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royal hartigan
January 26, 2025
dear frank, and members of his family and friends,
just reading frank's obituary again makes me smile at all the wonderful paths in life and his indomitable wit, brilliance, humility, and powerful artistry. a true renaissance person. i have so many memories of playing with him and his openness to just about everything. i interviewed frank for my phd dissertation in the 1980s which will become a book titled blood drum spirit, on world music, african drumming, and jazz, and he was a fount of expansive knowledge, especially on the traditional jazz of the 20th century.
frank, you remain and will always be in my thoughts, my music, and my heart. i know wherever you are, you are swinging the roof off, with a smile and open heart, keep swinging, my brother, always, in spirit and music!!!
royal hartigan
January 26, 2024
dear family and friends of frank laidlaw,
i knew frank mostly as a musician, and he was the eminent artist in every style he played, with depth, intensity, and total musicality. all this with an unending joy, giving everyone who knew or heard him a smile that lasts forever.
i miss frank, and would give anything to see, hang out, and play with him again.
you brought and still bring, joy and goodness to countless people in your life, frank, and i will keep you in my thoughts, my music, and my heart, in spirit and music, forever, my dear brother.
royal hartigan
January 26, 2023
dear friends and family of frank laidlaw,
is it 6 years since frank has passed and i still miss him greatly. he would always come to a performance with a great vibes and smile. his great personal and musical feeling was infectious and every time i played with him it was an incredible evening, no matter where, a small club, a big concert hall, or a crowded stage. his spirit is with us and i will keep frank in my music and life, always, in spirit and music!
royal hartigan
January 26, 2022
on this fifth anniversary of frank's passing, i remember how wide ranging his abilities and expertise were. i new him primarily through music and he played with such creativeness, grace, and depth that every time he was on the bandstand or concert hall, the group lit up and played with intensity, joy, and exploring new areas. it was an honor to play with frank, to learn from his encyclopedic knowledge of jazz and history (pages in my phd dissertation), and most of al,l to have him as a friend.
frank, i still miss you greatly, but your music and heart stay with me and countless others, always. my love to you, my brother, in spirit and music.
royal hartigan
January 26, 2021
dear family and friends of frank laidlaw,
reading through far's obituary gave me a sense of the incredible renaissance person he was. i knew hoim primarily. as a fellow musician and friend and he. was outstanding is his deep artistry in the early styles of jazz - new orleans, chicago, swing - but he was fluent in many others throughout jazz history. a great force, not only in his playing, but also his brilliant knowledge, insights, and personal memories. he played with a who's who of the jazz greats and it was always an uplifting feeling when he was on the bandstand. once at a late night resort gig i was playingn at eastover in lenox, mass, , frank suddenly turned up around 1 am, likely after a great concert he had played somewhere in boston or albany, and he sat in with us. his energy and vibe lit a fire with our group and the whole place, people dancing and exhorting us to go on. so he joined us for about an hour nonstop and we were all smiling the whole time.
when i did research for my dissertation in 1984-85, i interviewed frank for a sedtion on jazz and new orleans music. he was incredibly helpful and so brilliant that i added much to my dissertation on world music and jazz that i could have known about.
frank was and remains a musical brother, a soulmate, whose incredible musical artistry, virtuosity, unique intelligence and only matched by his humane vibe and open hearted love for people. frank we miss you greatly, but keep you with us in our music and lives. you gave us a smile that lasts beyond time. in spirit and music, royal hartigan
royal hartigan
January 26, 2020
dear frank and family, i will keep you in my music and my heart always. a great musician and human being, his music lives in us. in spirit and music, royal hartigan
February 3, 2017
Dear Laidlaw Family,
We have so many fond memories of Frank.Please accept our sincere condolences on your loss.
Nabih and Marilyn Nejaime
Jim Lillie
February 3, 2017
I only had the occasion to meet him once at an after party celebrating the showing of the Cherry Cottage Film he was involved with.
He was a thoroughly engaging fellow, and as I know nothing about music, we chatted for a bit on a subject not mentioned above, sports cars. Something neither one of our mothers approved of. ;-)
Jim Lillie
royal hartigan
February 2, 2017
dear family and friends of frank,
i am saddened to hear of frank's passing and i knew him form playing drums with him in many places in the berkshires and a few in the pioneer valley. he was a brilliant musician, improviser, and creative artist, and every time he got on a bandstand he brought smiles to everyone's faces. in addition to his high intellect, he played and lived form the heart.
i will miss him greatly and will always treasure our times together, including an extensive interview for my dissertation on world music and jazz from wesleyan university.
i offer this poem i wrote with some workd from a hopi prayer of southwest native america. frank will be in my music and life always.
in spirit and music, royal harrtigan
HOPI PRAYER FROM OUR ANCESTORS, FOR OUR ANCESTORS
FOR FAR FRANK' LAIDLAW
words from the hopi people of southwest native america and royal hartigan 1999
do not stand at my grave and weep, i am not there i do not sleep
i am a thousand winter winds that blow, i am the diamond glints on snow
i am the summer's sun on the ripened grain, i am the gentle autumn's rain
i am harvest leaves of red and orange and gold, i am the life force of all beings, great and small, fleeting and eternal, young and old
i am mountain meadows of brown and tan and green, i am the inner secret shadow spirits of all things, visible and unseen
i am the dawning dew in may's blooming mist, i am the heartbeat of your dreams kissed
i am the sounds of hot explosive solos on cornet, clarinet, and soprano saxophone, music and dance and song from up on high, i am the clouds in an endless sky
when you awaken in the morning's quiet hush, i am the swift uplifting rush of birds in circled flight
i am the soft stars that shine on a moonlit night
so do not stand at my grave and cry, i am not there, i did not die
____________
and as before, frank, wherever you go we are with you near or far, and wherever we walk on the paths of this long cold night of life without you, you are right here with us, inside our hearts
a mirror for each others' souls through time and space we are one, and someday yet again we will be whole as we awaken together in the evening's midnight sun
as we awaken together in the evening's midnight sun
and we'll dance with spirits deep, sing the whole way through, play jazz eternal,
we'll laugh at life's old ills, and to each other be true, as we awaken together in the evening's midnight sun
in the evening's midnight sun
we are onewe are onewe are one
all one all
one all
beyond forever
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