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CHARLES DUCEY Obituary

DUCEY, Dr. Charles P. Age 65, of Newton, MA, on Saturday, October 5, 2013, after a determined and courageous struggle to live in spite of cancer. Beloved and cherished husband and soul mate of his wife of 29 years, Dr. Barbara A. One of the lights of his late parents lives, Frank and Emily Ducey. Devoted and loving father of Jessica Akers of Swansea, MA, Michael Ducey of Dedham, MA, and Joanna Ducey of N. Myrtle Beach, SC. Also survived by his four small grandchildren and his beloved brother Mitchell Ducey, Esq. Predeceased by his adored fur son, Eli Ducey. Dr. Ducey was a gifted and highly admired professional, a fellow of the American Academy of Clinical Psychology and diplomate in Clinical Psychology, ABPP. He was associated with Harvard University for nearly 40 years, the Director of Psychology and Training in Clinical Psychology at Cambridge Hospital and the Director of Harvards counseling center, the Bureau of Study Counsel. He deeply touched and transformed the lives of his countless students, supervisees, and patients. Dr. Ducey authored a number of original reports and book and encyclopedia chapters. He was an expert on the Rorschach, in cross cultural psychiatry, and in psychoanalytic and psychodynamic theories. He was also a Latin and Greek scholar. Dr. Ducey will be remembered for his kindness, exuberant spirit, unusual generosity, extraordinary intellect, and beautiful smile. He loved his family, his work, the ocean, music, and learning. Dr. Ducey will be profoundly missed by many but especially by his devoted wife Barbara, with whom he shared a great love. Love, I love thee with the breath, smiles, tears of all my life!--And if God choose, I shall but love thee better after death. (E.B. Browning). Memorial gathering will be announced. Contributions in Dr. Duceys name may be made to Angel Memorial Hospital in Boston or to a charity of your choice. Stanetsky Memorial Chapel www.stanetsky.com

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Published by Boston Globe from Oct. 5 to Oct. 6, 2013.

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Kurt Halliday PhD

June 24, 2014

Dear Barbara-I was so sorry to read today of Charlie's death at such a young age. I met him in 1985 when he was personally responsible for admitting me to the Cambridge Hospital internship program. During that year he was my supervisor and I enjoyed so much getting to know him. He introduced me to Iris Murdoch's novels which are all about love and he said how much he loved you. He was a super teacher and a wonderful person. My deepest condolences to you and your family.

Carolyn Longacre, M. D.

December 26, 2013

Dr. Ducey taught a class in case studies at Harvard in the early 1970's. He was a brilliant, sensitive and humane teacher. With his teaching as inspiration, I pursued a career in adult, adolescent and child psychiatry and resident training. He was the source of and role model for my work. Harvard was fortunate to have his guidance with student counseling. To his family, my sincere condolences.
He was a special person. He will live on in the memory of all who were fortunate enough to know him.

John Rosario-Perez

October 23, 2013

I will always remember Charlie with the greatest affection...as a supervisor, mentor, and friend. He so enriched my life and that of many others. I pray that his family and dearest friends can take comfort in his memory and keep his spirit near.

October 13, 2013

Dear Barbara, We were saddened to learn of Charlie's death. May the memories you have of your life with him give you strength.
Geri & Jerry

Sharon Myers

October 11, 2013

Dear Barbara,

I was saddened to learn of Charlie's passing. I can only imagine the loss you feel and the gap that it leaves within your family.

I never met a man who spoke so devotedly of his wife and children. I hope you carry that love with you always.

Charlie was a very important person in my life and I will cherish his memory. I wish you and the family peace and solace in this difficult time.

Sincerely,

Sharon Myers
Prince Edward Island, Canada

Christine Baker

October 9, 2013

Dear Barbara:
You have my deepest Sympathy. I have always thought of
you and your sold mate, What a gift to have spent time with him, when he was Director of the Bureau of Study Counsel, You will always be in my heart. Sincerely, Christine Baker

Mike Nakkula

October 8, 2013

Dear Barbara,

My deepest condolences on Charlie's passing. As you know, I was exceptionally fond of him. I've missed seeing him over these past many years, but have thought of him often. I wish you and yours all the best during this time.

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