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Francine Henhaffer Obituary

HENHAFFER (Papaneri), Francine M. "Fran" (Nee Bonitatis), peacefully at home in Cherry Hill on Sept. 3, 2009 surrounded by her loving family, age 58. Beloved wife of 28 years to Dale H. Henhaffer; devoted mother of Anthony Papaneri & his wife, Christine of Cherry Hill, Mario Papaneri & his wife, Denise of Cherry Hill, John Papaneri & his wife, Susan of Mt. Laurel and Lori Jane Henhaffer at home; grandmother of Michael, Anthony, Mark, Mario, Jr., Nicholas & Gianni; sister of Barbara (Paul) Barbarino of Sicklerville, John Bonitatis of Collings-wood, Ronnie (Caryn) Bonitatis & Joseph (Jeanette) Bonitatis both of Cherry Hill; additionally survived by numerous nieces & nephews. A member of Cherry Hill West Class of '69, Fran resided almost her entire life in Cherry Hill. Fran received her Real Estate License in 1973 and specialized in Mortgage Consultation, first as V.P. for Steinbuilt Homes, then at Oak Mortgage in Mt. Laurel, then as Manager of 1st Trust in Cherry Hill and for almost 10 years with Trident Mortgage, serving at Prudential Fox & Roach Realtors in Haddonfield. Fran retired in 2007. Fran & her family were long time members of Queen of Heaven in Cherry Hill. Viewing & Funeral Tuesday 9:30 AM at Christ Our Light RC Church, 402 Kings Hwy. North, Cherry Hill. Funeral MASS 11 AM. Entombment at Calvary Mausoleum, Cherry Hill. The Family respectfully suggests memorials be offered in Fran's memory to Wish Upon A Hero Foundation, 521 Fellowship Rd., Suite 140, Mt. Laurel, NJ 08054. Arrangements by BLAKE-DOYLE FUNERAL HOME Collingswood

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Published by Courier Post from Sep. 4 to Sep. 6, 2009.

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September 25, 2009

To the entire family. We were out of state at the time of your loss and am sincerely sorry for not being with you to share in your sorrow. Fran was as pleasant and wonderful a person as we ever knew, and her spirit continues to live on through the lives of the wonderful family that she raised. We share your pain and will continue her memory in our hearts.....Donna & Bob Menta, Cherry Hill, NJ

Linda DiGiovanni

September 11, 2009

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I have so many wonderful memories of the times our family has gotten together, and vacationed together.

Fran was such an amazing, generous and loving woman; we will miss her.

Dana (DiGiovanni) Hagge

September 11, 2009

I'm so sad to hear about the sad news. I have many fond memories of Fran throughout years of family gatherings. We had many laughs and fun times at our houses, Sea Isle City and even Sicily. Fran will always be remembered as a thoughtful and loving person. I will miss her.

Ed & Antoinette DiGiovanni

September 10, 2009

Dear Dale, Lori, Anthony, Mario & Jon Jon, Barbara, Johnny, Ronnie, Joe...

Cousin Antoinette & I are so sorry to hear the sad news... just learned yesterday (Wednesday). Not hearing back from a couple of messages we left, we suspected things were tough for you guys.

We know that we all have lost a very special person... nobody was like Fran! Fran was the spark and the glue for promoting and maintaining close family relationships and gatherings. Fran will always be remembered for her warmth, energy, generosity and care for everyone in the family.

Our family will always remember the great times we all had together, particularly the parties we had when we hosted the family from Sicily. We will remember, too, the time we spent together when we were all in Sicily visited points of interest in and around Palermo.

We wish peace and comfort to the entire family. You may take solace in knowing that Fran now has eternal peace and love.

Charlie&Pat Lockwood

September 8, 2009

Our condolences on your loss. We'll never forget Fran and her spirit and know that she is now at peace and with God and loved ones.Our prayers are with you always.

