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Rockwell Deaton Obituary

Rockwell Lewis Deaton, Jr. "Wes" DAVIDSON - Rockwell Lewis Deaton, Jr. of Davidson died on July 26, 2012 after a valiant two and a half year fight against pancreatic cancer. Lewis was born at Lowrance Hospital in Mooresville, North Carolina on August 18, 1952 to Rockwell Lewis and Eugenia Howard Deaton. His delivery by Dr. James Woods gave him a strong connection to Davidson from birth. He was preceded in death by his younger brother, Francis Eugene Deaton, his father and his mother. During his young life in Davidson, he was the organist at Davidson Methodist Church. After graduating from North Mecklenburg High School, he attended Davidson College, receiving an AB Degree in Music in 1974, focusing his talent on the organ and studying with Wilmer Hayden Welsh. He went on to study the organ and piano at the Peabody Conservatory of the Johns Hopkins University, earning his Master Degree in Music in 1976. His major teachers there were the world famous recitalists Cherry Rhodes and Donald Southerland. After moving to New York City in the fall of 1976, he did post-graduate studies with Calvin Hampton at Calvary Episcopal Church. This led to recitals in New York, Houston, Washington, D.C., Baltimore, and Davidson, among many other places. In addition to Lewis' work in advertising, he played for numerous churches, such as St. Paul's Episcopal Church in Great Neck, New York; St. Philip and St. James Episcopal Church in Lake Success, New York, which served as the original chapel for the United Nations; and St. Matthew's Episcopal Church in Woodhaven, New York, where he also co-designed the new organ and performed the dedication recital. Lewis' career in advertising took him around the world, as he climbed through the ranks of media departments at Scali, McCabe, Sloves; Geers Gross; and Publicis New York, where he was the Senior Vice President, Media Director, with oversight responsibilities for all the company's accounts. Among his major and varied accounts were Polo Ralph Lauren, Nikon, Sharp Electronics, the Movie Channel, Nickelodeon, Lea and Perrins, Paloma Picasso and Giorgio Armani fragrances, and Lanc“me. He felt privileged to participate in the launch teams for Nintendo, Lanc“me's Tr‚sor, and L'Oral Skin Care in the United States. Lewis was one of 15 industry professionals featured in the 1994 20th Anniversary Trade Campaign for "People Magazine." He was pictured in white tie and tails playing a miniature piano. As a Davidson College student in the early 70s, he was involved in the Davidson Community Players and was stage manager for a number of productions for founder and director Connie Welsh. Ms. Welsh even insisted that he learn the part of the preacher in "The Crucible" in one afternoon the day before final dress, just in case she needed him. In New York, Lewis maintained this interest in the arts. He was the accompanist and performer for an off-off Broadway production at the Performing Garage of the first medieval morality play to be written down,"Perseverance." He was the summer organist for the Church of the Transfiguration, often called the Little Church around the Corner, which was a safe haven for theater people. Lewis became friends with many famous performers during that time. Throughout his adult life, Lewis was an active participant in the non-profit world. In New York, he was a member of the Board of Directors of Friends In Deed, an organization dedicated to the emotional, spiritual, and psychological needs of anyone affected by a life-threatening illness, primarily AIDS and cancer. Davidson always remained important to Lewis, no matter where work took him. He and his longtime partner, Jon Guttman, visited Lewis' parents several times a year. Jon's son, Jeffrey, even graduated from Davidson College and Rock and Eugenia acted as his local grandparents. Lewis and Jon moved to Davidson in summer 2000 after Lewis' father died. They needed to care for Lewis' aging mother. They quickly became involved in local organizations and established a marketing company, In~Motion Marketing. In 2008, Lewis became a Business Counselor for the Small Business and Technology Development Center, a statewide presence with an office at the University of North Carolina at Charlotte. During his tenure there, Lewis worked with a variety of sizes and types of business clients, getting to know people across the state. He was happy to receive his LEED AP Certification (Leadership in Energy and Environmental Design, Accredited Professional) in June 2009, allowing him to work more actively with clients to develop green products, services, and buildings. Even today, Lewis is the only LEED AP employee statewide of the SBTDC. Because music was never far from Lewis' thoughts, he served in substitute and interim organist positions after moving to Davidson, leading to a five-year position as music director and organist at Derita Presbyterian Church. Since September 2011, he served as an assistant organist at Mt. Zion United Methodist Church in Cornelius, NC. Lewis is survived by Jon Robert Guttman, his partner of 31 years and husband since July 9, 2010. They were married in Westport, Connecticut to celebrate the 30th anniversary of their first meeting. Also, Lewis is survived by their children, Jeffrey Guttman and his wife, Ellyn; Amy Guttman Sutter and her husband Keith; grandchildren Zoey and Maddox Guttman; his mother-in-law, Irene Guttman; and beloved in-laws, cousins, and many friends. The family would like to give special thanks to Maurice & Carole Eury (on the Howard side of the family) and PR and Sherry Deaton (on the Deaton side of the family); Lewis's supportive, thoughtful and ever-creative yoga group at the Lake Norman YMCA; George McAllister and the Charlotte staff of the SBTDC; Dr. Ronnie T. Beamon and the staff of the Davidson Clinic; Dr. Bryan Connell, PhD., Connell PsychologalServices; Gary Frenette and the staff of the Carolinas Hematology-Oncology Associates; Jordan Thompson, RN, and the staff of Hospice and Palliative Care Lake Norman; and Dr. Bill and Margo Williams. The Service to Celebrate the Life of Lewis Deaton and the Resurrection of the Body will be held at Davidson College Presbyterian Church, officiated by the Reverends Linda Bowman, Didi Wayland, and Elizabeth Marie Melchionna on Saturday, August 4, 2012 at 12:00 Noon. Those attending the Memorial Service are invited to wear the colors purple (in recognition of pancreatic cancer) or yellow (the universal color of life). Receiving will be at the DCPC Congregation House following the service. Burial will be private at Mimosa Cemetery. Lewis always believed these words by Ralph Waldo Emerson, "Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail." He also understood that Thomas Campbell had it right when he said, "To live in hearts we leave behind is to never die." In lieu of flowers, the family requests that you honor Lewis by making a donation to the charity of your choice, or to the Music Scholarship Fund at Davidson College, P.O Box 7171, Davidson, NC 28035; or to the Music Program at Cornelius Presbyterian Church, P.O. Box 279, Cornelius, NC 28031. James Funeral Home of Huntersville is serving the family.www.jamesfuneralhomeLKN.com

