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Debbie Lackey Obituary

Debbie J. Lackey

1957 - 2014 WHITE CREEK, NY On Aug. 22, 2014, surrounded by her husband and children in the comfort of her own home on Lincoln Hill, and on her own terms, Debbie J. Lackey passed away. Debbie was 56 years old. Born in Glens Fall, N.Y. on Dec. 1, 1957, Debbie was the daughter of Howard and Sarah Palmatier (Vosburgh). Growing up, Debbie and her six brothers and sisters enjoyed spending time together, especially their summers at their Aunt Josie's farm. From an early age Debbie was able to make friends wherever she went. Her easy going personality, her kindness and ability to see the positive in any person and sitation made her someone everyone just wanted to be around. Debbie attended Mount Anthony Union High School. After high school she went on to work at ChemFab for many years. At the time of her death was employed at St. Gobain in Hoosick Falls. Debbie met Bruce Lackey in the late 1970's. The two were married on Dec. 29, 1978 in their home on Lincoln Hill in White Creek, N.Y. Over the next 35 years Bruce and Debbie made a loving home for their children, Korey and Ben. In their children's early years all the neighborhood kids wanted to come and play at the Lackey house, and as Korey and Ben grew, so did the realm of friends who sought safety, reassurance and simply just fun from Debbie and Bruce. Family and friends came to know they could depend on Debbie. She was always there for them, never passing judgment, simply just listening, supporting, and helping them find ways to move forward. Debbie knew life wasn't always easy, but she certainly made life easier for those around her. Debbie enjoyed many things, from her vegtable garden, to campfires, to her yearly outing being the first person in line with Korey on Black Friday. Debbie's greatest joy in life was time spent with her family being a wife, mother and grandmother. She rarely missed her children's little league games, field hockey games or wrestling matches. She enjoyed taking her children on family vacations while they were growing up. This July, Bruce, Debbie, Korey and Ben traveled together to Florida. It gave Debbie great joy to take this final trip together. Debbie enjoyed taking her grandchildren fruit picking, making cookies, and simply spoiling them to pieces. Debbie is survived by Bruce, her husband of 35 years, her children, Korey (Chris) Arnold and Ben (Gretchen Johnson) Lackey, her pride and joys, who affectionately called her Nonni, granddaughters Kennedy and Allie Arnold and Brynn and Emma Lackey. She is also survived by step-daughters, Amy Putnam, Erin Beaudoin, Adrienne Sherwood and step-grandchildren Ryan and Alyssa Putnam, Gracie and Mia Sherwood and great-grandson Brayden Paysour. Debbie is also survived by her siblings, sisters; Linda (Art) Devlin, Sandy (Carl) Sherman, best friend and sister, Ida Charpentier, and brothers; Howard Palmatier, Guy Vosburgh and RJ (Mindy) Vosburgh. Her mother-in-law, Betty Lackey, in-laws Jane (Bob) Corriveau and Nancy (Pat) Mason also survive. Debbie is also survived by many nieces, nephews, friends and neighbors. Her loyal 4-legged companion Oliver will miss Debbie. Debbie was predeceased by her parents, and her brother-in-law Phillip (Sharpie) Charpentier. And surely the first person waiting in heaven for Debbie's arrival is her son Shad Lackey. FUNERAL NOTICE: Funeral services will be held at MAHAR SON FUNERAL HOME in Bennington, on Tuesday Aug. 26, 2014 at 1 p.m. Calling hours will precede the funeral on Tuesday from 11 a.m. until the time of the service. As Debbie requested after the funeral a celebration, or a party as she would say, will be held at the VFW in Bennington. The family invites all to attend and raise a glass to a life well lived. Debbie and Bruce always believed in paying it forward, so in lieu of flowers the family request donations be made to the Karen McGovern Fund in Hoosick Falls, through the office of the Mahar & Son Funeral Home. 628 Main Street, Bennington, VT 05201, to help other families in their community in their time of need. The family wishes to thank Dr. Ives and the Cancer Center for the care and compassion they showed Debbie and her family over the last 8 months. They also would like to thank Dr. Martinez for ensuring Debbie's wish to be able to spend her final days in comfort surrounded by her family and friends at home. Debbie will be remembered by all for her ability to find the positive in every person and every situation. Even while fighting cancer, Debbie never questioned why, instead she led everyone with her strength and courage. Each and every person who knew Debbie knew they were lucky and we are better people because of her kindess. Debbie's message to those who knew and loved her would be not to cry and mourn that she is gone, instead look to our hearts, because that is where she will always be. Guest book condolences may be made at www.maharandsonfuneralhome.net



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Published by Bennington Banner on Aug. 25, 2014.

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Brynn lackey

May 17, 2022

I love and miss u

Jason Campbell

August 30, 2014

Bruce and Family I'm so sorry to hear of your loss my god bless

Donna Scott

August 29, 2014

Ida I just want you and your family know how very sorry I am for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Sandy Young

August 28, 2014

Bruce and family-
I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Howard & June King

August 28, 2014

Bob and Jane, So sorry for your loss. Keeping and your family in our thoughts and prayers.

