Thomas "Tommy" W. DeRitis

AGE: 46 • Haddon Township

On August 11, 2015, surrounded by his loving family, passed away peacefully after a short battle with cancer at the age of 46. Beloved husband of Melissa "Missy" (Schukay). Proud and loving father of Thomas and Hailey DeRitis and his pal "Frankie". Survived by his mother Hester DeRitis (Marchetti), his in laws Mary Lou and Robert Schukay; loving brothers Charles (Mary), Guy (Sara) and his loving sisters, Dianna (Brad) Geist, Tina (Jon) Shelly and Helen (Joe) Wall, Chris Schukay (Toni) and many aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews and cherished childhood friends. Born on July 4th, 1969, he will always be known as our firecracker. Tommy was a talented craftsman and former hockey player who lived for his Philadelphia sports teams, especially his beloved Philadelphia Flyers. He was also known for making the best Stromboli in the East. Relatives and friends are invited to attend his Visitation Sunday from 10 - 1 PM, followed by a Memorial service at1 PM. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers, family requests donations be made in Tom's memory to Samaritan Healthcare and Hospice, 5 Eves Drive, Suite 300, Marlton NJ, 08053. For on line condolences please visit www.jacksonfh.net

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Published by Courier Post from Aug. 13 to Aug. 15, 2015.

Memories and Condolences
for Thomas DeRitis

64 Entries

Carol Wall

September 4, 2015

I was so saddened to hear of Tommy's passing. He was a funny & loving person willing to help anyone. My heart goes out to Missy, Hailey & Tom, & the entire DeRitis family. He is flying w/ the Angels now watching over all of you.

Missy DeRitis

August 25, 2015

Babe,
I miss you sooo much. My heart is shattered. Every second of everyday you are on my mind. Tom, you are My Only Love Always and Forever. Much love, hugs and kisses to you Babe; until we hold each other really really tight again.

I LOVE YOU ❤ Your Spanky

Dana Roselle-Witlin

August 20, 2015

So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with the DeRitis family during this difficult time.

Tami Crisanti

August 19, 2015

Tommy was such a bright light in so many lives. I cried with all of you from here. Will so miss seeing his smile on my trips back to NJ. Heartbreaking. Love and prayers to Missy, Hailey and Tom and all of his family and friends.

Michael Zsirai

August 18, 2015

...love and miss ya Tommy

Rob Fobell II

August 18, 2015

Tommy you will be missed. I remember our times on the school playground and gym class. We lost touch but I will always remember the fun times

Ida Grunsby

August 17, 2015

My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time.

Linda Moore

August 17, 2015

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Tommy. Please know your family is in my thoughts and prayers and I hold you close in my heart.

Anthony Winters Jr

August 16, 2015

I wish to express sorrow and condolences to the entire DeRitis family to learn of the untimely passing of Tommy. Recalling fond memories of many childhood times spent... endless days of hanging in the school yards playing stickball and b-ball, stayovers and birthday parties, etc, growing up in W. Collingswood... knowing Guy and other family members. Though you have gone old friend, the memory and spirit will always remain.

John Galvao

August 16, 2015

I met him in 7th grade and became fast friends..lost touch as we got older..he was a great guy and i feel for his family..so sorry for your loss.

Ginny

August 16, 2015

Tommy was a great man. My heartfelt condolences to his entire family. His friends adored him. RIP Tommy you will be sorely missed by so many people.

Bill Weightman

August 15, 2015

DeRitus Family.So sorry for your loss, are prayers and condolences are with you.
The Weightman Family

Rita & Chris Hellewel

August 15, 2015

Hester, I did not know Tommy, but through you, I know of your wonderful family and the joy that all your children bring to you. You told us many stories of happy times when we traveled with you in Europe. Chris & I wish you all strength at this very sad time.

Robin & Marc

August 15, 2015

Our thoughts and prayers are with your wonderful family at this time.

The Carty Family

August 15, 2015

Stephanie & family,
Thinking of you during this time of sadness. Remember all of the good times you spent with him and cherish them forever.

wayne connor

August 14, 2015

Tom thanks for an awesome friendship & alot of great times through out the years, the memories that we have will never be forgotten, you were always there for me, & i was always there for you which made our friendship awesome. You dont have to suffer anymore from that horrible illness, (rip) tom love ya buddy!!!

