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February 11, 2013
Linda, so very sorry to hear about Billy. He was one great guy and a favorite of mine.My sincere condolences to you and family.
Thinking of you all,
Buddy Andrews
Ralph Ricketson
August 10, 2012
Linda, I just learned of Bill's passing. My thoughts, prayers, and heartfelt sympathy go out to you at this difficult time. Bill had a positive effect on many people and will be dearly missed.
Hank and Pete Guichelaar
August 9, 2012
Linda,
Our deepest sympathy and heartfelt condolences. We are truly sorry for your loss and even more sorry we never got to meet Billy. Please know that your Texas friends are thinking of you.
Love and hugs,
Hank and Pete
August 4, 2012
Linda,words could never express my feelings for Billy.He was the kindest,most considerate genteman I have ever known.He enriched my life to the max just by knowing him.I will look at the picture on the wall at the Deli often and be reminded of the countless good times we had. Phil Levine
jennie holt
August 2, 2012
Linda:
I am so very grateful for having known Billy, ever so slightly. He was such an involved caring person as you are also. I hold you in high esteem, and know you will be all right.
August 2, 2012
Linda,
Just a note to let you know how much I loved Billy. He was so very special. We had missed him playing golf in our every Wednesday game. He always added something special. Such as the time he was late for the teetime at Waterford Golf Course. He had missed the turn in Rock Hill and almost ended up in Columbia. And then there were the times when he would reach in his pocket for change at the end of a round and would pull out a wad of old credit card receipts the size of a softball, saying "it must be in here somewhere". And who other than Billy would bring two golf shoes to the golf course, both lefts? I could go on forever.
There will never be another like him. We have all been enriched by our association with him. And thanks so much for allowing me the honor of being a pallbearer.
Much love to you and Jay and Erin and Lily and Issac. What a wonderful family you and Billy created.
Fred Dula
Jim Payseur
August 2, 2012
I knew Mr. Ashendorf when I worked at the courthouse as a paralegal. He was was always ready with a smile and his kind demeanor. Until I read the obituary I wasn't aware of what a rich and varied life he lived. Sad to learn of his passing.
Marcia Myerberg
August 1, 2012
Linda,
I'm sorry I couldn't make it to the funeral. Know that my thoughts are with you and your family as you cope with your loss. Billy was such a wonderful guy. I'm so happy that I was able to see him at Gillie's wedding last year. It doesn't seem right that he is gone. I will remember his wonderful, dry sense of humor and his love for you and the kids. I will always remember Billy. He was truly one of the "good" guys.
Donna Raye Skeen
August 1, 2012
What a wonderful human being and what a wonderful friend in both you and Billy.We loved the service and being with you, Jay, Erin, Lilly and Isaac, Myles and Ronnie. I love you all.
Ann Langman
August 1, 2012
Linda,
My heartfelt sympathy goes out to you and your family. Bill was a great guy and will be missed in the community.
August 1, 2012
Linda,have had you in my thoughts for the past several weeks. Know this has been hard for you and your family.Someone told me yesterday that when you hit rock bottom, remember that you are standing on the Rock..Sounds like Billy has always been your rock and now you can continue that for Jay, Erin and the kids. Keep his "stories" going and a part of him will always be with you.
Rosalind Roach Allen
Buck Lawrimore
August 1, 2012
Linda,
Elizabeth and I send our deepest sympathies and God's blessings to you and your family.
osborne
July 31, 2012
Linda, My heart breaks for you. My thoughts and PRAYERS are with you, may GOD give you peace and understanding and know that if I can help in any way just call , redd...
Jimand Becky Woodworth
July 31, 2012
Linda, Jay,Erin, and children, Please accept our condolences for your dear husband and father. I know he will be in your memories for years to come. Keep his love there with you allways. With love and prayers for the family. AuntBecky and Uncle Jimmy
July 31, 2012
Dear Jay, Erin And Linda.And grandchildren,family. we are so sad to learn of your loss. Your family will be in our prayersand thoughts. Aunt Becky and Uncle Jimmy Woodworth
Maureen Hunter
July 31, 2012
Linda, Jay and Erin
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Bill. I haven't talked to him in many years and didn't know of his illness, but will always remember his kindness. My prayers are with you
Larry Thomas Black
July 31, 2012
With the passage of time and of distance, memories of old friends, like old soldiers, pass away. Bill Ashendorf never fell into that category nor has his wife, Linda. I left Charlotte many years ago and did not watch Jay grow into manhood. With the parents who raised him, he is a young man I hope to meet some day. I grieve with the family and rejoice in the life of Bill Ashendorf,a gentleman and a friend in in every sense of the words.
