Mindy Lederman Obituary

Mindy Lederman, Born September 13, 1955, was granted her angel wings on May 8th, 2012. Her journey would seem too brief to many but those who were touched by her understood that the quality of existence far exceeds the quantity of time in which one lives. Her spirit, compassion, smile, words of wisdom, and healing touch brought so much joy to us all.
She graduated from University of Massachusetts, Institute of Transpersonal Psychology, Lederwolff Culinary Academy and San Francisco School of Massage leading to co-owner of TimeOut.
Mindy is survived by her life partner, Robin Ray Rowland; Parents, Elayne MacGregor, Ralph Lederman, and their spouses, Bill MacGregor and Catherine Lederman; brothers, Ron and Paul Lederman; & beloved extended family and friends.
Go to www.muttiart.com regarding her Memorial.
A celebration of Mindy's life; May 20, 2012, from 12pm-4pm 7526 Tori Way, Riverclub Sanctuary, Bradenton, FL 34202.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Bradenton Herald on May 15, 2012.

Memories and Condolences
for Mindy Lederman

10 Entries

Carrie Morrical

July 9, 2012

Mindy was my Pastry Chef at the Hyatt in Cambridge MA. We became fast friends over our time together-she talked to my belly for 9 months! My best to Robin.

Melanie Harrison Hart

May 30, 2012

Mindy, I wish that I were writing this to you, and that I would be hearing from you back. I cherish the times that we spent together in California, the four of us. I certainly wish there had been more of them. Mindy just knew how to live fully in every way. She was full of grace and charm, and was funny as hell. I know that her spirit is with those of us who were lucky enough to have her in our lives, but dang, I wish i had more time with her! Robin, all my love. What a huge loss of such a big, strong, beautiful woman. Feel free to get in touch.....I would love to hear from you...thank you Mindy, for being such a bright light and generous spirit.
Love, Melanie

Janet Byler

May 22, 2012

I will never forget you, Mindy... Hope you are resting in the heavens before the next undoubtedly powerful and meaningful journey...touching yet more beings in every possible way as you did here on Earth. Much, much love to you, Dear Friend.

May 18, 2012

My sincere and heartfelt condolences to her survivors--family and dear friends. There is no measure of a life this precious, a gift we all got to enjoy for fewer years than we'd hoped. --In grief and with much love, Esther

Andrea Kreithen

May 17, 2012

Mindy.

My dear friend.

Authentic. Genuine. A truly kind and generous person. An artist. A healer. Beautiful to behold. Kind and wise, yet vulnerable too. She was such a joy to be with. I am honored and privileged to have been able to call her my dear friend, and I will miss her deeply.

I first met Mindy about 8 years ago, and it was an instant connection. Over the years, we have spent a lot of time together, talking, walking, appreciating nature, painting, eating or just … being….and I will always treasure my time with Mindy.

Our chosen professions as healers, hers with massage and counseling, mine with medicine; our hobbies, and interests, our love of art, nature, people – our values and observations about life and the world… we were similar in many ways, and I like to think learned and grew from each other. We could talk together for hours and also we were very comfortable just being together, no talking, just hanging out, painting or simply enjoying a breeze.

Many of us who have had the privilege of being with Mindy and spending some time with Mindy will hear things that she has said in our heads… it will be a whisper at times and other times loud and clear….

Some of the things I hear in my head, some lessons from Mindy….

Do the work. One of the things that Mindy valued in others and herself was “doing the work”. What does this mean? It doesn't matter what the issues, what the downfalls, the damage that has been done to you or from you… the imperfections, the addictions, the dysfunctions… as long as you keep looking for change, making the effort to make things better for yourself and for the people around you, If you are able to recognize where you fall short and are willing to seek help and insight and “work on it”, she would never give up on anyone and said so. Mindy's advice to anyone who will listen. Do the work and keep doing the work. And don't give up on doing the work. Mindy did the work, and I am encouraged to continue to do the work too. It makes us stronger, happier, better.

Say Thank you and Accept Graciously. This is a message of gratitude.
This is a lesson from the Nan. I typed it into a note in my iphone, so I can pull it out and recite it when needed. Something that can often be hard to do, to accept a compliment, a gift, a kindness. It might be a part of your culture to self-depricate… this old thing? Or oh it's too expensive you shouldn't have! Or whatever the gift or compliment might be…you might have a tendency to shrug it off, not to let in the grace. But the lesson from the Nan by way of Mindy is this…it belittles the gift, sours the compliment or kindness to do so. Learn to say thank you and accept graciously. You honor the giver and appreciate your gift so much more…you and the giver will be better for it.

And now just a few words about Mindy's art. I had the privilege of watching Mindy grow into the acceptance of her own artistic talents. She has always been an artist, and Robin has been collecting and keeping her artwork tucked away… but when I first met her and would talk to her about her art, or art in general, she would always wince and say well I wouldn't call myself an artist etc.. etc. a real artist blah blah blah…... :) but that was really not being able to follow Nan's advice. Say thank you and accept graciously… she had a fantasy of people walking through a house exhibiting her art and being there to celebrate her and her vision and life. And through the hard work and generosity of her family and friends, the exhibit happened and she was able to enjoy it and revel in her own artistic expression. It was a phenomenal change of tune, and she was able to say thank you and accept graciously.

And so I thank you Mindy for honroring me with your wisdom, your kindness and your everlasting friendship. I hear you in my head every day. You have made me a better person, and I continue to do the work, for the betterment of my marriage, my family, my patients, and myself. I say thank you and goodbye, until we meet again.. my dear friend Mindy. I will love you always.

"Dr. A"

Joan Heiden

May 15, 2012

I love you and cherish all the time we spent together. You no longer need to carry the water up the hill..you have arrived...Luv You Joanjoan

May 15, 2012

Mindy, lots of happy memories of you. You were one very special lady. Wish we could be there for your 'Celebration' - we will be with you in spirit. Sandra and Steve Dryden. (UK) xx

May 15, 2012

I love my sister so very much and will miss her beyond what words can describe.

Billie Delaney

May 15, 2012

Mindy - Thank you for all the love and encouragement you have given me and all those who were blessed to know you. You are truly an angel. God Speed Mindy!!

Tina Paradissis

May 15, 2012

Mindy...I love you. So grateful to have known you. I enjoyed your company so much. Our walks, our talks, our painting, our discussions about the meaning of life. I talk to you every day now in spirit. I will never forget you. I promise...never....

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