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Queen Laney
April 8, 2025
Here are 5 of your beautiful children.
TAMELA RENEE LANEY
April 8, 2025
Hi brother. Missing you today as always. Your kids are growing up so beautifully. I will always make sure they are OK. Love you always.
Mom - Queen Laney
April 8, 2025
My dearest son Robert, Jr. Bobby. I can hardly believe that it has been 13 years since you were taken from us. You oldest child son Joshua will be 25 this year, your son Quan will be 21 this year, your oldest daughter Aniya is graduating from high school and going to college this year, your son Jalyn will be 17 this year, your daughter Londynn will be 14 this year and your youngest child Kamryn whom you did not get to see won 1st place in an Art Contest and will be a transfer this year. Oh my good man Bob you would be soooooo proud of your beautiful children. I know you are. We all miss you so much. Love you always to the moon, sun and back around again. That´s what´s Up - For real, for real..........
Mom - Queen Laney Grandma Sweety
January 21, 2025
A jolly hello my dearest son Bob. Your oldest daughter Aniya I call her Niy turned 18 this month the same month as your birthday. She has grown into a beautiful, smart, strong young lady. You would and are proud. I miss you still so much my man. You are in a better place than this world and for that I am glad. Love you much. .
Your loving mother Queen E
April 9, 2023
My dearest son Robert, Bobby, Bob. On today Easter Sunday you have been gone 11 years. We love and miss you so much. Your children have grown so big and beautiful. I know you are so proud as we are. Keep resting in Jesus. Love you my h always.
Tawana
April 2, 2023
Bobby.... My 1st little brother I want you to know that you are truly missed. I cannot believe April 8th of this year will make 11 years since you've been absent from the body, but present with the LORD. You will forever live in our hearts and memories. I Love You Little Brother!!!
Tawana
Queen Esther Laney
January 18, 2022
My dearest son Bob. Ooohhhh how i miss you sooooo...
Today you are 43 years old. I can hardly believe that in April you have been gone 10 years. Yes 10 years already. Not a day goes by that you are not on my mind and in my heart. I know you are in a better place. Your children are so big and beautiful now. I know you are so proud. We love you so.....continue to rest in peace.
Much love always...
Queen Laney
April 13, 2021
My dearest son. It has now been 9 years that you have been gone. In 2012 Easter Sunday was on April 8. So this year its on the 4th. Two days to grieve fir you. I miss you so much....
Your children are getting so big and beautiful. You would be so proud. Please continue to rest well in Jesus. We all love you so much. For real for real
Your Mother Queen Esther
Queen Laney
January 18, 2021
My dearest son
42 years ago today.....
Yes it's your birthday. Also MLK's birthday. How i miss you so.......
Your children all 6 of them muss you too. You see them i know. They are getting so big. You oldest child Joshua will soon be 21 years old. Quanye and Jalyn your sons and Aniya, Londynn and Kamryn your daughters are all getting so big you would so proud. I know how you loved them sooooo much. They all send you birthday wishes. We all love you and miss you so much. Happy heavenly birthday.
Love always. That's what's up. For teal for real
Queen Laney
April 18, 2020
My dearest sin..
My heart is sill so broken. I can hardly right this. We visited you again on yhe 8th and Easter Sunday. We will never forget you. Love you always.
Mom Queen Esther Laney and family
Queen Laney
December 16, 2019
My dearest son
How i miss you so......
I love you so much. Your 6 children are doing so good. I know you are watching from heaven and are proud. Your oldest child son Joshua is 19 now and is in college. Your oldest daughter now lives in Florida. I was there last week to visit her. She is doing so good and always on the honor roll as all of them. We all love an miss you so very much. We visit you often. Love always...
Think about you every single day. I will make sure she knows her Dad.
Rena
April 8, 2019
Me And Ryan. Thinking of you
Tamela
August 6, 2018
Kamryn graduated from Kindergarten today sure do wish you was here. I miss you.
Rena
June 8, 2018
Miss you
Rena
April 9, 2018
Rena
September 22, 2017
I think about you everyday.
Queen
April 17, 2017
For you for this light of yours will always shine in my heart...
Mom
Queen Laney
April 17, 2017
My dearest son,
Today is Easter Sunday. It is a happy yet sad day for me. Sad that you are not here with me/us yet happy for I sknow that you are in the loving arms of our heavenly Father who rose from the grave on this day many many years ago. I miss syou sooooo....
