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Francis W. Laidlaw

1934 - 2017

Francis W. Laidlaw obituary, 1934-2017, Pittsfield, MA

BORN

1934

DIED

2017

Francis Laidlaw Obituary





Francis "Far" Welch Laidlaw died suddenly, at home, on Saturday, January 28, 2017, after a year of declining health. He was 82 years old.

Born in New York City on March 24, 1934, and raised in Bedford, NY, Far spent summers in Cataumet, MA, where he developed a lifelong love of the water and sailing.

He attended St. Mark's School and later played football and became a star hammer thrower while at Phillips Andover Academy and later at Yale University, once throwing the hammer into a river bordering the field, which lay far beyond measurement. His Andover hammer-throwing records remain unbroken to this day. He was also a beautiful skater, and was quick to join pick-up hockey games into his thirties. A gifted, but unmotivated athlete, Far was to find his calling in music.

Far developed an abiding love for traditional jazz music at an early age, as he listened to his Uncle John's record collection. At 15, he started visiting New York City to listen to his idols, including Sidney Bechet, Eddie Condon, and Mugsy Spanier. In childhood tests, he was found to possess perfect musical pitch, which he would often describe as a curse.

Far started teaching himself to play the clarinet and cornet when he was 18, often using the family car as a practice venue. While at Yale, he began playing with the Jazz Cardinals in New York and New Jersey. In 1955, he joined the Red Onion Jazz Band as a cornetist, doubling on clarinet, playing gigs at colleges and at Jimmy Ryan's on 52nd Street. While with the Onions, he found himself playing with Zutty Singleton, Omer Simeon, Eubie Blake, and Buck Clayton. Far also played with Kenny Davern's band on the LP "In the Gloryland," which was the first jazz record released in stereo. During his years playing music in New York, he often sat in with musicians such as George Lewis, Louis Armstrong, Coleman Hawkins, PeeWee Russell, Benny Goodman, and Hot Lips Page. In 1959, Far was part of a quartet drawn from the Red Onions, playing in an off-Broadway show written by radio personality Jean Shepherd called "Look, Charlie." That gig led to the recording of a very popular LP accompanying author and poet Shel Silverstein.

Far married Mary-Jane McGuckin in 1958. Criss was born in 1959, Annie in 1963, and Will in 1965.

Far moved with his family to Stockbridge, MA in 1960 to start work at Eaton Paper Co., and he soon began playing with a Williams College jazz band and with Carl Lunsford in Albany. He described one particularly busy day "when I played on the Today Show arriving at 5:30am, went to my day job at 8:00am, worked a cocktail party at a Williams College fraternity at 5:30pm, and played from 9 until 2am with Carl in Albany." Among other local establishments, he performed and developed a following in the Berkshires at the Old Egremont Club, and later at Alice's Restaurant. Far formed his own band with trumpeter Paul Ricucci and they played at the Stockbridge Inn from 1962 to 1972, recording "Jazz From The Stockbridge Inn, The Laidlaw/Ricucci Band, Outstanding In Their Field," in 1969. Appropriately, the album cover was a picture of the band standing in a local field. His band attracted many guest stars, including Wild Bill Davidson, Kenny Davern, and Gene Krupa. Gene liked the band enough to use them for three years of gigs, beginning in 1970.

While music was his primary calling, Far distinguished himself in a career as advertising manager at the Sheaffer Eaton company, where he was instrumental in developing the still-popular "At-A- Glance" line of datebooks and calendars, and "Corrasable Bond" typing paper.

In 1976, Far moved to Amherst, MA, where he opened a musical instrument shop. He also formed the Steady Rolling Band and played jazz, blues, and rock in various Pioneer County venues. While based there, he played with Jim Fryer, Ed Hubble, and Fred Reynolds. During this period, his muse also took him to England and Bermuda, and recorded another record with Jazz pianist Reggie Phillips.