Ed & Denise Bartle

September 8, 2009

Dear Dale, Lori, Mario, Anthony and John (and all the extended family) - Although we could not be present to celebrate Fran's life; we were there in spirit. Your wife/mother made us feel like part of your family the day we first met her and continued to do so over the last few years. You should all be proud of the way she lived and the way she died. We can all take away valuable lessons from her love of life and her non-judgemental way of dealing with people. We will miss her, but will see bits of her in all of you. With Love and Sympathy, Ed and Denise Bartle

Emily Hartline

September 7, 2009

Lori,

You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers during this time of sorrow. Anyone who knew your mom was lucky to be around such a strong, positive woman.

Tanner Herpst

September 7, 2009

Lori,

My deepest condolences and my most heartfelt prayers go out to you and your family.

We are all here for you and care about you and yours very much

Doug / Dianna WELLS

September 7, 2009

to: family and friends of FRANNIE.....

letting go is NEVER easy; especially when YOU are loved by so many around you. I'm sure that Frannie is at ease and was proud in her final days that so many stood by her. May she rest in peace and happiness FOREVER!!!

Michele Davis Logan

September 7, 2009

Dale, Lori, Anthony , Mario, John and families - It's been a long time since we've seen each other, but I will always remember how Fran befriended me, and the fun times we had together back in the Comcast days. I am so sorry for your loss, and hope that Frannie is at peace.

Michele Davis Logan

Deborah Papaneri

September 6, 2009

Dale, Lori, Anthony, Mario, John, their wives, Fran's sister and brothers, her granchildren and extended family which Fran included everybody in! What a remarkable and intelligent woman. Always full of fun and very loving and compassionate to everyone. She always gave everyone a hug and a kiss when she greeted them. Her passing leaves us all with a significant loss, but how fortunate we all were to have known her and loved her. Fran was so proud of her sons and daughter. Fran, you left each one of your family your gift of love which they will carry with them forever. What a legacy!
Our deepest sympathy,
Love to all of you,
Charley & Debbie Papaneri,

September 6, 2009

To the Henhaffer Family--

My deepest sympathy to you. How very blessed you all are to have such a wonderful person as your wife and mother. Fran and I went to high school together. When we realized that we both were working at Trident, that day Fran saw me and gave a hug, it was like there was never a lapse in our friendship. She is a very kind, generous woman and she loved her family more than anything. We used to laugh at the East West football games because though we had family in East, West was alma mater. Fran, our loss is heaven's gain. You will be taking care of your family from your place in heaven, our lovely angel. Rest in peace.

Carmella, Cherry Hill NJ

September 5, 2009

Dale & Family,
We are very sorry for your loss. Frannie was one of a kind and will be missed. We were so happy to see Frannie this past July when we were in NJ. Nick & Stephanie DiSanzo

Tina Longo

September 5, 2009

Dale & Family,
No words can express my sorrow over your loss. Frannie was truly "one of a kind." She was always there for you no matter what, just to say hi or to listen to all your problems. She always had the best advice to give. She is deeply missed but definitely not forgotten. May your happy memories bring you comfort in a time of such sorrow.

Joyce Papaneri

September 5, 2009

It is hard to face right now but soon we will remember the wonderful memories of her life and the joyous times we had together as we celebrate a life well lived. Fran had fun with everything and Loved Life and Family..
And like those before her, once Family always Family. I was so lucky to be considered on of the "Family", and have loved her from first meeting 40 years ago.
May She Forever Rest is Peace

September 4, 2009

To all my family,
i'm sorry i haven't seen many of you recently. i miss everyone so much. i can't believe shes gone. rest in peace aunt fran. i love everyone and i hope to see you all soon. i'll miss you aunt fran.
Lovee,
Julie Ann

September 4, 2009

Dale, Lori, and all of the family...we are so sorry for your loss. Franny was an amazing family woman and the best neighbor that anyone could ever ask for. She will be truly missed. Love, Bill, Emy, and Nadya.

