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James O'Toole Obituary
James J. 'Jim' #31, loving husband of Betty Jane O'Toole (nee Wall), beloved father of Jim (Kellie) O'Toole Jr., Holly (Tom) Boyd, John (Patty) O'Toole, Lucy (Dr. Dan) Weaver, Peggy Kelly, Bill O'Toole, Frank (Stephanie) O'Toole, Jeremiah (DeAnn) O'Toole, Josie O'Toole, Mary (Denis) Dowdle, and Dinah Rose (Mark) Marron, devoted brother of William, Margaret, Dennis O'Toole, and the late Mary Alice Hardiman, also survived by 38 grandchildren. Born into Eternal Life on Dec. 26, 2015 at the hour of Divine Mercy 3 AM. Age 78 years. Residence Anderson Twp. Mass of Christian Burial at St. Rose Church 2501 Riverside Dr. on Thur. Dec. 31, at 10 AM. Friends may visit at T P WHITE & SONS Funeral Home 2050 Beechmont Ave. Mt. Washington on Wed. from 4-8 PM. Memorials to St. Rose Church.
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Memories and Condolences
for James O'Toole
Danny Dean
December 24, 2024
I think about Jim often and especially at this time of year. The number 31, Jim’s number, continues to be an important part of my life.
The surprise meeting of Jim facilitated by Greg Hoard was a special moment for me. I still enjoy baseball to this day and this is because of Jim O’Toole.
Danny Dean
Danny Dean
December 26, 2022
I still think of Jim often and how important he was in my life. People seem to enjoy the story about our meeting and I know I will never forget meeting Jim.
Having been invited to his service and meeting his family was a highlight of my life. At the reception following his service, one of Jim´s daughters gave me a medal. At that time, I put it in my wallet and have carried it with me every day since then. I hope she is pleased to read of the importance I have placed on her gift, and that it is my way of staying connected to Jim.
Jim, thanks for being the player and role model a young fan can admire for a lifetime.
Danny Dean
Carmel,IN
Danny Dean
December 22, 2019
As one of Jims biggest lifelong fans, I think of him often. I still have people who have read the story written by Greg Hoard about my meeting Jim, who tell me how inspirational it is.
It was an honor for the O Toole family to invite my wife and me to Jims service and celebration of his life at the Reds Museum. We wish the OToole family all the best.
Danny Dean
Eileen Connelly-Beckman
December 30, 2015
Dear Aunt Betty and all my O'Toole Cousins,
My deepest sympathies to you all- you are in my thoughts and prayers today and always - Uncle Jim will be missed as you all know- I love you all and know you will find comfort in family - you are all in my thoughts and prayers as you enter into these two difficult days - sending hugs, love and prayers.
Love, Eileen, Jim, Nichole, and Christopher
Ray Johnson
December 27, 2015
A nice man and a great ambassador for baseball.Thoughts and Prayers for the O'Toole family. Ray Johnson
Mary O'Toole Peters
December 27, 2015
Aunt Betty and family, so very sorry at uncle Jim's passing, he will be missed.Prayers for you and your family.My memory of uncle Jim is coming there for a few summers when I was young and how much fun I had, and you all coming to Lake Delavan, we had so much fun being together. N
Mike Baffuto
January 22, 2016
My condolences to the family of Jim O'Toole. I had the pleasure to meet him in 2012; he was a very nice man, and a very good pitcher. May he find eternal rest.
Phil Saler
January 15, 2016
He was one of the reason I became a Reds fan. I would check the newspaper in 1961 and see that he won again. Sorry for your loss.
Dan Stain
January 9, 2016
Dear Family, Having never met the man personally, I can only give my impressions of him through his family--specifically Jim. A funny, thoughtful, sincere and well-mannered young man. If you were going through a rough time he was right there for you. I miss seeing Jim and can only attribute his sensitivity to his parents: Loving, Caring People.
January 9, 2016
Dear Betty and Family, Bob and I are remembering what great fun we always had with our families while we lived in Cincinnati. We are remembering you in our prayers, All of our LOVE, Kayleen and Bob Harrington
Cindy Kelly
January 5, 2016
I was so sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved husband, brother, dad & granddad! What a wonderful life he had & what a beautiful legacy he left behind. May God's love and mercy be with you all.
Diane Burgess
January 3, 2016
Lived in Cincy for 10 yrs and became a huge Red's fan. Met you once when u were at Christ hosp in oak lawn. We're in for your mom's wake and funeral. Came in hosp room to give u my sympathy. I also got his autograph. Dr ruff was my doctor and lived in St Linus parish were we lived.always a Red's fan. So sorry for your loss. One of my favorites. Diane. Steger, il
Heath Northcutt
January 1, 2016
Deepest condolences to the O'Toole family on the loss of Jim. I grew up near his brother Denny and met Jim several times over the years. He was a good man. He always had a great baseball story to tell.