In 1992, Far relocated to New Orleans, where he stayed for eight years, playing on riverboats, at parades and parties, and he spent his summers in Chicago, racing his sailboat on Lake Michigan. He played with many musicians, including Chris Tyle, Orange Kellin, Bob Wilbur, Clive Wilson, and Evan Christopher. His virtually encyclopedic knowledge of music astounded those who encountered it for the first time, and provided endless entertainment for those who already knew Far well. Even professional musicians such as those herein mentioned would often ask him to fill in gaps regarding what they knew, or to provide his inimitable "take" on musical history.

Far moved back to the Berkshires in 2001 to be closer to his mother, Ruth, and his three children. He continued to play gigs, including a long run at the annual Mahkeenac Boating Club dance.

Far married Jane Wright, whom he adored, on August 1st, 2006. The following years, up to his death, were among the happiest of his life.

In addition to his encyclopedic knowledge of jazz music, musicians, and brass and reed instruments, Far pursued a lifelong interest in literature and language. His extensive vocabulary was often in evidence, and he was an inveterate raconteur, noted for relating stories to families and friends - sometimes repeatedly. A self-described "black sheep", Far loved dogs and was known to spoil them in record time.

Far is survived by his wife, Jane; children: Criss, Annie (Selke), and Will; daughters-in-law: Janean (Laidlaw) and Susan (Lafferty); and four grandchildren: Harold (Hal) Laidlaw, Grace Laidlaw, Mary Laidlaw, and Charlotte Selke.

The family plans a memorial service for a later date.

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Published by The Berkshire Eagle on Feb. 1, 2017.

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royal hartigan

January 26, 2025

dear frank, and members of his family and friends,

just reading frank's obituary again makes me smile at all the wonderful paths in life and his indomitable wit, brilliance, humility, and powerful artistry. a true renaissance person. i have so many memories of playing with him and his openness to just about everything. i interviewed frank for my phd dissertation in the 1980s which will become a book titled blood drum spirit, on world music, african drumming, and jazz, and he was a fount of expansive knowledge, especially on the traditional jazz of the 20th century.

frank, you remain and will always be in my thoughts, my music, and my heart. i know wherever you are, you are swinging the roof off, with a smile and open heart, keep swinging, my brother, always, in spirit and music!!!

royal hartigan

January 26, 2024

dear family and friends of frank laidlaw,

i knew frank mostly as a musician, and he was the eminent artist in every style he played, with depth, intensity, and total musicality. all this with an unending joy, giving everyone who knew or heard him a smile that lasts forever.

i miss frank, and would give anything to see, hang out, and play with him again.

you brought and still bring, joy and goodness to countless people in your life, frank, and i will keep you in my thoughts, my music, and my heart, in spirit and music, forever, my dear brother.

royal hartigan

January 26, 2023

dear friends and family of frank laidlaw,

is it 6 years since frank has passed and i still miss him greatly. he would always come to a performance with a great vibes and smile. his great personal and musical feeling was infectious and every time i played with him it was an incredible evening, no matter where, a small club, a big concert hall, or a crowded stage. his spirit is with us and i will keep frank in my music and life, always, in spirit and music!

royal hartigan

January 26, 2022

on this fifth anniversary of frank's passing, i remember how wide ranging his abilities and expertise were. i new him primarily through music and he played with such creativeness, grace, and depth that every time he was on the bandstand or concert hall, the group lit up and played with intensity, joy, and exploring new areas. it was an honor to play with frank, to learn from his encyclopedic knowledge of jazz and history (pages in my phd dissertation), and most of al,l to have him as a friend.

frank, i still miss you greatly, but your music and heart stay with me and countless others, always. my love to you, my brother, in spirit and music.

