courage and laughter so!
Love Sheila &Bill

Marlene Amdur-Ferguson

May 26, 2012

My deepest condolences to Erica's husband & daughter, and to my former classmate, sister Pat Barditch Crovo, on your terrible loss. I only met Erica briefly a couple of times, but can sense she was a wonderful person and a brave warrior against that horrible monster of cancer. My thoughts are with you.

Holly Bagrowski

May 26, 2012

My most heartfelt condolences to all of Erica's family. My dad, Joseph worked with Erica's dad Irv. Although I have not been in touch for many years with her family~~ I can truly say that to know Erica was to love her. Such a sweet, gentle & caring soul! I am truly distraught about the news of her death. It really is true that only the good die young. With fondest memories,
Holly Bagrowski

Ashley Trares

May 26, 2012

Erica was one of the nicest, most helpful people that I have ever met. She was my boss at the Chemistry/ Physics library and inspired me to get my degree in library science. My thoughts are with you North and Rowan.

May 26, 2012

Dear North and family,
Even though I never got the opportunity to meet Erica in person, she and I had a few conversations re: her challenges with neuroendocrine pc. I too had this type of cancer. I think we met through Pancan via the internet. She was always very helpful and informative with me.
My deepest condolences to you and your family.
Sandy Becker (Napa, CA)

John and Gwen DeFelice

May 26, 2012

We will always remember Erica for the Saturday night bad cinema nights, MST3000, the Renaissance Fairs, her gentle love. We send our love and thoughts to North and Rowan. North and Erica made grad school for our family full of memories of human love and gentle care. Nathan and Taylor miss her as well.

Peggy Champagne

May 26, 2012

I will always remember Erica for being full of fun, even when she wasn't trying to be. Her wit and little quirks made every minute with her something special. My thoughts and prayers go out to you North and Rowan. Erica was loved and will be missed.

Margaret Garmon

May 26, 2012

I remember Erica for her quiet sense of humor and wit. I am sure students were grateful she was at the Kent State library to help them. My thoughts are with her family. She will be missed by many.

The Staff of Billow Funeral Homes

May 26, 2012

Offering our deepest condolences during this time.

Tracey Lynn

May 25, 2012

Dear North & Rowan, We are so saddened at the news of Erica's passing. She fought so hard to stay with you and love you here on Earth. Now she watches over you from her heavenly home. I know your comfort seems far away and insufficient at this point but please know how many people care and wish to help wherever posible. All of our thoughts and prayers to comfort, sustain and support you in this most difficult time. May God's love and the love of your friends and family lift you and help you to go on.
Tracey and your friends at D&E Financial

May 25, 2012

North and Rowan: We are so sorry to hear of your loss. She fought a good fight and I hope you find solace in the love she had for the two of you.

Laura and Kensie Braun

Anita Ghebeles

May 25, 2012

I first met Erica as my coworker at the National Institutes of Health. She was a great coworker and even better friend. Erica took such a delight in living and we will truly miss her. Our condolences go out to her family.

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