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Kay Kraft Obituary

Kay ten Kraft

1951 - 2013 PORT JERVIS, N.Y. Kay ten Kraft, born on July 25, 1951, in Port Jervis, N.Y., died suddenly at her home in Cherry Plain, N.Y. on June 13, 2013.

Kay was an avid knitter and fiber artist, and the proprietor of Sliver Moon Farm. With her exquisitely hand-dyed yarns, she was a fixture on the craft fair circuit in the Northeast, and a regular member of several knitting circles in the region. She actively volunteered at theater productions and animal clinics.

Kay was born to Hans Heinrich Kraft and Ursula Paula Frese of Port Jervis, N.Y.

She was predeceased by her brother, Kent Kraft of Athens, Ga.

She is survived by her husband, J. Nicholas Adams, and three children, Matthew Cahill and partner, Monica Bliss, of Pittsfield, Rebecca Brody and husband, Ben Brody, of Southampton, and stepson, Jason Adams and partner, Hensley Evans, of Rosendale, N.Y. She leaves beloved granddaughters, Jordan, Rachel, Zoey and Aria Cahill and Kaia Adams, and Kay's "adopted" children, Maggie Pesce and daughter, Yzzi, and Biffy Cahill.

Kay also leaves nieces, Jennifer Kraft and husband, Michael Leavey, of Atlanta, Ga., Sarah Kraft and husband, Christopher Peterson, of Athens, Ga., and cousin, Sonny Pfundheller of Phoenix, Ariz., his wife, Suzanne and their sons, Jason and Jackson.

FUNERAL NOTICE: Private memorial services will be announced at a later date.

Any gifts may be made in Kay's name to your local animal hospital or food pantry. For further information, please visit www.flynndagnolifuneralhomes.com.



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Published by The Berkshire Eagle on Jun. 20, 2013.

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Nancy Decker

June 14, 2014

I am so sorry to be finding out of Kay's passing. We had lost touch thru the years..and I found her on facebook over a year ago.. but somehow... I did not see this. We went thru school together in Port Jervis NY.
So sorry for your loss.
Sincerely, Nancy Nolan Decker

Kay at the Roaster's Whim

September 15, 2013

Larry Lubetsky

August 2, 2013

I knew Kay years ago in college. We lost touch, but I know some people who were still in contact with her. Even though it was many years ago,(SUNYA, at the time) I remember her distinctly as a genuinely nice, warm and always interesting person with a lot of originality and creativity. I was so sorry to hear about her passing.

Evelyn Schneider

July 2, 2013

Would that this world had more gentle, giving, loving, laughing spirits like you, Kay. You leave this life and community better for having known you. Much love to those you leave behind. Prayers for Nick, your children, and grandchildren--a beautiful family circle.

Theresa Kirby

June 30, 2013

I was sad to hear of Kay's passing. She will be missed by all that knew her here at Out of the Loop. Her surprise visits light up the shop. I will sincerely miss our conversations about her family, friends, and fiber adventures.

My deepest sympathies to all of you at this time.

June 28, 2013

We miss you daily.cant stand you not calling me each day ,sharing a laugh or two ,sharing your knitting and family life with me .My heart breaks for you and your family.God bless

June 28, 2013

Nick, we, your Inishbofin cousins, send our deepest sympathy over the loss of your wife. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Jim and Joan O'Loughlin and all of Tom Connolly's family

Bob Sutherland

June 22, 2013

Dear Kay, your absence is felt deeply, by soooo many people,
You were always so upbeat - up lifting - honest attitude, philosophical, humorous,
straight talk, animal & flower/nature loving.
You were so loving, so giving to family and friends.
You were a prime example for how people should be & act, so rare in today's world.
Bless you. I know Mum (in heaven) is crying for you, too.

Ron Cellana

June 21, 2013

To my cousin Nick, me and my family send you all of our prayers and blessings. I'm so sorry for your loss and if there's anything that I can do for you and your family please don't hesitate to call, God Bless, Ronnie, Yvonne and Family.

June 21, 2013

My heart breaks for your loss. Kay always spoke of you all with great love. I shall miss her deeply, she will forever be in my heart . Sending prayers for your strength.
Beverlee Denneen - Dottie's Knitting Group

Barbara Cooper

June 20, 2013

Dear Nick,
Still very hard to believe! My aunt and I feel that Kay and my cousin Saskia found each other and are knitting together...my Dad is painting them...makes the pain more bearable! My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Susan Womersley

June 20, 2013

I can't believe you are gone, my dear Frister. Life is a little less bright without you in the world.

John Benvenuti

June 20, 2013

Dear Nick

I am at a loss of words to adequately express the depth of my grief at the untimely loss of Kay Ten fully knowing and understanding the close bonds that the two of you shared and enjoyed. She leaves a wonderful legacy of home spun friendship and assistance to all who knew her and those that she cheerfully helped. My prayers are with the both of you.

Uncle Jack

Robyn Whitney

June 20, 2013

So so sorry for your loss cuz. Sending prayers to all.

Diana Ethier

June 19, 2013

I am beyond sad for the loss of this beautiful person who I was getting to know better. The day she died, she helped me figure out a stitch I couldn't get. She was the go to person for anything fiber. I know there is a special place in heaven for her.

Karen Hinderstein

June 19, 2013

I have two huge bags of towels and sheets that I am taking to the Ulster County SPCA. I will donate them in honor of Kay. Others may think it strange, but those of us who know and love Kay understand.

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