royal hartigan

January 26, 2021

dear family and friends of frank laidlaw,

reading through far's obituary gave me a sense of the incredible renaissance person he was. i knew hoim primarily. as a fellow musician and friend and he. was outstanding is his deep artistry in the early styles of jazz - new orleans, chicago, swing - but he was fluent in many others throughout jazz history. a great force, not only in his playing, but also his brilliant knowledge, insights, and personal memories. he played with a who's who of the jazz greats and it was always an uplifting feeling when he was on the bandstand. once at a late night resort gig i was playingn at eastover in lenox, mass, , frank suddenly turned up around 1 am, likely after a great concert he had played somewhere in boston or albany, and he sat in with us. his energy and vibe lit a fire with our group and the whole place, people dancing and exhorting us to go on. so he joined us for about an hour nonstop and we were all smiling the whole time.

when i did research for my dissertation in 1984-85, i interviewed frank for a sedtion on jazz and new orleans music. he was incredibly helpful and so brilliant that i added much to my dissertation on world music and jazz that i could have known about.

frank was and remains a musical brother, a soulmate, whose incredible musical artistry, virtuosity, unique intelligence and only matched by his humane vibe and open hearted love for people. frank we miss you greatly, but keep you with us in our music and lives. you gave us a smile that lasts beyond time. in spirit and music, royal hartigan

royal hartigan

January 26, 2020

dear frank and family, i will keep you in my music and my heart always. a great musician and human being, his music lives in us. in spirit and music, royal hartigan

February 3, 2017

Dear Laidlaw Family,
We have so many fond memories of Frank.Please accept our sincere condolences on your loss.
Nabih and Marilyn Nejaime

Jim Lillie

February 3, 2017

I only had the occasion to meet him once at an after party celebrating the showing of the Cherry Cottage Film he was involved with.
He was a thoroughly engaging fellow, and as I know nothing about music, we chatted for a bit on a subject not mentioned above, sports cars. Something neither one of our mothers approved of. ;-)
Jim Lillie

royal hartigan

February 2, 2017

dear family and friends of frank,

i am saddened to hear of frank's passing and i knew him form playing drums with him in many places in the berkshires and a few in the pioneer valley. he was a brilliant musician, improviser, and creative artist, and every time he got on a bandstand he brought smiles to everyone's faces. in addition to his high intellect, he played and lived form the heart.

i will miss him greatly and will always treasure our times together, including an extensive interview for my dissertation on world music and jazz from wesleyan university.

i offer this poem i wrote with some workd from a hopi prayer of southwest native america. frank will be in my music and life always.

in spirit and music, royal harrtigan

HOPI PRAYER FROM OUR ANCESTORS, FOR OUR ANCESTORS

FOR FAR FRANK' LAIDLAW

words from the hopi people of southwest native america and royal hartigan 1999


do not stand at my grave and weep, i am not there i do not sleep

i am a thousand winter winds that blow, i am the diamond glints on snow

i am the summer's sun on the ripened grain, i am the gentle autumn's rain

i am harvest leaves of red and orange and gold, i am the life force of all beings, great and small, fleeting and eternal, young and old

i am mountain meadows of brown and tan and green, i am the inner secret shadow spirits of all things, visible and unseen

i am the dawning dew in may's blooming mist, i am the heartbeat of your dreams kissed

i am the sounds of hot explosive solos on cornet, clarinet, and soprano saxophone, music and dance and song from up on high, i am the clouds in an endless sky

when you awaken in the morning's quiet hush, i am the swift uplifting rush of birds in circled flight

i am the soft stars that shine on a moonlit night

so do not stand at my grave and cry, i am not there, i did not die

____________


and as before, frank, wherever you go we are with you near or far, and wherever we walk on the paths of this long cold night of life without you, you are right here with us, inside our hearts

a mirror for each others' souls through time and space we are one, and someday yet again we will be whole as we awaken together in the evening's midnight sun

as we awaken together in the evening's midnight sun

and we'll dance with spirits deep, sing the whole way through, play jazz eternal,

we'll laugh at life's old ills, and to each other be true, as we awaken together in the evening's midnight sun

in the evening's midnight sun

we are onewe are onewe are one

all one all

one all

beyond forever

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