THOMAS F. X. COLE

THOMAS F. X. COLE obituary, Somerville, MA

THOMAS F. X. COLE

THOMAS COLE Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Feb. 20 to Feb. 21, 2016.
COLE, Thomas F. X. 58, of Somerville and formerly of Worcester, died unexpectedly on Wednesday, February 17, 2016. A man for all seasons, he had an insatiable hunger for knowledge, food, friendship, music, and above all, family. His career in news and media strategy started on the Worcester Telegram copy desk and culminated on the business side at The Boston Globe. His wit and acumen were known to all across the news-business divide. His love for friends made at Harvard molded him as a "reunion enthusiast," and organizer for the Class of 1980 and for Harvard University Band gatherings. He was never happier than when cooking a feast for those he held near – or had just met. He played the tuba and piano, filling the home with music; ran his first half-marathon last year; became the self-taught race photographer for the Somerville Road Runners; read history books and historic plaques wherever he went. His devotion to his wife, Elizabeth Cooney, and sons, Benjamin and Daniel Cole, both of Brooklyn, NY, was deep and enduring. Born in Springfield, MA, he was the cherished son of Frank J. Cole of Auburn, MA, and the late Irene T. (Pion) Cole. Tom is also survived by his brothers, Michael Cole and his wife, Corey, of Westford, MA, Frank Cole and his wife, Suzanne, of Leicester, MA; and his sisters, Judith Jones and her husband, Evan, of Nashua, NH, and Mary Beth Curnen and her husband, Michael, of Auburn. Calling hours will be held from 4 to 8 p.m. Monday, February 22, at the George L. Doherty Funeral Home, 855 Broadway (Powder House Square), SOMERVILLE. Relatives and friends are respectfully invited to attend. On Tuesday, February 23, a Remembrance Gathering will be held at Harvard's Loeb House, 17 Quincy St., Cambridge, beginning at 11 a.m., with remarks by Tom's friends and family. Light refreshments to follow. In lieu of flowers, the family suggests donations in memory of Thomas F.X. Cole to arts and social services organizations, including A Far Cry (afarcry.org), and Best Buddies Massachusetts (bestbuddies.org/find-programs/massachusetts). For more information, www.dohertyfuneralservice.com

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April 3, 2016

Jackie Reis posted to the memorial.

March 2, 2016

Jeffrey Busha posted to the memorial.

February 23, 2016

Michael Foley posted to the memorial.

Jackie Reis

April 3, 2016

Liz, I was so surprised and sorry to hear of Tom's passing. You and your sons are in my thoughts and prayers.

Jeffrey Busha

March 2, 2016

So sorry to hear of Tom's passing. As a student of communications, who ran copy for Tom and Bronnie on the City desk, and a stringer for the Telegram many years ago, I am proud to have worked for and learned from such an amazing group of newsmen and women- Tom and Liz, Bronnie, Andi and Lynne, and Lenny, Chris, Betty and Lanava, to name just a few. My thoughts and prayers for you Liz, and your entire family.
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Michael Foley

February 23, 2016

Liz, Ben & Dan, I am very sorry for your loss. Always enjoyed Tom's company during our years growing up on Packachoag Hill in Auburn. May God bestow blessings upon your family at this difficult time.

Fr. Jim Mazzone

February 23, 2016

Dear Liz, Ben & Dan, I'm very sorry for your great loss. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers in a special way during these difficult days. I wish I had known Tom better. However, I certainly observed his love for life and many gifts shining through his beloved sons over a decade ago at Blessed Sacrament Church in Worcester. Liz, Ben & Dan, May the Lord ease your sadness and strengthen your hope. One day we shall joyfully greet Tom again when the love of Christ, which conquers all things, destroys even death itself.

Fr. Jim Mazzone

February 22, 2016

Liz, Ben & Dan, I am very sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers in a special way during these difficult days. I wish I had known Tom better. However, anyone who crossed paths with you, Ben & Dan, could see your father's love for life and his many gifts living in you. I witnessed this a decade ago at Blessed Sacrament Church, and I know that these beautiful qualities will remain in you forever. Liz, Ben & Dan, may the Lord ease your sadness and strengthen your hope. One day we shall joyfully greet Tom again when the love of Christ, which conquers all things, destroys even death itself.

Abbie K

February 22, 2016

To Tom's family,

I was lucky enough to work for and learn from Tom at the Globe and I had so much respect for him. I am so sorry to hear about your loss and send my condolences.