Our thoughts and prayers for the entire family.
God bless.
Paul Kramer
December 31, 2015
Dennis,
I'd like to express my sincere condolences to you and your entire family on the passing of your brother. From an old Newport colleague. Blessings to you!
December 31, 2015
Betty, Was so sad to hear the news of your loss. Did not see you often but the times we did were memorable. Your faith and your family will keep you strong.
Love, Betty D'Andrea
John & Deborah Andreyko
December 31, 2015
Dear Mrs. O'Toole (Betty), Bill, Frank, Peggy & family,
It is with great regret I was unable to attend the visitation or services. Mr. O'Toole (Jim) was a one of a kind person. My prayers are with you all during this celebration of his life!
JIM PENKER
December 31, 2015
ONE NEAT PERSON, GLAD HE WAS MY FRIEND. TRACY STALLARD AGREES WITH ME ON THIS
Bruce Styron
December 30, 2015
Wishing your family peace and warm memories made over a wonderful life time. I still remember you and Betty wishing me good luck when I left for the Marines in 78'. RIP "BIG GUY" !!!
Laurie Carr
December 30, 2015
May God's eternal light shine, and may the memories of your dear love one sustain each of you.With deepest sympathy.
Laurie Carr
Amanda Drew
December 30, 2015
Lucy, Dan, Grant, Kate and family,
My deepest sympathy. Please know you are all in my thoughts and prayers!
Daniel & Vickii Sewell
December 30, 2015
Our condolences to Betty and to all of the large family Jim was so proud of. It was gratifying to years later meet a larger-than-life star from my childhood and find that he was warm, witty and always friendly.
Cathy Crist
December 30, 2015
To The Family of Jim O'Toole We will miss seeing you atRedsfest and we will always remember the last time we saw you at Fan fest You will be missed by many people R I P Cathy and Kendra
Betsy Schneider
December 30, 2015
Jim O'Toole stories were regularly told by my late father. What a great man and true inspiration! My dad enjoyed catching up with Jim over coffee from time to time and considered him a dear friend. Our deepest sympathies to your family. The Fran Frey Family
Ron & Jo Ann Leppert
December 29, 2015
The goodness of Jim O'Toole lives on in his loving family. Our sympathy and prayers.
Richard McHugh
December 29, 2015
An important member of the Reds family has passes away. Jim will be remembered forever. We pray for Jim nd his family.
Keith. D Turner. Sr
December 29, 2015
My. Condolences
And. Praying. God's Comfort
Upon. The. O'Toole. Family
Bob Devens
December 29, 2015
Dear Betty Jane & family,
So sorry for your loss. Prayed for Jim & you & family with your sister Joanne almost daily at Our Lady of the Woods.
Bob Devens "Uzdavinis"
Tammy Gries
December 29, 2015
I wanted to send my condolences to you and your family. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Tony Montelisciani
December 29, 2015
Our Deepest Sympathies to the O'toole Family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
John Post
December 29, 2015
Dear Betty Jane and Family,
So sad to read of Jim's passing. You and Jim were always so special to the Post family. Still remember the days driving to spring training. He is now joining a pretty special team in heaven. Mom and Dad will probably take him to Howard Johnson's for dinner (remember those days). Much love to you and your family at this time.
karen weisbrodt
December 29, 2015
My sincere condolences .. Saddened by the loss but I have fond memories of Jim working with him for years at BFI.
T. Alan (Umm Umm) Hartman
December 29, 2015
Dear Betty and Family,
Very sorry to hear of the passing of Jim. Have fond memories over many years, especially from the Swifton Village Apartments days, 1960-1962. Jim was a great person and will be sorely missed.
John Connor
December 28, 2015
Betty and family -sorry for your loss .The city lost a great man who was always friendly and a pleasure to talk to . God Bless you and stay strong .God gained someone we lost until we join him ..
Mary Rutshaw Tanner
December 28, 2015
Dear Betty Jane and Family, I am so sorry for your loss! Jim was a great guy! My parents, Art and Norine Rutshaw thought the world of Jim and Betty Jane and all their beautiful children. It was always lots of fun and many laughs when our families got together. You are in my thoughts and prayers. May he rest in peace.
Danny Dean
December 28, 2015
To the O'Toole Family,
I want to express my deepest sympathy.