Doctor Randi Friday Bratyanski
July 31, 2012
Linda,
The first day I returned to work after Pete died you were standing in your office and you took a deep breath and you just looked at me and with tears in your eyes said, "Randi, I know you will have a happy life". You will never know how much you saying that has helped me through the years. And now, my friend, I say to you that I know it will take some time but you WILL have your happy life back! I just found out about Billy's passing this afternoon from Red Osborne. I love you and I'll be in touch.
July 31, 2012
Dear Linda,
It's Susan Holmes Phelps. I was at the service for Billy today but didn't have a chance to talk with you. I am so sorry for that.
I want you to know how much I am thinking of you and sending you love and support. You are one of my very favorite people in the whole world!
I'll talk with you soon and know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I didn't know Billy well, but I figured it out today. He was a very special man.'
My love to you
Susan
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Pat Matus
July 31, 2012
Linda, Jay and Family,
I just heard about Bill. I am ashamed to say that I did not know he'd been ill. He was a remarkable man and a great asset to the Community and especially to the legal profession. He will be missed but always fondly remembered. Hope to see you in the near future. Pat
Jay and Elaine Stowe
July 31, 2012
Jay/Erin - We are so sorry to hear of this. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Carol Pietras
July 31, 2012
I am so sorry to hear of your passing ~
I worked with you, your father and brother-in-law at Southern Watch.
Such a wonderful family ~ You will be dearly missed. Carol Baucom Pietras
John and Bufi Rudisill
July 31, 2012
Linda, Jay and Erin,
We'll miss Bill's wit, and his wisdom, his story-telling and his jokes. Always such a character, with such a great character.
July 31, 2012
Linda, Two Icons will sorely be missed, Bill Carstarphen and Bill Ashendorf. I can't believe either will not be among us leading us in humor and intellectual prowess.
Best Personal Regards,
Paulette Purgason
Peter Thevaos
July 31, 2012
Linda, Jay, grandchildren and extended family, my sincerest sympathies on the loss of Billy. I got to know Billy through his lifelong friend Phil Levine. There is a Greek expression at times like this that says "Zoe Se Sas" which loosely means a long life goes to those he left behind.
Bill with Al Wood & Ace Tanner
Commissioner Lloyd Scher
July 31, 2012
I will miss a good friend, a good person and a caring person. He was like a big brother to me and I will always cherish the times we shared watching UNC and talking sports.
All my blessings to Linda, Jay, Deena, Erin and the rest of the family and to all of his golfing buddies who will miss him.
Henry Underhill
July 31, 2012
Linda & Jay: With Billy's passing, I have lost an old and dear friend; a kind, gentle man whose heart and enormous devotion for his family was as big as an ocean. My love, my prayers and my thoughts are with you as we mourn the passing of this wonderful husband and father.
D.G. Martin
July 31, 2012
Linda: Thanks for sharing Bill with me and for the wonderful example that both of you gave to me. I am so grateful.
July 31, 2012
Dear Linda, I just heard from Dave Smith about Billy's passing. I am so sorry for your loss.I am at the beach, and there is no way I could get up there in time for the service. I am sure you know that if I were in Charlotte, I would have come. Billy was a wonderful human being, husband, father, grandfather and a blessing to have for a friend. I know you will miss him greatly, but I hope you can take some solace in knowing that he is now at peace.I extend to you and all your family my deepest sympathy. I will keep all of you im my thoughts and prayers.Sincerely, jimmy
Linda and Bobby Hedrick
July 31, 2012
Dear Linda and Family, We are so sorry to hear of Billy's passing and glad we got to see you both at the class reunion last year. You are in our thoughts at this sad time.
July 31, 2012
Linda,
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and the family.
Sincerely,
K. Scott Horton
All of us of Leslie M. Webb, PLLC
July 31, 2012
Bill, thank you for all of the time, kindness and professionalism you showed us over the years. You are an example for us all.
Laurette Hall
July 31, 2012
My sincere wishes of condolences to Linda and family.
Janet & Bob Tourtellot
July 31, 2012
You have been a wonderful friend for so many years, and we will miss your being THE Myers Park High School Class of 1957 cheerleader so tremendously much. When we think of all the things you have done for your classmates and friends over the years, I know only one thing you did not do ~ and that was to ever speak unkindly about anyone. We will always love you, dear Billy, prince of basketball and of our hearts.
Janet & Bob, "mama and papa of the class of 1957"
Emily Vaughan
July 31, 2012
We are so sorry billy lost his fight. You all have been in our thoughts and prayers. With lots of hugs and love. Emily and Jeff
Michael Hovis
July 31, 2012
Could not find a better man, first met
Bill in 1964 Fort Jackson basic training.
My sincere sympathy to his dear family.
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