Bill Shaw

August 14, 2015

To Charlie and the entire DeRitis family I wish to extend my deepest sympathies to all of you in this time of sorrow. Take solace in knowing his pain is no more.

Janice Morze

August 14, 2015

My heart aches for your loss. Too young and so tragic. My prayers are with your family in this sad time

Colleen Daly-Reef

August 14, 2015

May you find peace during these days of darkness... The DeRitis family, you are in my thoughts and prayers xo. Collingswood Strong
Cherish the memories of Tommy and he is now in the hands of the Lord
Praying for all of you, especially Mrs DeRitis ... I've always admired her xo

Wendy Jennings-Wowk

August 14, 2015

So many people loved your Tommy! Over 20 years ago he used to come to our house often, so cute, so adorable, so sweet! Tommy was always a member of our family, he will always continue to be in our hearts & memories. I am so very sorry for your loss, it's with a broken heart that I write this. You were one of a kind Tommy!! ❤

Florence Roseboro

August 14, 2015

So sorry to hear of Tommy's passing. I always remember his special laugh.

Rachelle Muckley

August 14, 2015

To The entire DeRitis family,
My heart is broken for all of you!
so many of my greatest childhood/adult memories include Tommy and his contagious laugh!! He will forever hold a spot in my heart! Love you Missy Tommy and Hailey !!! DERITIS STRONG!

Kelly & Brian

August 14, 2015

Keeping your family in my prayers! Sorry to hear about your loss.

Michele Jack (Zingani)

August 13, 2015

When my family moved to Collingswood 40 years ago, the DeRitis family was one of the first families we met. My heart breaks to know Tommy is no longer with us. Always with a smile on his face. He will forever be in our hearts. God only takes the best. Thoughts and prayers to you all.

Nancy Baranski

August 13, 2015

Hester, Helen and Joe, Dianna and family. I'm so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you at this difficult time.

Lisa Moran

August 13, 2015

I am so sorry for your loss. I pray you find peace during this difficult time. My heart goes out to all of you.

Ron Dybus

August 13, 2015

I am so sorry for your loss . Tom was an old friend we played hockey together and just old colls friends .great man he will be missed by all .

Jim Dougherty

August 13, 2015

Our thoughts & prayers are with the entire Deritis/Schukay Family. Tommy will always be our Rocky.

Peg Costello

August 13, 2015

My prayers are with all you guys. Loss of a special
Person. RIP Tommy

August 13, 2015

We are so sorry for your loss, keeping your family in our prayers. Tom will truly be missed ! All Our Love Joel, Eleanor, Angela & Melissa Lobis

Kathie & Gary Beck

August 13, 2015

To Hester and the entire DeRitis family, our deepest sympathies for Tommy's passing. Love and prayers go out to all of you - that you will remember the good times and find comfort in those memories.

Lynda and Rich Carl

August 13, 2015

So sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with all of you during this difficult time. Tom is at peace. God bless.

Cheryl Acar

August 13, 2015

Prayers and strength for you as you go through this difficult time. May your memories keep Tom with you at all times.

Carla Richardson

August 13, 2015

So very sorry for your loss

Cheryl Acar

August 13, 2015

Missy, Tommy and Hailey
So sorry for your loss. I can't imagine your heartbreak. You are surrounded by many people who love you. Our prayers and thoughts are with as you go through this difficult time. Take comfort in knowing the The Lord will wrap his arms around you and comfort you.
Love the Acars

August 13, 2015

Dianna,
I am so very sorry for your loss. May your family and memories give you strength and comfort in the days ahead.

Robin Keyack

Carol Siciliano

August 13, 2015

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Maria Mchugh

August 13, 2015

Missy...I send my love and prayers!

August 13, 2015

Remembering Tommy and Keith playing on the White Horse Pike many memories of the Deritis and Engelbert Family. Our deepest sympathy to all at this tragic time. The Engelbert Family

Terry Gibson

August 13, 2015

So so sorry for your loss prayers for Missy and children he was a great guy

August 13, 2015

Our thoughts and Prayers are with the Deritis Family ,,,so very sorry,, God has called Tommy home to be an angel ,,,, with love Babe n Carl

Shirley Steinmacher

August 13, 2015

Missy, Hailey, Tom, and extended family and friends. I am so sorry for this terrible loss. Accept and open yourselves to the love and support around you and I hope you'll always feel him with you.

