9 Entries
Allena Hansen
November 30, 2009
Dear Negris and Dorans,
When I was a little girl, Mark and Cynthia, Jennie and Laura Hollis, and we Hansens were the genteel terrors of Budlong Ave.-- right across the street from HGH where our fathers were doing their internships. Max and Gloria were heroic figures to me then; elegant, sophisticated, generous. I was in awe of them. They had a WINE PRESS in their entry, for heavens' sake! It just didn't get more upscale than that....
When we all moved to Rolling Hills, our families stayed in touch, but we kids drifted off into our separate lives, only bisecting on the occasional multi-family celebration or hospital-related festivity.
It was at one of these events that I ran into Dr. Negri again. I was a young woman by this time, just starting out in my professional life, and still a bit unsure of who I was or how to present myself.
I'd arrived alone, and I was standing there, just taking in the lovely setting of his home on the cliff above the sea, when he spotted me and left the group of dignitaries he was talking to to greet me.
Across his expansive lawn he came, and without breaking stride, swept me into his arms, twirled me around and exclaimed "Susie Hansen! My Gawd what a gorgeous woman that scrawny little girl's become!"
I was flabbergasted! Not only did he remember me, he'd made me feel like the person I'd secretly always hoped to become. We chatted briefly and he pointed me towards a group of old friends. Then, as he excused himself to return to the party, he said something to me, I'll never, ever, let go of--if for no other reason than it was so astute.
"Susie," he said to me in all seriousness, "if you'd been smarter, you wouldn't have been so smart."
Well. Unrepentant tomboy that I am, I probably should have been offended, but I wasn't; not in the slightest. Because he was right.
As I've traveled through my admittedly eccentric life, I've always kept his admonition in the back of my mind--it's served me well in more sticky situations than I'd care to admit.
The man knew me better than I knew myself...and I've always kind of thought that maybe it was because on some level, he was able to see something of himself in that shy little nerdlette who just knew she had big things to do someday.
So, thank you, Max. I'll always treasure that memory. I can only imagine how much your family is going to miss you. I am so very sorry for your loss.
Sincerely,
(Susan) Allena Hansen
Caliente, CA. USA.
Al Green
November 25, 2009
Shalom
Remembering our days all through grammer, jr. hi. & Hi school. Then on to USC. Our fun parties together with our families and friends. Will always be remembered.
Rest in peace Max.
Al & Betsy Green
(GREENIE)
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Nancy Doran Giffin
November 24, 2009
CHANGE OF VENUE
& TIME
for combined memorial honoring
Dr. MAX and
Dr. ANA Negri
NEW INFO:
Sat., Dec. 5 at 11 a.m.
WARNER GRAND Theatre
478 W. 6th Street
San Pedro, CA 90731
warnergrand.org
John F. Lane
November 23, 2009
Dear Max & Ana, thank you so much for supporting the Marymount Theatre and encouraging me to shoot for the stars with our students. Your courage, intelligence and love of the Arts will be missed by my wife, Antoinette, and I. Stay with the Angels and rest in peace.
faith goldman
November 18, 2009
Shalom (peace) to the families of Max and Ana Negri,
It didn't surprise me that two such wonderful people in their own right wouldn't want to be together in thier next place of being. I knew Dr. Max in a professional capacity while working as a physical therapist at Litle Compnay many years ago. His communication with patients, especially the aging ones, was as high in quality as his orthopaedic skills. I also had the pleasure of attending Holiday parties in the ajoining homes in PV. Though both passing within a short period of time hasn't given you time to digest the loss of even one family member,you are blesssed with the support and love from so many around you.Hold on to your wonderful memories. And find some time for laughter. Max I recall always had a contagious smile. With warm regards, Faith Goldman R.P.T.
November 15, 2009
We are so saddened by the passing of Max, a truly remarkable man. His accomplishments are a testament to his character and his dedication to humanity. He has left this world a better place. We have been honored to have known him and will remember him as a wonderfully kind and compassionate man. I will always remember with his signature black beret and that sparkle in his eyes. We send our love and prayers to the entire Negri/Doran family at his passing.
With love,
Wayne and Barbara Tierney
Karen Nussbaum-Powell
November 14, 2009
Dear Negri/Doran Family, I am deeply saddened by Max's passing, but I am truly happy for the chance to have known him. May you all have peace, love and beauty in your lives....Max would have wanted you to.
Kerry Manning
November 12, 2009
Dear Cynthia and the Negri family ~ Vince and I have been friends with Cynthia and Andy, and their family for 5 years. You are all in our thoughts and prayers in this very sad time. Max will be a part of you for always, and although he has moved on to a peaceful place, his spirit will always be not too far away from you. We send you our deepest sympathy and condolences.
You are loved
Kerry and Vince Manning
Susan Wilcox
November 12, 2009
There are so many ways that Dr. Max was a positive influence on my life and the lives of everyone around. He coined the name "Cinema Grand" for the presentation of films we often discussed for the Warner Grand Theatre. He enjoyed developing themes and talking about why something mattered - in the broadest sense - reinforcing my sense of what is important in life, but also challenging and enriching my assumptions and beliefs. And I remember the City of Hope's celebration of Max and Ana as ANGELS - and how every Negri/Duran family member present DANCED - and how much it pleased him to hear music and see dancing. It's a lasting image that captures and contains his sparkly blue eyes and smile. I will always keep and deeply miss Dr. Max - thank you for sharing him with neighbors and friends like me, who enjoyed joining the family for a day here and there. My deepest condolences to everyone whose life was touched by this dear, dear man. What a profound loss - and yet what a profound gift to have ever known him.
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