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Published by Charlotte Observer on Jul. 27, 2012.

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August 5, 2012

With deepest sympathy to the family during your time of sorrow. Psalms 46:1 says: God is for us a refuge and strength during this difficult time and may God grant you the comfort to endure.

Sara Cook Holloway

August 4, 2012

Thank you, Lewis, for your many kindnesses to my family over the years. You were such a vibrant person who will live on in the hearts of all who knew you.

Cindy Howard

August 1, 2012

Jon, You and Wes were so kind to my mother, father and myself when we first relocated to Davidson from California. And even up to a few of weeks ago, I passed by Wes, out walking the dog. He never complained about his obviously declining health, but instead, asked me how I was doing since my dad's death in February.

"Grief is the purest evidence that we have loved, and loved well." May you feel loved as you grieve this tremendous loss.

Sharon Sharp

July 31, 2012

One of my blessings in life is the little church on the corner,Cornelius Presbyterian Church where Lewis and I both grew up. It was always a thrill for Lewis to come home for visits and an even bigger thrill when he and Jon came home for good. Many Sundays we were blessed with the gift of music thanks to Lewis' God given talents. I am saddened beyond words that our friend/brother is gone but happy he left footprints on our hearts and joy in our souls.

sharon

Nina Newton Wall

July 30, 2012

Years ago when Lewis was at Davidson studying organ, I was allowed to also take organ from Wilmer Welsh. I was only in high school, but Lewis always treated me with such kindness. Mr. Deaton and my father worked together at Burlington Mills; so we felt like we were already family from the first time we met. Such a kind and loving person God has taken home. Now the entire Deaton family will be together for eternity. Prayers and Blessings to his friends and family.

Harriet Craven Hawn

July 29, 2012

Jon...I am Laura Craven's, daughter, Harriet. I'm so sad to learn of Lewis' death...saddened and shocked...he left WAY TOO EARLY! I've spent the afternoon thinking of his wonderful parents and my association with them...You and Lewis were so wonderful to Aunt'Genia! I still have the wonderful article written about you two in the Charlotte Observer...such devotion! I'll be thinking of you, Jon, as you begin your live without your beloved Lewis...

Buddy Chandler

July 29, 2012

Lewis, my brother. I am honored to have known you. On the greatest days of celebration, You were there. You played and I cried tears of Joy and Pride. You always made Amy and I feel special. Like our Wedding or the Baptism of Blythe were going to be the next greatest events on earth, and they were, because of you. We are kindred spirits. I miss our insane discussions, filled with ludicrous ideas and scenarios. Talking like rascals, masterfully planning our steely disruptions, knowing we were too lazy to see them through (and too scared of law enforcement).
To Jon, and all who loved and knew Lewis best, I am sorry for your loss of such a grand spirit. However, he will be there. Watching over you and doing all he can to help us, "down here on the ground".

Barbara Beamer

July 27, 2012

Dean Jon & Family,

I am sorry to hear of Lewis's passing. May memories of him bring you joy and smiles.

Have you in my prayers,
Barbara Deaton Beamer

Glenn Shields

July 27, 2012

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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