Love always,
MOM
Rena
April 8, 2017
Queen Laney, Mom
January 18, 2017
Happy Birthday my dearest son Bob, I love you sooooo......
Look, they are growing up Robert!
Rena
January 4, 2017
Queen Laney
November 20, 2016
My dearest son Bob,
I miss you soooooooooo... very much. I know that you know, with great sadness in September our Sonya Kolo Gibson has gone to be with the Lord and you. Her mom Ms. Louise is taking it pretty hard as any mother would, but we are here for her. As you know Aniya, your daughter and Brittany will be well taken care of, they will be alright. I shall never forget when you lifted Aniya while she was so young and said "You will be the head of this family, you will know what to do." He left her the head of his estate to share with her brothers and sisters. He always said that she was so smart. Oh Bobby I/we miss you so very much. I/we miss Sonya too. We know that you are now both in the loving arms of the Lord and that gives us peace. This is the ONLY thing that gives me peace.
Love always.....
Mom - Grandma Sweety, Mama Queen
Rena
October 7, 2016
I miss you so much.
Quanye' and Jalyn
June 19, 2016
"HAPPY FATHER'S DAY DADDY" We love you very much. Lots of hugs and kisses!!!!!
Rena
May 16, 2016
I will never stop crying will I? My heart is broken forever.
Queen Laney - Mother & Family
April 8, 2016
Oh Bobby, my dearest son. I cannot believe it has been four years already. For me it feels like yesterday when I last saw your handsome face in person. My heart is sooooo very heavy all the time. I will be speaking at another event about gun violence. You will never be forgotten. Last week was spring vacation and as we always do we, Grandpa Rob, Granddad Ray and I, took all the children an Easter basket/bucket in honor of you. The boys spent the entire week with us. They are getting so big and I know you would be so proud of all of your children. We keep in touch with the children and their moms and always will. When I see them I see you and it makes my heart feel so much better. I miss you so.......................................
We love you always.....
Mom
I miss you very much.
Rena
April 8, 2016
Rena
April 8, 2016
Rena
April 8, 2016
Wes Harris
March 30, 2016
Sorry to hear about your lost, and it was a great lost. You are and will be in my thoughts and prayers
Rena
January 18, 2016
Robert...
Rena
December 24, 2015
Always on my mind, I wish you was here...
Queen Laney
April 30, 2015
My dearest son Bob,
It is now another year that I/we miss you. I
never let a day go by that I do not think of you. I will make sure your 6 beautiful children do not for get you. My only consolation is that you are in heaven and don't have to deal with this here world any more.
I love you. Rest in Peace with God. I will see you soon enough.
Love always.....
Rena
April 8, 2015
Robert and Queen Dad and MomSa
January 15, 2015
Our dearest son Bobby,
We miss you soooo much. On Sunday, you will be another year old - 36. There is not a day that goes by that we do not think of, talk about and miss you so........Ohhhhhhhhhh my heart still hurts..
Mom Queen Laney
December 3, 2014
My dearest son Bob,
Another Thanksgiving has come and gone with out you here. You were with us in spirit always. I was happy to see three of your children on Thanksgiving day. When ever I see them, I see you. Quan, Jalyn and Londynn are getting so big. They all love you so much as we all do/ Your Uncle Sam stayed for the weekend. Your other children went out of town for the weekend with their mother's families. Just think another year has gone by already. We have so much to be thankful for. All of your children are doing well and are doing good in school. I know you are so pleased. We all send out love to you always....
Aunt Tammy and Kamryn
Rena
November 12, 2014
Jaylen, Quanya and Aniya
Rena
November 12, 2014
Quanya and Jaylen
Rena
November 12, 2014
Joshua and Kamryn
Rena
November 12, 2014
Thinking of you everyday.
Mother Queen Laney
October 7, 2014
My dearest son Bob,
Not a day that goes by do I not think and cry for you. I miss you so much... I know that it is worst than before. Time does not heal all wounds. I remember you handsome smiling face, your fun loving ways. I remember how you love your children so much, would do anything in this world for them, how you carried them on your shoulders
I thank God that he blessed me with you even for a short time.
Your six children are getting so big and they are so smart - Joshua is 14 now, Quanye is 10, Aniya is 7, Jalyn is 6, Londynn is 3 and Kamryn is 2. I know you are so proud. I love you....
