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Jamie Neal Obituary

NEAL, Jamie K. Jamie K. Neal could light up a room with her smile, a basketball court with her fierce will to win, or a classroom with her mastery of math and statistics. She was a light and joy to her family, a beloved daughter and sister, a cherished granddaughter, niece, and cousin. Jamie passed away on March 10 at age 21. Born in Middletown, Conn., Jamie moved with her family to Duxbury, Mass., in 1997. The recipient of 12 varsity letters at Duxbury High School and captain of three varsity teams-basketball, soccer, and softball-Jamie also was a percussionist in the high school orchestra. She entered Williams College in 2006, where she played basketball and studied economics and math. She loved the college, becoming especially close to her mentor Dean Dave. Schoolwork and sports were paramount in Jamie's mind, and she pursued them with single-minded intensity. Little things like a wet towel on the bed or peanut butter on the floor were of no consequence. Besides acing a test or swishing a three-pointer, she took greatest pleasure at being active with friends and family, caring for children, or snuggling with her dogs, Woody and Bailey. Jamie's offbeat humor could break up a gathering with an unusual angle on the subject at hand. She also embraced differences in other people's perspectives and values. She, along with her mom, spent three summers with the Appalachia Service Project, repairing and renovating homes in impoverished areas of the United States. Her heart was open to the entire world's kinds and colors. Despite her vitality and talents, Jamie had struggled with depression for many years. She was helped in that fight by a special woman, Jennifer. Jamie's legacy is one of kindness, acceptance, excellence, and extraordinarily hard work. Jamie leaves her parents, Robert and Deborah, and brother, Abram; Aunt Andi, Uncle Terry, and cousin Jonathan Heinlein; grandparents Robert and Judy Neal; Aunt Donna McGlashan; Aunt Denise Killeen, and many other wonderful aunts, uncles, and cousins. She was predeceased by her cousin Christopher Heinlein and grandparents John and Edna Killeen. A celebration of Jamie's life will be held on Friday, March 26, 11:00 a.m., at the First Parish Church, 842 Tremont St., Duxbury, Mass. All are welcome. Remembrances of Jamie may be emailed to [email protected] or [email protected]. In lieu of flowers, please send contributions to the Jamie K. Neal Fund in support of a scholar-athlete scholarship at Duxbury High School, research and treatment in mental health, and programs in rape awareness. Checks may be made payable to the Jamie K. Neal Fund, Sovereign Bank, 64 Depot St., Box J, Duxbury, MA 02332. For online condolences also visit; www.shepherdfuneralhome.com

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Published by Boston Globe on Mar. 16, 2010.

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Katherine Cowen

March 21, 2012

Jamie was greatest friends of known her from Duxbury freshmen basketball teams I loved to watch her play Duxbury high school basketball games and Cheering her on also I will miss you dude Jesus Christ is taking care of you?

In Recovery

December 20, 2010

Very sorry for the loss Neal family. It has been some time now but I still think of jaime and the times I met her. I have had a very similiar fight and struggle that jaime had. I very much understand the pain she was in. She is at peace now. In memory of her I keep up the good fight every day.

March 27, 2010

Jamie's smile and energy always lit up a room..she will forever be a wonderful friend and will be sorely missed by all those who met her..she made a huge impression upon my life and for this I will always thank her and remember her..her family meant everything to her...Cheri Johnson, Williamstown,Ma

CHAD SALE

March 26, 2010

I AM SO SORRY FOR LOST ROBERT AND DEBBIE AND ABRAN FROM YOUR FRIEND CHAD SALE

March 17, 2010

Dear Heavenly Father, we ask that you hold up the Neal family at this time. We celebrate her life today and remember all the good times. Thank you for holding Jamie in your arms right now and that she is smiling right now..

March 17, 2010

Dear Neal family;
Others, in Connecticut, grieve with you and pray with you. God grant you strength and peace.

March 17, 2010

Debbie, Bob & Abram,

What a beautiful and insightful description of Jamie. I will forever remember my first impression of her as it has a permanent place in my heart. Literally, within moments of moving into Duxbury, there was Jamie and Abram riding their bikes up the driveway with great enthusiasm to welcome us to the neighborhood! Her incredibly radiant smile and warm and loving spirit was such a joy to see at that very moment. She was a unique and wonderful child. We feel blessed to have known her and have her in our lives. Our prayers are with you all.

Sue, Allen, Casey & McKenzie

Sarah Putnam

March 16, 2010

My family in Illinois and Linda and I here in Mesa,Arizona are feeling sadness and shock as we wish you strength to get through this unreal time. When well remember the basketball days, listening from afar as she and my graddaughter Sara Grant played together. Love to you, Sarah Putnam

Elyse O'Connell

March 16, 2010

I played basketball with Jamie on our AAU team the sparks.. as well as against her in high school , i remember always having fun with her and how she was always making me crack up.. ill never forget how she always squeezed lemons into her water...i am so sorry for your loss...she was a amazing person and a great basketball player. My thought and prayers are with you and your family
Sincerely,
Elyse O'Connell from Quincy MA

March 16, 2010

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. I will pray for the repose of the soul of your precious Jamie.

March 16, 2010

Dear Neal family:

We are Kate Garrity's aunt and uncle and remember watching Jamie play as a freshman. Even then we thought she was one of the best players on the team. Our most sincere condolences to everyone who knew and loved her.

Kathleen (Garrity) and Michael Okolita

March 16, 2010

My heart goes out to your family. Many prayers will be with you in the coming days to bring you strength. Your beautiful daughter is lovingly held in God's arms now.

Sarah Greene

March 16, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time of loss.. I am truly blessed to have met such an amazing, intelligent young woman. Even though I only knew Jamie for a short time, it absolutely breaks my heart to hear this news. She is in a better place now and feels no pain or suffering. Again, my thoughts and prayers with with the entire Neal Family, and I send my love..... RIP Jamie Neal... xoxo

Kathleen Carcione

March 16, 2010

Although I did not know Jamie, she sounds like she was an incredible young lady. As a mother who has also lost a child, I know the pain you are feeling now. I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you can find comfort in your memories of such a beautiful girl. I will keep Jamie and your family in my prayers.

dennis ring

March 16, 2010

Jamie was a wonderful young lady and she was always so friendly. She was a good kid. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Sincerely,
the Ring family from plymouth

March 16, 2010

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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