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Patrick Halstead Obituary
On Friday, family members wrote on Facebook that Patrick Halstead died after being taken off life support.
Halstead had been hospitalized in serious condition since Wednesday evening, when he dropped his keys into the river near a dock as he finished his workday at the Whitewater Center in northwest Charlotte.
Another staff member who was on the dock said Halstead swam down several times but then didn't come back up, according to a statement from the Whitewater Center. That staff member began searching for Halstead and was soon joined by several other coworkers who arrived to help.
Then, Halstead was found floating unconscious, officials said. Two staff members pulled him to the dock and began CPR.
The water in the area was about 4 feet deep and was calm with no current, according to the Whitewater Center.
Paramedics airlifted Halstead to an area hospital.
As Halstead's family waited for signs of recovery, friends began posting thoughts and prayers for the family on a Facebook page called "Praying for Patrick."
His uncle, John Ketzel, wrote on his Facebook page Thursday that doctors had cooled Halstead's body temperature and planned to gradually increase his temperature to evaluate his condition. Halstead was on a ventilator, he wrote.
But then on Friday, Ketzel wrote that Halstead had been taken off life support.
"I want to thank everyone for the prayers and support for Patrick," Ketzel said. "Now it is time to lift up his family and pray for them... Patrick's job was finished here on earth and now he is singing with the angels in heaven. "
Halstead grew up in Ocean Springs, Miss., according to reports. He's survived by his parents, siblings and a young son.
Relatives said they will have a memorial service for Halstead at 3 p.m. Sunday at Providence Road Church of Christ in Charlotte.
Memories and Condolences
for Patrick Halstead
28 Entries
Deanna LeCarpentier
July 3, 2014
I'm thinking about you Patrick. You will forever be the absolute best friend anyone could ever ask for. I will Never forget you and you are still very important to me. I love you .
Sybil Byars
October 5, 2013
Today is the one year anniversary of Sweet Patrick's departure from earth. We love you so much Sweet Angel.
Angela Engleman
October 9, 2012
I knew Patrick from band in high school. School can be a rough experience at times, but he was a guy who was good at listening and giving advice during some of those difficult moments. I really loved reading his posts on Facebook about his son and about things he did (like helping complete strangers). It is hard to believe he is gone, and he will be greatly missed.
Denise Reardon
October 9, 2012
I went to Montreat with him. I didn't know him very well. I feel sad that I didn't talk to him more during our time there. My thoughts are with his family and especially his young son.
Sean Anderson
October 9, 2012
I was shocked when I heard that Patrick died. He was a good man and friendly to everyone. Hard to believe that we lost a good friend and classmate. They should try to have a scholarship in his honor and memory.
Susan Rasor
October 9, 2012
Kirk and Jenny, Beth and Sarah - we were so very saddened to hear of Patrick's death and our hearts have been with you all day. We still talk of the wonderful times we had in Ocean Springs, especially playing in the pool. Patrick was such a sweet, thoughtful and warm-hearted guy and we loved him, as we do you. We hope many happy memories will bring you comfort today and in the days to come. We know he is at rest in God's loving presence.
Steve and Susan Rasor
Chris Schumacher
October 9, 2012
I just learned of Patrick's death this morning. I had to do some research to find a picture of him. I didn't know him well; but Montreat is small enough that everyone knows everyone at least a little bit. His journey is done. He's finally home!
The Schill Family
October 9, 2012
We really didn't know Mr.Patrick Halstead, but with his parents being Mrs.Genny and Mr.Kirk he had to be a awesome person also.. I have read so many nice posting of him.. The family and friends are in our thoughts and prayers during this time...
Cathy DeVries
October 8, 2012
Patrick was a good man. He had a smile on his face, and would say hi. I am glad that I got to meet him while I was at Montreat. I am praying for you during this time of sorrow.
rebekah johnson
October 8, 2012
I knew Patrick briefly in college but reconnected through Facebook, and was reminded of his warm and caring soul. For him, those personality traits were only punctuated by parenthood. His adoration for Matthew was always clear. I am thankful to have crossed paths with such a beautiful spirit, and to know that I will again. May the Lord bless and keep the Halsteads as you mourn the loss of Patrick's vibrant, earthly present. My prayers are with you all.
