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MARILYN PENDLEY Obituary
A Memorial service will be held for Marilyn Eileen Pendley, 58 of Oroville, on Friday, April 23, 2010 at 11:00 a.m. at Calvary Chapel in Chico. She passed away on Saturday, April 17, 2010 in Chico.
Marilyn was born in Monterey to Joseph and Wanda Deschenes. She grew up in Concord and graduated from Mount Diablo High School in 1970. In 1977 she married Terry Pendley in Reno, NV. They raised their five children in the Bay Area.
Marilyn was extremely creative and artistic in every way. Her passion was to make people laugh.
Her survivors include her three daughters, April (Jasin) Wilburn, Angie (Scott) Jensen and Nicole (Ryan) Pendley; son, Joseph (Kimmy) Pendley; two sisters, Gail (Paul Wilburn) Morris, Anne (James) Cook; one brother, Steven (Debbie) Deschenes; mother, Wanda "Sweet Jewell of a Mom" (Charles) Stewart; five grandchildren and Marilyn's companion, Phil DeCann.
She was preceded in death by her son, Jared Pendley in 1978 and her father, Joseph Deschenes in 1994.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to The American Cancer Society for lung cancer research.
Arrangements are under the direction of the Affordable Mortuary. Condolences may be sent to the family on line at www.affordablemortuary.net.
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Memories and Condolences
for MARILYN PENDLEY
April 24, 2010
One of my favorite "sister-in-law's, you're light will always shine......
My prayer to her family,
Beloved Mother,Father, my All
In this grieving Come to my soul.
Give me strength in my despair, To
remember my loved one's in your care.
That in your boundless spiritual home, All will find that they are known. And
cherished in your radiant light, that
never dims is always bright.
With love and nurturing always, this
comforting thought I hold today.
Beloved Mother, Father, my All, in this grieving soothe my soul. And in the coming morning light, May my world seem once more bright."
My love, thoughts and prayers are with all of you............
Ria
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Kim Jones
April 22, 2010
Y'all's Mom was a wonderful lady. I'm so glad i was able to thank her for being so Good To my Daughter Shawna. I know she will be missed so much. Then again she will live on through her Children & Grand children..
R.I.P Marilyn We love you
Brook & Chris
April 22, 2010
Nicole, Ryan and Family,
Please know that we are thinking of you and our thoughts and prayers are with you. Please let us know if there is anything you need.
We Love Ya!
kelcie bolmen
April 22, 2010
Marilyn was such an amazing woman, I remember she always made people laugh and was such a riot to be around. my prayers are with you guys! I love you all sooo much
Alicia LeHew
April 22, 2010
Nicole Im so sorry for your loss. Although I didnt personally know your mom she must of been an amazing person because she raised an amazing daughter. Remember she is in a much better place and out of pain. One day you will be reunited with her again but until then cherish the memories you have of her. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help. We love ya.
Debra Pruitt
April 21, 2010
My cousin was my inspiration. I loved to hang out with her and laugh till my face hurt. I will forever hold dear the memories we shared. Until we see each other again.
April 21, 2010
I love you, Marilyn- I will always be proud to say you were my cousin/my family! Such a sweet spirit- I'm so glad to know that you are in the presence of our Savior. This isn't goodbye- just, see you later.
love, Carolyn Griffin(Marilyn's cousin)
Andrea Martin
April 21, 2010
Marilyn was always happy and brought joy every time that I saw her. My prayers go out to her family and her friends during this difficult time. I am so very sorry we lost another wonderful person.
David & Lesley Edmonds
April 21, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers go out to the family. Marilyn was such a joy, she will be missed but not forgotten.
Dave & Sabra Thomas
April 21, 2010
We are very Sorry To Hear about your families loss. Our prayers and Thoughts are with you all.
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