Your Children, My Grands
Queen Laney
September 5, 2014
Kamryn is growing so fast. She is 2 yrs old now but she looks like she is 3 yrs old! She will be tall like you. Always on my mind love. Rena
Kamryn Queen Laney
August 4, 2014
I miss you so much Robert. I wish you was here. Love Rena
Rena Hall
July 31, 2014
I know you will watch over all of your beautiful children. We love you Robert.
Rena
June 18, 2014
She loves boxes more than toys.
Rena
June 18, 2014
Happy Fathers Day. Love Kamryn
Rena
June 18, 2014
Rena
June 18, 2014
ALL THE BUTTERFLIES HAVE GONE AWAY
Every time I heard your voice or you came near
Flittering around in my stomach, “The butterflies are here” !
From day one to year 11, this always stayed the same.
I could not control the butterflies, they would not be tamed.
Even a text or email from you, the butterflies went wild.
I wanted to jump around, like being at the park as a small child.
I couldn't stay away, even when I tried.
And the butterflies wouldn't move, as if they had all died.
But then I would see you again, and those things where all over the place!
Anyone could tell, it was written all over my face!
I think of you and those butterflies every single day.
Since you left, so did they. All the butterflies have gone away.
I love you Robert.
Robert & Queen Esther Laney
June 16, 2014
My good man Bob,
Justice for You has been Served. To GOD be the Glory. Sentencing in July 8, 2014. The day of the verdict of GUILTY on all three counts is May 27, 2014. One of many days t5hat I will never forget.
Yesterday was Father's Day...and you have been a Father of all fathers. I know so very well how much you love your children, they are doing well and getting so big and they are so smart just like you. Quanye will be 10 years old tommorow the 17th of June. He is having a party on Saturday and everyone of your children have been invited to attend. We will all be there.
We love you sooooooooooo much...
June 15, 2014
Happy Father's Day Daddy I miss you so much. I love you always and forever
Love, your Niya
Love Quanye and Jalyn
June 15, 2014
Happy Father's Day Daddy we love you and miss you so very much!!!!
Love Quanye and Jalyn
June 15, 2014
Happy Father's Day Daddy we love you and miss you so very much!!!!!!
Mom - Queen Esther
May 15, 2014
My main man Bob,
My heart hurts. Today is the beginning of the Justice Trial for you. I have asked for God's help to keep me and you Dad strong. I know that Justice will be SERVED and God's will, will be done.. I am in the library but hope to have my computer fixed soon. Love always....
Mom - Queen
May 7, 2014
My dearest son Bob.
I am in the library because my computer has crashed again. I may have to just get a new one. May 15 will be here soon. I will be glad when the trial is over and we can rest in peace. I miss you so much and there is so much that I want to tell you but I know you know. I am going to start writing information that your children and all my grands should know about their family on their fathers side. Most people do not know family pass their grandmother. That includes me but I know my grandmother which will be your and Tamelas childrens great great grandmother. We must know and remember our family tree. I miss you so much,,,,,Love Love Love Always.....
Queen Laney - Mom
April 19, 2014
My good man Bob,
This has been another rough week for you dad and I. It has been two years already. I miss you even more.I love you man, for real for real, thats whats up... My heart hurts so bad.
Robert Laney, Sr.
April 9, 2014
My dearest son Bobby, words cannot express how much I miss you. I know that you are in good hands GODS. That is what keeps me going.
Rena
April 9, 2014
She will know…
Sometimes I close my eyes and imagine you rocking Kamryn to sleep.
With one finger to your lips, telling me not to make a peep.
You said actions are loud and words can be cheap.
You told me I am good with words but yours can also be deep.
I remember your persistence, and how you were always driven.
You wanted something, you got it. You was a winner when you was still living.
You loved to help people and made a difference in people's lives.
When you walked into a room, everyone knew that you had arrived.
Kamryn will know who you are and I will not let her forget.
Despite the fact she never saw you and you two never met.
Love
Rena and your baby girl Kamryn
She will know… Sometimes I close my eyes and imagine you rocking Kamryn to sleep. With one finger to your lips, telling me not to make a peep.
Rena
April 9, 2014
Jennifer & Londynn
March 23, 2014
Jennifer & Londynn
March 23, 2014
Jennifer & Londynn
March 23, 2014
Jennifer & Londynn
March 23, 2014
Jennifer & Londynn
March 23, 2014
Jennifer & Londynn
March 23, 2014
Jennifer & Londynn
March 23, 2014
Jennifer & Londynn
March 23, 2014
Jennifer
March 23, 2014
I will love you always. I remember living with you and seeing you everyday. I miss that.