Janice Baugher
October 7, 2012
He was such a wonderful man. The night we moved into our apartment near his he helped our movers who were struggling in the dark to try and finish as torrential rains came. And he was an awesome father who loved his son more than anything. This was so obvious. It didn't take long to recognize what a wonderful human being Patrick was. God bless his son, and all of his loved ones at this time. I am so VERY sorry for your loss.
October 7, 2012
so much love and many, many tears. I'm thinking of you, friend.
Victoria DeOrnellis
October 7, 2012
I am struggling with words except to say that the world has lost a wonderful man and he will be sorely missed. Prayers for Matthew, Kirk and Genny, Beth and Sarah, as well as other family and friends. My heart is with yours.
Betty Knoll
October 6, 2012
My heart aches for Patrick's family and especially little Mathew. Genny and her two sisters, Betsy and Jackie flew from Biloxi to Ohio four years ago today to comfort me. They are such a loving, Christian family. Love and Blessings to all. Aunt Betty
You will be so missed!
Teresa Morano
October 6, 2012
I keep remembering you playing with what I thought of as your silly Star Wars toys and smiling. It warms my heart to realize what a wonderful man and father you had become. You will be so missed by us all. Prayers for your family!
Michelle Payne
October 6, 2012
My heart still hurts for you and your loss. I've experienced what Beth and Sarah are going through and I've seen first hand what Kirk and Genny are going through. Your immediate family and extended family are in my prayers. Much love, Michelle
John KETZEL
October 6, 2012
Patrick was the type of Christain that Jesus told us all to be. He had flaws as we all do. But he always trusted in God and loved everyone.
Uncle John
Sally Loftis
October 6, 2012
Thinking of you today and always, Patrick. May your family be comforted in knowing the love you extended to all of us.
jeni herrel
October 6, 2012
I will miss him are greatly!
Monica Berrios
October 6, 2012
I knew Patrick from attending the same high school in Ocean Springs. Patrick was one of the most loving selfless men I have ever known. There are a few here on earth that are simply a joy to know, Patrick is one of them. Rest in peace.
Steven Hanshaw
October 6, 2012
I am so saddened to hear about the loss of a dear friend. Patrick touched so many lives and I consider it an honor to say that I knew him and that he was a precious friend. I have so many memories of his laughter and his spirit of love and kindness. To his family...I can't imagine the pain you are feeling now. Stay strong and focus on the impact Pat made to this world during his time on Earth. To his son, Matthew...your daddy loved you more than you will ever now. I hope that you will continue in the steps of your father. My prayers go with you. May God bless you and sustain you.
M. Williams
October 6, 2012
Although I was not acquainted with Mr.Halstead,I'm sorry to hear of his passing and would like to express my condolences to the family. "may the God who supplies endurance and comfort..." bring your family peace during this time. Rom.15:5
October 6, 2012
To the family: Be courageous and strong. When your strength is gone and endurance tested. Do not suffer shock or be terrified for God is with you wherever you go. (Joshua 1:9) With deepest sympathy.
Richard & Anita Nyland
October 6, 2012
Our Hearts are full of grief in the loss of our Grandson-in-law. We weep for his parents and his son. He was a good father. He had so much left to teach to his young son. Our Prayers will be with Jenny and Kirk Halstead, the rest of Patrick's family, and our own family, joined to his by marriage. May Our Holy Father hold us up and hold us together.
Terri Tatman
October 5, 2012
I do not know your son, I just read about his story online. My heart goes out to you his family for your loss.
Lonzell Carter
October 5, 2012
A kind and warm hearted guy - A dedicated father and Co-Worker. Always will have a special place from the VerizonWireless Tech support
E B Nelms
October 5, 2012
Just hearing the news of this tragedy wanted me to let the family my heart goes out to the family in this time of loss. May God grant you peace in your time of sorrow.
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