Jim was my favorite baseball player when I was growing up. I always wore his number 31 when participating in sports. Several years ago, I had the honor of meeting him at a Reds game. I will always treasure the day I met my childhood hero.
jennifer black
December 28, 2015
I sat with your father at a Reds World Series game when your mother could not attend. My date purchased the ticket from your dad. He was very nice to me and I was thrilled to be there. My date's father was a huge fan of your dad and he listened as I told him how I had the opportunity to sit next to his baseball hero. I then met your parents and many of you in Kentucky one evening at a religious prayer service. You were blessed to have such a great father. So very sorry for your loss.
Rebecca Anderson /Berning
December 28, 2015
Dear Peggy,
I'm so sorry to hear & wanted to pass along my condolences to you & your family. I worked with you many years ago at Cincinnati Bell and always treasured your kindness and uplifting spirit. I'm sure it is such a difficult loss and I'm so sorry. Prayers of strength to all of you
Jon and Karol Warden
December 28, 2015
Betty and Children-
We loved Jim. He always had a smile on his face, twinkle in his eye and a story to tell about one of his grandchildren. He left a wonderful legacy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Martha Wenstrup Rohde
December 28, 2015
Betty and Family,
My sincerest sympathy for the loss of Husband, Father, Grandfather and more!Your family has been blessed with such a wonderful man in your life. May God comfort you with his love and peace.
Martha and Mike Rohde
Gerry Arrigo
December 28, 2015
Betty,I was so sorry when my wife called me in Florida and told me about Jim's passing. Jim was a great friend and teammate. He will be greatly missed. My condolences to you and your family.
when
Bradley Woodruff
December 28, 2015
My sincerest condolences a great man god bless you and the family you are in my prayers
Rita and Tom
December 28, 2015
We love you Betty! Now Jim is with Fr. joe. And watching over you all. Be strong
December 28, 2015
Dear O'Toole Family:
I felt a great sense of sorry on hearing of the passing of your father. I'm sure your dad was your HERO and my dear friend. Always enjoyed seeing Jim at La Salle's Sports Stag and listening to his stories. He'll remain as one of my baseball greats!
Phil Reichle
Carol Kolkmeyer-Dever
December 28, 2015
Betty Jane and family, I am so sorry to hear of Jims passing. I have often thought of the great times that were shared on Lanette Drive and the many backyard visits with my Dad and Jimmy!
Also fond memories of babysitting your precious little ones.
You both we always so kind .your family will be in our prayers.
Fondly, Carol Kolkmeyer/ Dever
Jim McAllister
December 28, 2015
Sad to read about Jim's passing. His name always brings back memories of my younger days rooting for the Reds. Good guy, good family man. It was fun to be young in Cincy and "Root the Reds Home" in 1961.
Sam DiCola
December 28, 2015
Dear Betty Jane and family
Mary Joyce and I were very sad to hear of Jim's passing. I will always remember the good times we had for so many years. Betty Jane, I will pray for you and your family and hope that we can see each other in the near future.
Joseph Janovjak
December 28, 2015
My condolences to Betty and family. Jim was a good man, husband and father. He will be missed. Again, please accept my sincerest sympathy.
December 28, 2015
Condolences to the family from the Busse family. Many happy memories at Mcnick with the baseball games.
Bob Rybolt
December 28, 2015
Not a better person in Cincinnati, always enjoyed playing in the Joe Nuxall tourney with son Jerry, RIP Lefty
Marc Palazzo
December 28, 2015
Holly & Family,
Sincerest condolences and sorrow for your loss. May you find comfort in memories and strength in each others love throughout this difficult time. My prayers and thoughts are with you, your Mom and your family.
God Bless
ds
December 28, 2015
My sincere sympathies to the O'Toole Family. May God the Hearer of Prayer bring you peace and comfort during this difficult time-Psalm 145:18
Amy Gilles
December 28, 2015
My prayers and support to the whole O'toole family. I have such fond memories of your dad with that winning smile. God bless!
Sue Corbett
December 28, 2015
My condolences to the O'Toole and Wall Family. Jim was a sweetheart. I loved his baseball stories he would share when he came to TW's office. God Bless all of you.
Kelly and Owen Sammons
December 28, 2015
O'Toole Family,
May the love of family and friends carry you through this time of sorrow.
Joyce Bell Dolle
December 28, 2015
Dear Betty Jane Lots of fond memories of Jim. I will be thinking of you and the children. Love Joyce
December 28, 2015
My sincere condolences to the entire family.
Pat Quinn
Muncie, Indiana
Patrick Rooney
December 28, 2015
Jim, Holly, and family, sorry to learn of your dads passing. Loved meeting him during our baseball days at Dayton. You are in my prayers
Elliott P.
December 28, 2015
My condolences to the O'Toole family. Cincinnati will remember him as a great pitcher, and a greater person.
Randy Peterson
December 27, 2015
Denny & family,
I extend my sincere condolences on the loss of your brother.
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