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Beverly Pilavin Obituary

PILAVIN, Beverly J. (Gorodetsky) Beloved wife, mother and sister succumbs to her year long battle with cancer, on Monday, July 6, 2009, in her home surrounded by her family. She will be missed by her devoted husband of 53 years Harold L. Pilavin, formerly of Sport Appliance, her 3 children Debbie Flanzbaum of Framingham, Tobi Pilavin-Weinstein of New Jersey and Steven Pilavin of New York, their respected spouses, 7 grandchildren, extended family, friends and colleagues. Beverly was the daughter of the late Ruth and Samuel Gorodetsky and the sister of the late Sumner Gorodetsky. She grew up on Castlegate Rd., Dorchester and was an honors graduate of the Boston Teachers' College. She taught full time, then, subsequent to starting her own family held a permanent substitute teaching position for almost 40 years in the Newton Public Elementary School System. Beverly worked until May 2009. She treasured her family, her students, her life as a teacher, both in and out of the classroom. Funeral services will be held on Wednesday, July 8 at 1pm at Stanetsky's Funeral Home, in BROOKLINE, MA. Shivah will be held directly following services through sundown Friday, July 10 at the home of Beverly and Harold Pilavin. Shivah will continue in New Jersey and New York at the homes of her children on Sunday and Monday July 12th & 13th.

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Published by Boston Globe on Jul. 7, 2009.

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Debbie Zussman Peck

July 16, 2009

Dear Pilavin Family,
I was so saddened to read about "Mrs.Pilavin's" passing. I have memories of riding the bus home for lunch from Spaulding School with Tobi. I loved coming to your house because your mom always made the best tuna sandwiches on little sweet bread rolls! I haven't seen any of you in the longest time, but I remember you well. I am so very sorry for your loss.

Barbara Spivack

July 13, 2009

Dear Tobi and Family,
Lasting memories will sustain you and hold her dear in your hearts.
We are so sorry for your loss. You are in our prayers, our thoughts and wish you comfort.
With loving wishes,
Barbara and Jeff Spivack

July 13, 2009

Dear Harold, Debbie, Tobi, and Steven,
Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time for you. Many good memories of Nantasket Beach were shared by our families. You are in our thoughts and in our prayers.
Cynthia and Mel Roseman
Michelle, Susan, and Laura

Margaret Sutphin

July 9, 2009

Beverly ws a wonderful colleague for many years at the Ward School. She adored her family and doted on her grandchildren. Her wit and consistent good humor in and out of the classroom will be missed...she was a truly lovely person and I am sad for all of you.

July 8, 2009

Dear Tobi, Harold, Steven, and Families, We are so sorry to hear of your loss. We want you to know we are thinking of you all and wish we could have been there for you. Our love goes out to you and wishes for a better tomarrow. Dr. and Mrs. Jacob Weissman

Sara Greenberg

July 8, 2009

We are so sorry to hear about your loss. We hope you can find happy memories to comfort you.
We love you,
The Greenberg Family

Joan Puritz

July 8, 2009

So sorry for your loss.

Debbie Sayles (Freedman)

July 8, 2009

Dear Harold, Debbie, Tobi and Steven,
I extend my deepest sympathies to you on the loss of your beloved wife and mom. I have known her for years as we worked together in the Newton Public Schools. We always had great conversations and she always took an interest in others. I am so very sorry.

Cindy Vasil Brown

July 8, 2009

Dear Pilavin family:
It has been many years since I have seen all of you. I was a classmate of Tobi's at NSHS. We shared many high school memories together and I visited with the Pilavin family many times. As an employee at Newton Public Schools, I heard many co-workers talking about Beverly passing along with their wonderful comments of her dedication as a teacher here. Listening to all of the stories on how she touched people's hearts and minds brought back a flood of memories and I wanted to stop for a moment to express my sympathies and remember how welcome Mr. and Mrs. Pilavin always made our group of friends feel.
With sympathy, Cindy Vasil Brown

Robert Palermo

July 8, 2009

Beverly...I want to scream your name out loud as I always did. I miss you so much. Sorry for your and our loss Harold. My respect to the family.

Arthur Kallikatsos

July 8, 2009

I heard about Beverly's passing where we had met: at the movies. I'm very saddened with your loss Harold. She was a caring and special person to me. I have only good memories of her.
My condolences to the rest of the family some of whom I've me.

Sharon Drukman Cohen

July 7, 2009

My deepest condolences on your loss.
I remember having Beverly (Mrs. Pilavin as I knew her) as my substitute teacher many times when I was a student at Bowen. Then my son had her from time to time at Memorial Spaulding where he is entering second grade. She leaves a wonderful legacy that touched multiple generations.

July 7, 2009

Please accept our deepest condolences. Beverly was a wonderful teacher and friend. She worked with my Mom, Janet Lampert at Bowen and taught my Son, Craig Kaplan.(Janet's grandson)
Sharon Lampert Kaplan and Janet Lampert

susan shlager-sherman

July 7, 2009

Dear Harold, Debbie, Tobi and Steven,
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Beverly. She was a wonderful help to me at Memorial-Spaulding. I will miss our talks about movies,restaurants,and our pets. My thoughts are with all of you.
Susan Shlager-Sherman

Margie Shone Simmons

July 7, 2009

Dear Harold, Debbie, Tobi and Steven: So sorry to hear about your mom. I only have fond memories of Louise Road. The Shone family sends their condolences to you all.
Phyllis & Natie Shone, Margie, Gordon, Robert & Randi

July 7, 2009

I want to send my most sincere sympathy at this time. Beverly and I date back many, many years in the Newton Public Schools. Before the days of ISS, Beverly was always my number one choice if I needed a substitute. Her warmth, intelligence, and smile will always remain in my fondest of memories. My thoughts are with you.
Joyce Richmond

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