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Clayton Beardmore Obituary



Clayton A. "Bud" Beardmore, a lifetime resident of Severna Park, died peacefully at home on January 20, 2016 after fighting a heroic 23-year battle with Parkinson's Disease Bud was born in Baltimore on October 26, 1939, to the late Clayton and Margaret Beardmore. He is pre-deceased by his brother, David, and his sister, Joan Fairhurst. He is survived by his high school sweetheart and wife of 53 years, Phyllis Balzer Beardmore, along with the rest of his loving family: son James, his son Stephen and wife Stephanie, daughter Susie and husband Jim, and his grandson Clayton and seven granddaughters Hunter, Logan, Parker, Reegan, Kori, Lucy, and Liza. Bud attended Annapolis High School where he lettered as the captain of both the football and lacrosse teams. He also excelled in swimming for the Linstead community and was proud of his many medals. At Severn School in 1958, he lettered in both football and lacrosse while achieving all-state honors in both and receiving the "Kelly Award" for outstanding leadership and sportsmanship. Bud continued to amass accomplishments in lacrosse at the University of Maryland, where he achieved three-time All-American honors. He set the school record as a midfielder with 108 career points and was co-captain of the North-South All-Star Game, scoring four goals to lead his team to a victory. While at the University of Maryland, Bud was also an active member of the Phi Delta Theta fraternity. After graduation, he continued playing his beloved game of lacrosse with the University Club, winning the National Club Championship in 1963. Bud taught and coached at Severn School for several years where he achieved a 19-3 record, winning the school its first MSA championship since 1929. In 1967, he continued his coaching career at Hobart College, winning the Laurie Cox Division Championship. The following year he became the head coach at the University of Virginia and in 1969 his team captured the Atlantic Coast Conference Championship. In 1970, Bud returned to his beloved alma mater where he achieved a 107-31 win-loss record during his tenure, leading his team to both the 1973 and 1975 NCAA championships. After his first title, Bud was awarded the F. Morris Touchstone Award as the Division I Coach of the Year. The next year, Bud was selected as the head coach for the United States Lacrosse Team for the World Cup in Australia, winning all their games. That same year he was also the coach of the Maryland Arrows of the National Lacrosse League. He later coached the Washington Waves in 1987. Bud was inducted into the National Lacrosse Hall of Fame in 1980, Severn's Hall of Fame in 1981, Anne Arundel's in 1982, and, most recently, Phi Delta Theta's. He was also a faithful member of Woods Presbyterian Church for 65 years, serving as head usher. After his retirement, Bud continued to help promote the sport he loved by volunteering his time to coach Severn School's Middle School lacrosse team as well as Severna Park High School's team, with his sons, Steve and Jim, by his side. Most of all, Bud loved boating on the Severn River, spending time in Ocean City with his friends and family, watching his grandchildren's sporting events, and listening to Elvis Presley gospel music. Even more, Bud's largest legacy, aside from his family, is the impact he had on hundreds of young men. Along with teaching the finer points of lacrosse, Bud molded these young boys into great men, teaching them to be better teammates, husbands and fathers. Many players over the years learned to live by motto: "BE THE BEST." Friends are invited to a memorial service at Woods Presbyterian Church in Severna Park to celebrate Bud's life on Saturday, January 30th at 2:00, followed by a reception in the Church Hall. In lieu of flowers, a donation can be made to the Anne Arundel Community College Foundation designated for the C.A. "Bud" Beardmore Lacrosse Scholarship Fund. Checks can be mailed to 101 College Parkway, Attn: AACC Foundation, Arnold, MD 21012.

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Published by The Capital Gazette on Jan. 22, 2016.

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Mike Brown

January 18, 2020

I was one year behind Buddy at Annapolis HS, and because I started playing lacrosse as a senior, didn't get to play along side him, But I did play for National Championship teams at Navy against him, as well as watch his great U.Md. teams play. A great player, coach, and all-around athlete. I referred to him as a role model when I was coaching high school lacrosse - mostly how he would keep practicing fundamentals ever after becoming an All-American.

John Hubbard

February 1, 2016

Our entire family sends our sincere condolences to the Beardmore family. We pray that God will comfort all of you during this time.

Andre 'Lopes' Pantelides

January 30, 2016

Dear Phyllis and Family,
Speaking as an Annapolitan and 1975 and 1976 UM Men's Lacrosse player, Buddy brought people together from across the country and developed a hometown camaraderie between us that stayed with us for the rest of our lives to 'Be the Best!' I'm proud to be part of his legacy. Buddy was The Best!

Peggy Schmeltzer

January 29, 2016

Sorry to hear this sad news, Phyllis and family. Prayers are being said for all of you.

January 29, 2016

Teachers are a gift, they just know how to touch our lives forever!
Wishing the Beardmore family much encouragement and comfort in the days ahead. Matthew 5:4

~D. Reynolds

Joyce Fisher-Hills

January 28, 2016

A dear friend - you will be missed Buddy

Joe Janssens

January 27, 2016

To the entire Beardmore family, I am so sorry to hear of your loss!! He will be greatly missed but his legacy will live forever!!!

b w

January 26, 2016

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. The loss of a loved one is something that we as mere humans can do nothing about but or Creator can, and he has promised to at Hosea 13:14. Please find comfort in his promise.

Glenn Warner

January 25, 2016

Buddy was a class guy, a competive gentlman whom every one respected. May he rest in peace. I know the last few years have been tough on you too, my best. Herk

January 25, 2016

SO sorry to hear about Buddy. You and your family are in our heart and prayers.
Robin (Phipps) Whray

January 23, 2016

went to school with BUDDY and always found him to be a friend to all. MY thoughts are with his family at this time
Edith Snellings

January 23, 2016

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss, Phyllis. My condolences to you and your family. Buddy was true lacrosse players player, coaches coach, and a genuine good guy. I always told the teams I coached of his extraordinary dedication and discipline as a player, how I would see him practicing scooping ground balls or some other basic skill even while he was still playing at Maryland and had made first team All-American. God bless you and family.

Bob & Geri Parkinson

January 22, 2016

To Phyllis and family, please accept our heartfelt condolences on Buddy's passing. He was always such a great part of the Class of 58 Reunions. He will be missed by many.

Janet Schrader Greentree

January 22, 2016

So sorry to hear about Buddy, Phyllis. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Joyce Taylor

January 22, 2016

So sorry to hear the passing of Buddy. He was my first boss at UM in 1975 (his secretary) in the men's lacrosse office. I remember Buddy well and all the guys who played for him. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.

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