Bobby Bornmann

September 4, 2009

To all Frannie's family who know that I am more like her brother then best friend, I have know Frannie for 50 years and I have LOVED her for 50 years, the last 3 months with her going to Harrahs and her telling me and my wife Maryanne that this last week in July was her best in years still make my heart skip, I WILL MISS HER, Bobby and Maryanne, Rob, Mikey and Julia

Barbara Blackman

September 4, 2009

The world is short a wonderful woman now. She touched the heart of every person she met, truly! She certainly will live forever in mine!
Love & miss you Frannie!!! Dale, John, Anthony, Mario & Lori....Love you!
Barb Blackman

September 4, 2009

One of the greatest women there was. From childhood I watched her grow into this one of a kind, She took over for her mother and father keeping her family tied together. She always thought of others before herself. She will be loved for all eternity. by many.
Strong hugs and many, many kisses from your OLD cousin, Joes

September 4, 2009

Dear Dale, Lori Jane and Family,
Please accept our deepest sympathy. Fran was a wonderful, sweet woman and we honored to know her. We will continue to keep Fran in our daily prayers and we know that she will be your Guardian Angel above. May she rest in peace with the Lord. Anna Marie, John and Philip (Mt. Laurel, New Jersey)

JANIS MAZZONE

September 4, 2009

FRANCINE COULD MAKE A NEW ACQUAINTENCE FEEL LIKE THEY WERE BEST FRIENDS FOR YEARS...ONE OF THE DEAREST, SWEETEST, MOST GENEROUS PERSONS I EVER MET.
I REMEMBER ONCE WHEN HER BABY GIRL SPILLED RED JUICE ON HER PRETTY NEW WHITE SUMMER DRESS, I OFFERED TO WASH AND DRY IT IN THE MACHINE WHILE SHE WORE ONE OF MY LITTLE GIRL'S DRESSES. WITHOUT BATTING AN EYE, SHE JUST WAVED THE WHOLE THING AWAY, WITH A SIMPLE "NO, IT ALL COMES OUT IN THE WASH!" SHE WASN'T GOING TO LET A TRIFLE LIKE SPILLED JUICE GET IN THE WAY OF THE MORE IMPORTANT BUSINESS OF ENJOYING A FAMILY VISIT AND LETTING HER DAUGHTER PLAY AND HAVE FUN.
SHE COULD SIT AND HAVE A CUP OF COFFEE WITH YOU 'ONE ON ONE' OR FEED AN ARMY WITH EQUAL GRACE.
WE CAN ALL LEARN SOME VALUABLE LESSONS BY THE WAY SHE LIVED.
GOD LOVE YOU, FRANCINE!

Denise & Gary Sauter

September 4, 2009

Dale & Family:

Gary & I are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

September 4, 2009

"Truly great friends are hard to find, difficult to leave and impossible to forget". The loss that our family feels today is immense but we feel comforted by our memories; you loved us all as if we were Your Own. Forever in hearts, The Bratek Family

carol neumann

September 4, 2009

Dear Dale and family,

I always admired Fran for her love of life, dedication to her family and kind heart. She was a remarkable person and the world was better because of her.
I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. I will never forget Fran, her smile or her kind ways.

Kate Kuhns

September 4, 2009

Fran was such a nice person. It was my pleasure to know her.
Please accept my condolences on your loss.
Sincerely,
Kate Kuhns, CRNP
PPMC Thoracic Surgery
Dr. Scott Cowan's office

Ana DeJesus

September 4, 2009

Blessed are the weak for the kingdum of heaven of heaven is yours Friend you will be missed .Even though I was not present my prayers have always been with you .Peace Maker
Mamacita

Lana Quattrone

September 4, 2009

Fran,
You were and are the bravest, strongest woman I have known my entire life. I love you so much and will miss you more than anyone will know. As much as I will miss you, I am just so happy you are now out of pain. You are now at peace with God, and with all of our family. You can play at the casino in heaven and be refereeing those card games between our family, you know my grandfather always was accused of cheating. You were the light and rock of our family and you have amazing children who will continue your family legacy. I love you Fran and will see you again one day.

September 4, 2009

There are no words to express our sadness today but remember the good times and the laughs we have had together. Our prayers are with you always.
Marguerite and Jim Adams

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