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Chris McNamara
May 26, 2023
Thinking about you today and praying that today you are comforted by your good memories. You are in my prayers
Chris McNamara
May 26, 2022
Thinking about you and Kelsey on this day. Shelby blessed us with many beautiful memories. Hugs and much live always
Christine McNamara
May 26, 2020
Thinking about you this week and remembering the beautiful young lady that you had become. You will be long be memorialized by the delightful memories you gave us. You left us too soon but we celebrate your compassion and accomplishments.
Christine McNamara
May 26, 2019
So many beautiful memories of Shelby, what a truly lovely young lady
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Molly Mclain
May 31, 2012
To the Mitchell family,
My name is Molly McLain. I atteneded Mount Hebron high School,and I was so moved when listening to the story of Shelby and then they announced my name as the winner of the award. She seems like an amazing person and I wish I could have had the pleasure of meeting her. im so sorry for your loss, and so greatful to be the student receiving this wonderful award. Your family and Shelby is, and always will be in my prayers. Words cannot describe how sorry I am.
Christine McNamara
May 27, 2012
It's hard to believe a year has passed but Shelby is often in my heart & in my thoughts. She is my angel on my shoulder on my bad days then a guiding light. She will always be loved.

Shelbs, as a lovely wood nymph, and me, as a flesh-eating maenad. Figures. :)
Beth
September 7, 2011
To Ellen, Chuck, Kelsey, and all who made Shelbs the beautiful and kindhearted girl she was-- thank you. She is greatly missed.
June 24, 2011
Ellen,
Cal & I were saddened and shocked when we heard of Shelby's passing. We can't imagine the emptiness you are experiencing but know in our hearts that your memories of Shelby will live with you forever. God bless you and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. ----- Rose & Cal Brightman (Bel Air, MD)
Chris McNamara
June 7, 2011
Ellen and Kelsey there are no words to express my feelings or the outpouring of emotions. Just know that I love you and I will keep you in my prayers. Shelby had a powerful impact on all our lives and she has given us the gift of beautiful memories.
Deborah Ogburn
June 7, 2011
Dear Ellen and family,
My heart aches for you. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Dale Plona
June 3, 2011
Ellen:
You and your family will be in my thoughts and my prayers as you deal with this deep loss.
Dan Gray
June 3, 2011
I am so sad to hear of your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Lori Lambert
June 3, 2011
Chuck,
I am very sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.
Gloria Duerr
June 2, 2011
Dear Ellen, Kelsey and Chuck,
There are no words. Our thought and prayers are with you now and always.
Tom, Gloria, Isabelle, Ivy and Keegan Duerr
Claire DeBakey
June 2, 2011
Dear Kelsey, Ellen, and Chuck,
There are no adequate words. My heart is broken for Shelby and for each of you, and you are in my prayers. May God's peace and healing comfort be with you.
Gregor Newland
June 2, 2011
Ellen - my heart is absolutely broken for you and your family. Please accept my family's thoughts and prayers and know that you are in my heart.
James Moore
June 2, 2011
Ellen - Please just know that you and your family are in our thoughts. Much love, Jim&Caroline.
David Leonhardt
June 2, 2011
Ellen, My condolences for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts.
Harriet Strasberg
June 2, 2011
Ellen, I am so sorry for this sad and tragic loss. May your memories of Shelby be a blessing for you and bring you peace. You are in my thoughts.
Candice Lyons
June 1, 2011
Dear Chuck and Family
So sorry to hear about the passing of your daughter. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
Candice Lyons, NGC co worker
June 1, 2011
Ellen, My thoughts are with you in your tragic loss. Your daughter was a lovely young lady whose company I enjoyed greatly. I know your entire community of Seneca AC graduates love and support you now and forever. Brant (Louisville, KY)

Mardi Gras at Mizzou! 2008.
Lauren Brenton
June 1, 2011
Shelby and I lived in Johnston at Mizzou together, and we used to go to Mizzou After Dark and be goofy and make silly crafts together with our other friends. Shelby definitely helped me come out of my sophomore shell and get to know other people, and I'm so grateful she came into my life when she did. I'm incredibly heartbroken to hear that she's gone, but I know that she'll never be forgot.
Nellie Arrington
June 1, 2011
Ellen, Kelsey and Chuck, I was so sorry to learn of Shelby's death. She had so much talent in such a competitive business. I pray that treasured memories can fill your hearts.
June 1, 2011
Dear Ellen,
Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Yours,
Jon and Julie Parkinson
June 1, 2011
To Ellen and family
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of loss. Our
heart goes out to you all.
Connie & Len
Shelly Kline
June 1, 2011
Dear Ellen,
My heartfelt sadness goes to you along with many prayers for the days to follow.
June 1, 2011
Ellen,
There are simply no words adequate to express the loss I feel for you. Please know I am holding you in my heart.
With much tenderness,
Maggie Kelly
JoAnn Grube
June 1, 2011
To Ellen, Kelsey, and other family members, my heart goes out to you. I hope you will find peace in the love and memories you shared with Shelby.
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