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Jill M. Hays

1945 - 2017

Jill M. Hays obituary, 1945-2017, Bennington, VT

Jill Hays Obituary

Jill Marie Hays died September 4, 2017, under hospice care at a friend's home in Bennington, Vermont. She was 72.

Born April 4, 1945, in Saratoga Springs, New York, Jill spent most of her childhood in Williamstown, Massachusetts, although she traveled the States and Europe extensively in early adulthood. In 1978 she moved to Bennington, Vermont, to restore a Victorian-era house on Monument Avenue that would accommodate her growing book collection. Jill was a prolific writer, editor and accomplished poet. In addition to selling used and rare books, Jill worked for many years as a private tutor for students of all ages across many subjects, although her specialty was ESL.

Jill earned her degree in English Literature from Swarthmore College in 1967, graduating with High Honors. She went on to earn her master's in Irish Literature from University College Dublin. A lifelong learner, Jill spoke several languages, including Irish, French and Japanese, and she loved exploring different cultures.

After her cancer had progressed, Jill chose to have a "living" memorial service. Friends gathered shortly after her 70th birthday to celebrate her life and say their goodbyes. Jill arranged to have her body donated to the University of Vermont for medical research. She is survived by her daughter, Aislinn Hays O'Connor, and two granddaughters, Tully S. O'Connor and Finnula D. Hinson.

SERVICES: A private memorial service will be held at a future date when Jill's ashes are interred at her family cemetery plot in Saratoga, New York.

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Published by The Berkshire Eagle from Sep. 12 to Sep. 13, 2017.

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chris O'Connor

September 18, 2017

I only saw Jill rarely when I'd come back "home" to New England. But when ever I did see her, she always had a book for me or my kids. And what ever book she had to give was always spot on. She even remembered me long ago saying the the first books I remember reading as a child were the "Blaze the Ppny" series. Sure enough, a few years later she'd found and old copy and gave it to me. A smart and interesting woman! Chris O'Connor

Robert O'Connor

September 16, 2017

So much enjoyed visiting the big house. She showed me her George Moore collection, the Samuel Beckett library, book barn, formal gardens, and the secret garden.

Bob O'Connor

September 16, 2017

David Schutz

September 13, 2017

Jill was determined to attend poet Hayden Carruth's momentous reading at the Vermont State House, and contacted me-- as State Curator-- to assist her in making that possible. I picked her up at the train station in Montpelier Jct., and she stayed the night with us after his SRO reading in the House Chamber. Jill brought us books on Ireland (to help us plan a pending trip), and we had a WONDERFUL time with her. We spoke occasionally through the years that followed. She was a remarkable person of great substance, and I wish her family comfort and great care in the days to come....

Jen

September 12, 2017

I am extending my condolences to the family of Jill Hays. May the entire family find peace in knowing that God cares for you and your family and will help you during these difficult times.

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