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Dr. Oliver F. Roddey Jr.

1928 - 2018

Dr.  Oliver F. Roddey Jr. obituary, 1928-2018, Charlotte, NC

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Oliver Roddey Obituary

Oliver Fennell Roddey, Jr. (Bo) passed away on Sunday, March 25, 2018. He was born in Charleston, SC, Dec. 24, 1928, the son of the former Charlotte Carroll of Summerville, SC, and Oliver F. Roddey, Sr. of Rock Hill, SC. His family moved to Charlotte when he was two years old, and he went through the Charlotte school system until the final two years of high school, when he attended and graduated from Episcopal High School in Alexandria, Virginia. He was a graduate of Davidson College, and the UNC Medical School. After internship at UNC, he served a two-year tour as a Lieutenant in the U.S. Navy. Following were residencies at Strong Memorial Hospital in Rochester, NY, and then at the Boston Children's Hospital in Boston, Mass. He remained on the clinical staff at the Children's Hospital and in private practice in Weston, Mass. for eight more years before returning to Charlotte in 1970 and establishing what has since become Eastover Pediatrics. He was blessed to work with wonderful colleagues and staff, offering support and care to all who worked with him. He assisted countless children (and their anxious parents) through the early years of life. Dr. Roddey's professionalism and passion culminated in his being awarded the National Practitioner Research Award by the American Academy of Pediatrics in 1996. He volunteered with numerous organizations, including Kindermourn, Room-in-the-Inn, and R.A.I.N. He was a member of the Myers Park Presbyterian Church, the Charlotte Country Club, the Piedmont Club, the AOA Medical Society, and the NC Sports Hall of Fame, and was in the initial class to be inducted into both the Davidson College Sports Hall of Fame and the NC Tennis Hall of Fame.

Bo had an amazingly eclectic group of friends of all ages that stretched around the world, and he remained in touch with them throughout the years. He was well known for his humor, generosity and his enthusiasm, and he was always intrigued by new things he could learn. He made a habit in life of "rushing the net." And as fully as he lived his own life, he took great vicarious pleasure in the adventures and experiences of all he knew. In his wife, Meechie, he found the perfect solid, reliable, supportive partner for his hyper-energetic life and broad range of interests. He always said, "Meechie is just fun to be with!"

Along with his parents, Bo was predeceased by his wife of 55 years, the former Amelia Ann Hunter (Meechie); his sister, Jean Roddey Early and her husband, Albert Terry Early; his brother, Frank Carroll (Skip) Roddey; his brother-in-law, Julius Jennings (Jake) Wade; and his sister-in-law, Marion Hunter Moore and her husband, William John Moore. He is survived by his two children: Oliver Hunter Roddey and his wife, Susan MacDonald Roddey, and Ann Roddey Bernhardt and her husband, Stephen Foxworth Bernhardt; as well as four grandchildren: Harrison Hunter Roddey, Caroline Amelia Roddey, Oliver Roddey (Bo) Bernhardt, and Ann Foxworth Bernhardt; and two sisters-in-law: Sara Hunter Wade and Nancy Rose Roddey; as well as numerous cousins, nieces and nephews.

The family wishes to thank his close friend and companion, Tim Williams, as well as the Memory Center of Charlotte and Novant Hospice and Palliative Care.

Visitation will be Thursday, March 29, at Harry and Bryant Funeral Home from 6:30 pm until 9:00 pm. A memorial service will be celebrated at Myers Park Presbyterian Church on Friday, March 30, at 2:00 pm. The service will be led by the Rev. Dr. Millie Snyder and the Rev. Dr. E. Von Clemens.

Memorials may be sent to the Myers Park Presbyterian Church; to Kindermourn; or to any of the donor's choices.

Condolences may be offered at www.harryandbryantfuneralhome.com.

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Published by Charlotte Observer from Mar. 27 to Mar. 28, 2018.

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Karen Eckel

March 21, 2025

It was my pleasure to work at Eastover Pediatric s with Dr.Rodney. He was one of the best doctors ever.

Brittnee Wright

May 11, 2022

Hey Dr. Roddey,
I was looking for you to deliver my child. It has been a long time coming, over 30 years now.

Joanne Schwartz

April 16, 2018

We moved to Charlotte in 1973 and Dr. Roddy became our pediatrician. He was such a source of strength! Our second son was put in the pediatric ICU at 3 weeks of age and Dr. Roddy was there for us throughout his illness. We are so sorry to hear of Dr. Roddy's passing. He will remembered as an outstanding doctor and a true gentleman.