Amy McNamee-Pinkas

August 13, 2015

I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you at this most difficult time. I have fond memories of Tommy growing up in West Collingswood.
Godspeed Old Friend.

Dawalt family

August 13, 2015

Sending prayers of strength and love to Missy, Tommy, Hailey and the entire DeRitis family. May your many wonderful memories help comfort you all through this difficult time.

Diana Gregg

August 13, 2015

To Missy and family, Peace be with you. Tom always made me laugh and was a fun person in my life. Remember those times.

kathy Dwyer tassi

August 13, 2015

No words can explain the sadness & disbelief I have for Missy & the entire family...God Bless. He earned his wings.

Denise Windus

August 13, 2015

So sorry for your loss. May God's Grace fill your hearts with love and cherished memories. Prayers for peace in your time of sadness.
Sincerely,
The Windus Family

Jeff and Carolyn McCartney

August 13, 2015

The McCartney family is very very sad!! Tommy was one of a kind and will be missed so much! To all of the amazing DeRitis family.......we are so sorry for your loss! You all were his strength and support during this battle! He couldn't have done it and gone as far as he did with out all of you. FAMILY IS EVERYTHING! May God rest his young soul and give you peace and strength through this hard time!

Jeffrey Brickner

August 13, 2015

You will be missed.

Maureen Cummings

August 13, 2015

Forever in our hearts. So sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
The Cummings Family

Ro & JB Stone Family

August 13, 2015

Our deepest sympathies go to the family. Out prayers are with you all.

Dawn & John Ferry

August 13, 2015

Our thoughts and prayers go out to you Missy, Tommy and Hailey. We are very sorry for Tommy's passing. He has a lot of work ahead of him as an angle, but we all know he is going to be the best!

Tina, Madison & Jacqueline Accardi

August 13, 2015

Words cannot explain the heartache, tears and sorrow we are all experiencing since we lost you Tommy. May you rest in eternal peace and look over the loves of your life, your strong, amazing, beautiful wife, Missy, your handsome son, Tom and your stunning daughter, Hailey. You will forever be loved and cherished by many and you are already missed, but you will never, ever be forgotten. Thank you for being one of my forever, life-long best friends in the world and for always being there for me and my girls. We love you to the moon and back!

Dayna Stainker

August 13, 2015

Gone way to soon Tommy. My thoughts and Prayers are with you Missy Tommy and Hailey

Diane Gill

August 13, 2015

So sorry for your loss. Tom was a great guy as we all know and had many great friends. I am so saddened to hear of his passing. My heart goes out to his family. May he rest at peace now.All the good memories will be cherish and never forgotten.

C J DelFico And Family

August 13, 2015

May Tommy Rest In Peace. You Are All In Our Thoughts And Prayers.

kathy burgo

August 13, 2015

My heart goes out to missy,Hailey and little Tom......your dad was a great person always made me smile...he is at peace now no more suffering....love you all

Michele & Tony Harris

August 13, 2015

We are so very sorry for the entire family and all of Tommy's friends. Missy, Tommy, and Hailey, we wish you peace, calm, and comfort.

August 13, 2015

I miss you my Brother thanks for memories. You will never be forgotten.
Charlie

Phil Babilino

August 13, 2015

My heart goes out to Tommy's family and the entire DeRitis family.

Jill Galvao

August 13, 2015

Words cannot express the sadness I feel for Missy and his beautiful children. May God bless you and carry you through this sad time. Tommy was loved by all and made such an amazing impact on so many lives.
Thoughts and prayers to his family and friends.

Jill Galvao

August 13, 2015

God Bless his beautiful family and help guide them through this sad time. Sending my heartfelt sympathy to all of you.

Carolyn Taylor

August 12, 2015

We are so sorry to hear of Tommy's passing. Please know that your family is in our prayers and that Tommy will always be remembered with the greatest fondness and smiles.

Lisa Newton-Orensky

August 12, 2015

Sara, I am so very sorry for your family's loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the entire DeRitis family during this difficult time.

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