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Arlene Metzger Obituary

Arlene E. Metzger, age 81, of Topeka, passed away Sunday at a Topeka hospital. Arlene was born November 22, 1929 in Topeka the daughter of Harold M. Smith and Eva M. Newman Smith. Arlene graduated from Topeka High School and attended Washburn University for 2 years. She married Paul Pete Metzger April 17, 1949 in Topeka. Arlene was an active member of the Seaman Congregational Church where she sang and directed the church choir. Arlene worked for Santa Fe Railroad, Topeka Credit Bureau and later for the Kansas State and Federal Department of Agriculture. She was a member of the Order of Eastern Star Helena Chapter #210 of Topeka. Arlene was a founder of the National Alliance for Mentally Ill People and Breakthrough House and served with many other mental health organizations. She was also a member of NOTOMA and the North Topeka Historical Society. Arlene enjoyed singing professionally for weddings and funerals. Arlene was preceded in death by a daughter, Ginger Jackson November 18, 2005. Arlene is survived by her husband of over 62 years, Paul Pete Metzger; a son, Daniel Paul Metzger of Topeka; a daughter, Cynthia Arlene Wall (Larry) of Topeka; 3 grandchildren, Becky True (Travis), Crystal Loethen (Joe) and Bill Wall (Amanda) and 5 great grandchildren. Funeral services will be Thursday, November 3, 2011 at 10:00 a.m. at the Seaman Congregational Church. Eastern Star services will be conducted at the church. She will lie in state Wednesday from noon 5:00 p.m. at the Davidson Funeral Home and at the church for visitation from 6:30 8:00 p.m. Interment will be at the Rochester Cemetery. Memorials may be to the Seaman Congregational Church and sent in care of the Davidson Funeral Home. Online condolences may be made at davidsonfuneral.com.

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Published by Topeka Capital-Journal on Nov. 1, 2011.

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Terry, Cynthia, Abbey & Allison Smith

November 3, 2011

Uncle Pete, Cindy, and Danny - so very surprised and sorry to hear about Aunt Arlene - she will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

November 2, 2011

Dear Cindy, One of my most favorite "moms" has passed and I'm so saddened. I remember everytime I went to your house your Mom was always so kind, happy and loving.She always made me feel good to be around her. You are in my prayers and so sorry for your loss. Your Mom was a great lady! Sincerely, Paula Chaffee (Coleman)

Cindy Beattie

November 2, 2011

Paul, Danny and Cindy: Was sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. I'm sure she and Ginger are doing a lot of catching up! Take comfort in the fond memories of times shared that will help you get through this difficult time in your lives.
(I am the daughter of Pat Miltz and a classmate of Gingers SHS Class of 1976)

Jill Metzger Patrick

November 2, 2011

To the Metzger family: May you find peace knowing Ginger and her mother are together again. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time.

Beth Kelley

November 2, 2011

Arlene's voice will ring through the heavens - Peace to you all - Beth Welch Kelley (Seaman High class of 76)

Jeanne Smith Bullard

November 1, 2011

Uncle Pete ~ I was so surprised and still heartbroken to hear about Aunt Arlene. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family.

Marti McDaniel

November 1, 2011

Becky,Cindy and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss!I read the obituary and what an amazing woman she was! May your memories guide you all thru this time.

Kathi Killman

November 1, 2011

Paul, Cindy and Dan, so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

November 1, 2011

Pete, you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Debbie Lake-PLSC

November 1, 2011

Cindy Larry and Crystal I am so sorry about
your Mom and Grandma. I know she is up there
with Ginger taking care of Ginger now.Please
know my prayers are with you. Cindy Frost

Susan Cochran

November 1, 2011

Cindy, Becky and family,
I was so surprised and sorry to hear about your mother and grandmother. I pray that God and your good memories will be a comfort to you at this time. Susan

Dani Good

November 1, 2011

Crystal & Family -
I am so very sorry to hear about your Grandma. I love you and am thinking of you.

phyllis mahin

November 1, 2011

so sorry for your loss, she was a lovely ladythat will be missed.love to you all, phyllis mahin

November 1, 2011

Pete, Cyndy, Dan, Becky and families, We are sorry for your loss. Arlend will be greatly missed by all who knew her. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Richard and Bea Feleay

Jackie/Judy Suggs

November 1, 2011

To the Metzger Family:
We share in the loss of Ms Arlene--thru knowing and loving Dan. Dan has made an impact on many of us in the Selmer, Tn area and especially at First Baptist Church, Selmer. We are so glad that God allowed Dan to go back to Topeka before Mrs.Metzger passed away. We love you folks and are praying for your family.

God Bless You All,
Jackie & Judy Suggs

Becky True

November 1, 2011

Grandma,
You will be greatly missed. We take comfort in knowing that you're in heaven with Aunt Ginger and your brothers and sister. We love you!

Becky, Travis, Kaylee, Hannah and Avery

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