March 23, 2014
Londynn loves you!
Londynn Rae Laney
March 23, 2014
Bobby, Londynn and I miss you so much... Words can't explain. She knows you are in heaven but she misses her father. We love you and know your resting well with God. Forever in our hearts. Love jennifer and londynn
Your loving Mother Queen Esther
March 9, 2014
My good man Bob,
My heart aches for you always. Although I know you are with our heavenly father, I still can not help but want you here,,I miss you sooo,,I cry for you always. I know that will never change. My only help is knowing that you are with God and that one day I will see you again. Still here on earth I cry...
February 24, 2014
You are thought of everyday with so much LOVE. We miss you.
Aniya, Brittany, and Sonya
Mom - Queen Esther Laney
January 25, 2014
My Good Man Bob,
My computer had a virus but it5 has finally been fixed now, Yeah. I have missed talking to you here. I used your sisters computer 3 times and the virus spread to her computer. Happy Birthday darling. I do not work on your birthday. You are 35 years old on the 18th. I, Rob, Sr. and Ray miss you so very much. I always remember your handsome smile, your loving and joking ways, your love for your children and their mothers. I know you were not perfect, no body on this earth is, you have a good heart and the only thing that helps me is God and that I know you are with HIM and are safe in HIS loving arms. You know you don't have to worry about your children because we will make sure that they are alright and will never forget you - their Dad.
My Love Always............
Quanye and Jalyn
January 18, 2014
Happy Birthday Daddy. We love u and miss u very much. We will be eating cake and ice cream to celebrate for u. xoxoxoxoxoxoxox
Queen Laney
January 6, 2014
My dearest son,
My computer has been struck with a virus so I am using you sister Tam's computer. So much has been happening. The trial has been rescheduled for the last time I am told to March 11, 2014.
The holidays of course were not the same without you.
We saw most of your children this holiday and they are getting so big and are so smart. I will never let them forget you - their father.
You and I were in the Baltimore Sun Paper on Sunday, December 15, 2013 for Mom's Demand Action Against Gun Violence. I will not stop appearing and speaking on your behalf against gun violence.
We love you sooooooo...
Rena
November 14, 2013
I miss you, I miss you, I miss you, I miss you, I miss you, I miss you, I miss you, I miss you, I miss you... I miss u terribly.
It's ME, That's what's up, For real for real!
Robert Nalanza Laney, Jr.
November 11, 2013
Your neice
Jada S. Williamson
November 11, 2013
Mother Queen Esther
November 11, 2013
My dearest son Bob,
My computer has a virus and it is being worked on. There is so much that I want to tell you although most of it you already know. Your children are getting so big. Jennifer and Londynn were in town recently. Londynn is getting so big and she is a good dancer. Kam has a cold. Your grandfather Robert Laney died. He is with you now so you know that.
There is not a day that goes by that I do not think of you and I smile and cry. My life will never be the same without you physically here with us. My only consolation is that you are in the loving arms of our heavenly father and we will see you again. I love you and I miss you. For real, for real, that's what's UP.
October 23, 2013
I am saddened to read that Robert is deceased. Will someone from the family please call me. My name is Cheryl Bridges. My phone # is 919-806-7650. It is urgent that I speak to one of his sibblings. I live in Durham, NC. Please call.
Mother - Queen E.
October 15, 2013
My good man Bob,
The Justice for Bob trial has again been rescheduled. New Date December 10, 2013. Justice will be served.
I miss o so much. Your youngest son Jalyn is now 5 years old. He is getting so big and he is so smart. All of your 6 beautiful children are so smart and getting so big. I know you are so pleased. There are so many things that I want to tell you but you already know. Know this we love you, we miss you. Life is know the same with you not here. For real for real, that's what's up!
Tamela Laney
October 10, 2013
I miss you Bobby!
Mom Queen Esther
August 31, 2013
My dearest son Bob,
I know you know this. Today is
your oldest childs, Joshua's birthday. I can hardly believe he is a teenager now. 13 years old today. He reminds me so much of you. You should see him and I know you can, you would be so proud.
