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Diane Arathorn Obituary

Diane Lee (Dexter) Arathorn, 65, passed away November 8, 2012, in Bozeman, Montana, where she had lived for the last 12 years. She was born in Topeka, Kansas, March 11, 1947, daughter of Dr. Howard Dexter and Mrs. Lola (Higley) Dexter of Topeka, granddaughter of Perry and Grace (Leland) Higley of Cummings, KS, and Otto and Leona (Morrell) Frankenfeld of Winfield, KS. She is survived by her husband of 41 years, David Arathorn of Bozeman, her children, Alicia, 26, and Mason, 23, and her three siblings, Nathan Dexter of Casper, WY, Grace (Dexter) Morrison of Topeka, KS, and Perry Dexter of El Cerrito, CA. She grew up in Tecumseh, KS, where she attended First Presbyterian Church in Topeka, Tecumseh grade school, and Shawnee Heights High School. She lived briefly in Boston then moved to the San Francisco area, where she graduated in Clinical Psychology from UC Berkeley, and met her lifelong spouse, David. Diane had many amazing talents, including singing, sewing, and above all cooking. Her interest in cooking began at age 12, and ultimately grew to studying at the Cordon Bleu cooking school in Paris, and helping establish noted San Francisco restaurants Chez Panisse, Square One, and Inn Season. She also did extensive recipe testing for Carol Fields' classic cookbook, The Italian Baker. In 1983, she was featured in a 12-page, 30-picture article in Bon Appetit Magazine. While living in Oakland, CA, she, her husband, and her brother Perry, founded and operated the Metropolis Baking Company, a bakery that became well known in the Bay Area. After having children, she and her family moved to Ketchum, ID, and then to Bozeman, MT where she lived until her death. Funeral services and burial were held on Monday, November 12, 2012, in Bozeman, MT. Her family plans to hold a memorial service for her at a later date, and plan to place a memorial marker in the cemetery in Pardee Township, Atchison County, KS, where her parents, grandparents, and many other family members are buried. Diane Lee (Dexter) Arathorn

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Published by Topeka Capital-Journal on Nov. 15, 2012.

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Sue Houdyshell

November 12, 2022

I fondly remember some of Diane's early passions with cooking. I believe she went through a period of time in high school where she made custards frequently as she loved eating them as well. I watched her do this several times in her parent's kitchen near Tecumseh, Kansas. I learned that I was a custard lover too and still think of her fondly today. Her humor and her many talents, which she made good use of, are part of my fond memories. Love to her family.

Beverly Gilson

July 22, 2013

I just saw the obituary and was taken aback. Such a wonderful soul and I loved her very much.

June 7, 2013

i miss you mom

November 18, 2012

I am so saddened to hear of Diane's passing. Although I have not seen Diane since our younger days, I have had the opportunity to become friends with Grace after all these years (we always knew her as Gracie). Of course I am happy that Nathan and I grew up together and have seen each other at our high school class reunions.

The best times of my life were spent in Tecumseh; in fact, I would be the babysitter for Diane and Grace on occasion while the Dexter's were involved in so many activities in the community. The entire family was and is so talented!

I have recently moved back to Tecumseh and live very close to where the Dexter's grew up.

I was very touched and impressed by all of Diane's many accomplishments and know the family must be so proud.

Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with your family......

Linda Newton Gilbert

Sue Houdyshell

November 16, 2012

Nathan, Grace Ann and Perry, I learned of Diane's passing from Mary Lou and was
saddened to hear of it. She was such a creative, fun and gifted person. I have many memories of her that make me smile and know you will miss her deeply.
You are in my thoughts and prayers as are David and her children.

November 15, 2012

Dear Nathan, Grace Ann, Perry, So sorry to read about Diane. It is so sad when someone so young and accomplished is taken from us and returned to God, but just know that she is in a peacful, careing place and sitting at the right hand of God. God Bless Diana Mohler Halstead

November 15, 2012

Diane lived life. She touched so many peoples lives. Her death has left an empty space in our hearts. May the Goddess bless you and relieve your pain.
I can imagine all the folks waiting to greet her as she passed over the rainbow bridge.
Talk about a family reunion.
Please let me know what date the memorial will be at Pardee.
Shirley Higley

Shirley (Noble) & Rick Singer

November 15, 2012

Grace Ann, Perry, and Nathan - - We are so very sorry to hear about the loss of Diane. She was taken way too soon. But, her accomplishments were sooo many! - - - (Grace Ann, we could not believe how much this beautiful picture of Diane looks so very much like you.) Again, we are so very sorry . . . You are all in our thoughts and prayers . . .

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