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Leonard Kotler Obituary

Leonard M. Kotler

1934 - 2013 MANCHESTER CENTER Leonard M. Kotler, 79, a resident of Deer Meadow Road, passed away Monday, April 29, 2013, at Equinox Terrace in Manchester.

Len was born in New Brunswick, N.J., on April 23, 1934, the son of Kalman and Rose (Horowitz) Kotler. He was educated in New Brunswick schools, graduating from New Brunswick High School in 1953. In 1958, Len earned his bachelor's degree at Trenton State Teachers College (now the College of New Jersey), and received a National Science Foundation fellowship to complete his Masters in Education at Texas A & M University in 1968.

Len was a Science and Biology teacher in West Islip, Long Island, N.Y. After 34 years of teaching, Len and his wife, Becky retired to their home-away-from-home in Manchester Center, in 1992.

In retirement, Len became a valued member of the Manchester Newcomers Club, the Lions Club, and the Batten Kill Valley Runners, and spent ample time skiing, volunteering and working at the nearby Bromley Mountain Resort. Len was honored with the Melvin Jones award, the highest award for a Lions Club member, and the Unsung Hero Community Service Award (along with wife, Becky) through the Vermont Chamber of Commerce.

Among Len's many interests were traveling, cooking, skiing, and vegetable gardening, and Len was a devoted baseball and New York Yankees fan.

Len took pleasure in introducing friends and family to the joys of nature and the outdoors through hikes and other adventures in the Manchester area. As an avid runner, Len took particular pride in founding the Lion's Club Loyalty Day 5K in 2001, and reviving the Maple Leaf Half Marathon in 2006.

Len enjoyed spending time with his family and always went out of his way to arrange get-togethers and reunions wherever he travelled.

Len passed on peacefully from complications of metastatic melanoma, surrounded by treasured friends and family.

Len is survived by his wife, Gail Rebecca "Becky" (Griffing) Kotler of Manchester Center, whom he married Aug. 24, 1962 in Sayville, Long Island; brother Stephen Kotler and his wife, Dorothy, of Kendall Park, N.J.; nephew, John Dreher of Sayville, N.Y.; nieces, Dana Dreher-Cheyne and her husband, Curt Cheyne of East Moriches, N.Y., Cindy Browder and her husband Andy Koppisch of Flagstaff, Ariz., and Kristy Edwards and her husband, Stephen, of San Francisco, Calif., and eight great-nieces and nephews.

Len was predeceased by his sister, Elaine Browder in 1978.

Becky's sister, Dail Patricia "Patty" Dreher of Bay Shore, N.Y., brother, Jay Griffing, of East Quogue, N.Y., and dear friend, David Pardo of Manchester, were invaluable in the care and assistance they provided to Len and his family.

FUNERAL NOTICE: A celebration of the life of Leonard M. Kotler will be announced at a later date. There will be no visiting hours.

If friends desire, gifts in Leonard's memory may be made to the Lions Club of Manchester, Vermont or Manchester Health Services, c/o Brewster & Shea Funeral Service, P.O. Box 885, Manchester Center, VT 05255.

To send the family personal email condolences, please visit www.sheafuneralhomes.com.

The family has entrusted arrangements to the care of BREWSTER & SHEA FUNERAL SERVICE, 34 Park Place, Manchester Center, Vt.



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Published by Bennington Banner on May 6, 2013.

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Tracy Pisano

November 25, 2020

I had Mr and Mrs Kotler both and both were amazing. Rest peacefully

Sarah Woyciechowski

June 22, 2013

I was a student of both Mr and Mrs Kotler. Without him I would never have experienced Wild America with Marty Stouffer. My thoughts and prayers are with you Mrs Kotler.

Ivan Saiff

May 29, 2013

I graduated New Brunswick High School with Len in 1952.
Sad to hear of his passing.

Edward & Jackie Crawford

May 21, 2013

Our hearts go out to Becky and your great loss. You and Len were such soul mates. We are truly thankful for the time we had together in Florida.

May 11, 2013

We are saddened by the passing of Len and wish to express our deepest condolences to Becky and his family.
Larry and Elly Tron

May 8, 2013

We are saddened to have read of Lenny's passing and send our deepest sympathy to his wife, Becky and family.

New Brunswick High School Class of 1953

Jonathan Snyder

May 8, 2013

I had Mr. Kotler for Science while at Beach Street Junior High School. He was a great teacher and a gentleman. Godspeed Mr. Kotler - you most definitely had a positive impact on my life - thank you!

Susan Pfaffe ventre

May 8, 2013

Saw this on face book on site for you know your from west islip if. Only good memories of a wonderful teacher. Enjoy your memories. I know I do.

Dianne Brown

May 8, 2013

I was reading the west islip Facebook page last night where people listed their favorite teacher. I did not add mine but it was mr kotler. He was such a nice guy while being a strict teacher. I loved Mondays because he would share his weekend stories which often were about skiing. He taught with a style that was easy to understand and made science my favorite subject. I'm so sorry for his loss but I see he lead a very full and wonderful life with his friends and family doing the things he loved most. A happy life for a happy man. I will always remember him this way.

Barbara Brafman

May 8, 2013

My deepest condolences to the Kotler/Griffing Families on Len's passing. Blessed indeed was the West Islip student who had Len as a teacher.

Adele Seagraves-Rodriguez

May 7, 2013

I met Mr. Kotler as a 7th grader at Beach St. Jr. HS in West Islip. He was a nice guy and a lot of fun. The kids liked him, and he was a good teacher.

May 7, 2013

A dear, dear friend ....my heart is saddened......Sandie

May 7, 2013

My Condolences to the Family. During this time of sorrow, may you find peace and comfort in God's promise found at John 6:40
Ms T

Paula Albertsson

May 6, 2013

I remember Len's great work with the visiting tennis players at the Volvo International Tennis Tournament at Stratton. He was a driver/chauffeur for the players and was such a welcoming ambassador. See that smile!

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