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ALLISON V
February 19, 2020
I am sad to learn of his passing. He helped me through some difficult times when I was a student at CU. His wisdom and kindness remain in my heart. My deepest sympathy to his loved ones.
Susan Crandall
October 7, 2017
The world has lost a kind and compassionate man. While it's been years since the "Rochester time", Tom and Pat were the center of our circle of friends there. Hosting a Thanksgiving dinner with 25 friends as if it was no big deal! My heart is heavy with the thought of the sorrow Pat, Matt and Sarah are feeling. Hugs to you all.
walt keller
October 2, 2017
I was so saddened to hear of the death of my friend Tom. . My love and heart goes out to you Pat as well as your family. You and Tom were there for me in ways you probably don't even know. . It seems like such a short time since we loved learned laughed and played together. Tho we did not keep up with each other and have not spoken in years you were always in my heart. I don't speak lightly when I say that Tom is the kind of friend and brother that has and always will endure. I know that this is always said but I mean from the heart that if I can do anything to be helpful I will.
September 27, 2017
I just learned how f Tom's passing. In all of my experiences with Tom, he was calm, knd, compassionate, and caring. He was a truly great clinician. I send love and peace to Pat and their children! Tom touched so many lives!
Pat Taylor
September 19, 2017
Tom was exactly 2 weeks older than me--we used to laugh about getting older. It makes me sad to think he didn't have as many years as he surely deserved. I loved working with him at Wardenburg way back in the 80s---he was kind and perceptive and had the very best laugh. I haven't seen him in a very long time, but the world was a better place with him in it. Pat and Matt and Sarah--I am so sorry for your loss of such a special nice guy....generous in all ways. It was so clear how much he loved you. Tom made me smile--I will hold that in my heart.
Love, Sharon Vary, MSW
Barb & Terry Travis
September 17, 2017
Many wonderful memories of good times together with Tom and Pat at the St. Tom's community events. Tom was always kind, compassionate, and had a great sense of humor. Our sympathy to you, Pat, and your family. God bless. Barb & Terry Travis
September 17, 2017
Tom was one of the kindest person I have had the opportunity to work with. He offered curbside advise to anyone who would stop and bend his ear. His mind was guided by his heart. Both huge.
We'll miss you Tom.
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