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Constance Parvey Obituary

PARVEY, The Rev. Constance F. Of Cambridge, MA died at home after a lengthy illness on May 21, 2011. Born Jan. 12, 1931 in Aberdeen, SD to William Robert Parvey and Anna Katherine Dunkel. Survived by a sister, Marjorie Todd of Tulare, CA and several nephews. Pastor Parvey was one of the first women students at Harvard Divinity School, graduating with a Bachelor of Divinity degree in 1963; she was also the first woman ordained in the Lutheran church in New England. Served as Lutheran Chaplain at University of Wisconsin, Madison from 1963 - 1965. Also served as Associate in College Work from 1955 to 1961 and as Associate Pastor at University Lutheran Church, Cambridge and Lutheran Chaplain at MIT from 1972 to 1978. From 1978 to 1982 she served on the Faith and Order Commission of the World Council of Churches in Geneva, Switzerland, where she directed the pathbreaking Study on the Community of Women and Men in the Church. Taught at Temple University, Dept. of Religion from 1985-1986. From 1989 to 1996 she was the pastor of Good Shepherd Lutheran Church in Jericho, VT. She returned to the Lutheran-Episcopal Ministry at MIT from 1996 until her retirement in 2001. Served on numerous professional committees, councils, and boards. Author of three books, more than 100 chapters, articles and reviews on topics related to the ecumenical movement, ordained ministry, including the ordination of women, worship, biblical studies, theology, ecclesiology, social ethics and the arts. A memorial service will be held 2 p.m. June 28, 2011 at University Lutheran Church in Harvard Square, Cambridge. Donations in Connie's memory may be made to: "Generation to Generation" Endowment Fund, c/o University Lutheran Church, 66 Winthrop Street, Cambridge, MA 02138 or to Lutheran Immigration and Refugee Services, 700 Light Street, Baltimore, MD 21230. For obituary, directions or to send an online condolence visit www.keefefuneralhome.com.

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Published by Boston Globe from May 25 to May 26, 2011.

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Laura Robinson

May 19, 2020

I remember the first time I walked into the
MIT Chapel.

Rev. Parvey was preparing for the congregation to receive the Eucharist.

I remember being startled by the presence of a woman as the Rev.

I smiled to myself, and thought We are not in Kansas anymore!"

She is missed.

Laura Robinson MIT 80, Course 3

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Laura Robinson

May 19, 2019

Constance led by example. Her sermons and teachings remain with me to this day.

Vincent James

June 28, 2011

I have known Pastor Parvey since 1974 when I was student at MIT. We stayed in touch through this spring. I remembered one time we were having brunch at the S&S in Cambridge in the middle of a blizzard. We both remarked how beautiful the weather was outside. I appreciated her perspective on life. I will miss her.

Laura Robinson

June 28, 2011

Rev. Parvey was an inspirational person in my life. She will live in my heart.

Teresa Joan White

May 29, 2011

I first met Connie when I visited Harvard Divinity in 1958 as a prospective student and saw her in the top floor of the Dean's House, where I too would live for 3 years. Our paths crossed later on at the Women in the Community of the Church (WCC) conference at Sheffield, England. We often met at HDA alumnae/i days. She was an inspiration for pioneer women ministers of many denominations. Revd Dr Sr Teresa (Joan White), Community of St Andrew, Church of England.

judy summersby

May 26, 2011

Presente!! We remember you Connie, striding down Vassal Lane past our house in all sorts of weather and were sad when you moved away. Your determination and strong spirit were an inspiration to us. Strong MInnesota women are a legend and you were one of them. We also admired your keen and inquisitive mind which we saw in all those books in your extensive library.
I will treasure my wonderful book on Paul Klee which was part of that library which you so generously shared with friends and neighbors when you moved. Thank you.

May you find peace.

Judy and Ed

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