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Rev. Donald A. Fonda Jr.

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FONDA, Rev. Donald A., Jr. 70, exuberant & compassionate American Baptist minister. His smile was as wide as his open arms, radiating his love of life. Whether it was family, friends, parishioners or strangers, Donald A. Fonda (Jr.) enjoyed the people in his life. After encountering Don's lively interest in a person's story, one remembered his joy and compassion. Don Fonda's exuberance flowed into the varied interests he shared with his wife, Jeanne Dancey Fonda: going to concerts and the theatre, traveling, gardening, doing family research and being a grandparent. It was while staying in Venice, Italy, beginning a vacation which would include family, that Don died in his sleep on October 11, 2008. Donald Fonda was born on 17 August 1938 in Washington, DC. He was the only child of Dr. Donald Albert Fonda, Sr. & Mary Gladys Speaker. He graduated from Ridgewood High School in Ridgewood, N.J., from Alderson-Broaddus College, Philippi, W.Va. (BA 1962), and from Colgate Rochester Divinity School in Rochester, NY (B.D./M.Div, 1966). In 1966 Don was ordained an American Baptist minister in the Gaines-Carlton larger Parish, Albion, N.Y. Don was passionate in his ministry; ecumenical and interfaith activities were especially important to him. He served churches in four states which were: Warrenville Baptist Church, Ashford, CT; First Baptist Church of Youngstown, OH; First Baptist Church of Northampton, MA; the Federated Church of Bolton, MA (Baptist, Unitarian, and Quaker roots); First Baptist Church of Beverly, MA; and Church of the Master in Providence, RI. During his 35 years in ministry, Don took an active leadership role in The American Baptist Churches of Massachusetts (TABCOM). With them he served twice as interim area minister and in his retirement he continued with TABCOM, working with two Baptist, Portuguese-speaking seminaries. In 2006 he became WatchCare Coordinator, preparing Baptists for ordination. Don and Jeanne moved to Haverhill in 2001 to retire & enjoy their two married adult children and four grandchildren: their daughter, Debbie, husband Ed Kruzel, and granddaughters Niki and Kesli in Pelham, New Hampshire; and their son, Douw, wife, Sanne De Graaf, and grandchildren Aiske and Minne in the Netherlands. A memorial service will be held for the Rev. Donald Fonda at the First Baptist Church of Beverly, MA on Wednesday, October 22, 2008 at 2 pm. In lieu of flowers, donations made be made to the "Don Fonda Fund" established for immigrant clergy support by The Conference of Baptist Ministers at 15 Spring Valley Road, Worcester, MA 01609.

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Published by Boston Globe on Oct. 21, 2008.

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Robert Appleton

May 31, 2022

I am seeing this obituary for Don, almost 14 years after his death. He and Jeanne and their family were good and kind friends to me after my divorce and during my new marriage. He was an exceptional human - both kind and concerned for everyone around him. I'm grateful to have know his friendship during difficult and joyous times. RIP

verna hillman

November 15, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Elaine (Ann) Fortier

November 3, 2008

The Rev. Donald A. Fonda, Jr. my family minister for fifteen years stood by and counseled our family through very tough times. He is beloved by all and his ministry in spirit leads our family today. We are so grateful for Don and his family's friendship.

Don is also beloved by many individuals with disabilities in this area of Northampton. He led a task force to welcome this new people to our neighborhoods. This was an ecumenical effort and Don was a leader in this respect. The individuals he welcomed at First Baptist Church, Northampton continue to find belonging and hospitality with the First Churches and other local churches.

Don's Christlike manner is one that shows compassion for all people. He led a jail ministry of Decision Making/ Life Problem Skills for the many years he served in Northampton. This ministry is empowering and inmates benefit by deciding life-style changes.

The Reverend Donald A. Fonda will long be remembered becoming part of the lives he has touched.

Jim & Marsha Mott

October 31, 2008

We met Don for the first time while he was attending Jeanne's 50th H.S. reunion in Las Vegas. He had been asked to give the invocation and did a wonderful job. Don was a person you felt you had known for your entire life, full of joy and inspiration. I think everyone will miss his smiling eyes and kind words. He was a gift sent from God to his wife, family and all who's live's he had touched. It was a pleasure and an honor to have known him and his family.

Eleanor Becotte

October 30, 2008

My deepest Sympathy. I enjoyed both of you in my "John Adams" class at NECC and on the trip to Braintree-Quincy.

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