Mary Yorke Oates

April 1, 2018

What a sad time for all who loved Dr. Bo. Truly a great--he gave so many of us just the right "dose" of what we needed. A true disciple, through his great medical knowledge and demeanor, he was really a teacher and a servant to so many.

Gloria Epps

March 31, 2018

I'm so sorry to hear of the passing of Dr. Roddey.. It was a joy to have worked with him.. May God give you strength in the days to come.

Patience Brumley

March 31, 2018

To have had the inexplicable pleasure in knowing & working for this remarkable & never failingly compassionate doctor & friend is an unforgettable privilege.

Sally Blythe

March 30, 2018

To a truly great man and pediatrician. I was very blessed to have him doctor my two boys. He saved both of their lives when they had spinal men. And i always felt like he was there to hold my hand as a worried mom. May you rest in peace sweet Bo.

Wanda Baldwin

March 30, 2018

It has been a true blessing in my life to have known Dr Roddey,one of the kindest, caring compassionate man I have ever known. He was my employer at one time and I saw how he truly cared about his patients and people. This world was better place having him here.

Maya Rutherford

March 29, 2018

Thoughts and prayers are with the family. I was so privileged to have him has my pediatrician and family friend.
Maya Rutherford, Charlotte, nc

Deanie Albright Hanley

March 29, 2018

My prayers are with the Roddey family. I have so many wonderful memories of Dr. Roddey from growing up with Ann and Hunter. We played tennis for hours at Edgehill park and he jumped for joy when I finally cleared the net with a ball! He had limitless patience with me while working on the finer points of skiing. Dr. Roddey was a true southern gentleman. He enriched so many lives and I am so lucky to have known him.

Elizabeth Keesler Cochran

March 29, 2018

So sorry to hear of your loss. Dr Roddey was very special to the Keesler family and was a great comfort during our mom and dads passing. I'm sure he and my dad, Lacy, are enjoying a great game of tennis in heaven. Prayers for comfort during this time.

John Young

March 29, 2018

Cousin Bo was one of the best men I have ever had privilege to spend time with ... a true example of character, kindness, and care for others. Our sincerest condolences to the Roddey family.

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Catherine Stone

March 29, 2018

My thoughts and prayers are with the family at this time. All three of my boys at some point in their lives had been seen by Dr. Roddey at Eastover Pediatrics. He was a very caring doctor and will greatly be missed.

May he soar as before

Carmen Talarico

March 28, 2018

One of the finest southern gentlemen Pediatricians I ever served. To be welcomed by Bo into the community as a Pediatric radiologist was an honor I will never forget. He always took the time to let me know personally what he was thinking and what he wanted fme to tell him about each patient. How much easier this made my job, but much more importantly, how much better care it provided for those he cared for. With the passing of men like him the world of medicine as we knew it becomes further diminished. Would that all were as compulsive, knowledgeable, kind and caring as he.

R F

March 28, 2018

So sorry to hear of your loss. May the God of all comfort be with you and your family during this most difficult time.

Linda James

March 28, 2018

Our family was blessed to have had Dr. Rodney and his fellow practitioners to be our pediatrician. Dr. Rodney was a very caring person and personally interested in each child. He leaves a great void within his profession but a great legacy to those who knew him.

Jack and Delores Wells

March 28, 2018

Dr. Roddey was our two daughters' pediatrician, and we are grateful for the sincere care and attention given to them, as well to us the young inexperienced parents. He made it seem so simple..."just give them love, and I'll handle the medical part".

Ed Easton

March 28, 2018

My condolences to Bo's Family--He enriched my life and It was a privilege to have know such special man

March 28, 2018

My heart felt prayers John Stoever

Kathy Mathews

March 28, 2018

Feel so fortunate to have had him as our pediatrician. He was never in a hurry---always took time and expressed an interest in our children and their growth. May he rest in peace.

craig evans

March 27, 2018

He was "The Best" in so many ways. A real inspiration to me in living life and practicing medicine. There are/were very few like Bo. I will miss him and will long "may his story be told".

March 27, 2018

My condolences to the family, may the God of all comfort be with you at this difficult time. Psalms 94: 18,19

Karen Eckel

March 27, 2018

Such a compassionate doctor who really loved his patients. Even after retiring, had to come back to his practice a few days a week....just couldn't quit!
I so enjoyed working with him. He will be missed by all who knew him.

March 27, 2018

He was an incredible man..feel very blessed to have known him and worked with him.
Gerri DeLamielleure

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