Abbie

Jan Towne

February 22, 2016

Dear Liz,

I am so sorry for your loss. I will always remember the time when we were all at the Telegram. If we can do anything for you, please let us know.

Tom Hunt

February 22, 2016

Liz,
So sorry to hear of Tom's passing. Will always remember him as the guy who got the T&G's web site off the ground. Great job. Also ran into him many times at the Globe while attending meetings and we always had a nice chat. Be strong.

David Nathan

February 22, 2016

Liz,

As you know, I was in the Toy Dept. and Tom was dealing with news of real consequence, so our interactions were somewhat limited, but I also admired his news judgment, intellect and self-assured nature. He was a fine man!

My condolences to you and the boys.

Bob Datz

February 22, 2016

My sincere condolences to Liz and the entire family. Tom to me was always warm and upbeat and a pleasure to be around.

Joe O'Connor

February 22, 2016

Liz,

Very sad to hear of your loss. Tom was such a great guy. I remember him biking along for the marathon to meet you.



Take care of yourself

Joe

Martin Finucane

February 22, 2016

Liz,
Tom was a wonderful man -- warm, thoughtful, and generous with his insights about the newspaper business whenever I asked. He also lit up when we chatted about you and your wonderful family.
I am so sorry for your loss.

February 22, 2016

Liz,

I'm so sorry and shocked to hear of Tom's passing. I will always cherish my memories of him and especially of his efforts to make me and the T&G better.

My deepest sympathy to you and your family.

Lee Hammel
Framingham

Kristen hantout

February 21, 2016

Hi Liz,Words can't express how much he will be missed. I will miss the memories we have formed of going down the cape. I will also miss his great love for cooking. I am so sorry for your loss and for your sons.Love always,Kristen hantout

Nick Kotsopoulos

February 21, 2016

Liz, My deepest sympathies to you and your sons. I consider myself most fortunate to have known and worked for Tom. He was very fair as a boss, and I learned a lot from him. More importantly, he was stand-up guy and a terrific person. I also remember how important family was to him. He will be missed, though he will always be remembered.

Pam Steinberg

February 21, 2016

I am so very sorry for your loss, Liz, Dan and Ben. Tom was a wonderful person; and the best boss I've ever had the pleasure to work for. May memories comfort you at this difficult time.

Richard Hafey

February 21, 2016

My sympathy to you, liz, and and your family. I knew from Facebook that you were a strong family. Working across the aisle, he and I may not have been close friends, but we were friendly enemies in the competition between the Telegram and Gazette.
Dick

Wayne Forester

February 21, 2016

Tom and I met at our first day at Harvard and became lifelong friends. He, Liz, Ben and Daniel welcomed me often into their homes when I visited New England.

For those of us who are about Tom's age, we remember the difference between AM and FM radio. Tom had an "FM voice". It could boom as loud as he needed to be but I especially remember it when it was so deep and mellow. Even now as I think of Tom, it's his voice that stirs the memories. What I wouldn't give to have the gift of voice (both metaphorically and in reality) like his.

February 21, 2016

Sorry to hear, Liz, and family.

Walter Crockett

February 21, 2016

Deepest sympathy to Liz and the family. Tom was a great guy, taken way too soon He will be missed by all.

Lauren Stevens Cullen

February 20, 2016

The AHS class of '76 was certainly blessed to have Tom as a member. All of us who knew him mourn his loss. Wishing the Cole and Cooney family peace and comfort as they move forward.

Richard Agajanian

February 20, 2016

Condolences to Tom's family. I enjoyed knowing and working with Tom and Liz for many years. He will be missed.

Ellen Cooney

February 20, 2016

Tom will be sorely missed, but live on in his loved ones. I especially remember the things he would do with a twinkle in his eyes, like filling Liz's Christmas stocking each year with the most colorful socks he could find!

John McMorrow

February 20, 2016

I miss Tom already. He was an extraordinary person. I sat (and stood) with Tom and the Harvard band for the second half of the Harvard Princeton football game last fall. He played great!!! ... and was in high spirits. Tom was a terrific guy.

Lisa Baker

February 20, 2016

I had the pleasure of working with Tom at The Boston Globe. Like so many who have had this opportunity, I learned a great deal from him in every meeting we had. Typically I also found myself laughing. Tom had a way of expressing himself with that dry whit that few people can master. He was a brilliant man, a good friend to all, and above all else a devoted family man. The world will be a little dimmer without him in it.

February 19, 2016

Frank, so sorry to hear of Tom's passing.

Donna Paulsen Richardson

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