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Laura Fernando Obituary

Laura Mahnil Fernando, nee Sumanadasa, was born on April 14, 1940, in London, England. Her father, L.H. Sumanadasa, and mother, Miriam de Mel, were from Ceylon (known today as Sri Lanka). Her father was an aeronautical engineer working in England for the Royal Air Force. In 1943, after years of war, her parents decided to return to Ceylon. They were part of a convoy of thirteen ships that set sail. Their ship was separated from the convoy during a terrible storm. German submarines torpedoed the convoy, and in the end because of the storm, theirs was the only ship to make it home safely. Laura Mahnil used this as an allegory as she bravely fought cancer these past two years. Laura Mahnil attended Ladies' College in Colombo. She then completed her licentiate from the Royal Schools of Music in piano performance, training under Ithalie de Saram. She married C.K. Fernando in 1965, and they promptly moved to New York, as her husband was chosen as a Fulbright scholar to pursue graduate study at NYU in physical therapy. Laura Mahnil began studying under Joseph Raieff, Professor at the Juilliard School. She won first prize in the 1969 Open Piano Competition of Radio Ceylon. She eventually chose to sacrifice her career in performance to bring up her children. While living in New York, she and her husband had two daughters, Netasha and Tanya, and later while living in Denmark, they had a son, Rajiv. In 1974, the family moved to the Chicago area. Laura Mahnil started teaching piano, and taught a whole generation of students in the Hinsdale/Oak Brook area. She was active in the music circles, and was a member and President of the Hinsdale Music Club. In 1996, she and her husband moved to Naples, Florida. She continued to be active in music. She played for services at the Unitarian Congregation of Naples, and was on the board of the Naples Music Club. She also began to perform again. She performed both solo concerts, playing with the Naples Orchestra and Chorus, and music for two pianos with concert pianist, Richard Bosworth. They performed in Naples, Chicago, as well as Colombo, where they gave a charity concert for Mallika Home for Elderly Women, an organization founded in part by her grandmother, Laura de Mel. Laura Mahnil's grace, beauty, goodness, and gift of music will continue to touch all those who knew and loved her. She is survived by a loving husband, Dr. C.K. Fernando; three devoted children, Netasha Scarpiniti, Tanya Fernando, and Rajiv Fernando; two beloved grandchildren, Anthony and Giana, and son-in-law, Frank Scarpiniti; three adoring siblings, Lelani Chinnadurai, Ananda Sumanadasa, and Madera Gunewardane; and a cherished community of family and friends. Memorial services will be held in Oak Brook, IL and Naples, FL. The family kindly requests that in lieu of flowers, donations be made to the Laura Mahnil Fernando Memorial Fund for Cancer Care: Harris Bank, 141 West Jackson Blvd., Main Floor, Chicago, IL 60604. Communications can be sent to [email protected]

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Published by Chicago Tribune on Jan. 22, 2011.

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swarna wickremeratne

January 23, 2011

Laura Mahnil Fernando is no more. It is with sadness I say farewell to a beautiful friendship which served as a bond between us for well over thirty three long years each marked by friendship, trust, understanding and mutual response.
I feel she is still with us and will always remain a vibrant, beautiful, refined, elegant and warm presence, in my life and in our lives. My husband, Ananda often told me that whenever he thought of Mahnil he recalls her beautiful smile and her positive way of looking at things. When sickness struck her she maintained her courage and presence of mind with calm and equanimity – inspiration to us all. Of death It is said “Many walk through that door but none comes back to tell the tale”. Nonetheless we both feel that Mahnil is today in a far more beautiful and ethereal realm. She wants us all to know that she is where she belongs and wants to be -- that abode where the truly virtuous go beyond ill will, hatred, envy, and delusion which the Buddha so nobly and tirelessly urged all of us to transcend. To live life positively even if we do not know what it is all about.
Ananda joins me in sending our heartfelt condolences to Natasha and family, Tanya, Rajiv. And above all to our dear friend Lal, unsurpassed in his role as a fine, lively, vibrant life companion to Mahnil and will always remain so an example and inspiration to us all.
Ananda and Swarna Wickremeratne
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swarna wickremeratne

January 23, 2011

Laura Mahnil Fernando is no more. It is with sadness I say farewell to a beautiful friendship which served as a bond between us for well over thirty three long years each marked by friendship, trust, understanding and mutual response.
I feel she is still with us and will always remain a vibrant, beautiful, refined, elegant and warm presence, in my life and in our lives. My husband, Ananda often told me that whenever he thought of Mahnil he recalls her beautiful smile and her positive way of looking at things. When sickness struck her she maintained her courage and presence of mind with calm and equanimity – inspiration to us all. Of death It is said “Many walk through that door but none comes back to tell the tale”. Nonetheless we both feel that Mahnil is today in a far more beautiful and ethereal realm. She wants us all to know that she is where she belongs and wants to be -- that abode where the truly virtuous go beyond ill will, hatred, envy, and delusion which the Buddha so nobly and tirelessly urged all of us to transcend. To live life positively even if we do not know what it is all about.
Ananda joins me in sending our heartfelt condolences to Natasha and family, Tanya, Rajiv. And above all to our dear friend Lal, unsurpassed in his role as a fine, lively, vibrant life companion to Mahnil and will always remain so an example and inspiration to us all.
Ananda and Swarna Wickremeratne
Chicago

January 23, 2011

Gene and I were saddened to hear about Laura. We have so many fond memories of her musical activities and performances with the Naples Music Club. Laura was truly an outstanding member of the musical community in Naples. Laura will be remembered for here talent, kindness, and devotion to all who knew here. Laura will be missed by all who performed and worked with her. With deepest sympathy, Richard Holmberg and Gene Fort

January 22, 2011

It is with my deepest sympathy that I send all of the family my loving thoughts about Laura. It would be impossible for me describe my inner most feelings about my love for Laura. We shared many special moments-laughs,stories, some tears, hopes and dreams daily as we sat in Mitch's office....Laura will remain a dear friend and inspiration as my journey continues......she will be missed greatly...How can I get in touch with you? With love always, Arlene DaSilva

Sarita Peiris

January 21, 2011

Dear Uncle Lal, Netasha,Tanya,Rajiv,
Am so sorry and sad to hear about Aunty Mahnil. I recall with much pleasure the lunch I had with you the last time you were here in colombo.
At least she will no longer be in pain and discomfort.
With much love
Sarita

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