Paul and Sherry Watson

August 27, 2014

Bruce, Our prayers go out to you for comfort. We were deeply saddened

Bryan & Laurie Griffith

August 27, 2014

Bruce, Korey, Ben and families we are so saddened to hear of Debbie's passing. May you all find comfort knowing she is in heaven with Shad. God will look after her until you meet again. She was a lovely lady with such a great heart. She will be remember in our hearts.

August 27, 2014

To all of Debbie's family, I am so sorry for your loss. Love and prayers to you. Marie Longtin

Kelli McGurn

August 27, 2014

So sorry for your loss my thoughts and prayers are with you

August 27, 2014

My Deepest and Heartfelt Sympathy in the loss of such a Wonderful person. I was blessed to know Debbie through Saint-Gobain. Her personality and hard working ethics will be remembered for years to come. Until we all meet again in Heavenly Glory. With Love and Friendship, Elaine & Vern Weeden & Family

Penny Holland

August 26, 2014

Bruce: There are no words to describe this kind of grief. I hope you find comfort in the good times you and Debbie had together. Know that you and your family are included in my daily prayers.

tracy merrow-harrington

August 26, 2014

my prayer and thoughts goes out to family and friends..

Deborah Mears

August 25, 2014

I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Jason Weeden

August 25, 2014

That obituary was beatiful. My condolences to you all and may the love and strength around you help you through this difficult time.

Lecia Carpenter

August 25, 2014

Korey & Family, So sorry for your loss !! Hugs to you all !!Lecia B.

Bob and Debbie Stanley

August 25, 2014

So very sorry for your loss,our thoughts and prayers are with your whole family.God Bless.

Deborah Warrn Yanke

August 25, 2014

So Sorry for your Loss. My Thoughts and Prayers go out to all of you at this time.

Laurene Percey

August 25, 2014

Sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with Bruce and Debbie. Also with their families.

Troy and Wanda Joseph

August 25, 2014

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Tony and Lydia Hart

August 25, 2014

Bruce and family, our hearts are so sad to hear of Debbie's passing. There is one thing I remember is Debbie's contagious smile. Our deepest sympathy to all.

Jess Dixon

August 25, 2014

I give my many prayers and thoughts to Bruce & family. Not many memories at the Corey's didn't include you all. I am blessed to have known all of you.

August 25, 2014

Korey and Ben,
We are so sorry to learn of the loss of your mom. Please know that we are thinking of you and your family at this very sad time.
Art and Sandy Hyde

Katherine Hutton

August 25, 2014

Ive know Debbie for 35 years, the memory of her smile, her loving heart and her infectious laugh will live in my heart forever, I cherish the memories of our kids playing together and the many cookout we had in her back yard. My heart goes out to her husband Bruce and her children Korey, Ben and all her brothers and sisters. My friend.. I will miss you all the days of my life.

Kim Berard

August 25, 2014

So sorry for your loss ! Debbie will be missed

Mark Driscoll

August 25, 2014

I am so sorry for your loss !!

Richard and Mary Margaret (Kennedy) Bromirski

August 25, 2014

Bruce,Linda, Ida and RJ and her children and family we were sadden to learn of Debbie's passing. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Clarice Gremillion

August 25, 2014

May this candle bless you Debbie and keep you in God's safe hands on your journey to him

Clarice & Rich Gremillion

August 25, 2014

This isuch a shock Bruce. I am so very sorry and pray for you and your family. May God send his love and mercy to make the pain easier for all of you.

Joan Lasher

August 25, 2014

I am very sorry to hear of your loss will keep her in our prayers I have some fond memories of your family

August 25, 2014

to the lackey family Iworked with your mother at Chem Fab and I will say her obituary is truthful she was a warm and caring person RIP Deb Curt Bogardus Hoosick Falls N.Y.

August 25, 2014

Sorry to hear of your mom's passing. Beautiful obituary, what a wonderful woman.

Becky (Morin) Watson and family

Kim Hathaway

August 25, 2014

Even though I have moved away from White Creek, I feel I have lost a treasured neighbor. I am so grateful for the time I spent near Debbie and Bruce and thank them for the love and kindness to my family.

Relay for Life 2014

Diane and Robert Vince

August 25, 2014

Bruce,Korey,Ben
I am so sorry for your lost she was a fighter. We had fun in school hanging out together! I am so glad I got to spend time with her at the relay for life this pass summer. She will be missed! My thoughts and prays are with you all. Love Diane and Robert Vince

August 25, 2014

I am so very sorry to hear of Debbie's passing. Please accept my sincere condolence. Linda K. Lewis

GARY&MaryAnn Pierce

August 25, 2014

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

August 25, 2014

I am so sorry for your loss.

Barbara Carpenter

August 25, 2014

I'm deeply saddened to hear of Debbie's passing. We worked together at ChemFab and our boys played together years ago in the 'crik. Please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss.

Kasey (Woodie) Lillie

August 25, 2014

I am so sorry for your loss. I have many fond memories of spending time at your home as a child. We did not come home on leave often but we always made sure to see you guys. In later years I always seemed to see her at Halmark Black Friday shopping and enjoyed catching up. My prayers go out to you through this process.

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