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Carol Lee Alley Provensal

1942-2010 Carol Lee Alley Provensal passed away April 26, 2010, at Baptist Memorial Hospital East, Memphis, Tenn., after a valiant battle with cancer.

Born April 12, 1942, in Kansas City, Mo., daughter of the late Geraldine Jehl Alley and Calvin Lane Alley, she was the wife of James "Jim" Clifford Provensal, formerly of Bennington, Vt.

In Kansas City, her dad took his first job as editorial cartoonist for the Kansas City Journal. When the Journal stopped publication in 1942, Mr. Alley moved the family to Nashville, Tenn., where he worked for the Nashville Banner. The family then moved back to Memphis, when Mr. Alley took the position of daily editorial cartoonist at the Commercial Appeal. This was the position his father and Lee's grandfather, the masterful and internationally famous cartoonist, J.P. Alley, had held.

J.P. Alley's editorial cartoons were credited with helping the Commercial Appeal win the Pulitzer Prize for its stand against the Ku Klux Klan in 1923. J.P. Alley drew the nationally syndicated cartoon feature "Hambone." Those who grew up in Memphis will remember the cartoon strip "The Ryatts," which Mr. Alley created that was based on his own family situations or those of friends and neighbors. Lee was "Kitty" in the cartoon strip.

Lee attended St. Anne Catholic School, Highland, and graduated from St. Agnes Academy. She worked as a graphic artist at Holiday Inns and Archer Malmo. Later in life, she pursued her bachelor's at the University of Memphis, graduating with a degree in journalism in 1998.

She was a member of the Church of the Holy Spirit in Memphis and was a life-long and devoted Catholic. Lee was a leader in Memphis Cursillo for many years, and served as rector for the first Women's Cursillo in Jackson, Tenn., in 1989. She was a founding member and first president of MESA, Memphis Ecumenical Single Adults, in 1978.

She was preceded in death by her parents, Geraldine "Sissy" Jehl Alley and Calvin Lane Alley, award winning Commercial Appeal cartoonist; her sister, Jan Alley Petree; and her brother, Calvin Lane Alley Jr.

She is survived by her husband, James; her children, Carey Elizabeth Williams and Harmon Clay Williams Jr., both of Memphis; her sister, Jehl Alley (Joe) Palvado, of Gulf Shores, Ala.; her brother, Richard Wesley "Rick" Alley, of Melbourne, Fla.; and her brother-in-law, Harry Petree, of Foley, Ala. She also leaves to cherish her memory many family members and friends as well as her special canine friend, Buckwheat.

FUNERAL NOTICE: The family will receive visitors at Canale Funeral Directors, 2700 Union Avenue Ext., in Memphis, Tenn., on Thursday, Apr. 29, from 5-7 p.m. Lee's life will be celebrated on Friday, Apr. 30, at 10 a.m. at The Church of the Holy Spirit, 2300 Hickory Crest Drive in Memphis. Interment will be in the family plot at Calvary Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be sent to the Memphis Cursillo Movement in care of Canale Funeral Directors, 2700 Union Avenue Ext., Memphis, TN 38112.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Bennington Banner on Apr. 28, 2010.

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Tom Moore

May 13, 2010

Jim - So very sorry to hear this news. Makes me realize that our time here is short indeed as I too was born in 1942. It was a very good year. Take care of yourself. Tom

Susan Carr

May 3, 2010

Lee and I share so many happy and fun moments in high school and her family always made me feel so welcome. I will always remember her smile

Bob Steve

April 30, 2010

I as so many were privileged to have known you. If only via our computers.
Your heart and mind shone through.
Thank you for that and farewell LeePro.

Callahan23

April 30, 2010

Jim, We are so sorry to hear about Lee. We will always fondly remember the evening we met her at your home after that serendipitous phone call we made while passing through Memphis. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Jack and Peggy

Arlene Sharfman

April 29, 2010

My life is richer for having met Lee.I didn't know her well, my friendship is with her children, Clay and Carey. My prayers and best wishes at this time.

April 29, 2010

I never knew Lee, but I attended schools in Bennington, VT with Jim her husband. I offer you and your family my sincerest condolences Jim.-Kathleen M. McCue

Gini Shackelford

April 29, 2010

My heartfelt condolences and prayers are with the family; May God bless and keep you in His comforting peace at this time.

I so enjoyed getting to know Lee over the last couple of years, and will miss meeting up with her at Perkins for coffee, or at the Commissary for barbecue when I was in town! She was a bright and witty woman and I am a better person for having known her.

Michael Lester

April 29, 2010

It was an honor to call you "friend", if only through a computer. Farewell LeePro.

Ford_Prefect

April 29, 2010

Dear Jim,
So very sorry to hear of Lee's passing. I truly enjoyed meeting her several years ago on one of your many trips to Bennington. Keep your good memories close...they really do bring comfort.
Warmly,
Helen Burgess Morandi

T. Lindemann

April 29, 2010

I am so sorry for your loss. May she rest peacefully in the arms of the angels. Although it was only through the internet, she was a fine friend to have. Rest in Peace Lee.

red seewun

April 29, 2010

LeePro and i met on the LNDT, and it was a match made in the wood shed: she was very proper and just so, a real Southern Belle, whereas i was (and am) just a good old boy from the Golden State.

despite all that, after the first crossed communications, we became as good friends as you might wish for people separated by a continent and who have never met anywhere else but online. i will regret to my death that PBJ and i were unable to travel to Memphis to see her when asked.

the strength of her spirit and her character can be judged in the outpouring of love, remembrances and testimony from the diverse personalities and locations of the lives she touched. we should all have such a positive impact on people's lives.

those of you that knew her "IRL" are doubly blessed if even half of what she was in person came across teh Intarwebs.

Fruitcup for everyone!

/white smoke

Marc Donato

April 28, 2010

This is very sad. I knew her very well from a blog her and I used to comment on. She helped me out with some personal issues and I really appreciated her concern and caring.

I'll miss you, Lee

Lorraine Mayzlin

April 28, 2010

I will always cherish your memory and will miss you deeply

Lorraine Mayzlin

April 28, 2010

Lee did a lot of things for a lot of people --including those of us she never met in real life -- she did what God wanted her to do ... I can't tell you how she filled the void left when my Mom passed away -- but she filled it for me, and I felt "complete" again.

I feel completely honored to be graced by her wit and personality -- if only through a computer screen ... I can only hope to aspire to her achievements.

Brenda Kindelan

April 28, 2010

Lee will be remembered for loving "Page 98" in the old Cursillo Guide Book, "My Shepherd is the Lord, nothing indeed shall I want."

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