The 65th Birthday Celebration and Family and Friends reunion went well. You know you were there. Many of the family were and many friends. We all love and miss you Bobby. The children are getting so big...I know you are so proud. Love ya
Rena
August 8, 2013
You truly are one in a billion. I miss you everyday.
August 7, 2013
Mom Queen E
July 24, 2013
My Dearest son Bob,
On July 19 you darling youngest daughter Kamryn turned 1 years old. She is walking now, she is such a doll.
Rob (Dad), Tamela, Jayden and Jada said to say hey there and that we love you so much..............For real For real
Mom
June 26, 2013
My good man Bob,
I miss you soooooo... You are with our Heavenly Father, your Father. God
Kamryn Laney
June 16, 2013
Happy Father's Day, wish you was here.
We love you
Rena
June 6, 2013
Robert,
I hope you can see this from Heaven
STILL...
I STILL think about you everyday
When you was here, I was STILL the same way
I STILL cant believe that you had to go away
God help me live with this, STILL I have to pray
I try to keep STILL waters, so maybe I can receive
The lessons from God, and STILL learn when to take heed
STILL I must move forward, without any bereave
Without any reprieve, STILL I must grieve
Although I am grown, in some ways I am STILL naive
To pray for God to rewind time, this notion I STILL conceive
I STILL and always will wish you didn't have to leave.
I love you Robert Laney
Always
Mom Queen
May 26, 2013
My wonderful son Bob,
I miss you sooooo....much. Never a day goes by that I do not think of you. They say time heals all things, I find that, that is a lie to make someone feel better. I am a witness that it is not true. I am surely missing a part of me...
May 23, 2013
The memories of you play over and over in my head, I still can't believe a person with such a beautiful heart is gone home so early. Niya is handling it so well. She always say daddy is in heaven ( with a smile) and one day we will see him again. I guess she's strong like you.
WE LOVE AND MISS YOU.
Sonya
Tawana Brown
May 13, 2013
Words cannot express the immense love that is felt for you. We all miss you, but we know that this was God's will and you are in his care (which is the best place to be). You will always be my 1st brother. I love you.
Jada Williamson
May 11, 2013
I love and miss you...
Me and Todd
Tamela Laney
May 10, 2013
I'm still trying to get over the fact that ill no longer see you again on Earth. I know your spirit is here with us. I'll always make sure your kids are ok. You was the strong one in our family so it feels like someone took that pillar of strength that held the family up, away from us. I'm praying for our kids because this world is so cruel. You are the evidence. I'll be praying for them until my last breath. One of your friends just found out about your passing a month ago and he is soo hurt. Shawn said he wished he could have said his last goodbyes. I want you to know I miss you very much. In life we take so many things for granted. Even just not taking full advantage of just having someone in our company. Situations like this really make the small things so large. I'll love u always
Mom, Queen Esther
April 30, 2013
My dear son Bobby,
I think and remember you everyday and remember things that you have done and things that you have said and many many times I find myself laughing and smiling. Your dad and I each day remember things you have done and/or said and we laugh and then are sad. Today makes the last day of the month a year ago. Again Justice for You has been postponed. That's ok it will happen make no mistake on that. We miss you soooooo... much Bob.
April 10, 2013
Robert,
Hardest thing I ever had to do, I cannot believe I have to live this life without you. I wish you was here. I miss you so much.
I love you with everything inside of me,
Rena
April 9, 2013
It has been one year since our Father called one of his angels home. We miss and love you so much.
Love you always, Sonya, Aniya, and Brittany
Mom Queen E
April 8, 2013
My handsome son Bob,
It is one year to date to day. I can never ever forget your smile, your laugh, your sometimes silly ways, your great hugs, your strength. I miss you soooo. I love you.
I can never forget.....
Mom Queen Esther Laney
April 8, 2013
This candle is for you because you are the light of the world. Because of you I have changed. I no longer smoke anything except e-cigs and I look at life and the world differently. For real, for real. Thats whats UP.
I love you always.....
Your Dad Robert, Sr.
April 8, 2013
My dear son Bobby,
I miss you dearly and I will never be the same without you.
Sometimes I don't want to live but I will because of you and I have many reasons to live Tamela your sister and her two children and your six wonderful children.
I love and miss you.
Annie,Quanye, and Jalyn
April 8, 2013
Its been one year since God has called you home to be with him and relish in his Glory.We just wanted to let you know that you are truly miss and we love you very much!!!
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